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Ultimate Inner Game + Bonus by Carlos Xuma

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New Technologies of Psychology Show You
How to Conquer Shyness, Get Rid of Your Nervousness, Fears, and Anxieties With Women –

The Secrets to Build BULLETPROOF Self-Confidence & Emotional Self-Control…

Finally, you can learn hidden mental ‘Martial Arts’ techniques to renew and rebuild your ultimate, rock-solid inner game…

Skyrocket your success with women, increase your social circle, and get rid of your anxious fears once and for all…

FROM: Carlos Xuma
Thursday – 8:54 PM

Dear Friend,

Confidence is the number one concern for every guy I’ve ever met.

Women want it from us, and guys spend most of their lives working on feeling it and showing it. And when you don’t feel confident, your life just doesn’t feel right.

Have you ever felt:

…like you’re destroying your chances with women because you don’t have the level of self-confidence you need?

…like you’re barely maintaining your level of confidence with women – and sometimes you feel like you’re actually back-sliding in your game?

…like your emotions and your feelings make you do crazy things – stuff you can’t seem to control?

I know I have, and it’s not a fun way to live…

And the worst part of this feeling is that NO ONE in your life ever sat you down and explained just how confidence really works, did they?

You never got a book from your parents on “how to be confident and more sure of yourself.” And I know you didn’t have a class in school that told you “How to Be Confident With Women.”

Most guys have to learn by trial and error.

And more error.

And a lot more error.

Well, stick with me, because there’s something else you need to know about how confidence REALLY works.

First, let me ask you this:

  • Have you ever messed things up with a woman you really liked?
  • Have you ever approached a woman, only to have her not respond to you at all? Did you ever feel like you were invisible to women?
  • Have you ever had a girlfriend you adored, but your level of insecurity and low self-confidence seemed to doom you to the same outcome – certain breakup?
  • Have you ever walked up to talk to a woman and had her start out smiling and interested, but she gradually seemed to lose interest, eventually turning back to her friends and ignoring you until you walked away?
  • Have you ever lost your emotional cool around a woman, only to feel out of control around her, and then she lost interest and attraction in you because you couldn’t stay relaxed…?
  • Have you ever felt like your jealousy takes control over your head and your heart, even when the woman you liked wasn’t even dating you yet?
  • Have you ever been out with a group of friends, and you felt compelled to try to be the “life of the party,” because you thought the “alpha” of the group had to be the loudest, the funniest, and the one with the coolest banter?
  • Have you ever felt like you were ‘possessed’ to pick up the phone, or tell a woman your feelings, or “share your emotions” with her, only to find out that you scared her away with your gesture? It was like you knew with your brain that you should stay in control, but your emotions completely took control of you…
  • Have you ever been in a social situation where you felt like you couldn’t keep up with the conversation, or really “hang in there” and be very fun, mostly because you were too busy watching your own behavior – trying NOT to screw things up or say the wrong thing?

 

If you’ve ever had ANY of these things happen to you, you know that your level of “inner game” – or your self-confidence and “emotional intelligence” – was the one thing you wish you had more of.

If you could just control your fear and your anxieties, all those crazy emotions that make us do things that don’t even feel like us, you know that you could improve your success ratio with women. I know how shaky I used to feel with women, and knowing it was my inner confidence holding me back.

And the worst part of this for me was knowing that – not only was it ME doing this to myself – but the fact that…

Feeling Out of Control is Probably the Most Frustrating Experience for Men…

I think that every guy has had that feeling – almost like being possessed – where you just can’t seem to control your emotions, or your own behavior. You know what you SHOULD be doing, but when you try to do it, there’s this invisible force that stops you.

This was one of my biggest challenges. I had a bad temper, and I could barely control myself when I was around an attractive girl. I would start acting up – just like a little bratty kid. I could even SEE myself doing it, and KNOWING that it was killing my chances with this girl… but I just couldn’t help myself.

And then I went on this massive inner game “quest” I guess you could call it. I wanted to figure out how to get control of my confidence, my emotions, and my crazy mind.

What is Inner Game?

Well, it’s a pretty fancy term for some of our most important traits as a man.

Inner Game includes things like:

  • Self-confidence – Being cool, not needy, and self-reliant…
  • Controlling your fears and emotions – Not losing control and becoming a train wreck when you are put in situations that are unfamiliar or charged…
  • Control of your thinking – Not getting caught in your head and stuck in your own thinking… being present-moment focused… Having inner awareness and self-control…
  • Getting rid of anxiety and nervousness – Feeling relaxed and calm in any social situation… Having good social skills…
  • Self-esteem – Feeling good about yourself and liking yourself… Being able to handle criticism and the negative opinions of others… Not needing their approval all the time…

 

Inner Game can also mean many more things to you. Here are some of the different definitions that guys have told me over the years:

  • Inner Game is: Knowing that a woman has certain expectations of you that you need to live up to…
  • Inner Game is: Being relaxed and natural with women, and not having to “fake it to make it” all the time…
  • Inner Game is: Knowing you’ve “got the goods” when it comes to having value to give to a woman – in conversation, as well as in your lifestyle…
  • Inner Game is: Not feeling awkward around women or in social situations…
  • Inner Game is: Keeping conversations with women interesting and going where you want them to go – without ending up as another shoulder to cry on…
  • Inner Game is: Getting past your flaws and frustrations once and for all…
  • Inner Game is: Being able to take the risks you always wanted to…
  • Inner Game is: Managing the peaks and valleys of your confidence level as it goes up and down…
  • Inner Game is: Making things you’ve already learned about women and all the pieces fall into place quicker…
  • Inner Game is: Not feeling disappointed by women and relationships from the past…
  • Inner Game is: Bouncing back from failures and rejections… and not taking them personally…
  • Inner Game is: Staying true to yourself and your identity – not compromising your values and morals just to get women or get ahead in life…
  • Inner Game is: Overcoming your own internal conflicts…
  • Inner Game is: Awareness and knowing yourself inside and out…
  • Inner Game is: Having a strong grip on your own reality – and not getting caught off guard, no matter what comes your way!
  • Inner Game is: Being the dominant ALPHA of the group instead of the guy who can’t get a word in edgewise in the conversation…
  • Inner Game is: Stop being so attached to the outcome and just be present-moment focused, having fun and staying out of your head…
  • Inner Game is: Knowing that whatever happens in life, you will prevail and come out on top!

 

You Can Get All The Phone Numbers And Dates You Want…

If You Don’t Have Inner Game, They Won’t Go
Beyond “Let’s Just Be Friends…”

I see a lot of guys learning the “48 Second Technique To Get A Woman’s Phone Number.” Yeah, great stuff, until you realize that this will not guarantee you:

– get her to answer the phone, or…

– get a date with her, or…

– that she’ll be attracted to you, or…

– that you will be able to escalate physically with her.

In fact, getting a phone number is only the START of the game.

If you don’t have the confidence and psychology mastered in advance, you probably won’t even get past the approach – IF you even approach her at all.

And sometimes that knowledge will be enough to give guys approach anxiety right away.

Just imagine what you could do if you knew you wouldn’t be shaken up or rattled by a beautiful woman’s attitude…

What do you need to feel in order to
get your “Inner Game” handled?

Ultimately, it really boils down to a feeling of control over your own life.

You don’t want to feel like other people control your success with women. And you sure as hell don’t want to feel like you can’t control your own success with women.

Let me ask you something…

You ever try using a line on a woman and have it fall flat – like, dead embarrassing silence flat on its face?

I have, too.

I coach and talk to guys every day that learn a lot of techniques and “lines” to use on women, but they don’t seem to work for them.

Why don’t techniques and routines work?

Usually because of the level of self-esteem and self confidence of the guy using them.

And, in reality, just by using another guy’s lines and words, you’re sending a subtle message to your self-esteem that the only thing you can do to attract women is NOT be yourself. And that doesn’t increase a guy’s inner game.

But Don’t You Need Techniques and “Outer Game” Stuff To Attract Women?

YES! You do need them.

And that’s why I teach those, too.

I know a lot of guys that would tell you that you don’t need techniques – that if you have the inner game confidence, then your outer game is automatic.

Well, that’s not always true.

I’m sure you’ve felt confidence walking up to a woman and found that your tongue was tied and your head got all foggy the second you tried to say something. And I bet it killed your confidence quick, too, didn’t it?

So, yes, you absolutely need the techniques and conversational strategies that I teach.

BUT the fact is that you simply cannot run completely on “Outer Game” scripts either – on techniques and routines – all by themselves. Otherwise you end up with game that looks like this:

ultimate inner self-confidence

This is what you don’t want…

See that small area where “inner game” and “outer game” intersect? That’s weak, wussy game that women can detect a mile away. And thanks to television shows and “pickup artist” stuff, women know all about the routines and openers you use.

That gray outer game bubble is weak and tiny because you’re forced to “fake” a lot more than you should have to. And it doesn’t take much to pop that bubble.

Now, just imagine what would happen when your Inner Game and your Outer Game are complete and congruent.

Your game would look like THIS:

ultimate inner self-confidence

Big difference, huh?

And let’s face it, no one ever explains to you how your mind works – or teaches you how to control and manage your emotions and thoughts.

I went through all 12 grades of regular school, and another 6 years of college, and I never once did a teacher tell me how to be more confident. (Especially when I was just a young boy and I needed it the most!)

NOBODY teaches us this stuff. We’re supposed to just “figure it out” all on our own.

It’s like looking for a needle in a haystack – of needles!

Let Me Tell You a Story…

I had this girlfriend. Her name was Christina, and I was really into her. She was tall, thin, red hair, and a hot body that just drove me crazy…

Well, that was the problem.

We had been dating about 3 months when I started feeling myself go down that old familiar road of “You’re Messing This Up!” You know, when you can’t believe you’re worthy of this girl, and then you start acting like you’re not worthy?

And then along comes “Mr. Self-sabotage…”

First I got drunk at her high school reunion, then I started doing those typical self-destructive things, like calling her too much, and going over to see her all the time.

The bad part was I knew I was being needy and insecure, but I couldn’t seem to stop myself. It was like I had a voice in my head telling me that I was messing this up, but I couldn’t help but keep doing it!

And then I went and got jealous of how much time she was spending with her other friends. I remember calling her six times one night to tell her how I’d “figured out where I made my mistake” and I was going to change right away.

…And then she told me we needed to take a “break.”

OUCH.

In the end, I got dumped. Big time.

This one you might relate to: I was dating another girl, Shelly, for a couple months.

One night I went over to pay her a surprise visit. (Guess who got surprised?)

She wasn’t home when I got there, so I waited in the parking lot for her.

Until about 3:00 AM, when I finally realized she was staying the night somewhere else…

With someone else.

BIG ouch.

I fell into a deep depression after all this and went to go see a therapist. It was over 8 months before I got out of it completely.

Yeah, it was BAD. I feel a little sick just talking about it right now.

But There Is A Happy Ending To The Story…

During this time, I finally found the skills I needed to overcome my emotional issues.

I realized that getting my self-confidence and self-control was the key to taking care of 90% of my issues in my personal life, AND my dating life.

I figured out how I was driving away the women in my life. And I figured out how to hang out with people and just be a cool guy to be with.

It was like getting out of a walk-in freezer to go outside into bright, warm sunshine.

Even better was this sense inside that I could finally RELAX, you know? Stop making all this stuff such a priority and just be able to chill out and not be a nervous head case everywhere I went.

Women Can Read Your Inner Game Like Nobody Else Can…

Something I noticed is that women can be the most irrational creatures on the planet – and they can also read a man’s level of confidence better than anyone else.

    • She knows when you’re approaching her and feeling nervous and can barely say your name…

    • She knows when your self-confidence is in the crapper because of your last breakup…

    • She knows when you suddenly start needing her approval because you’re feeling “shaky” in the other areas of your life…

    She just knows this stuff, and as annoying as it is to have a woman that can read you, it has the ultimate effect of keeping us honest.

    Have you ever heard someone tell you that women want “confident” guys?

    Only about a milion times, probably.

    Well, the last thing you need is to feel like your game is being destroyed by a woman that can see right through you.

    What they say is true…

    Fix Your Inner Game And Everything Else
    Really Does Take Care of Itself

    Something else I discovered as I was coaching men and teaching them some of the secrets of ultimate inner game was that when a guy would finally get focused on the right parts of his personality and his self-improvement, he got good with women.

    And I mean SCARY good.

    And he usually had no idea WHY this was happening, either.

    He’d find that he was not only able to be more relaxed and “in the moment” with women,” but he was also able to just come up with the perfect things to say in any situation.

    What was happening was that he was unlocking his own Natural Game.

    What is “Natural Game”?

    Well, quite simply, it’s the kind of game a guy has when he’s not trying to be someone else. He’s comfortable in his own skin, and it shows.

    He’s not using pickup artist material. He’s not being sneaky or trying to hypnotize women with “trance words.”

    He’s just tuned into his own natural ability. All guys have it, but our inner game doesn’t come with an instruction book, so we spend years and years trying to figure out how it’s supposed to work.

    Take This Quick Inner Game Quiz:

    Answer each of these questions in your head and add up all the ones you answer “YES” to…

      1. Do you feel confident everywhere else, but when you’re with a woman you really want it all disappears?
      2. Are you confident with certain women, but the 9s and 10s leave you speechless and nervous?
      3. Are you ever intimidated by trying to date younger, more attractive women?
      4. Do you have trouble handling the other more aggressive guys out there?
      5. Do you feel invisible to women? Do you feel like beautiful women shake you up?
      6. Do you intellectually know that sex with a woman won’t really solve all your problems, but you still feel driven to pursue it at all costs?
      7. Do you ever feel “stuck” in your head? Do you feel like you think more about things than you should?
      8. Do you frequently feel indecisive? Anxious? Nervous? So much that it’s holding you back from doing things other people seem to have no problem with?
      9. Do you know that your knowledge and experience needs to be put to work in the real world, but you can’t seem to find those steps to “connect the dots” to get started?
      10. Do you just want to feel comfortable in your own skin? And authentic to who you are?
      11. Do you want to be able to express your feelings and true personality? Free from being judged by other people’s critical eye?
      12. Do you want to feel like the “prize” that a woman is desperate to win?

       

      If you answered 4 or more questions “YES” in the quiz above, you’re like 85-90% of the guys I’ve worked with – and you’re completely NORMAL.

      The problem is that most other guys out there would never admit it, so you end up feeling like the weird and “insecure” one.

      The secret truth that guys don’t know is that most men out there are playing the “fake it” game with their inner game and self-confidence. In fact, 80% or more of the guys that you think of as “very confident” are probably even MORE anxious in their heads than you would believe.

      Most guys are “faking it” with women.

      First, here’s another little secret for you:

      Natural Game Is What You Have When You Finally Master Your Inner Game…

      Every one of the guys that I’ve coached to get their inner game together has made the discovery that his game with women comes easily and naturally when he finds his confidence.

      He also finds that:

      • Conversation comes easy. There are no more uncomfortable silences…
      • The sting of rejection disappears. Your identity is no longer in her hands…
      • Women can no longer make you feel inadequate, or hurt your feelings…
      • You still have that same sense of excitement and thrill when you see an attractive women you want to meet, but you don’t feel the invisible grip of fear stopping you from going after her…
      • You no longer need any “lines” or routines with women. In fact, you start finding the perfect thing to say because you don’t have to go out with a “full head” of stuff you never use…
      • Social situations become incredibly easy… you make friends wherever you go…
      • You stop losing your emotional cool around women, and you stop feeling like a puppet pulled around by the strings of jealousy and fear…
      • You feel comfortable and authentic when relating to people, and your anxiety and nervousness disappears…

      Your Inner Game Can Mess Up Your Social Life, Too…

      Have you ever been out trying to meet people and have fun, or maybe you were just hanging around your friends, and you couldn’t seem to feel like you were “IN” the conversation? They seemed to have their little “clique” with each other, but they didn’t seem to want to connect with you, no matter how hard you tried.

      The fact is that your level of inner confidence also affects how successful you are with your social life and social network, too.

      But, the same as dating, your “natural social game” comes automatically when your inner game is feeling solid and stable.

      So what are the most important parts of your inner game to work on?

      Here Are The 6 Key Areas Of
      A Man’s Core Inner Game

      Now I’m going to share with you the 6 key areas of inner game that a man must understand and master. When you have these taken care of, you’ll find that the others just take care of themselves…

      1. SELF-CONFIDENCE & SELF-ESTEEM

      This is one that is probably tops on every guy’s list of things he wants to improve.

      We want to be confident and secure, and we want to really like who we are as a person. There’s really no greater thing to aspire to in our lives.

      But HOW do you improve it? It’s not one of those things that anyone ever teaches you in school. Heck, even my own dad didn’t teach me this when I was growing up and getting picked on by other kids. My parents would tell me to just “not let it bother me.” What good is that?

      Well, while I was doing some research for this article I found a bunch of news reports about how your self-esteem is pretty much connected to everything in your life – like:

      • Your level of income…
      • The amount of satisfaction you get from your frienships…
      • Your health – including how often you get sick – and how long you will live…
      • Your job security…
      • Your happiness…
      • The relationship you have with your family

      Isn’t it amazing how one psychological factor – your self-confidence – can account for such a HUGE part of a man’s life?

      2. SELF-DISCIPLINE & EMOTIONAL CONTROL

      This is what I wished I’d had when I found myself calling my ex in the middle of the night, or waiting out in that girl’s parking lot for 6 hours for her to come home from her other boyfriend.

      Self-discipline is that ability to say what you should when you know you should, and – more importantly – keeping your mouth shut when you ought to just be quiet.

      Emotional control is one of those things every guy wants when he has a woman that likes to “push his buttons.”

      And it’s something we ABSOLUTELY need when a woman starts testing us. You ever feel your panic start to rise when a woman asks you a test question like, “Do you have a girlfriend?”

      A woman’s ultimate decision about how she feels about you always comes down to how you control your emotions at a few key and critical moments.

      Will you know what to do when the time comes?

      The next area of inner game that you have to know is…

      3. HOW TO GET RID OF OLD, SELF-DEFEATING BEHAVIORS

      You might also call this “How to Change Yourself” – without the burnout and frustration.

      This is another skill that no one ever taught us: How to change.

      I was brought up in a family that didn’t ever seem to change. My dad smoked like a chimney, and he tried EVERYTHING you can imagine to quit. From acupuncture to hypnotism. He kept smoking until the day he died.

      My uncle was always getting crappy jobs, drinking like a fish, and doing more drugs than most of the rock bands I was listening to. I listened to his lame excuses for his behavior, and I heard about him trying to rehab every week.

      He’s in his fifties now and he still hasn’t changed. Not ONE BIT.

      It’s discouraging seeing so many people who never seem to change.

      But then I saw other people in my life changing their lives around. I had friends that quit smoking and became respectable and successful.

      So I had to figure out what it was that made them different, and why they were able to change when others didn’t.

      And not just the secret of how to kick one bad habit, because that could just be a fluke. I wanted to know how to change or improve whatever I wanted so that I could be the man I wanted to be.

      This is the essence of personal change, and it’s one of the most essential skills of inner game to learn. Because without it, you’ll never be able to make the others work for you.

      The belief and ability to change is crucial to any Alpha Man’s skills, as is his sense of…

      4. MASCULINITY

      Look, as guys, we know that losing our hair doesn’t mean one bit of difference to who we really are as men. After all, there isn’t a special nerve connection from your scalp to the “confidence center” of your brain, so it shouldn’t mean anything to us, right?

      Wrong!

      The way we feel about our appearance impacts our level of self-esteem and how attractive we feel with women.

      But why is it that you’ve seen some bald guys that get a TON of action from women, AND they are more confident than Tom Cruise. What’s different about them?

      Yup. It’s that darn Inner Game again.

      These guys know something different about themselves that stops them from seeing the missing hair as being a reason to feel like they are less attractive or less manly.

      And they also have the ability to…

      5. MANAGE ANXIETY & FEAR

      This is one area that men don’t like to talk about. I know I didn’t.

      Hey, what guy wants to admit that he’s got a fear of women, or feels a sick, anxious knot of heat in the middle of his stomach when he walks up to talk to a woman?

      But there are so many guys who run into the brick wall of their own emotions in many different situations.

      It’s not our fault!

      Men simply are not brought up to manage or understand their emotions the same way women are. But emotional intelligence is the number one indicator of your level of happiness, life satisfaction, and ultimate level of success.

      The skills to manage our internal state are also incredibly important for when we want to approach women, or when we want to move in for the kiss, or escalate things sexually with a woman.

      And, funny enough, this also leads to…

      6. SHYNESS & SOCIAL SKILLS

      Wait, didn’t I say “Inner Game” areas?

      Yes, I did. And your social skills fit right into your inner game.

      Here’s how…

      You ever been with a group of your friends when you crack a joke at the right time, you get some big laughs, and suddenly everyone warms up to you? You feel like you’re one of the “cool people” in just one moment. You managed to change yourself from ‘outsider’ to ‘insider’ with just one quick social move.

      Now, tell me that you wouldn’t feel like ‘The Man’ right at that moment.

      You would feel on top of the world, wouldn’t you?

      Your inner confidence increases massively from your OUTER experience.

      And THAT is the big secret of inner game.

      Your Inner Game does not improve without outer game techniques and successes that complete the circuit for you. Inner Game is like the positive terminal on a battery… you have all this potential, but nothing happens until you connect it to the negative terminal of your battery – your OUTER game.

      And this is what I finally figured out after years of just trying to “read books” and “listen to tapes.” Those methods don’t work unless you get something practical you can use to really see and feel the change in your experience.

      The Best News Is That You Don’t Have To “CHANGE” Yourself…
      Or FIGHT Yourself.

      In fact, if you’re trying to CHANGE yourself, you’re probably not going to succeed.

      The biggest mistake I found guys making was that they were working really hard to “change themselves.” And as we all know, changing yourself is a very big task.

      But that’s only if you’re doing it the WRONG WAY.

      Let me ask you something – Have you ever heard of Aikido?

      It’s a very cool martial art.

      Yeah, kung-fu, heeee-ya, and all that.

      Basically, in this style, what you do is use your opponent’s energy against himself. If he tries to hit you, you just step aside and redirect him into a wall, or a door, or down some stairs.

      THUNK. Problem solved.

      And you only used about 1/100th the energy to end the confrontation than he did to start it.

      You might have seen Steven Segal in his movies use this style of fighting.

      WHAP! The bad guy is thrown over a bar…

      BLAM! The punk is tossed into a car windshield…

      FLIP! The villain is launched into the exploding building…

      And the hero hardly breaks a sweat.

      Well, the brilliant part of the martial art of Aikido is that it’s the best philosophy to use in just about every situation you can imagine. Verbal situations and social situations.

      Very little energy and effort – and HUGE results.

      Stay with me here – this is cool…

      Because The Worst Thing You Can Do Is To FIGHT Your Own Self-Confidence… Instead, Work WITH IT.

      A lot of guys I’ve met and coached in the past were always trying very hard to overcome their limitations and self-confidence issues by what I call “bulldogging” it.

      Have you ever seen a bulldog get hold of a rag toy? It will chomp down and shake its head and tug and pull… It will usually pull the toy away from whoever is fighting with it.

      But here’s the real problem: The bulldog only has enough fight in him for a couple of those tug-of-war matches before he’s all out of energy. Then it’s all over for him.

      Men are the same way.

      If we take this “grit your teeth” attitude, we might win the first few rounds against our own self-confidence and self-esteem, but we usually just run out of energy and give up a short time later. We give up on our new habits just because they take too much energy to keep them going!

      Enter The Dragon…

      Well, not really the dragon, but something very much like it.

      Whenever we fight the natual energy of a situation, we usually end up exhausted and beaten.

      But when you go WITH it, you get much more done.

      You may have heard the saying: “The reed that bends does not break.”

      Well, that’s especially true with your confidence and self-esteem.

      In fact – if you FIGHT your own natural tendencies, you will probably take MUCH longer to improve your inner game than if you just got it together. (And there are a lot you have that you might not even know about…)

      Using the principles of Aikido on your inner game will make a HUGE difference in your results. And it’s this philosophy that allowed me to realize how to get past my own limitations…

      Here Are The Two Huge Realizations That Released My Stuck Brakes…

      The unfortunate fact is that most guys like you and me want to improve our confidence and Alpha game, but there is so much junk out there that it’s like panning for gold in a mountain stream.

      TONS of work with very little payoff.

      This is why most guys end up bored, frustrated – and they quit. And then they end up settling for less in their lives.

      They fight long and hard to get very little results.

      All because they didn’t have the understanding of “Aikido” for their inner game.

      Here are the BIG realizations I discovered about my inner game…

      My Big Realization #1: If I got just ONE thing out of a book or program that helped me, it was worth any amount of money.

      I mean, if some tip helped me get even just a little bit more confident, it was worth the work to find it. It’s just like rock climbing – if you find just one place to hold onto that’s a bit further up, the next one is now probably within your reach.

      Every little bit counts.

      I even stopped whining that this or that book/tape wasn’t worth the money, and I’d keep everything I got – knowing that there was always at least one secret in it that would help my game.

      And I found a LOT of secrets over the years.

      And then I had…

      My Big Realization #2: My brain is tricking me and doesn’t help me most of the time.

      Have you ever been in a moving vehicle, like a car or a train, and you’ve been riding along for a few minutes. And then you come to a stop, but for some reason it still feels like you’re still moving?

      It’s just like those “optical illusions” you see in books, where your brain can be tricked by a simple pattern on a piece of paper.

      Well, I realized after many years of struggling, that my own mind was tricking me in a lot of ways. Like making me think that what other people were thinking of me was good or bad – or that it really mattered at all.

      Once I finally understood WHY I thought these things, and – more importantly – what I should be focusing on, I stopped feeling so self-conscious with women and in social groups.

      And finally…

      My Big Realization #3: If I re-read a book, or listened to a program again, I’d always find 2 or 3 more great strategies that I could use that I didn’t hear the first time.

      Usually a lot more than that!

      I must have read 200 books and listened to another hundred tapes and CDs on self-development. I went through everything I could find out there.

      Not everything I read was new to me. In fact, the reality is that most of that stuff only had a couple nuggets of pure gold in them. But inevitably I’d read a book and find one or more new concepts or techniques that really grabbed me.

      The funny thing was that those new things I found were there before, but my mind just wasn’t ready to find them the first time around. I mean, there were some really incredible insights in there just waiting to be found…

      But then I thought, who has the time to go through hundreds and hundreds of hours of programs over and over again like I did?

      I don’t think anyone wants to “pan for gold” like that.

      So after going through most of my notes, my workbooks, and journals, I decided to pull together all the stuff I had on this one topic of self-confidence and inner game into something that any guy could use – and not have to spend months and years learning.

      Wouldn’t It Be Cool If You Could Compact Months and Years Of Self-Help Work Into Just A Fraction Of The Time?

      Look, the reality is that most people simply don’t have the time or even the interest in reading hundreds of books and listening to countless hours of self-help programs like I did.

      (Honestly, you get a little weird when you go off the deep end learning this kind of stuff. I was a bit strange…)

      So I thought, wouldn’t it be great if I could just pull all the best tips, tactics, strategies, and techniques I had figured out over the years and just create one giant CONCENTRATED program.

      A “super-program,” if you like.

      I wanted to give you only the skills you need most to conquer your “inner game” and throw out all the garbage and nonsense out there that doesn’t work. (Because there’s a lot of fluff in most of those programs out there.)

      Just like concentrated soap, where a little goes a LONG way.

      Well, it took me a few years, but I finally did it.

      It’s Time To Make a Deep Internal Shift –  A BREAKTHROUGH In Your Thinking…

      Have you tried other programs in the past and had difficulties getting the information to “stick” with you?

      Or you knew the information was valuable and could work, but you didn’t have the “HOW” to do it?

      I had the same experience with a lot of the books I read out there. What I discovered was that I wasn’t able to keep up the new habits and skills they taught me.

      Since I first wrote The Dating Black Book over 7 years ago, I’ve seen guys making the same mistakes over and over again. Whether it was in bootcamps or seminars, they would inevitably make the same classic error.

      Once they saw what they were doing, they were able to get out of their own way and release the “emergency brake” on their energy and power with women. It was a lot like experiencing a giant Tesla coil with lightning arcing across a room.

      Women stood up and took notice.

      What Is The BIG Error That Most Guys Make?

      The error was trying to substitute a “technique” or a “line” to cover up their feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, or nervousness.

      What most guys don’t realize or find out is that a lot of the “pickup artist” material out there doesn’t work if your inner game is weak to begin with. In fact, it’s downright damaging.

      I’m sure you’ve seen or experienced this yourself. If you try to use a line on a woman and you don’t have the attitude to back it up, she will cut you apart.

      The tragedy of this situation is that most guys will never get the success they truly deserve with women… NOT because they are inadequate or can’t “change” themselves, but because they don’t understand how to use their natural abilities to master their emotions and their thinking.

      Your biggest enemy in life is probably your own level of frustration and discouragement.

      15 Years of Inner Game Techniques and Skills – Distilled Down to Just the Parts You Need…

      I’m a bit of a weirdo…

      I’ve got a passion for self-development and the whole “psychology of achievement” field. I’ve spent over 15 years reading books, listening to tapes, going to seminars and lectures, watching videos, and doing just about every crazy thing you can think of to stop my worrying and insecurity and self-confidence issues.

      Yeah, I’ve done just about everything you can imagine (from therapists to witch doctors.) And I now know what really does work and what really does NOT work.

      Have you ever wanted to know:

      • How to experience strong emotions like love and excitement – and still feel in control?
      • How to persist and keep going, even during those times when you’re seeing little or no improvement?
      • How to avoid resenting women and feeling angry with them?
      • How to get what you want without feeling needy and insecure?
      • How to switch off that negative voice in your head that stops you from succeeding?
      • What it takes to use all the stuff you’ve learned, and keep from forgetting it or losing it?
      • Where to start and how to get past your own internal B.S.?
      • How to avoid feeling overwhelmed – and just know where to focus next to get yourself moving in the right direction?
      • How to make all the puzzle pieces of your game fit together – including that missing piece that you know is out there and will “click” everything into place?
      • How to remain consistent with your inner game, no matter where you are or who you are with?
      • How do you finally start to control that need to have people like you or care what they think about you?
      • How do you deal with the guys that challenge you or try to lower your status when you’re out approaching and meeting women?
      • How to keep your Alpha Attitude and confidence, even when you’re in a relationship? So you can keep her and not drive her off…?
      • How to be authentic and REAL instead of just another pickup artist clone?
      • How to avoid getting stuck in your head, and just get in-the-moment?
      • How your inner game gets communicated into your outer game?
      • How to stop TRYING and finally start DOING?

       

      Now you can have the state-of-the-art techniques and secrets that I wish I’d found years ago…

      My Ultimate Inner Game method shows you the recipes, techniques, tactics, strategies, secrets, tricks, and exercises that will get you un-stuck.

      I’m not going to kid you. This home-study program is big – I didn’t leave any stones unturned.

      But my Ultimate Inner Game system is designed to start raising your overall confidence level in the first 24 hours after you start listening and using the information.

      No weird affirmations and weak self-hypnosis, and nothing you can’t put to use quickly and easily.

      And it’s not just good for getting women… It’s good for EVERY area of your life you want to feel more confidence and power over your life.

      And the best part is that once you conquer your Inner Game, you’ll feel the kind of peace that buddhist monks will envy.

      And then the rest of your life really will take care of itself.

      Fix your inner game, and your outer game will run like a finely tuned sports car.

      Ignore it, and you’ll have constant breakdowns and you’ll experience the ongoing fear of being stranded and alone by the side of the road of your own life…

       

      Do you ever feel like women have way more control over you than you’d like them to have…?

      Do you ever feel like your emotions and your willpower were just out of control – and this was sabotaging your ability to get a girl interested in you…?

      Do you ever feel like no matter what stuff you use – pickup lines, and seduction techniques, and all those techniques that other guys used – you still have some element of you that is still not quite “dialed in” … and if you could tweak this one part of you – you’d really see a lot more improvement with your dating life…?

      How Would You Like To Feel Like You’re
      100 Feet Tall And Made Out of Solid Diamond…?

      Most therapists will keep you “on the couch” for years before you make any significant progress in terms of your inner game and self-esteem, much less any progress with women.

      If you’ve tried EVERYTHING before to get you out of the situation you’re in, and you just can’t get your situation fixed, or figure out where to go next, this program is definitely for you…

      If you feel out of control in your dating life, unable to get a grip on things, or you feel like your situation is hopeless, or that you’re trapped or doomed, this program will show you exactly how to get your hands back on the steering wheel of your life…

      If you’ve had a problem dealing with rejection from women, or getting over a tough breakup, this program will give you the clarity you seek, and the ability to raise your self-esteem over this hurdle with ease…

      If you’ve ever dealt with depression, or just getting bummed over your situation, you’re going to learn the secrets to turning on your emotional control mechanisms, and snap out of any funk in just a few minutes…

      If you’ve been having problems with your social life, just making friends and being a fun guy that people want to hang out with, I’ll teach you the bottom-line skills you must have to destroy your anxiety and increase your social network ginormously

      This Is Your Inner Game – Version 2.0 Through Version 2000…

      Here are some of the other things this Ultimate Inner Game system will show you…

      • Understand the complete inner workings of your mind and your thinking – so that you can get “under the hood” and pimp your inner game ride to do what you want to do…

      • How to re-write the conscious and subconscious “rules” that you obey – most of the time without ever questioning them – even when they’re no longer working for you – so that you can redirect your destiny and achieve what you want with women – and with every area of your life…
      • One simple hidden technique that takes 10 seconds and will instantly flush away your guilt, anger, resentment, frustration, disappointment, fear, or any negative emotion…

      • Learn how the 7 Domains of your self-esteem works – in complete detail – so that you can control the level of your self-confidence and keep it consistent
      • The secrets your therapist will never tell you about that will get you stronger inner game in days instead of months and years… (if more guys knew about this, therapy would be dead…)

      • Do you feel like shyness is keeping you from meeting women, making new friends, and experiencing life? You’ll learn about the different kinds of shyness, how they work, and step-by-step instructions on how to break through the shyness barrier in your life…
      • How to get the right parts of your brain working TOGETHER instead of as enemies, so that you can stop second-guessing yourself, and find your inner source of courage and passion…

      • How to jump-start your social circle of friends – in just 3 weeks…
      • The Truth about “manifestation” – and how “The Secret” misleads and tricks most guys…

      • Learn the 5 Domains and the 7 Skills of emotional intelligence, and identify where you need to develop most to master yourself and your feelings…
      • How to master the the 3 Essential Skills of “state change” so that you can instantly get in a better mood, and motivate yourself to do things you normally find difficult or impossible to accomplish…

      • Why slow changes you make are harder and take more energy than the quick changes…
      • The 14 Steps of Emotional and Self-Mastery and the 6 Needs we all share – When you learn these, you’ll be able to unlock any person’s motivation and drive…

      • How to completely turn off that “worry voice” in your head that keeps you living in anxious fear…
      • 7 Steps to defuse and manage your fear and keep from reacting automatically to social challenges…

      • Want to learn practical, simple steps to getting peace of mind and lowering your stress level that doesn’t take a lifetime to learn? You’ll get them in sections 4, 8, and 10…
      • How to recognize your unhealthy thinking when it raises its voice, and how to prevent it from wrecking your approaches and conversations with women…

      • How to ask your woman for things without sounding like a needy wuss-bag…
      • How to fix up the holes in your self-confidence so you can interact with women on a strong and confident footing…

      • The 6 Critical Steps to plan and create real lasting change in your life – from your identity to your habits to your beliefs and way of thinking…
      • The easiest methods for relaxing, clearing your head, getting out of your head, and getting back in the moment with women – or anyone… With step-by-step, real-time guidance through the exercises…

      • How you inherited bad mental habits and trains of thought, and how to finally get rid of them without a bunch of therapy and painful self-analysis…
      • Simple exercises to identify the places in your life where you are letting women control you instead of taking the confident LEAD of your own life…

      • Do you ever find yourself making decisions to make people like you more, or just to not look bad? Here are some simple techniques to clear your head and get back to the REAL and authentic you that earns their respect and admiration…
      • Do you find that women don’t seem to be interested in more dates with you after your first date? Here’s why… and it’s one of the easiest parts of your inner game to get tuned up…

      • 4 Principles of Thought that show you how feelings, moods, and emotions work… Once you understand how this part of you works, you’ll be able to stop reacting or feeling influenced by women and social pressure…
      • The big mistakes men make with their “panic” and anxiety attacks – and how to use the emotional energy to build self-confidence…

      • How to make any “technique” you’ve learned work better, faster, and longer than any of the guys who just learn “the words…”
      • How to take “rejection” and “failure” situations with women and turn them around into something that improves your self-confidence and self-esteem – without cheezy affirmations…

      • How to remove the negative habits you’ve developed that end up destroying your relationships…
      • Ever wonder how some pathetic guys have no problems meeting women? Why smart guys have more trouble with women than the “dumb” guys seem to…

      • How to get past the need for memorized “lines” and “routines” with women so that you can project your powerful confidence and masculine identity to create GENUINE attraction…
      • Learn the simple technique to handle the guys that try to make a fool out of you and tool you…

      • How to get past your approach anxiety with women – or any social group -so that you can quickly and easily walk up to any woman you see and start a conversation, without fear or nervousness…
      • How to avoid the women with issues and baggage and find the women with healthy psychological patterns – so you can stop going through the torture of relationships that are doomed before they begin…

      • Here is the simple architecture of your inner “self-defense” mechanisms and how they work – and how they work in other people so you can get past all the dysfunction and shields…
      • You have Inner “Lie” Mechanisms get in your way of experiencing life and I will explain how our brains naturally deceive us if we’re not careful – and how you can tell when your mind is tricking you…

      • Take a complete self-esteem inventory to figure out where you are right now with your own level of self-confidence…
      • 10 Secret Power Tips for handling the rollercoaster ride of your own self-confidence, and smoothing out the ride…

      • There’s a powerful 2-step system to manage the “evidence” you get from the outside world, and when you cultivate this skill – as I will show you in this section – you’ll learn how to break old disempowering beliefs and install new ones…
      • You’ll learn the 5 Power Questions that immediately re-frame your experience and turn any situation back to your control – no more anger and frustration when life doesn’t go your way…

      • The Secret 2-Step Method and the Three Questions that enable you to channel your energies to the right parts of your life – and these are questions you are automatically answering every minute of every day without even knowing it!
      • Simple psychological tricks to destroy your anger and anxiety and never be a
        slave to your emotions again…

      • A common misunderstanding that locks almost all men into a state of low self-esteem their whole life… and it’s completely simple to break out of when you know the secret…
      • How to turn your negative emotions and energy into positive self-esteem – without having to act or “fake it ’til you make it…”

      • How to break free of needy, insecure “little boy” behaviors that scare away women, and finally take on your Alpha Masculinity…
      • How to get past the old patters of obsession, anger, frustration, anxiety, and negative states that keep your game with women from really moving forward…

      • How to change the parts of you that you want to change, without feeling like you’re being fake or deceptive with women… or double-crossing yourself…
      • How to stop beating yourself up over and over again for things that are in the past, and start to recognize and focus on your future…

      • The 11 Mind Traps that create social anxieties, and how to get past this with simple secrets that anyone can learn and use in just minutes…
      • How to look approachable, be friendly, start a conversation, cultivate strong friendships, and stop feeling “weird” around other people, or that you are the “different” one…

      • How to manifest a strong and confident body language, without going further up in your head…
      • How to have the confidence to walk up and talk to anyone, anywhere, without worrying about approval or being rejeted… No more inferiority complex!

      • How to be your own life coach – rely on yourself more and be more emotionally resourceful – with the skill to solve your own problems and be your own best friend…
      • How to “talk yourself down” from your bouts of anxiety and fear so that you can kill that voice in your head that’s keeping you from doing what you know you need to do…

      • How to overcome a woman’s tests without feeling like the rug was just pulled out from under your feet, staying grounded and calm…
      • How to avoid freaking out with a woman when things get sexually charged – and especially when you REALLY like her…

      • How to control your state and leverage the “Aikido” principle of moods so that you never get stuck in the downward spiral of depression ever again…
      • How to put yourself in the right state so that you keep conversations going with ease and never have to deal with that “shy and quiet” part of you making things boring and awkward ever again…

      • How to put yourself fully in the driver’s seat of your own life so that you get the results from your life that you want – financially, sexually, spiritually, socially…
      • How to awaken your masculinity to become a complete and whole Alpha MAN…

      • How to naturally jack up and increase your mental, emotional, and physical energy every day by engaging your natural drives
      • How to handle negative self-talk and stress in your life, with cool, calm composure…

      • How to impress anyone you meet with the solidity of your character and the power of your presence and confidence…
      • How to “switch off” the negativity in your thinking and substitute it with more realistic “positive” thinking – without coming across like an annoying happy dancing monkey…

      • How to stop ruminating over past events and the bad things that happen to you so that you can free your mind up to new accomplishments and opportunities…
      • How to figure out which “inner voice” you can pay attention to, and which one you should ignore… And how to stop over-analyzing everything…

      • Have you been learning a lot of “seduction techniques,” but now you feel like you’ve lost touch with your real authentic personality? Learn how to get back to your natural self…
      • How to get rid of that constant feeling of being watched and judged by other people when you go out and interact with women – or with anyone!

      • How to win friends and influence people – for the new millenium… updated strategies to increase your personal charisma and social intelligence…
      • How to adapt to changing social situations on the fly – so that you can be a social chameleon…

      • How you are ‘blinded’ to your own inner game issues, and how to take off the blindfold that’s keeping you in the dark…
      • The principle of compounding energy in your inner game – how slight improvements create massive increases in energy and results…

      • The secret “universal mistake” in thinking that all humans make – and when you learn this, you’ll immediately know why your thinking gets in your way of confidence…
      • How your moods and your natural need to worry and “stress out” get in your way and become addictive traps…

      • Shortcut through therapy – a quick and easy breakdown of the 3 environments that shaped your personality, and how to break free from the negative limitations of your upbringing…
      • The simple physiological and biological explanation of your mind’s most basic automatic defenses and systems, and how you are naturally wired to succeed – with the right inner game skills…

      • Why “just do it” and “be confident” is the worst kind of advice – and why you are beating your head against a wall when it comes to self-improvement – and how to tear down that wall…
      • How and why your habits seem so hard to break or change, and the secret method you can leverage change to make breakthrough changes in your habits in just a short time…

      • Why we get “stuck” in relationships that seem to be going nowhere when we see opportunity all around us…
      • Why therapy and digging into your past not only doesn’t work to help you change or “get over” issues, but in fact makes them even worse – and how to avoid this “Therapy Trap…”

      • Learn the blueprint of how your mind works, and the three simple parts that make up your identity… and how to override those automatic impulses you get that seem to control your behavior against your will…
      • The Six Questions to understand about your parents and how they brought you up so you can reconcile your past and get on with your future…

      • How to recognize and stop your natural mental bad habits from starting, and how to get rid of the hesitation and anxiety that your negative thinking creates…
      • The single most important attitude and element of inner game that a man must master – and how it impacts your sexual success, as well as every part of your life – from the car you drive to the women you date… AND the single most important factor that can shift the balance of power…

      • The 5 Useless insights of the pickup community – including the “Magic Bullet” Myth, and how you avoid falling for bad advice when you hear it…
      • How your mind works, how your mental “automatic pilot” functions – and how you can re-program yourself for the behaviors you want… as well as get rid of bad habits that seem to stick with you forever…

      • The reason why most self-help programs don’t seem to work, and how you can get past this trap so that you can enable yourself for change and happiness…
      • Your “Outrage Script” – The one mindset that holds you back from success with women, as well as almost every other area where you aren’t living up to your full potential, and how to shut it down…

      • The 3 Hidden Pickup Artist Traps – How a lot of the “attraction” and “seduction” information can hold you back from a healthy and natural ‘vibe’ with women – and keep you from a positive social network…
      • The 2 Automatic Questions – the natural interpretation drive of your mind, and how you can get much better results in your life by taking control of these questions…

      • The “Mistake” Rule of Life – The one kind of mistake you need to make about yourself to realize your full potential – and the ONE conviction you must develop…
      • Learn the 10 Metaprograms that determine your results and your mind-model, and how you can use these to reach faster and stronger rapport with women in any conversation…

      • The 4 Ways your expectations are turned into reality in your life, and what you need to do to short circuit the power of “self-fulfilling prophecies…”
      • The Power of Your 5 Stories – how your inner mental dialogue creates your experience, and how to “re-write” your story to create the ultimate driving force in your life… And how communicating this story to women will keep her glued to you…

      • The 3 Steps to gain control of your inner voice – and the 10 skills that give you the inner power of purpose, truth, and action…
      • The 4 Energy Types you must understand, control and increase to beat your negative addictions, and lead a healthy and positive life…

      • How to manage and leverage your natural emotional, mental, and physical cycles to get rid of negativity and fatigue…
      • How to avoid constantly beating yourself up over things you KNOW you should let go of…

      • How to keep yourself sane and stable in the dating world right now – so you don’t have to work out all your inner “issues” first to get success with women…

      Are You Ready For An Offer You Simply Can’t Refuse…?

      No One Has Ever Delivered THIS:

      As you can see, I’ve packed in just about every conceivable part of inner game in this program. I left no stone unturned.

      But in case I didn’t put in what you need….

      To be absolutely sure that the program meets your requirements, if you find a topic that has NOT been addressed in the program that you need, simply email me at my special Hotline To Carlos Link, and let me know – and I will CREATE additional content to make sure your questions get answered.

      I can’t possibly imagine that I haven’t covered it all in this program, but if I missed something you need, you’ve got a solid guarantee that you will get it answered.

      How’s THAT for an offer you can’t refuse?

      I’m Adding In A Special Bonus…

      There’s one more area of a man’s inner game that he must have taken care of or he will not succeed over the short – or the long term. And that area is:

      COACHING AND GUIDANCE.

      Wouldn’t it be great to have the ability to “coach” yourself? To be your own voice of support and guidance, rather than always having to rely on new programs every few months? Look, I spend a lot of time focusing on helping guys and making each program I offer the definitive guide.

      But it’s also easy to be lured into buying more and more programs just in case you missed anything.

      Well, first of all, you won’t miss anything here. This is my last program on self-confidence that I intend to create.

      But even more important than this, you probably just need the ability to coach yourself.

      There will be situations around the corner that you’re not prepared for. That’s how life is.

      But wouldn’t it be great if you could just change your own strategy – all by yourself – to tackle any unforseen challenges?

      Wouldn’t it be great to be your own Life-Coach?

      Well, in this program, I decided to include my special program on self-coaching and creating your own life strategies. I was going to create a separate program for this, but I decided it made more sense to include it here for you.

      You’ll learn:

      • How to balance your own needs with others in your life so that you can be truly generous and giving…

      • How to be “selfish” in the right way that gives you more energy, creativity, and get past your own limitations…
      • The 10 Areas of Self-Coaching to focus on, and how each of them contributes to your overall confidence and sense of power…

      • How to build a “super reserve” of resources, energy, satisfaction, and get rid of all your worries and fears in the process…
      • How to manage your time realistically and simply so that you can finally throw out that day planner and get things done…

      • How to formulate a complete, day-to-day strategy for living that serves your passion and purpose, and the critical parts of a complete Alpha Man action plan…
      • And much more…

      And ANOTHER Very Special Bonus…

      There’s another area of inner game that guys ask me about a lot, and I usually get it in the form of this question:

      “How Can I Date Younger Women?”

      Well, the game of dating younger women is actually a BIG Inner Game hurdle for a lot of guys. After all, if you’re attracted to younger women (who isn’t?) then you want to get rid of that feeling that you’re a “creep,” or some kind of “dirty old man.”

      Let me assure you, dating younger women is not only a good thing, it’s easier than most guys realize. This is a huge inner game challenge for a lot of guys out there, and it’s one that I completely cover in this 63 minute advanced Inner Game session.

      You’ll learn:

      • Why guys have such a hard time with both their inner AND outer game when it comes to approaching and getting girls that are younger than them – and what to do about it…

      • How to open a conversation with a younger woman, as well as What you should talk about with younger women with my “media walking” method…

      • What women are really looking for when it comes to age, and how you can easily “bypass” any objections to age a woman might have…

      • My solid gold reframe letter that will change your thinking instantly as to the perception of women’s age and how old is “tool old” for a guy…
      • How to handle the social stigma of age differences between men and women, and why certain cultures consider it “wrong” or “inappropriate” for an older man with a younger woman…

      • Learn the advantages to dating (and perhaps marrying) a younger woman – as well as the inner and outer game strategies to attracting women who are 10, 20, or more years younger than you…
      • Two ways that older guys ruin their chances with younger women – and how to turn these around so that YOU qualify the woman, and you maintain a confident and powerful attitude…

      • What is it that women are looking for in an older man? Find out in this bonus session…

      Here’s What You Get:

      Here is everything you get with the Ultimate Inner Game – Total Self Confidence & Social Success system:

      10 Ultimate Inner Game Modules…

      10 Ultimate Inner Game Modules...

      Hours of material covering every aspect of your inner game with women, and your confidence in every part of your life.

       

      AND: 2 Bonus Master Class Sessions…

       

       

      12 Ultimate Inner Game Training Modules

       

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      Dear Friend…

      Have you ever lost a girl you were really into?

      OR are you afraid you’ll lose the right one when she comes along?

      Remember when you were out with that hot, sexy, funny girl you met? She was cute and cool. No games or weirdness at all.

      You had a good feeling about this one. You couldn’t wait to have her meet your friends. You even found yourself planning stuff in the future to do with her.

      And then, before it even started – it’s OVER.

      She’s gone.

      And you don’t even know what the hell happened. It feels like someone pulled the rug out from under you and then pushed you down a flight of stairs.

      And now your biggest fear is that you’re going to meet The One for you…

      … and it will happen all over again.

      It’s much more agonizing to lose a woman you’ve got than it is to just mess up an approach with a girl you barely know or care about.

      What Will You Do If You Run Into HER Tomorrow…?

      Look, really, what if you find HER tomorrow…

      You know – The Right One for you. Do you know what to do right from the very start so you don’t lose her?

      • Have you ever had a woman whose interest just started to fizzle out slowly, and after a while she just stopped being available – and then disappeared completely?
      • Have you ever been dating some chick that you thought was INCREDIBLE… but the drama was driving you up a wall? Or she just started taking you for granted – like you were just a walking wallet to her…?
      • Have you had a girlfriend, only to have the sex slow down and then grind to a complete halt, and she eventually ends up breaking up with you?
      • Have you had to dump chick after chick because she was either weird, crazy, or just plain boring to be around?
      • Are you constantly disappointed by the women you meet – and you want to know how to find the right one for you? Without wasting days, months, YEARS with the wrong one?

      You’re not alone.

      I’ve had all of these things happen to me, and over the years I’ve coached thousands of guys with similar problems. You meet a girl, things get going, and then for one reason or another (you never figure out exactly why), it all comes to an end.

      And you know what else?

      It’s not your fault!

      Women have been training guys from the very first date to shape and “mold” you into the kind of boyfriend they think they can wrap around their finger. And you probably had NO idea it was happening to you!

      Women have been training guys for years…

      • You leave voicemail messages and then wait for hours for a call back…
      • She gets you to take her to dinners and watch “chick flicks”…
      • She rewards you with sex when you buy her jewelry or gifts…
      • You’re the contestant on HER game show!

      Why don’t you turn it around like this?

      • Get her to take YOU out for dinners…
      • Have her calling you up to invite you over for a late-night “booty call”…
      • Get her to setup your “guys night out” at the strip club…
      • Knowing for sure that she’s ignoring any other guys that hit on her, and telling them she’s taken…
      • Have her show up at your work bringing you lunch – and a little gift she bought you…

      Doesn’t that sound much better to you? It does to me.

      Stay with me here, because that’s what I’m going to show you how to do:

      • How to keep your girlfriend attracted to you – and into you…
      • How to make women happy…
      • The secrets for how to start a relationship up with a woman the right way…
      • What to look for in a girlfriend – and what women to avoid…
      • How to make sure she NEVER cheats on you…
      • How to save your girlfriend if you start feeling her slip away…
      • How to keep her satisfied in the bedroom – so that she never wants anyone else but you…

      …If you truly want more attention, more respect, and more sex – without all the drama and heartache that most guys experience, then you simply must drop what you’re doing and devour the liberating information revealed below!

      You’ve Met Your Dream Girl . . .Start It Off With Her Right And Train Her Correctly And She Will Take Care Of You!

      Most guys do NOT know how to start things up so their girlfriend will be worry and drama-free, and everything is on autopilot

      …they don’t know how to start things with a girlfriend that’ll give them the kind of sex, attention, and freedom they dream about – it’s just not something most guys can figure out on their own!

      And it takes more than just common sense to choose a girlfriend and start a relationship…

      Relying on common sense with women is a Sure-Fire Death Sentence!

      Are You Already Trained?

      I want to tell you something that you might find shocking – or maybe you suspected all along:

      Did you know that women are training you?

      It’s true. Women even use that exact word when they talk about it.

      “Training.”

      Before you get mad about that, let me share something else with you:

      If What These Girls Said Doesn’t Piss You Off, Nothing Will…

      My girlfriend told me about a conversation she had with some of her girlfriends over coffee a few days ago.

      Here – listen in on their conversation:

      Megan: “So you’re saying that you got your boyfriend – that big macho guy – to do all the cooking and cleaning in your house?”

      Claire: “Yup! It’s great. I can go out and just have fun with the girls. Just like right now. Oh, and you know what the best part is?”

      Megan: “He’ll give you a massage when you get home?” (Laughs)

      Claire: “Probably! But that’s not it. Get this – he even walks my dog, Precious, for me. He wanted to go with his friends to a Giants game today, but I convinced him to watch Precious instead.”

      Megan: “Wow! You’ve got him trained well!” (Laughs)

      Claire: “Tell me about it!” (Laughs)

      If you haven’t figured it out by now, their giggles were not the warm, loving laughter of women who cherish and admire their men.

      No, it was the laughter of women who were celebrating Claire “pulling one over” on her boyfriend.

      And all of the other women laughed because they wished they could train their boyfriends just like she did.

      This isn’t the exception – this is pretty much the rule with every woman out there.

      Guys Get Stuck In These Nightmares All The Time…What About YOU?

      Do any of these sound familiar to you?

      • Do you find yourself thinking that your girlfriend is just fine – everything seems to be just great – and then out of nowhere she tells you she’s “not happy” – or she just wants to “take a break”?
      • Have you ever had a girlfriend who just stopped being as interested in sex? Things got slower and slower, colder and colder… until you were lucky to get any at all?
      • Do you get angry at women for being mean, playing dirty, always sending you mixed signals, warm to you one minute and cold the next, manipulating you? Do you want to put an end to the bullsh*t games and tests that never seem to end?
      • You want to finally understand what a woman wants and what’s going on inside her head, so that you can stop struggling just to communicate and keep things going with her? Other guys can do it – and you’ve seen it happen, so you know it’s possible…
      • Do you have trouble finding women that live up to your requirements or standards?
      • Do you always find yourself playing a game of “WHAT HAPPENED?” when you consistently miss – or misread – a woman’s signals? Don’t you wish you could know what she’s thinking – so you fix things before she gets pissed at you?
      • Ever wish you could have a complete blueprint for how you could completely control the relationship so you were never surprised or blindsided by a woman again? You could ELIMINATE all the turmoil and drama for good. FLIP the power back into your hands?

      I bet you’ve had one of those situations happen to you at one time or another. Girlfriends are cool, but no one really tells you what it takes to keep her, keep her happy, and keep her addicted like a junkie to pull you back into the bedroom – again and again.

      So now what you need to do is:

      Turn These 4 Toughest Challenges With Women Into 4 Easy Victories…

      Most guys have challenges with women – that’s no secret. And there are FOUR big areas where we find it hard to deal with girlfriends:

      1) Starting up a relationship

      This is all about getting her into you enough to want to see you – and ONLY you. And eventually – maybe – even fall in love with you. It’s that feeling of control and power at the start that you want to keep forever. And it’s also about knowing which women to choose and which to leave behind. You want her as your “YES!” girl, right?

      2) Keeping her walking on air – happy and totally attracted to you

      You want to keep her into you, and even obsessed and addicted to you if possible. This also includes keeping the sex hot and fun and knowing how to satisfy her at a physical level. It’s that seemingly magical ability to delight a woman and keep her excited to be with you.

      3) Understanding what she’s thinking – and knowing how to deal with different types of women

      This is all about knowing how to read different women, and not get caught unaware or off-guard. It’s also about knowing if she’s the right one for you, and how to avoid the women that are wrong for you.

      4) Handling conflicts and arguments

      And this skill is all about how to communicate and connect with women – and how to fix things when there’s a problem. It’s also about how to read a woman’s signals, and how to recover when you blow it.

      This all might sound like some kind of fantasy or something, but I’m here to tell you that you can actually master these abilities with women – so that you neverhave to feel like you’re the one being “trained,” your girlfriend is always hot and attracted to you like a fly to honey, and you never need to worry about her leaving you for some other guy.

      You Don’t Want To Be “Chained” – Instead Let Her Be Trained…

      You don’t really want a “relationship.”

      You want a LIFESTYLE.

      And that’s where I come in.

      I’ll show you the unconventional path that lets you work less and get more from the women in your life (lots more). If you’ve already got a girlfriend, you’ll take what you have and push it through to levels you’ve only dreamed of ‘til now. And that’s not fluff – I’ve done it for just about any kind of guy out there.

      If you don’t have a girlfriend yet – you will discover how to choose the best possible woman for you – and start it right so that the attraction never burns out.

      Because the best solution is to…

      “Train” Her Right From The Start And Take The Power Back Into YOUR Hands…

      Look, I often talk about this process of starting and keeping things going with your girlfriend as being like “girlfriend training.” I realize this can be shocking for some guys to hear, so I want to explain that it’s not negative or derogatory in any way. It’s simply a fact of life.

      What I’m talking about is that training your girlfriend is just an educational process. You get to discover how women work, and she gets to learn how YOU work…

      …and more importantly, she learns how to respect and admire you as a MAN.

      Without those two elements of respect and admiration, she’s going to always want something else.

      SOMEONE else.

      Now…

      Most Guys Don’t Realize This Truth About Women – And Then They LOSE Every Time…

      Ask any woman and she will confirm it: Women are always “in the game.”

      She’s always got a guy (or two) on the line that she can go out with on a moment’s notice. She may or may not be interested in him, but she’s got her ‘orbiters’ waiting for a chance to take her out.

      You know that woman you just met and got her phone number? Maybe you even have a date setup?

      I hate to tell you this, but she’s seeing her “other guys” right now, too. You probably think she’s this sweet, lonely girl who sits home and watches cable in her fuzzy pajamas, but she’s not. She’s screening several guys at once.

      You’re just another contestant on the “Who Gets Her?” game show, friend.

      So you have to be ON your game when you want to make her your girlfriend – because options are waiting for her. THAT is why women can be so interested one minute and then totally flake out and disappear on you the next. She’s just exercising her options.

      And you got eliminated.

      The truth is that everything starts with knowing fire things up with a woman – to make her your girlfriend. To get the attraction going, and get her interested in you, to the point where she finds you hypnotically sexy – she’s completely turned on around you, and always looking forward to you asking her out again and again.

      And if you don’t get it started up right with her, you’re going to get this:

      How To Avoid The 4 Most Painful Words A Woman Can Say…

      She’ll go out with you for a date that you spent a butt-load of time planning and arranging, only to have her tell you (after you ate out at that expensive restaurant, of course):

      “Let’s just be friends…”

      Ever heard a woman say that? It’s like being punched in the stomach with a bowling ball.

      The hell with that! You don’t want “just friends” – you want freaky passionate sexy fun.

      But she’s really hot, so you think: “Hmmm… Friends is better than nothing, I guess.”

      So you go along with it, hoping to sneak in the back door and prove to her she should be your girlfriend. Only she keeps pushing you further and further away, until you’re just another person she complains to about how there’s “no good men out there.”

      WTF?

      “What about ME???” you want to scream at her.

      Guys get sucked into this trap with women all the time, and it’s about as fun as five hours in the dentist’s chair getting your teeth pulled out. I’m going to show you how to avoid this disaster in just a second.

      But there is one situation that’s worse, and this one happens a lot more than we want to admit. Let’s say you manage to avoid the friends-only zone with her and you get her to date you…

      WARNING: Your Girlfriend Will Lose Interest In You Until She Either Dumps You Or Cheats On You – UNLESS…

      It doesn’t start out this way, of course. It’s always seems great in the beginning.

      You’re hot for her & she’s hot for you. You just can’t keep your hands off each other.

      But then you call her up one day and she tells you she’s feeling a little “under the weather.” Maybe she’s got a “friend” visiting her from out of town.

      Whatever the excuse is, and a lot of times the reason is even true, she purposely let that reason get in the way of YOU, my friend. And when you’re not a priority to her, you’re in deep trouble.

      And then things never seem to recover after that.

      She eventually either pushes you away so hard that you have to break up with her, or eventually she dumps you.

      I know this sounds harsh, but it’s a pattern that goes on ALL the time with men and women.

      This Is How You’ll Be Eliminated…

      The pattern goes like this:

      1. You start out hot and heavy, and everything seems great. You’re both excited and attracted to each other. This is when it feels great to be around her. Time flies by and you wish you could just be with her all the time.
      2. Then something changes… All of a sudden, when you hang out she isn’t as bubbly or fun anymore. You feel her cool off. She’s just not as “into it” as she once was.
      3. She stops being interested in your life and what’s going on with you…
      4. The sex slows down, or even disappears completely…
      5. She cools off and stops calling you. You wind up being the one doing all the work to try to make her happy – but nothing works…
      6. She gets annoyed with you more easily and makes excuses to not see you…

      What usually happens at this point is that you become worried and paranoid of losing her. Then you try harder and harder to win her back.

      And you know what she does next?

      She pushes you away even harder. You know you’re caught up in a losing battle, sliding down the hill faster and faster – but you just want to save things and keep her as your girlfriend.

      And Then It Turns Into A NIGHTMARE…

      • She starts flirting with other guys…
      • She starts disrespecting you…
      • She starts getting more bitchy, criticizing, and controlling…

      And if you don’t break it off with her by now, the worst thing in the world happens: She cheats on you…

      …or finally she just dumps you.

      It doesn’t matter if she’s someone you just met, or your new girlfriend, or the woman you’ve been with for 5 years, or the woman you’re married to.

      Women let you think that you won them, then they will start losing interest in you the minute you start ACTING like you’ve won her.

      You should read that last sentence again. It’s critical.

      The fact of the situation is that…

      Women Get Away With This Because Most Guys LET Them!

      It’s not because we’re aren’t good guys. It’s because we just don’t know how to stop the slippery slide down the hill once it starts.

      The reason women go through this pattern with men – almost the exact same way each time – is because she’s expecting YOU to set the boundaries of the relationship for her so she knows where “out of bounds” is. (There’s an art to this, and I’m going to explain how it works in a minute.)

      Ultimately, we all train other people how to treat us. They learn how to manipulate and control us, and then they lose all respect for us.

      It’s not like this all the time with your friends, but it happens ALL THE TIME with girlfriends.

      One of the biggest tests a woman gives is to give you enough rope to see if you’ll really hang yourself. And – unfortunately – most guys do. I’ve got scars from it… I suspect you might, too.

      So if women are training men like this, how can you expect to win?

      It All Comes Down To THIS Attraction On Autopilot:

      The secret is knowing the secrets to the Three Girlfriend Skills:

      Secret 1) Select.

      You have to choose a girlfriend well, or no amount of skills can help you if you get in over your head. You have to know the important things that she must have to be your girlfriend, and you better know what red flags and qualities you do NOT want.

      Secret 2) Startup.

      You have to know how to take it from casually dating a woman to turn her into your girlfriend. Most romances just fade and fizzle out – and if you don’t know what to do to take it from just “seeing her” to make her your girlfriend – you’re just going to lose another one.

      Secret 3) Sustain.

      Once you’ve got her, you have to know what to do to KEEP her attracted and interested in you. You already know what happens when you don’t know how to sustain it.

      The big secret is that women are attracted to a set of specific emotional triggers and hot-buttons that men can find and push. They actually want you to push them so that they know you can “unlock” her heart. These are the things that sustain the attraction.

      And the opposite is also true: There are a set of specific behaviors that men do that completely DESTROY a woman’s attraction for him.

      Statistically speaking – and from my experience in coaching men of all ages and in all backgrounds, it’s very likely you are doing these attraction destroyers.Unintentionally, but doing them anyway – and driving women away.

      It’s not your fault; it’s just that women are not good at communicating what they really want from men.

      Maybe you’re not getting dumped, but instead…

      What If You’re Just Trying To Find A QUALITY Girlfriend?

      There’s also the other side of the coin – maybe you’re trying to find a woman that’s WORTH staying with, and you end up having to break up and keep looking – over and over again.

      Well, most of this problem, as well as the problem of keeping a girlfriend, comes back around to those same hot-buttons for attraction. You can actually inspire a woman to be on her best behavior with you – and rise up to your standards, instead of becoming a nagging drama queen.

      Most of being successful with women is knowing what qualities to look for, and how to deal with every kind of woman you meet along the way. Some you can have as “play” girlfriends, and some women you might want for long-term girlfriends or more.

      But if you don’t know how to understand women’s psychology and choose well right from the very start, you’re in for a rough ride.

      There are also a TON of “Red Flags” you need to watch out for – warning signs that a woman is bad news. Missing those clues could leave you rocketing off the edge of a very tall cliff.

      Don’t forget that when you do meet a high-quality woman, you need to know how to keep her interested in you. These quality women are harder to find – and they respond to very different behaviors than the women you meet in some bar before closing time.

      You gotta be her “Mr. Right” – right from the very start.

      And you have to realize:

      95% Of Men Will Never Discover These Secrets About Women

      Women are different than men. (I know, that’s obvious…)

      And unless you understand how they work, you will probably meet the same horrible fate as millions and millions of men do every year: painful breakups, divorce, or cheating that you might not find out about for months or years. And unlike women, these tragic situations leave men emotionally scarred and afraid of risking their hearts again with women.

      Look, let’s be real here: Women are a complete mystery to most men.

      • They’re emotional…
      • They’re irrational…
      • They say one thing, mean another – and then do something completely different…
      • They want what they can’t have…
      • They run hot and cold on you for no reason at all, or get mad at you for the slightest thing…

      They don’t work like guys. Women are complex and crazy. I like to think they’re fun, too, but when you’re in the agony of losing your girlfriend, that’s just not on your mind. You just want to know how to keep her attracted to you.

      But here’s the part you really need to know:

      Women are understandable, and your girlfriend can be handled so that you avoid the pain and the drama.

      Remember: Women work on an “emotional logic.”

      This emotional logic is predictable, and you can use it to keep your girlfriend happy, attracted to you, and ONLY you.

      OR you can keep falling into bad romance after bad romance because you’re not using it to your advantage.

      After all…

      You Don’t Need Another Lame Relationship Self-Help Book

      So you’ve put all that energy into going out and meeting women, approaching women, getting phone numbers, going out on dates. Hours and hours learning how to attract women the right way.

      Now why would you let all that effort and pain go to waste by letting it crumble away beneath you?

      Well the answer is: If you knew how, you wouldn’t let that happen.

      Most relationship self-help books are written for women. And usually she gets one of these to “fix” her unhappiness and discontent. Your girl might read it and hope you’ll be interested and want to read it with her, but that’s not the way guys are.

      We just need a simple guide to understanding women and female psychology.

      Because the reality is that:

      Keeping A Girlfriend Is Not The Same As Seducing Her – Or Working “Pickup” On Her…

      The fact is that the skills you need to “pickup” a woman or seduce her will not help you keep her as your girlfriend. The one thing most guys might not admit – but they long for – is that they actually want a girlfriend. We don’t want to go out every weekend to noisy bars hoping to “pick up” some girl who we will probablynever see again.

      – We want to have someone we can sit home and watch movies with…

      – We want a girlfriend to go out and have fun with…

      – We want someone to have some amazing intimate “adventures” in the bedroom with…

      – We want a woman who will accept us for who we are…

      – We want a girlfriend who will support us and lift us up…

      Just trying to get ONE girlfriend is hard enough. Trying to find a new girlfriend every few weeks just becomes tiring after a while.

      Wait… Who am I kidding?

      It’s downright EXHAUSTING to try and find a new girlfriend.

      So these “seduction” skills won’t help you when you need to keep her interested and attracted to you as your girlfriend. And they also won’t stop her from straying if you don’t pay attention and “train her” correctly. Now, when I say “train her” I really mean “educate her,” right? We men have to show her how we want to be treated.

      Tell me if this sounds familiar:

      You meet a woman, and you get her phone number. You get a date, and maybe you go out a few times, but you can’t get anywhere with her.

      OR

      You go out on a date or two with her, but she winds up telling you she wants to “just be friends.”

      OR

      Maybe you’ve had girlfriends before – and they all seem to end the same way: You feel that sinking fear in your stomach that she’s starting to lose interest in you. She becomes more disapproving every day, and the attraction fades out and dies…

      OR

      Your current girlfriend is starting to take over the relationship, and now you’re on a wild ride down some rapids that will probably dump you out of the raft and have you swimming for your life…

      You don’t need a crystal ball to see what’s coming, right?

      You just want your girl back. The way things were at the start.

      You want control back.

      And you want to stop feeling like you’re about to go over the waterfalls in a barrel…

      All you want is a girlfriend that you can:

      • Attract – right from the start…
      • Turn her into your girlfriend without all the flaking and games…
      • Keep her attracted to you and addicted to being with you…
      • Keep her respecting you and admiring you…
      • Keep the sex fun, exciting, and frequent
      • Get rid of all the emotional drama – and you “wear the pants”…
      • And never fear losing her to another man…

      Now this next part is going to shock you:

      Here Is An Ugly Truth That Women Don’t Want You To Know About…

      Most guys don’t know this, but it’s a fact: Women cheat as much as men do.

      If you listen to all the urban myths out there, they would have you believe that men are the dogs, always cheating on women, right? Well the fact is that not only do women cheat, but women cheat on men as much as – if not more than – men do.

      And it’s increasing every year. More and more women are seeking the comfort and warmth of another man – someone that is NOT her boyfriend. Chances are that he won’t ever find out about it, even after she breaks up with him.

      Why is this?

      The simple fact is that women can hide their dirty secrets much better than men can. And women are quick to tell others when men cheat ON them. But men almost never reveal the embarrassing, humiliating truth when it happens TO them. After all, having your woman two-time you is the most painful thing that can happen to a guy.

      Here’s another ugly truth: As many as 1 in 25 (and possibly as high as 1 in 10) of all children are NOT the biological child of the “father.”

      That’s right.

      As many as 4 – 10% of all men are unknowingly raising another man’s child.

      “…researchers in Liverpool found that rates of cases where a man was not the biological father of his child ranged … to as much as 30%.*

      I don’t know if I believe that it’s quite as high as 30%, but even 1 in 10 is way too high of a chance to take. I know you don’t want to be a “duped dad” and fall into this trap – and the good news is that it never has to happen to you.

      I’m going to tell you something you need to know:

      I’ve Got “Insider” Info On Why Your Woman Will Cheat On You Or Dump You For Some Other Guy…

      I’m going to reveal to you something that I’m not proud of. But it’s something you should know about, and it’s why I’m warning you about this situation.

      Over the 20+ years of dating I’ve experienced, I’ve also had a few flings with women that already had boyfriends. And one or two that were … shhh… married.

      Hey, I’m not proud of that. It’s not cool to do what I did, and I learned my lesson. I also don’t condone that guys do this, either.

      In my defense, though, many of these women didn’t even tell me they had a boyfriend (or hubby) until after we started seeing each other.

      So I’m here to tell you from EXPERIENCE why it is that women cheat on their boyfriends and husbands. I’ve laid next to them in bed as they talk about their “loser boyfriends” (her words, not mine) and why it is she actually enjoyed sneaking around on him like this.

      Not all women will cheat on you. Some women will simply have the decency to break up with you first.

      But…

      She Was Taking A “Test Drive” On The Side Before She Traded You In For Her Next “Ride…”

      I learned from a great many women that months before she actually breaks up with a guy, she’s already over him in her head – and in her heart. And very often they’ve already lined up the next guy.

      So she’s got an emotional life raft. What have you got?

      The really amazing thing was when these women told me that it would never have come to this point if the guys had just seen the signs and taken action just a little bit sooner. Women are unfaithful only because she wants more from her boyfriend or husband than she’s getting.

      (I’m going to show you what those signs are, by the way. Because if you don’t know how to spot the signals when they show up, you’re as good as dead.)

      YES: You Can Have Your “Sex Kitten”

      Every guy wants a woman that he can enjoy in the bedroom, and have her practically tearing his clothes off for sex on a regular basis.

      Women are instinctively programmed to respond to certain sexual triggers, too. The problem is that they are NOT the same as the ones that you respond to.

      Women will eventually lose interest in sex with you… unless you know what steps to take to prevent it. Fortunately it’s easy to keep the intimacy alive and make sure your sex life is still electric and hot.

      When you give a woman the right environment within your relationship, she will simply want sex more than you do. She will crave you, and become almostaddicted to the pleasure of sleeping with you.

      She will be the woman who says “YES” to you all the time – instead of “no.”

      By now, I’m sure you want to know what this is all about, right?

      Introducing: “The Girlfriend Training Program”

      After years of learning the art of attraction with women, back in 2002 I released my first book on the subject: The Dating Black Book. I wanted this book to help guys become successful with women and dating.

      And for the last 9 YEARS, I’ve been working on all the tips for this program I’ve just completed: The Girlfriend Training Program. It’s a “stealth” dating program that puts you back in the driver’s seat of your relationships with women.

      This is the pinnacle of my teachings, because it takes all the attraction tips, tactics, and techniques that you’ve used so far to get things started with a woman and focuses them like a laser beam on the goal of being able to actually KEEP any woman interested in you.

      For a night, or for a lifetime, it will now be up to you what happens with her. For the short and long-term.

      Finally, you can know all the secret strategies that the guys with beautiful, desirable wives know about. These guys know that their women are hot properties and if they drop the ball for one second, she’s got options lined up around the block. These guys have a skill for keeping their women trained to feel attraction for him – 24 hours a day/7 days a week.

      And in case you’re thinking it’s because he’s either A) rich, B) good looking, or C) kisses her ass to win her approval – NO, that’s not it at all.

      This program was also shaped by the questions and suggestions from over 10,000 guys just like you. I took the most common questions, and The Girlfriend Training Program will give you these secrets:

      • How To Keep Your Girlfriend Attracted To You And Into You
      • Show you how to understand a woman’s thinking and “emotional” nature
      • Understand all the different types of women – and how you deal with them
      • Know how to make a woman happy
      • The secrets for how to start a relationship up with a woman the right way
      • What to look for in a girlfriend – and what to avoid!
      • How to make sure she never cheats on you
      • How to handle any arguments or conflicts so that you never lose or feel emasculated
      • How to save your girlfriend if you start feeling her slip away
      • How to break up with your girlfriend without guilt or pain
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      You’ll get over 9 hours of video where I will explain and show you all the secrets of how to take any woman in your life right now and transform her into your girlfriend…

      • Discover the one principle that most men never understand, and as a result they end up feeling confused and uncertain with women for most of their lives…
      • There are a lot of myths and mistakes in a lot of the “self-help” books on the bookshelves today. I’ll explain why these books are damaging and almost catastrophic to men who want to learn how to understand their girlfriends – so you can avoid the traps…
      • It’s a well-documented fact that women initiate over two thirds of all divorces – and those statistics are even scarier for breakups in dating. You’ll uncover WHY this happens, and how you can avoid it from ever happening to you…
      • Having a girlfriend can be a blessing or a curse – and I’ll show you why you want one (or don’t want one)…
      • Why men have a tougher time being “in a relationship” than women do – and why men are usually the ones that are much more devastated when the woman breaks up with him…
      • The reality of “Love” – I’ll explain the real reason we fall in love and become addicted to love – so you can use this understanding to get women to fall for YOU (instead of it always being the other way around…)
      • Ever been “addicted to love”? Well I’m going to help you stop falling for women you shouldn’t, too…
      • The deadliest romantic illusion of all, and most everyone you know – even yourself – probably believes this one. I’ll show you exactly how to bust this one and wake up from the dream that scares off more girlfriends than you can imagine…
      • One of the biggest mistakes that men make with women that virtually guarantees she will never want to be your girlfriend – and it’s so obvious that most guys miss it all the time and destroy their chances…
      • The complete three-step method that virtually guarantees that you will avoid 90% of the drama and tension and conflict in a relationship…
      • Why punishing a woman never really works, and often seals your doom with her instead – and the alternative that ensures you get what you want from your woman without any pain…
      • A drop-dead simple exercise that takes only five minutes that will illuminate the reasons why you may have been struggling to find a woman and keep her attracted to you…
      • You’ll discover the best way to figure out which woman will meet your criteria for a girlfriend – and which ones you’ll want to keep long-term, and avoid the pain of making a poor choice in character that will haunt you down the road…
      • Six CRITICAL traits you must screen for in the women you date or you will never be completely happy with your girlfriend – and the ONE mistake that can either make or break your happiness with a woman…
      • The eight indicators to look out for that this woman should be avoided at all costs! These are traits that men miss all the time and wind up in the “hurt locker” because of it. You’ll be able to spot them in advance and avoid them…
      • The five essential compatibility elements that a man needs in his girlfriend. Without them, you’ll always be looking for someone else – and with them you’ll have the best foundation for peace and joy with a woman…
      • The eight types of women to watch out for that will drown you in misery…
      • The 26 Red Flags – the tell-tale signals that a woman has the potential to go sour on you. I’ll explain them all and what you need to watch out for – as well as why these Red Flags are deadly… (Number 9 is one that men miss all the time and wind up with a battle-axe…)
      • The ONE critical trait you must put at the top of your list to ensure that you get a happy and enjoyable woman in your life. If you don’t get this one, it simply will NOT work for you…
      • My 6-step screening process that you can use on any woman to filter out the good from the bad in half the time and effort…
      • I’ve had a couple long-distance relationships in my past. I’m going to show you the truth about long-distance relationships – and why most of them do not succeed. BUT I’ll also explain the 3-step plan for how you can make this arrangement work for you…
      • The 5 Killer Myths that keep men from succeeding with their girlfriends. I’ll blow these wide open and save you years of heartbreak with women simply by avoiding these traps…
      • Have you ever been so obsessed with a woman that you just couldn’t stop thinking about her? To the point where it actually probably helped scare her off? I’ll show you how to avoid this kind of destructive “one-itis” and still be able to win her over…
      • There’s one thing that guys misunderstand about how to start a relationship with a woman, and I’ll expose this one for you – because it’s the one thing you may have been avoiding in your dating that has actually put you into the “friend’s zone…”
      • 11 Milestones with your girlfriend that you should watch for so you know when you’re making progress (or SHE is making progress!)
      • I’ve got an 8-step plan for you to transition a woman from just casually dating into making her your girlfriend, and I’ll teach you all of them – as well as the three things every man has to do to never be caught off guard by his girlfriend ever again…
      • There are 7 critical girlfriend skills that every man must have – and very few actually know what they are (which is why so many guys have problems keeping a woman happy.) I’ll explain these skills to you, along with which one is most important to your happiness (and hers)…
      • Handling the “L Word”: There are some rules about how it should be used – because most guys use it too often, in the wrong way, and for the wrong reasons. I’ll explain exactly how to avoid the big mistakes when love comes into the picture…
      • The one emotional control signal that women are looking for before they will become your girlfriend – and how it works to keep her interested and attracted by you for good…
      • There are six kinds of problems you’ll typically have with women. I’ll explain each one of them and how you handle them so that you never have to worry about “land mines” catching you off guard…
      • One of the biggest of the six problems is money – and you need to have this one firmly under your control. I’ll give you four ways to ensure you don’t wind up with a gold-digger that uses you up and throws you away…
      • How to handle any bad behavior from a woman so that you a) don’t seem like a jerk, and b) stop it before it becomes a real problem…
      • Worried that your girlfriend might be thinking of leaving? I will give you four warning signs that she’s getting ready to check out so that you don’t get dumped unexpectedly…
      • BONUS: Cheat Proof Your Relationship – In this section, you’ll discover the 8 Primary Reasons women cheat – and exactly how to avoid this kind of devastating heartbreak…
      • Cheating! Why she does it, how to handle it, and how to avoid it from EVER happening to you. After you finish this section of the program, you’ll never have to worry about a woman stepping out on you and you’ll completely cheat-proof your relationship…
      • Trust is one of the essential ingredients your girlfriend needs. Without it, you can’t hope to keep her. I’ll show you how to create it by making sure you pass all her tests along the way. She will definitely test you – and I’ll explain the 5 most common tests, along with how you handle all tests a woman gives you…
      • Testing isn’t just for women. I’ll give you my 3 solid gold techniques for how to test your girlfriend to make sure you’re getting a reliable and trustable woman…
      • Keeping her addicted to you is the core of what I teach, and I’m going to share 12 simple secrets for keeping your girlfriend attracted and downright addicted to you so that she never disrespects you or leaves you for some other guy – AND you will avoid all the trust and jealousy issues you see other couples having…
      • The principle part of keeping a woman attracted and interested in you is making her obsessed with you so that there is no way she would even consider another man. I’ll show you my 9 step technique that is so controversial I can’t name it here – but you won’t believe how powerful and effective this is for keeping a woman completely passionate about you…
      • Familiarity kills attraction. You’ll discover 4 ways to keep her from feeling like she knows you “too well” and stops her from ever being bored with you…
      • The one thing you can never show a woman in your behavior. If you do, she tests you more, pushes your buttons more, and eventually leaves. If you keep this under control, you will not only maintain her trust, but she will never want to leave you…
      • 8 Ways to keep your girlfriend into you – including my “joker card” technique for never being caught off-guard with a woman ever again. It’s just like a “get out of jail free” card for you…
      • COMPETITION! How do you handle other guys? I’ll show you how to completely destroy this problem and never have to worry about other guys stealing your woman away from you…
      • How to read a woman’s heart and mind before she pulls something crazy on you: There are four critical signals you must watch for with a woman. If you miss these, you’ll wind up in one of those embarrassing and painful episodes with your girlfriend that you wish you could have avoided. Now you can!
      • How to handle and manage your girlfriend’s family and friends so that they don’t drive you nuts – and they don’t wind up managing YOU. Get on their good side – and have her friends defending her FOR you when you’re not around…
      • 9 Losing Strategies that turn women off and will guarantee that your girlfriend will lose interest in you – and how you can avoid making these mistakes yourself…
      • The Big “C” Word: Communication! You hear about it all the time, but no one seems to know what this means for a guy who wants to keep his girlfriend happy. I’ll explain completely how you communicate with women effectively, including: What to talk about, what to NEVER talk about, when to talk about it, and how women communicate…
      • How to know when your girlfriend is lying to you…
      • It’s been shown that after an argument, women often feel much less attraction to their boyfriends. I will give you a complete strategy on how to handle conflicts and arguments so that the issue gets resolved once and for all (no repeat attacks!), your woman feels even more attracted to you than before, and you remove all the drama from your life…
      • The 7 Rules of how to handle disagreement with women so that you never trigger her anger – and you still get the great make-up sex after…
      • The “M” word: Marriage. Do you want it? SHOULD you want it? I’ll explain everything you need to know if you’re considering moving in or taking your girlfriend to the next level. I’ll also show you the 9 reasons you never want to marry a woman – and the 6 signs that a woman is settling for you rather than slavishly desiring you… (And that’s what you want – desire!)
      • Keeping the sex hot! You have a right to a fulfilling sex life with your girlfriend that lives up to your fantasies, and I’ll show you why it slows down, why women hold back on sex, and how to make her come to you begging for more…
      • All the “relationship” self-help authors tell you that you need to have compatibility – and it seems obvious that you need her to be a good match for you. BUT I’ll reveal the one critical element of “compatibility” that you really need – and how the gurus have this one all wrong…
      • Have you ever been with a girl where things just needed to be rejuvenated and kicked back into exciting again? I’ll show you my simple 3 step plan that you can use in any situation to light the fire again – including the 3 essential tactics that win her back over…
      • 7 Simple Steps to change a nagging girlfriend back into a gentle, purring pussycat that respects and loves you unconditionally…
      • The 10 Relationship Killers – how to spot them before they torpedo what you’ve got with your girlfriend…
      • Guys hate breakups. Unfortunately, it’s because women are the ones who usually initiate them. You’re going to discover how to read the signs, and if you need to, execute an easy 3-step process to get yourself out of a losing relationship so that you leave with your dignity and self-esteem intact!

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      • Got a girlfriend you just can’t seem to get over? Years back I discovered a simple 3-step system for getting her out of your head – and your heart. I’ll expose this technique for the first time here, and also show you how to never feel jealous about her – or any other women – ever again…
      • Guide To Understanding Women – And Female Psychology – a complete map to your girlfriend’s brain:
        • I’ll reveal 5 simple methods for figuring out what kind of a woman she is, and how to respond to her. You’ll also discover which woman is the most compatible with you…
        • 9 out of 10 women are insecure about this ONE area of their lives. If you know how to handle it, you’ll avoid 90% of the chaos and emotional storms with your girlfriend. I’ve used this for years, and it’s my Golden Trick that always works on women…
        • Discover the 5 Stages Of Breakdown: There are five crystal-clear stages to any relationship with a woman. I’ll show you how to identify each, and what to do if you find yourself in any of them so that you never lose your girlfriend because you missed the road signs…
        • What women want from men – the SIX essential behaviors she’s looking for from you – and how you reveal them so that she never questions your Alpha status – and NEVER thinks about “trading up.”
        • The 3 essential Girlfriend Strategies of the Alpha Man – How to stay in control in the dominant role – and always “wear the pants…”
        • Watching your girlfriend’s body language is absolutely critical for predicting her moods and knowing where you stand. I’ll reveal the 19 negative body language signs – and the 12 positive indications so that you know what she’s thinking…
        • What’s wrong with her now…?” In this special section, I’ll disclose the 4 reasons your girlfriend is acting weird – and why, so that you can know exactly how to react and manage the situation…
        • The Wild Card – How to handle any random mood swing in a woman so that you’re never confused and you never lose control again…
        • 18 signs that she’s checking out – or about to leave the relationship – from the earliest stage to the end so that you know where you are and how to save it (or leave)…
        • 5 Steps to spot women’s inner emotional signals…
        • So you want to win her back? If you don’t want to move on, and this girlfriend is worth saving, I’ll show you how to do it in this simple 4-Step Plan…
        • And much MUCH more…

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      • BONUS: How to choose women wisely – In this bonus from David Shade, you’ll learn:
        • Why your previous relationships with women went like they did and how to make your future girlfriends truly successful and exciting…
        • The critical factor in whether or not you’ll be able to keep your girlfriend or not…
        • Why women bring drama into your life, and how to keep it out for good…
        • How to spot and target women that will make you happy instead of drain your soul and leave you in despair…
        • How “respect” gets confused with “nice” – and how to know which one to give her…
        • The 9 traits of the confident man that a woman is looking for from you – and the 6 negative “jerk” traits that you must avoid…
        • Discover the intense sexual feelings a woman is looking for – and that she will always crave from you…
        • How “jerks” create “drama queens” – and how you give her just the right amount of attention and excitement to keep things balanced just right…
        • Three simple tests to see if your girlfriend – or the woman you just met – is worth your time and attention. This priceless technique is like having a crystal ball and seeing the future with her – and knowing if it will work out or not…
        • And much MUCH more…

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      • BONUS: How To Keep Your Girlfriend Sexually Entranced – Sex Secrets from David Van Arrick – where we reveal:
        • What a woman is thinking when you meet her – and how she projects on you to figure out if you’re the one she wants or not…
        • The secret of the “2 Checklists” – how we create or destroy sexual chemistry – and how you can make her “hyper-responsive” to you and accelerate the passion…
        • The “Oxytocin” secret that most men don’t know creates the three “fetishes” of love, arousal, and addiction…
        • How the “Rule of Three” worksto create an inner obsession and addiction to you within a woman…
        • How you can use “sexual reciprocity” to keep her happily satisfying your sexual needs – all while keeping her happy with you…
        • The big mistake of sex that most guys miss – and it’s something that guys work on too hard. You’ll be able to relax and not worry about “performing” for her anymore, stop wasting energy on stuff that doesn’t work, and make her happy in bed…
        • Four simple “tricks” that will allow you to last at least twice as long in bed with a woman and prolong your girlfriend’s pleasure as long as you like…
        • How to make her feel ten times as satisfied with sex by a simple tweak of position that gives her the sensation of being “filled” all the way…
        • The secrets of “sexual energy massage” – how it works, and where to touch her – and this is one place you would never have thought was an erotic zone on a woman…
        • Two powerful zones of sensitivity on a woman that – when you find them – will turn her into putty in your hands..
        • And much MUCH more…

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      • BONUS: Forever Attraction – How To Create Deep Connection So That Your Woman Will Never Even Think Of Cheating Or Leaving You With Adam Gilad where we reveal:
        • The one major factor in whether a woman will stay with you or leave – and how to cultivate it with your girlfriend…
        • The critical warning signs to look out for so that you don’t wind up with a woman who disrespects you and bankrupts you – emotionally, spiritually, and financially…
        • Two “small” mistakes with women that you think are harmless but can explode into disaster…
        • Three ways that you can create the kind of relationship with a woman where she will go from feeling “so-so” about you to falling completely in love with you…
        • Ever been pulled into one of THOSE conversations – where she wants to talk about something heavy and important that you aren’t prepared for? We’ll give you one simple strategy that will allow you to avoid a fight when you know you just can’t listen to her…
        • The “Joker” technique – the one simple thing you can do to have your own “get out of jail free” card for any argument or mistake you make with your girlfriend. This one has saved my butt a dozen times, and it’s guaranteed to save yours…
        • And much MUCH more…

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      • BONUS: Cheat-Proof Your Relationship – How To Keep Your Woman Faithful – With Marni Kinrys of WingGirl Method – where we reveal:
        • A woman’s biggest fear when she becomes your girlfriend is to become the “wife” and there won’t be any sexual passion. Marni reveals the specific ways that a man makes her feel safe and faithful to her man – from her real life experience…
        • Why women cheat – the reason that a woman will be unfaithful to you – and how you make sure this never happens to you…
        • The one way women unintentionally lead men on from their “social conditioning” and how to recognize it when it happens…
        • How you can install your own “emotional insurance policy” with your girlfriend that gives her a complete sense of safety around you…
        • Ever had a woman test you?Want to know why it happens and where it comes from? Marni explains why women do this, and a startling fact about testing that you probably never knew…
        • How to turn the mistake of accidentally disregarding your girl’s feelings completely around so she forgives you in seconds – instead of another long, painful argument that leaves you sleeping alone…
        • Ever see your girl struggling with something and you want to step in and help? Hey, it’s what guys do best. But you know that she won’t appreciate the gesture, and she actually will push you away if you do this. Find out how you can get past her defense mechanisms and show her without triggering her anger and withdrawal…
        • How far will a woman go and not consider it cheating? Find out this and much MUCH more in this Master Class with Marni Kinrys…

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      • BONUS: How To Keep Your Woman Hopelessly Attracted To You – With Scot McKay – where we reveal:
        • The Four Big Benefits of having a girlfriend in your life – and how you make it work, without getting tired of her – and she doesn’t get bored or tired of you…
        • The Four Biggest Mistakes guys make in relationships – including the one that most guys miss when it comes to girlfriends…
        • Five Methods to keep a woman into you – and attracted to only you – and handle any of the commotion and turmoil without losing your mind…
        • How to keep things novel and fun in the bedroom without losing interest in her – and the shocking truth about long-term sexual attraction…
        • And much MUCH more…
      • BONUS: How To Build A Better Girlfriend With Mark Cunningham
        • The one trait you want to look for in your girlfriend that will save you 90% of the hassle that most men experience in their relationships…
        • Discover the foundation of the hypnotic techniques Mark uses with his patients to overcome self-limiting behaviors and negative thinking…
        • Mark will show you the flawed social programming we guys share that keeps us from meeting exceptional women, and getting the success we deserve…
        • How to create a natural “trance state” with women that allows her to lower her defenses and trust herself Bonus boxto you – without any kind of tricks or hypnosis…
        • The truth about the “Primary” – how a guy can be assured that his woman will only love him and never have room for anyone else…
        • The critical principle of how to create lasting change in your life – so that it sticks with you and you don’t fall back into old habits…
        • A simple technique to condition your girlfriend to feel warm and soothed by your voice and presence – and practically guarantee she will walk through fire to return the favor back to you…
        • And much MUCH more…
      • BONUS: Zero Drama Dating – How To Avoid The Nonsense And B.S. With Women, For Good! – With Lance Mason
        • The 3 quick and easy things you must “plug in” to your girlfriend to go further with her than she has ever gone with another man, and earn her undying – and almost SLAVISH – devotion…
        • The “Unreasonable Expectation” technique to create a really amazing girlfriend – so that she will not only appreciate you, but you’ll inspire her to keep earning your attention…
        • An example of playful banter that creates the kind of fun, spontaneous atmosphere that will have a woman giving you “fun times” in bed. (Of the oral variety… Shhh!)
        • The “Bubble” – How to create an intimate zone with your girlfriend where she gets to let down her guard and be a playful little girl with you – so that you not only keep her addicted to you, but you also create a unique Bonus boxfantasy world that she will never want to escape…
        • How to turn any small annoyance or negative thing about your girlfriend into something fun – and correct her behavior at the same time…
        • Three simple questions that – if you answer them – will give you complete ownership and control of your relationship – and make your girlfriend euphoric in the process…
        • The “Reset the Chess Board” strategy for resolving conflicts and issues, and getting everything with your girlfriend back on track again…
        • And much MUCH more…
        • The 3 essential elements to lasting success in bed with any woman – so that you don’t turn into some “replaceable” element in her sex life…
        • How men create more problems for themselves than really exist – and how to avoid the one big mistake of sexual trust…
        • A complete 10 Step Plan to ensure a woman has an orgasm with you (that can’t be faked) and you satisfy her both physically and emotionally in bed every time – from start to finish…One unbelievably simple technique that requires almost NO motion from you, but will yield a huge zone of intense pleasure for a woman – and you!
        • When it comes to stimulating a woman, there’s one area that men get wrong than any other – and it can immediately end the sex for you. Alex reveals this mistake, and how to never make this error…One of the biggest mistakes a man can make in bed is being too tentative and hesitant with a woman.

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      Single Man:

      Have you ever been in that moment with a woman where you KNOW you should make a move – like hold her hand or kiss her – and the time is right… but you back down and chicken out at the last second?

      Do you:

      • … feel frustrated with how you’re dating women – being stuck on HER sexual timetable?
      • … feel like you’re in a state of sexual “limbo” – unable to connect with women and get them into the bedroom?
      • … feel like you lack the sexual POWER to choose the kind of woman you want for a girlfriend? That all the women you want are “out of your league,” and you’re going to have to settle for less if you want to get any sex?
      • … feel like you’re trapped in a “negative loop” – unable to break out of your anxious thoughts long enough to feel comfortable and sexually confident around women?

      Do you want to know how to date girls like this? Keep reading to find out…

      Look, let’s cut to the chase… You’re sexually frustrated.

      You want to get laid. You probably even want a girlfriend and not just a one night stand. (But hey, either one would do…)

      You see all those guys around you either using some kind of fake banter or clever tricks to get women, but you’ve either tried it and couldn’t pull it off, or it’s just not you and you don’t even want to bother with it.

      And as pissed off and frustrated as you might be, you don’t want to be a manipulative jerk or deceptive just to attract a woman.

      You’ve got some standards, and that’s important.

      BUT this situation is getting old, and you really need some results – FAST!

      Dating Coach For Guys…Carlos Xuma

      But There Are LOTS Of Places You Can Make Mistakes That Scare Women Off…

      There are a lot of steps between first meeting a woman and getting physical with her.

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      To get her into bed, you’ll need to know the roadmap of sexual escalation…
      • First you gotta think of something cool to say to walk up and approach her, and you risk getting rejected even IF you manage to work up the balls to do it. (Let’s face it – most of the time it’s more comfortable not to bother and just avoid the risk of getting shot down…)
      • IF you’re not shot down, then you have to try to get her interested in you with some witty conversation and banter…
      • And IF you can get her attracted and interested, that’s still no guarantee you’ll get her phone number
      • And most of the time, it’s either a bad number, or she never answers… (Even when you think you got things started GREAT with her.)
      • And IF you do call her and talk to her, how do you get that first date…?
      • And then how do you make sure she doesn’t flake out on you…?
      • Wait, what about getting the second date…?
      • What do you do to get a kiss?
      • And then what about getting more physically intimate with her…?

      But here’s the worst part: If you mess up on any of these small steps – GAME OVER! You gotta go all the way back to the end of the line, and you have to start the whole process all over again.

      And what about sex?

      Tthe most important thing to know about all these steps from approaching a woman to dating her – to sleeping with her – is this: There is ONE absolutely critical attraction element you must have to get women to go ‘all the way’ with you. Most so-called “modern men” are missing it.And if you’re missing this one CRITICAL piece of the puzzle, THIS will probably happen to you:

      • She’ll flake out early on or just lose her interest. I call this “Failure to launch” syndrome
      • And even IF you get a date or two, it fizzles out just when you should be getting hot and physical…
      • And even IF you beat the odds and make it to the bedroom, there’s no real fireworks there, and the chemistry dies.

      And when you’re missing this vital piece of the picture, you usually wind up with her telling you she wants to “just be friends.”

      So again, you need this critical ingredient in your back pocket or nothing you do will work right with women. It took me years to identify and find this one critical piece of the puzzle. It’s the “magic bullet” for guys who want to put an end to their sexual frustration once and for all.

      I’m going to reveal here what that critical piece is, but first you need to know…

      What 99 Out Of 100 Guys Don’t Know About “Escalating” With Women…

      Almost none of the guys out there know about this, and it’s why most guys wind up settling for women instead of having a “trophy” on their arm. I’m willing to bet that you’ve experienced the “Flinch.” What is the “Flinch”?

      It’s that point where you shy away from showing your sexual interest in a woman. You know you’ve reached a point where you SHOULD do something to “make a move,” but you don’t.

      Maybe there’s a pause in the conversation where you should ask for her number… and you don’t. Or you call her up to ask her out, but she seems distracted… so you don’t. Or she seems ready for the kiss, and the moment is right… but you don’t.

      You back off or chicken out. You start to lose your sexual confidence.

      Do You Recognize These 5 Early Warning Signs? Ask yourself:

      1. Do you ever hide your sexual desires from women? (Trying to sneak in and be indirect with your interest?)
      2. Are you afraid to touch a woman (even on the arm) on the first date?
      3. Are you afraid of being “caught” admiring a woman’s beauty?
      4. Do you think it’s disrespectful to make a sexual advance on a woman without a very clear invitation from her?
      5. Do you find yourself looking away quickly when making eye contact with women?

      If you can identify with any of those signs, it’s very likely that what I’m about to tell you will completely transform your sexual success with women. Even if you’ve tried other methods in the past and had limited success – or NO success.

      I’ll tell you this: I’ve personally experienced all 5 of those warning signs above at one point or another. And no, it’s not your fault you have trouble getting sexual with women.

      The man’s BIG MISTAKE is this:

      Most Guys Wind Up HIDING Their Sexual Interest In Women…

      This mistake is much much worse than showing too much interest, by the way. Why do guys keep their interest in a woman hidden like this?

      At first I thought it was because we were afraid of ruining things with women. After all, most women can be approached and will talk to you. But when you get ten minutes into a conversation, if you’re faced with possibly taking a risk on her saying NO, you probably won’t take that risk.

      You’ll back off from taking the next step because you don’t want to ruin what you’ve got, right?

      But what I saw underneath it all was a fear. This fear is ruining the ability of most men to get things started with women they’re attracted to. So what I realized was…

      The real reason guys hide their sexual interest in a woman is because they feel sexual PANIC around attractive women.

      And when you feel sexual panic – and she senses it – this KILLS your sexual confidence. The “ONE critical thing” I’ve been talking about – that you need – is this:

       The Secret Is Sexual Confidence…

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      When you have “sexual confidence,” women will feel naturally attracted to you…

      If your sexual confidence gets “turned off” when you’re with a woman, she’ll sense it.

      There’s an old bit of sales wisdom that says that bad salesmen are ‘bad’ simply because they don’t believe enough in the product they’re selling.

      And the BEST salesmen believe they’ve got something fantastic – and every person alive needs to have this product. They’d never let someone walk away without buying it. They’d actually be hurting their prospect if they didn’t convince them to get it.

      You don’t need any clever sales techniques when you REALLY believe in what you’re selling.

      Well, with most guys, their core foundation is unstable and shaky. And they don’t feel like the Prize. They don’t feel confident in their “product.” They can’t escalate and “close the deal.”

      Not only is this true in sales, it’s TWICE as true with women. Your product is YOU, my friend!

      So why don’t you have confidence in your “product”? Why aren’t YOU sexually confident?

      Why Guys Aren’t Getting Sex From Women… Especially the NICE guys

      Because of something I call “fear of pulling the trigger…”Guys spend way too much time hiding their interest in women – because of sexual panic – and not being sexually assertive enough. They flinch instead of moving the game forward. They think they’ve got to approach a woman with kid gloves and be Mr. Nice Guy. Mr. Super Romantic Guy.

      You may have noticed that acting like that doesn’t work, does it? You don’t want to trick her either, so…

      Here’s One Simple Technique To  Make A Woman Sexually Desire You…

      So the guy is moving forward, hoping the woman doesn’t put on the brakes… and the girl is just watching his every move, getting ready to stop him.

      Do you know how to go further – faster – with women?

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      The secret to escalating with women is knowing how to get your sexual power back…

      The Secret is this: Put on the brakes FIRST.

      The best thing you can do to guarantee that you keep moving forward – keep escalating – is just to know when she’s about to put on the brakes, and then you stop her before she stops you.

      This flips a switch in her head – and gets her interested and motivated to KEEP getting more sexually intimate with you – instead of shutting you down.

      You probably thought that this was completely opposite to the way you wanted to handle it, right?

      The male ego says: “Keep going until she stops you!” But if you do this one too many times, you’re cut off for good. If she puts your brakes on more than a few times, she’s going to make one assumption: “He ONLY wants to have sex with me…” Then she puts an end to the fun.

      And even if she was interested in some fun for herself, she’s not going to let the sex happen just because her programming won’t let her sleep with you until you put things back in the right order.

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      WARNING: What You’re About to Read is Information You Will Probably Never Learn From a “Pickup Artist” or “Seducer…”

        From the desk of Carlos Xuma
      Tuesday, 10:35 a.m.
      I’m Carlos Xuma, and I’ve been teaching men how to be more attractive to women for over 10 years. You probably know me from my other dating advice programs, seen me on television, or heard me on the radio.Let me ask you something:

      • Do you ever feel like there’s an endless amount of information on the subject of how to pickup women?
      • Do you ever wish you had a program that showed you how ALL of these techniques and strategies ties together?

      Hang on, because I’m about to show you something that will finally give you the answers you’ve been searching for. I just created what I consider to be the ultimate guide on how to attract women.

      Many years back, I was caught up in a desperate cycle in my life. I wanted to know how to get beautiful women into my life, but I had no idea how to do it. They seemed so strange and hard to understand.Then, after getting so sick and tired of being single and alone (when you reach rock bottom, the only way to go is up), I made it my mission to figure out how to get the women I wanted.

      But I also learned something else: I didn’t just want the women – I wanted the LIFESTYLE that the men who are successful in life enjoy.

      After I figured out the women part of the equation, I found that the same things that made me more interesting and successful with women are the same core skills that make men more successful with:

      • Their friendships and social networks…
      • Their careers…
      • Their finances and wealth…
      • Their family life…
      • Their hobbies and passions…

      THIS IS THE FINISHING TOUCH TO YOUR SOCIAL AND ATTRACTION SKILLS…

      In fact, the more I focused on what I started to call the “Alpha Lifestyle™” skills, the more women seemed to be attracted to me. They were drawn to this “inner fire” I had started inside myself, and it was hypnotic in power.

      I even found that there were a lot of great side effects of developing these skills, like:

      • I lost the “neediness” for women that I’d had most of my life.
      • I found that my peers respected me and admired me like never before.
      • I doubled my income every year for 5 years running, and started an investment plan that gave me financial security.
      • I felt MASSIVELY confident in situations that I could never have imagined before, such as speaking before groups, becoming a Vice-president in a Fortune 500 company, starting my own business, among others.
      • I accomplished 9 out of the 10 long-term goals for my life I had set for myself, including my black belt in a martial art, learning a new language, getting the cool car I always wanted, and so much more.
      • I had as many as four women at a time that I was actively dating…

      Now, before you think I’m going off on some wild spiritual trip, or I’m going to get all new-agey on you, I want you to realize that this was all done by simply starting myself on a path, with no idea which way to go. At first, I just winged it.

      When I got to certain goals, I stopped, made a note in my journal, and went on to the next one.

      I wanted more than just pickup artist skills – I wanted LIFE skills…Along the way, I encountered some incredible mentors and fantastic wisdom that helped guide me much faster to the next goal…And the next goal…And the next.

      Now, it took me a long time to get where I am today, but I kept track of the roadmap I used so that you can get there MUCH faster.

      Are You a Recovering Pickup Manual Junkie?

      If you’re like me, you’ve read a TON of stuff out there on this topic. I got addicted to acquiring more and more information on how to get women.

      I’d buy this program … and that program … and the next one…In fact, you’re probably wondering why the hell we need another program on the subject of attracting women. Hasn’t this all been covered before?

      Nope. Not like this. You know that my programs are unique from anything else out there on the market.

      Look, if you’ve ever been desperate to get a girlfriend, and then you got her, and then you realized that you were bored again and itching for something else, you already know that women are not the solution. But we keep chasing them as if they were the goal.

      It’s not a new woman you need … it’s a new PURPOSE.

      I decided that we have seen enough of the “how to pickup and seduce women” techniques, and instead I’m giving you a complete game plan that is not based solely on how to pickup women. It’s about how to build the kind of lifestyle you’ve always wanted – with YOUR goals, YOUR dreams, and YOUR mission… Because if you do that, the women will follow you.

      There’s no point recycling the same old stuff unless you can get new wisdom and a better way of creating your own confident Alpha Lifestyle™, and that’s what I’ve done in this program.

      If you’ve read all the ebooks, worn out your David D. programs, and learned all the best “dating guru” and “seduction” material, you’re finally ready for a program to pull it all together for you. I’m going to show you how to make sure your life is balanced and complete, inside and out.

      I’m here to help you attain the Alpha Lifestyle™ most guys dream about.

      What I’m about to describe is a lifestyle that 99% of men think is impossible for them to achieve.

      They think it’s the “other guys” who are blessed with the ability to get all the girls, make all the money, and live however they want to. Most men can’t even imagine that they possess this very same ability.

      Yet there is a POWERFUL method that gives ANY man the ability to shape his own destiny and lifestyle. It’s a way to get the RESULTS you want: from women, your career, and your precious time on this earth.

      You can’t afford to not live your life to the fullest.

      I want to congratulate you in advance, because you’re about to join the 1% of men who enjoy a true Alpha Lifestyle™.

      With my new Triple-Threat DVD Series, I’ve created the most advanced, comprehensive system for men who want MORE out of dating…and life.

      So what is the “Triple-Threat“?

      It’s very simple:

      Motivation: Tapping into your inner power source to go after the passions in your life. Finding the hidden reserves of energy and purpose that you’ve always needed to move forward.

      Inner Game: The most elusive of all games that MUST be won if you’re going to have success with women – or anything else in life. How to be confident at doing anything you want to do.

      Outer Game: The outer tactics, techniques, and strategies, you need to use with other people so that they join you in your exciting life.

      These 3 core elements comprise the Alpha Lifestyle™ that I want you to have.

      Imagine:

      • The Alpha Playboy life of a Hugh Hefner, with women that want you for your identity of power and confidence.
      • The “Rock Star” Lifestyle of guys like Kid Rock that gives a man the presence of power that women find magnetic.
      • The Alpha Hollywood Charisma of a Tom Cruise or a Bruce Willis that lasts no matter how old you are.
      • The Power and Persuasiveness of a real “player” like Donald Trump or Stephen Spielberg.
      • The Sexual Prowess and Mystique of a man like George Clooney, the most desired bachelor in the world.

      Get the picture?

      These guys don’t have ANYTHING you don’t have – except the kind of thinking that I will teach you about.

      I’ll also teach you about attaining something that you won’t learn from any “pickup artist” or “seduction guru”:

      BALANCE, HARMONY, and an UNSHAKABLE CORE

      That deep-in-the-soul feeling of being true to yourselfAUTHENTIC in a way that doesn’t feel like “selling out” to get women into your bedroom. You can be yourself AND be attractive to women – no matter how many hours you spend playing on your X-Box 360.

      (Just between you and me, my current girlfriend and I play video games all the time…)

      ALPHA LIFESTYLE™ STRATEGY 1: Overcome this Inner Challenge – “HATER, NOT A PLAYER” Syndrome

      I used to make fun of and scorn the men who achieve great things by putting them down and minimizing them so that I didn’t feel uncomfortable with my own low level of confidence and achievement.

      Do you ever find yourself saying things like this from time to time:

      “Oh, yeah, that guy’s got a lot of money, but only because he’s an asshole. You have to be to get rich.”

      OR

      “He only got that chick because he’s got a hot car…”

      OR

      “All beautiful women are bitches. I don’t even bother with them…”

      I have a saying: “What we want but we think we can’t have, we learn to HATE – or else we’ll always feel inadequate.”

      If you ever catch yourself falling into this negative thought pattern, I encourage you to turn it around right away.

      Let yourself admire men who have channeled their ambitions into great accomplishments. Be happy about their success.

      It’s the only way you can feel good about the success YOU are about to have.

      You can’t simultaneously mock that which you want, or you’ll create something called “cognitive dissonance.” In this program, I’ll show you how to get rid of it and remove this blockade.

      ALPHA LIFESTYLE™ STRATEGY 2:  Overcome Your Laziness: Find Your “Personal Motivator”

      I’m sure you’ve felt motivated at some point in your life, all jazzed up to go after your goals. Maybe it was after hearing a particularly motivating speaker, or seeing a movie that got you dreaming about your future

      But what usually happens after that?

      That’s right, the next day you wake up and it’s still the same old life, and you lose that fire of excitement you had in your belly the day before. It’s the same old job, same old bills, and you deal with the same old family and friends… and everything seems hopeless.

      What if you could keep that juice in your life that you felt when you were motivated and excited…?

      It’s not hard to do. What it requires is that you find what I call your “Personal Motivator.” Very simply put, it’s the personal drive and ambition you MUST find to live the Alpha Lifestyle™.

      And the best thing is that this Motivator is what women find the most attractive, not your wallet or your six-pack abs. Why? Because it shows your level of ambition and energy for LIFE. This is what women are really looking for in men.

      This is the critical step that most guys miss in other self-development programs because these other advisers don’t know how to dig deep and find it. They’d rather just give you another pickup line that doesn’t work.

      In the Alpha Lifestyle™: Triple-Threat program, I’m going to show you how to find your Personal Motivator – and how it creates unstoppable magnetic attraction with women.

      WARNING:

      DO NOT invest in a ‘pickup’ or dating skills program unless it meets the following 5 criteria:

      1. The program demonstrates a balance of BOTH inner and outer game techniques and information.
      2. There is a COMPLETE explanation of how to motivate yourself to use the strategies correctly and get the most results.
      3. The focus of the information is on your complete LIFESTYLE, not just a small portion of it.
      4. The program contains SOLID information that ANY personality type can put to use – not just routines and techniques that they made up for you to memorize.
      5. The program doesn’t cost thousands of dollars and rely on gimmicky sales techniques – like this is your “VERY LAST CHANCE…”

      Is this program going to help you?

      The answer is “ABSOLUTELY YES ” if you fall under one of these two categories:

      Category #1: Women have always felt like a mystery to you. They say they want a nice guy, but it seems like they actually want something different.

      Your personal life and your career are not moving forward like you want them to.

      You tell yourself maybe,someday, when you’ve got some money or get motivated, THEN you’ll be able to land the right girl.

      Category #2: You feel that, in a lot of ways, you’re on the right track. You’re pursuing your goals. You’ve dated some quality women. But you feel like “something is missing.” If only there was a way for you to pull ALL of the pieces together, to feel energized, focused and confident about every area of your life…to get EVERYTHING you want out of life, instead of having to compromise…

      The Alpha Lifestyle™ DVD Program unlocks these answers… and much more… in a single, transformational package.

      Just imagine you’ve suddenly got the ability to “crack the code” with women. You can approach ANY girl you see, engage her in conversation, and build a connection within minutes.

       You never worry about what you should do or say next…it all flows naturally, and you can sense her attraction level BUILDING with each passing moment.

      No stress, no rejection, just RESULTS.

      Now, imagine having this same level of confidence and clarity with your other personal goals. Picture yourself being totally motivated to excel in your career, fitness, and other goals…waking up each day feeling like a MAN ON A MISSION.

      This groundbreaking program, the Alpha Lifestyle™: Triple-Threat program, will transform you in 3 ways:

      Inner Game: You’ll learn how to “reframe” your mindset, eliminate the negative beliefs that have been holding you back, and focus on personal success and fulfillment. Reprogram your life from the inside out.

      Outer Game: The specific techniques and tactics that you’ll use in your interactions with women – whether it’s the opening conversation, the first date, or maintaining a relationship on your terms. These tactics are also essential in building your social and business networks. I’m including a TON of them in this program, too.

      Motivation: How to become the “complete package”: a state-of-the-art Alpha Man. Your goals will become crystal-clear in your mind, and you’ll possess the tools and the knowledge to achieve them.

      You’ve seen and heard Carlos Xuma on:

      • ABC Television
      • David DeAngelo’s Interviews with Dating Gurus
      • Playboy Magazine
      • Maxim Radio
      • World Talk Radio
      • “Sex with Emily” radio show
      • “Rock Talk” radio show
      • The Cliff’s List Seminar
      • Summum Magazine
      • Neil Strauss’ StyleLife Academy for “The Game”
      • Here’s What You Get:

      The Triple Threat Program contains 6 DVDs filled to the brim with attraction techniques, strategies, and inspiration.

      You’ll have a front-row seat as I explain the complete Alpha Lifestyle™, along with some very special guests including:

      • Playboy models Shannon Stewart and Katya Kovac, who help to demonstrate rapport, conversation, & seduction techniques. (Once you’ve learned how to build fast connections with “10’s” like these two girls, normal everyday women will be easy for you.)
      • Christopher Curtis, a former Marine and Hostage Negotiator and the co- creator of the popular M.A.C.K. Tactics dating system. He hosts a segment on motivation and transformation – developing an unstoppable mindset and achieving total congruency with your words, thoughts and actions.
      • Carlos’ protege – “Ranger X,” who explains for the first time the “Under the Wire” approach technique. Ranger X has learned from Carlos as well as some of the best teachers, and synthesized his learning into this unique system.You’ll discover amazing tactics for approaching women and “slipping through their defenses.” Instead of allowing women to judge and reject you, you’ll learn how to control the power in any interaction…and have women trying to impress YOU instead of the other way around!

      Like Carlos, I have an extensive background in coaching guys. I’m the co-founder of the M.A.C.K. Tactics system, which began with a major book that was sold in bookstores nationwide. My web site has helped thousands of guys around the world break through their barriers with women.

      When I met Carlos Xuma, I was looking to branch out and start coaching guys on other areas: lifestyle, motivation, fitness, financial success, etc. Once Carlos and I got to talking, we realized we shared the same vision. So we teamed up to write the most powerful book ever published on Lifestyle Transformation for men: “The Alpha Rules.”

      The success of that book inspired us to take it to the next level: a DVD series that would show the lessons being applied. So we gathered a group of specially selected students, booked an incredible penthouse suite in Las Vegas, brought in a camera crew, and produced what is clearly the best, most informative DVD series ever done on this topic.

      The energy in that room was electrifying. Carlos Xuma went all-out…he dug deep into his banks of knowledge and laid it all out there, a blueprint for total motivation and success. It also contains a lot of amazing, effective strategies for meeting and connecting with women. (This is my favorite part. Some of the psychology Carlos teaches seems almost like Jedi mind control…)

      And here’s the best part: when I saw the final version of these DVDs, I saw they are EVEN BETTER than being in the room with Carlos! Using computer graphics, the DVDs give tons of additional information on the screen while Carlos and his guest speakers are talking.

      With this editing technique, you are completely immersed in the learning experience… an awesome amount of knowledge and tactics are being downloaded straight into your brain.

      Guys, this is a transformation that any man has the power to make… and needs to make. I’m living proof.If you’re anything like I used to be, and you’re spending too much capital (emotional and financial) on women who don’t appreciate you, it’s time to make this change. The Alpha Lifestyle™: Triple-Threat DVD Program is a sure-shot winner.

      “I can’t recommend Carlos’ products highly enough… Carlos’ stuff really took me to the next level…”

      Still Wondering if the Triple-Threat is What You Need?

      Keep reading, because these DVDs will also teach you…

      How to develop unstoppable Alpha confidence towards women, and your career pursuits

      How to project the secret qualities that women REALLY want in a man, not the superficial things they SAY they want… (there is a huge difference…)

      How to pick up ANY woman, in ANY situation… whether it’s for a casual fling or to land the perfect girlfriend – by using your REAL Personality – not being a “pickup artist”

      With these techniques, no woman will ever think you’re a pickup artist with some canned stories.

      Let’s Be Brutally Honest Here… Pickup Techniques Are Dead.

      I have close personal friends who have paid thousands of dollars for “big name” pickup artist programs. These guys charge incredible amounts of money for a pickup system that teaches you conversation openers, routines, and techniques that you can learn word-for-word.

      The problem is that women are watching these same television shows, and they already know these routines now, too.

      One of my close female friends actually comes to me every week and tries the latest pickup routines she learned out on me for fun and laughs. (Guess what happens to the guys who approach her and use the same ones…?)

      My friend, women will see through game like this, but they won’t see through the confident Alpha MAN. That’s what you’re going to learn here.

      Rather than buy a fish and be fed for just one day, why not learn how to fish with the best lure in the world – YOU – and be fed for a lifetime!

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      “New Video Reveals: How To Quickly & Easily Make Almost Any Woman Feel Uncontrollable Lust For You – Naturally…”

      Without Setting Off Her Alarms Or Having Her SLAM On The Brakes!

      From: Carlos Xuma

      This exclusive, private video presentation will reveal to you how The Lust Response can be triggered in almost any woman – making her feel an almost uncontrollable urge to “get physical” with you as fast as possible.

      A lot of guys out there want nothing more than to be able to sleep with the hot women out there just to be able to get the beautiful, smart, sexy women that you know you deserve to have.

      If you’ve ever spent minutes (that felt like HOURS) trying to work up the courage to talk to a woman only to have it go nowhere – or worse, you never work up enough courage to do it at all, this could change your life forever. And that’s not an exaggeration in any way!

      Creating that sexual spark of desire in a woman seems like the most difficult thing in the world to do, but when you have a roadmap to her Lust Response, it’s easier than turning on your computer…

      So what I created was a fast and easy video for you to “plug & play” this Lust Response system in just minutes.

      WARNING: This Video Tutorial Is Highly Controversial – And For Men ONLY!

      If you have any issues with sleeping with seducing women and having them fall in love with you then please consider closing this page and leaving.

      This material is for men who understand that women enjoy sex and sleep with men all the time. They feel this Lust Response with men who make them feel like sexual, attractive women.

      I’m going to show you exactly how to make women crave you using 7 simple words. I’m also going to show you how to trigger sexual desire in women that they normally only feel for the “bad boys” out there.

      Basically, I will show you how to push secret psychological triggers that make women wet and horny. They’re automatic, and they’re already there – waiting for the guy who knows how to trigger her Lust Response.

      Not only am I going to show you these 7 words – that, when spoken to a woman, create instant sexual desire & curiosity (in other words, horny for you), I’m ALSO going to show you…

      7 Sneaky Seduction Strategies That You Can Use To Completely Bypass Her Defenses & Shields…

      She will drop all that cock-blocking, testing, and resistance she normally gives you so that she will open up to you emotionally, give of herself sexually, and please you physically. The best part is that she will never even suspect you might be controlling her mind.

      This is not “pickup artist” material. These are based on recent scientific discoveries about the sexual desire region in women’s minds.

      This is also not a skimpy 10 minute video. You and I are going to take a little time to go in DEEP into each topic. When you’re done, you’re going to know more about women than 90% of guys will ever learn. (Especially the married guys!) You’re going to systematically and COMPLETELY eliminate the risk and embarrasment from meeting, dating, and getting laid.

      I created a fast and easy video tutorial to walk you through the simplest method for triggering her “Lust Response.”

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      Approach Women 2: Meet Women Anytime – Anywhere, No Fear & No Rejection.

      REAL ALPHA DAYGAME.

      (I’m not going to blast you with cool product pictures here. Let me just make the contents speak for themselves.)

      In this new program, I pulled together all the most useful information available on approaching that I had.

      I’ve seen every program out there, and I’ve coached guys one-on-one for approaching for years, so I know what works for guys and what doesn’t. Spending hours learning “micro-control-hoop” theory is only going to continue to keep you frustrated.

      You need something simple – an easy HOW TO APPROACH process.

      Learning only the best parts that work will get you results. So if you’ve ever tried another one of those “methods” out there, you’re going to experience something completely different here.

      Approach Women 2  DVD 1: Inner Game of Approaching – No Fear/No Rejection Seminar
      Approach Women 2  DVD 2: The E.D.G.E. Method – Approach Strategy Program
      Approach Women 2  DVD 3: DayGame Domination Seminar & Approach Simulator
      Approach Women 2  DVD 4: Approach Video Analysis – Mistakes, Examples, and Techniques explained visually with demonstrations of approaches…

      ApproachWomen2DayGame.pdf – Notes of the complete course
      BONUS BLITZ
      BONUS Interviews
      BONUS PDFs
      BONUS Video
      CD01- Intro – A Day in the Life of the Approacher – Core Concepts
      CD02 – Total Inner Game I – Mindset and Mind Games
      CD03- Total Inner Game II – Getting rid of your fear
      CD04- Power Approach I – How to approach, from the ground up
      CD05- Power Approach II – Later steps through escalation
      CD06- Power Approach Principles
      CD07- Image – Tips – Mistakes Guys Make & How to Avoid Them
      CD08- Exercises and Practice for Approach Excellence
      CD09- Approach Turbo-Boost Disc – Daily Approach Motivation
      CD10- Master Class- Don Diego Garcia – Approach Energy & Vibing
      CD11- Master Class- Lance Mason – DEEP Rapport Techniques
      CD12- Master Class- Oliver Turner – DayGame Strategies
      CD13- Master Class- Scot McKay – Inner and Outer Game Q&A
      CD14- Master Class- David Wygant – Easy First Steps in DayGame
      CD15- Master Class- Love Systems – Identity, Inner & Outer DayGame
      CD16- Master Class- Will Hicks – Beliefs and Qualification Strategies
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      DVD2 CARLOSXUMA The E.D.G.E. Method – Approach Strategy Program
      DVD3 CARLOSXUMA DayGame Domination Seminar & Approach Simulator
      DVD4 CARLOSXUMA Approach Video Analysis – Mistakes, Examples, & Techniques

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      77 Bulletproof Approaches

      77…It’s a magic number.

      Remember it.

      It’s going to be the most important number you need to know.

      Listen…

      Do you like pretty girls?

      I bet you do.

      But do you worry about what to say to women or even if she wants to date you before you approach her?

      And does all that ‘monkey chatter’ in your head make you agonize over your “opening line”?

      Do you walk around with huge REGRET about missing the chance to approach a woman because she is gone by the time you finally think of the “perfect opening line?”

      What if you knew the loophole, a biological super-highway that let you tap into a woman’s primal desires…

      and gave you the power to approach and connect with any girl you want  – anywhere…

      and be able to not only attract her, but fill her with an uncontrollable desire for you?

      The truth is,

      Your goal isn’t just to meet her…

      it’s to make her so interested in you, so intrigued by meeting you…

      so curious about who you are and what it would be like to be with you…

      that she can’t stop thinking about you

      and she has the uncontrollable urge to be near you…

      By the time you’re done approaching and connecting with a woman…

      the look on her face is going to say: who is that guy and when is he going to fuck me?

      Sexy WomenIf you want to not only approach and connect with beautiful women…

      But inspire them to want to date you, to have sex with you…

      And possibly more…

      If you want to have a different woman every night of the week…

      Or

      You want that one special girl to have in your life, as your loving, loyal girlfriend …

      All without the possibility of failure or rejection…

      then the most important number you need to know is: 77…

      That number is going to keep you from ever being put in the ‘Friendzone’ again.

      In fact, if you use what I’m going to show you today, you can get out of any friendzone you’re in now.

      And make that girl think of you as the guy she wants, in a sexual way.

      To hook-up with or for a relationship. As someone she wants as her boyfriend.

      in fact she can’t stop thinking about you…

      But I have to warn you…

      this is no lame, Pick Up Artist trick.

      I’m going to show you the secret loophole I discovered…

      A system of approaching that triggers something called the attraction-sex-love connection, all women have in their DNA.

      An incredible discovery.

      How to use the basic primal desires every woman is born with,

      to make her so turned on and create an uncontrollable aching NEED to be near you, she will do anything to be with you.

      She will literally hunt you down.

      If you think you can handle that, then stay with me all the way through to the end.

      It’s definitely going to be worth it.

      This is no joke.

      I promise you by the end of this letter not only will you be able to approach, meet and trigger the attraction-sex-love connection with any girl you want…

      no matter how hot she is or how many guys hit on her.

      BUT you will also have the POWER to inspire her, force her to keep thinking about you long after you’ve gone…

      and to set off in her a desperate need …

      an out of control desire to see you again, to get close to you so strong —  she will be helpless to resist.

      But I have to warn you, if you ignore a woman’s attraction-sex-love connection…

      Or you don’t know how to activate it, you will always end up in the friend zone ”“ no matter what you do.

      All you have to do is read this all the way through and I promise I’m going to explain it, step-by-step.

      And by the end of this short video, you will NEVER think of the number 77 the same way again..

      More about that in a minute.

      This is David and I want to ask you an important question…

      Your answer will say a lot about you and what kind of man you are:

      Would you like to be able to go right over and meet the hottest girl in the room, or even on the street… wherever you are?

      Whether it’s a bar, a beach, a restaurant, on the street, at a coffee shop anywhere…

      Not just meet her and get her number…

      but in less than 5 minutes, make her feel like she NEEDS to be next to you, and to know more about you…

      flirting with you, touching you whispering in your ear?

      And do it all without any fear of failure…

      Without any self-doubt or the usual monkey chatter in the back of your brain…

      The kind that makes you self-sabotage, eject yourself from the situation and run away like… well like a pussy?

      Would you like to be able to approach beautiful women with an absolute certainty that you are going to be successful...

      Without the hesitation, awkward pauses or the usual “holy crap what do I do now” feeling you always get when the conversation lags or stalls?

      Successful in flirting and escalating sexually

      Then leaving at the exact right time that makes women want more of you, physically crave you

      Successful in unlocking her sensual side so that…

      she can’t wait to hear from you and she even fantasizes about you…

      Now you’re probably thinking…

      “Come on, David. What guy wouldn’t WANT to be able to do that? Hell, that’s impossible. Nobody can do that, let alone in less than 5 minutes.”

      I’m sure that’s what you’re thinking because that’s exactly what I used to think.

      That it was impossible.

      In fact, I use to live my whole life with the word ‘impossible’.

      Believing all the good stuff was ‘impossible’.

      What I really wanted to accomplish… the life I wanted, was ‘impossible’.

      The man I wanted to be, the girls I wanted to meet and have sex with,

      The women I wanted to have as my girlfriend, was ‘impossible’.

      I lived my life never pushing the boundaries, never challenging myself to see what I could accomplish if I stepped outside my comfort zone.

      Because I was convinced it was just impossible.

      Does any of that sound familiar to you?

      Are you living an average life, because you think the life you truly desire, the man you really want to be deep down in your heart, your biggest dreams…

      are impossible?

      Aren’t you sick and tired of ‘average’?

      I know I was. I bet I can describe your ‘average’ life pretty easily. I bet you and I are a lot alike.

      I bet you get really lonely sometimes, right?

      It’s probably not something you talk about with your friends, but it sucks.

      I remember feeling so lonely I literally felt like crying. I used to wonder if I was ever going to have a girl I really liked next to me.

      If I was ever even going to get laid again.

      It seemed like everywhere I went, I would see hot girls hanging out with these guys and I would think…

      “Man I know I’ve got more to offer than that guy! Why in the world is she with him”? It got so bad for a while that I stopped going out altogether.

      Loneliness is tough.

      I was working and hanging out in bars in New York City.

      And that’s where I would meet women. I would hang around and talk to them after they had a few drinks, and I had a few drinks…

      It was pretty sloppy.

      I mean, I was getting laid. But only with drunken bar sluts that were hanging around at last call.

      These were not girls I wanted to see again. I didn’t even want to see them in the daylight (if you know what I mean).

      And I never brought them back to my place.

      So finally I stopped and I swore off the last call girls.

      But then it got lonely. I got so lonely I had to get out of apartment. I would wander around for hours and hours.

      I would walk around New York, and I would study people and how they interacted.

      Entire days would pass and I had spent the entire time studying people. Months went by.

      I got a job in the busiest department store in New York City, Just so I could watch, learn and experiment with approaching and connecting instantly with women.

      I worked at Bloomingdales for almost 2 years. And every day I would, approach, flirt and eventually seduce women I had never met before.

      I did it so much and so often, I eventually became an outlier;

      I was so good at it, it became effortless. I could meet any woman and in under 5 minutes get her completely turned on, emotionally and physically.

      It became like a parlor trick. I could challenge a friend to pick any woman in a store, at a restaurant, even at the beach…

      And I would go over and pick them up in less than 5 minutes.

      And I’ll tell you more about that in a minute.

      How are you doing with confidence… is it a struggle?

      That’s a big one, right?

      If you had more confidence…

      you could be yourself. If you saw a girl you wanted to meet, you could just go over and introduce yourself.

      Say “Hi”.

      It seems so simple.

      But without that confidence inside, there’s no way. You see a beautiful woman and it feels like you are frozen stiff. Like you can’t move.

      And the conversation in your head won’t stop. The self-doubt, the anger. It’s like a loop that plays over and over, right?

      Do you sometimes think you aren’t good enough for the girls you really like?

      Do you sit back and watch other guys move in on the girl you WANT and he takes her home instead of you?

      Tell you what used to happen to me, I’d see a girl I wanted to talk so badly…

      I would imagine what it would be like to kiss her, touch her, have sex with her.

      Then this annoying thought would buzz around in my head. Like a gnat.

      That I didn’t deserve her.

      I wasn’t good enough for her. And I’d just walk away without even trying.

      And then I would beat myself up for the rest of the day for being such a pussy!

      That ever happen to you?

      Are you confused, and can’t figure why you haven’t been able to figure out this approach thing yet?

      Just want to know what’s wrong with you– so you can fix it?

      Let’s get one thing straight right here, there is nothing wrong with you. Not one damn thing.

      And it’s not about money

      You don’t need to spend a lot of money to be with women. I promise it’s not about that.

      The problem is, you aren’t doing anything right.  You aren’t being positive and pro active. You aren’t trying at all. Not really.

      You’re playing it safe. And when you do that, nothing good happens.

      It’s the weirdest thing, it wasn’t until I TRIED to make mistakes on purpose, did I discover how easy it was to get it right!

      And these weren’t small mistakes, I went big. I was trying to fall flat on my face. A few times it nearly got me fired from Bloomingdales.

      I tried and tried and tried…

      And then I LEARNED.

      Well my friend, today is your lucky day.

      Today, I’m going to show you how to do it right. All of it.

      I’m going to give you your Super Powers to do the ‘impossible’.

      I found this super power by discovering a strange and slightly dangerous loophole that goes back to our evolution.

      With all my efforts, my thousands of attempts, trying over and over, I stumbled down an unfamiliar road.

      And when I took it just to see where it went, figuring it was another dead end, it became clear pretty fast I found the biological super-highway to incredible success with women.

      I cracked the code.

      By tapping into our most primal desires…

      I unlocked the secret to the attraction-sex-love connection.

      And it’s not about posturing or some stupid pick up lines.

      It’s not about being rich or having big muscles or a cool car.

      It’s about unlocking the natural desires every woman is born with.

      For that reason, any man, anywhere can approach and attract any woman. And I mean any woman.

      Stay with me and I’ll show you exactly how to do it.

      In this short video I’m going to give you the key to having the kind of life most guys don’t even talk about (cause it’s so far beyond what they think possible).

      But they sure as hell dream about it. Just like I did.

      The biological super-highway I stumbled across, changed my life into something way past my wildest fantasies,

      so unbelievable even friends who saw it happen in person, who saw what I can do in less than 5 minutes, anywhere, anytime I want, were left in a state of disbelief.

      Beautiful WomenIt’s what got me interviewed on Nightline when they saw what I could do in Whole Foods…

      And it’s why they made the movie ‘Hitch’ about me.

      The truth is, people are flat out stunned and amazed.

      77.

      Today, I’m going to give you that same knowledge and I promise you it will change your life in ways you never thought possible.

      In ways most men barely have the courage to even fantasize about.

      The ability to make your wildest fantasies come true whenever you want, can be your reality. Like it is mine.

      Not only is it possible, I’m going to show you exactly how to do it, right now.

      But I’m not going to stop there, I’m going to make success approaching women so simple for you…

      So incredibly foolproof that it’s impossible for you to make a mistake…

      That I can basically guarantee you will succeed every single time you approach a woman….

      You’re probably thinking…

      Seriously, David? How in the world are you going to “guarantee” my success?

      Actually, it’s pretty simple.

      I’m going to give you the actual approaches that you can cut and paste…

      And you will be able to do it whenever you want.

      And it doesn’t matter how good looking you are, what kind of shape you’re in, what kind of a car you drive, or even if you’re out of work, overweight and bald!

      These approaches work. Period.

      When I teach them to friends and clients, they can’t believe how easy it is to approach women and create the feelings, the sense of attraction and connection that lead to intimacy…

      And how amazing their results are when they try it themselves.

      And those guys were totally clueless when it came to girls.

      But first, you and I have to make a pact.

      An agreement.

      You need to promise me if I open that door for you and show you the secret I discovered,

      if I give you the keys to the kingdom, you will have the courage to act and become a man of action

      and you’ll use this rare knowledge to get out of your damn comfort zone and make your life better.

      Sure, you could use it to meet as many women and have as much sex as you can, with women who never looked at you twice or even gave you a chance before.

      But I hope you use it to make your life better.

      Now, I need to tell you a quick story about me.

      You see I wasn’t always the guy that could attract any woman, anywhere, any time. Quite the opposite.

      I was just an average guy living in New York City.

      I did all sorts of crazy stuff to make money, whatever I could to pay the bills. And it wasn’t always easy.

      I was a bartender for a long time.

      And like I said, there were always girls around.

      But when I tried to meet the women I was really attracted to, I struck out.

      Every single time I would approach a woman when I wasn’t behind the bar, the monkey chatter in my head made me doubt myself.

      And then I would eject myself from the conversation before I could get their number.

      Eventually, I lost all of my confidence and my sense of myself as a man.

      I thought no woman was ever going to be attracted to me unless she was drunk.

      Honestly, that’s how I felt.

      I had no idea how to meet women.

      But I was lonely. So lonely I couldn’t stand to be by myself  in my own apartment.

      I had no idea what to do and no confidence. I was desperately unhappy so I did something a little crazy.

      Listen closely because this is important.

      I had no game.

      I went to work every day at the department store and I watched people meet. Over and over until I knew what they were going to say before they said it.

      And that’s when I knew I was ready. Ready to push beyond my comfort zone.

      Sometimes I was afraid I would get slapped but I was always afraid of rejection.

      But the crazy thing is, it never happened.

      The more I pushed, the more they responded.

      The more bold I was, the more interested women were…

      I’m going to say that again…

      The more bold I was the more interested women were…

      And the more attraction and connection I created.

      And the connection would immediately grow and escalate. Honestly it was like magic.

      Everything I did turned out right!

      These women were teaching me how to approach them and create the feeling of attraction with them…

      They treated me like I was the only man in the world

      Like I was the only one that knew their true desire… the rare insight most men never know.

      And they NEVER put me in the friend zone. Not once.

      And that’s when the light bulb went off.

      The ‘aha’ moment that changed my life.

      With their help, I had unlocked women’s attraction code.

      I’ll tell you the rest in a minute.

      Right now I’m going to tell you the 3 things — the only 3 things you have to do to approach and create that sense of attraction and intimate connection with women instantly.

      Fast and easy. Because that’s all it takes. 3 things.

      But first I need to tell the 3 Big Lies you are being forced to swallow.

      I hate these lies because they don’t do anything but make problems for you. And make you feel like there’s some giant secret you don’t know about.

      Like you’re not one of the popular kids.

      And all the noise has got into your head, telling you that you aren’t good enough.

      That’s Big Lie #1, that for some crazy reason, YOU aren’t good enough for the kind of life you want, and the kind of women that really turn you on.

      That the world is made-up of have’s and have-not’s. And you my friend, are being told you’re a ‘have not’.

      That’s just bullshit!

      You’re being sold a bunch of crap…

      Here’s the thing, it’s not your fault for buying into it.

      It’s all just a bunch of blah, blah, blah…

      Those guys are full of crap. There are no magic lines that can get a girl to drop her panties.

      If there was, every guy in the world would be using them.

      And that’s Big Lie #2.

      That if you use a ‘certain’ pick-up line, or you play some ‘game’, you’ll suddenly be able to meet woman and seduce them, as if by magic.

      Yes, we all know women react to men with confidence and presence.

      It’s what they are programmed to do, biologically.

      The best line in the world will fail every time if you have no confidence, presence and charisma.

      But even if you are confident – a connection that leads intimacy, sex and a relationship (if you want one), only happens when you trigger her biological attraction-sex-love switch.

      (more about that in a minute).

      That leads me to Big Lie #3.

      Big lie #3 is the common belief that what I do, approaching and getting close to a woman,…

      so close she’s desperate to know more about you, to bear near you and date you, in less than 5 minutes — is impossible.

      You have to see it to believe (and I’ll show it to you). But it’s real.

      I swear to you it’s real.

      You could spend countless hours, using every pick up artist system or magic pick-up lines…

      but you only get a bunch of double talk, and slickly marketed bull-shit.

      I was determined than ever to figure it out. No short cuts and no pick up lines. No fake it till you make it.

      So I became a student. A student of human nature.

      I bought every single book on human behavior, psychology and persuasion I could find.

      And after years of studying, I learned that attraction isn’t about a line, or a lie, playing games or creating some ‘I’m not really that into you’, bad boy attitude.

      At it’s core, creating an attraction so intense a woman will reveal her primal desire, is about making a real connection with her.

      And that right there, is the reason why women put 99% of guys they meet into the friend zone.

      Even if you approach a woman and have a real conversation, if you don’t establish an emotional and physical connection with her, she has no choice to think of you as anything other than a friend.

      If you don’t trigger her in a primal way… her brain can’t make the attraction-sex-love connection.

      You see, meeting and attracting women is a simple and most basic human function, one of our 3 primal needs. Besides food and shelter.

      Think about it this way,

      How long have men been creating desire women…

      Forever, right?

      Or humans would have died off a long time ago.

      Do you think our ancestors, thousands of years ago, stood around figuring out a system to attract women… playing pick-up games or pretending not to be interested…

      Seriously?

      It’s a joke. They saw what they wanted, what was desirable and imposed their will.

      Men and women, attraction and sex, these are the forces of nature.

      As human beings, it’s in our DNA, it has to be.

      We are designed that way in order to propagate the species.

      And it’s a natural progression of 3 things.

      That’s it. Just 3 things and the best part is…

      we do them naturally!

      That’s how I know the pick-up guys are full of it. Not one of them ever mentioned being primal, or our biological needs.

      The physical desire and the genetic need for, connection, touch and sex.

      Not just men. Men and women. It’s why you and me are on this planet. We need touch and sex.

      All of us.

      Did you know that without touch from another person, eventually humans will die?

      Did you know that we aren’t engineered to be alone, that it goes against our nature and is actually unhealthy?

      The truth is, you aren’t a “wimp” because you feel lonely.

      Your body is feeling sick.

      Listen…

      When it comes to approaching and triggering the attraction-sex-love connection in women

      an uncontrollable urge to be near you

      And it doesn’t matter if you’re attracted by hot young women, or a little older,

      Whether you like long-legged, skinny girls with tight bodies and small butts…

      or you like them a little bigger, rounder, with big boobs and a nice butt so you can have something to grab onto…

      if you’re attracted to blondes or brunettes, black women, Asian or hot Latina girls…

      Or if you’re like me and you like all women…

      All you have to do is 3 things to trigger the attraction-sex-love connection…

      Just 3 things. Period.

      I’ll tell you what they are in a minute.

      First, I have to warn you about a big problem, something you might not even realize.

      Think about the story of Adam and Eve for a minute.

      I know it’s a story made up by men.

      But there’s a lot you can learn from the story of Adam and Eve.

      Adam, was a man who suddenly found himself standing next to the hottest girl in the world

      Eve was a perfect ‘10’, created by god to be so incredibly desirable they would do nothing but make babies, right?

      And they were both naked.

      What would you do if you were in that same position?

      Pretty funny to think about.

      Adam didn’t have any pick-up lines… So what did he do?

      He did exactly what I do.

      He went over and talked to her, with confidence. Not like a fool with a system of pick-up lines or ridiculous questions.

      He started by saying ‘hi’.

      Which is perfect. I coach guys to use it all the time.

      The best thing to say a woman, any woman, is ‘hi’…

      And it has never failed me.

      I’ve never missed talking to any woman, anywhere. Not in New York, Denver, San Diego, Miami, London, Chicago or Los Angeles.

      And that’s Step 1: ‘Talk to Her’.

      The first thing you have to do to meet and create desire in a woman, it’s pretty obvious but — you have to say ‘hi’.

      Do you think you can do that? Of course you can.

      You’d be surprised how many guys screw it up doing ridiculous BS they saw on the internet. It’s simple:

      Walk over with confidence, say ‘hi’. Start talking to her.

      Nothing fancy. Just like your talking to a buddy or your neighbor.

      Don’t over think it, that’s another place most guys get into trouble.

      They start thinking about the perfect thing to say and the result.

      What they want. Or they think, ‘oh man if this girl would give me her number and go out with me’ ”“ or ‘if I could have sex with her’ — ‘if she was my girlfriend’ ”“

      Forget all that crap. Just talk to her.

      Can you guess the #1 biggest problem guys have meeting women?

      They don’t know what to say.

      Why? Because they over think it.

      Any girl will tell you it’s never about what you say but how you say it and your body language…

      That brings me to Step 2.

      Step 2 is another thing you have to do but you can’t over think.

      You have to be relaxed and confident, like a man.

      When you’re talking to her, find a way to give her a small compliment. Nothing over the top like, ‘ oh my god you’re so beautiful’.

      But something small, that makes her feel good.

      You need to make her feel important…

      Every woman in the world wants to meet an alpha-male, a real man, and real men compliment women.

      But you can’t stop there.

      This is the exact spot where most guys stop and it’s the reason why they fail and get tossed into the friend zone.

      Time after time.

      If you walk over with confidence, say “hello” and have a conversation. Most women will give you their phone number.

      But she will forget about you as soon as you walk away.

      And by the time you text her or call her, she’s had so many distractions, friends, guys, texts, hits on her Tinder… whatever…

      The truth is…

      You have no chance with her.

      Zero.

      That’s because you left out the most important part.

      You left out Step 3.

      Step 3 is the key that unlocks attraction.

      It’s the super-highway to her attraction-sex-love connection.

      Do you remember the one thing that all humans need or they will die?

      You got it… It’s touch.

      You have to touch her, to break through the imaginary barrier she has and make contact.

      I’m not talking about grabbing her ass or doing anything inappropriate…

      It could be small like touching her arm or her hand…

      You could even give her a hug when you say goodbye…

      When you break the barrier and touch a woman it sends a primal signal to her brain…

      And she instantly starts to think of you in a different way…

      It sends a flood of oxytocin through her body that makes think of you as a romantic interest and a sex partner…

      It’s the same chemical that her brain releases when she has an orgasm, so you know it makes her feel all warm and friendly.

      Like she’s ready to have sex…

      Because she is ready to have sex!

      If you think back to every girl that ever stuck you in the FRIENDZONE, I guarantee you didn’t touch, skin to skin, the first time you met.

      Listen up because this is too important to miss…

      Here’s how I know for absolute certainty all pick-up lines are crap…

      Triggering the attraction-sex-love connection in a woman is not about what you say…

      It’s almost entirely about what you do and how you do it.

      If you have positive, masculine body language and you touch her…

      It almost doesn’t matter what you say to a woman. You will succeed.

      I have seen guys master this technique so well…  sometimes they can hook-up with a woman without saying a word.

      I swear it’s true.

      It happened last year at one of my boot camps, in front of 7 other guys…

      Here’s the thing, I hope you’re about done believing that for some reason you aren’t good enough to approach and date the girls you really want…

      That for some reason these women are ‘out of your league’.

      I want to help you because I know the right way to do it, with no chance of failure or rejection.

      And I want to save you the time, the money, the frustration and the heartache I went through.

      I’m going to give you my shortcut…

      I’m going to show you exactly how to do it. And you can copy me.

      These approaches are proven to work 100% of the time and you can cut-and-paste them.

      I’m going to give you the approaches that activate a woman’s attraction-sex-love connection word for word, action for action.

      Not just what to say, how to stand and act, the way to move… everything.

      These are videos of average guys like you approaching great women, and I coach them. I break down exactly what to do at each moment, at every turn in the conversation.

      I guide you past her red flags and trap doors that plunge straight to the Friend Zone..

      And lead you straight to the promised land…

      Her attraction-sex-love connection…

      Step by step.

      But that’s not the best part,

      The best part is that there is a panel of gorgeous women that were the ones approached and they gave their feedback, insight, criticism and keys for success…

      All from the woman’s point of view!

      And when you have these step-by-step approaches, as coached by me with the insight from the panel of beautiful women…

      You are going to have

      the cut and paste recipe for success…

      They’re literally bullet proof.

      And you will have all of these approaches right at your fingertips.

      On your computer, your tablet and even on your phone so you can access them wherever and whenever you need them

      Does this sound amazing… like exactly what you’ve always wanted?

      Can you guess how many of these bullet proof approachesI have for you ”“ how many girls we talked to, created intense physical desire by accessing the attraction-sex-love connection and got their numbers?

      That’s the number to remember.


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      Carlos Xuma – Alpha Sexual Power Download

      Single Man: Have you ever been in that moment with a woman where you KNOW you should make a move – like hold her hand or kiss her – and the time is right… but you back down and chicken out at the last second?

      Do you:

      • … feel frustrated with how you’re dating women – being stuck on HER sexual timetable?
      • … feel like you’re in a state of sexual “limbo” – unable to connect with women and get them into the bedroom?
      • … feel like you lack the sexual POWER to choose the kind of woman you want for a girlfriend? That all the women you want are “out of your league,” and you’re going to have to settle for less if you want to get any sex?
      • … feel like you’re trapped in a “negative loop” – unable to break out of your anxious thoughts long enough to feel comfortable and sexually confident around women?

      Do you want to know how to date girls like this? Keep reading to find out…

      Look, let’s cut to the chase… You’re sexually frustrated.

      You want to get laid. You probably even want a girlfriend and not just a one night stand. (But hey, either one would do…)

      You see all those guys around you either using some kind of fake banter or clever tricks to get women, but you’ve either tried it and couldn’t pull it off, or it’s just not you and you don’t even want to bother with it.

      And as pissed off and frustrated as you might be, you don’t want to be a manipulative jerk or deceptive just to attract a woman.

      You’ve got some standards, and that’s important.

      BUT this situation is getting old, and you really need some results – FAST!

      Dating Coach For Guys…Carlos Xuma

      But There Are LOTS Of Places You Can Make Mistakes That Scare Women Off…

      There are a lot of steps between first meeting a woman and getting physical with her.

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      To get her into bed, you’ll need to know the roadmap of sexual escalation…
      • First you gotta think of something cool to say to walk up and approach her, and you risk getting rejected even IF you manage to work up the balls to do it. (Let’s face it – most of the time it’s more comfortable not to bother and just avoid the risk of getting shot down…)
      • IF you’re not shot down, then you have to try to get her interested in you with some witty conversation and banter…
      • And IF you can get her attracted and interested, that’s still no guarantee you’ll get her phone number
      • And most of the time, it’s either a bad number, or she never answers… (Even when you think you got things started GREAT with her.)
      • And IF you do call her and talk to her, how do you get that first date…?
      • And then how do you make sure she doesn’t flake out on you…?
      • Wait, what about getting the second date…?
      • What do you do to get a kiss?
      • And then what about getting more physically intimate with her…?

      But here’s the worst part: If you mess up on any of these small steps – GAME OVER! You gotta go all the way back to the end of the line, and you have to start the whole process all over again.

      And what about sex?

      Tthe most important thing to know about all these steps from approaching a woman to dating her – to sleeping with her – is this: There is ONE absolutely critical attraction element you must have to get women to go ‘all the way’ with you. Most so-called “modern men” are missing it.And if you’re missing this one CRITICAL piece of the puzzle, THIS will probably happen to you:

      • She’ll flake out early on or just lose her interest. I call this “Failure to launch” syndrome
      • And even IF you get a date or two, it fizzles out just when you should be getting hot and physical…
      • And even IF you beat the odds and make it to the bedroom, there’s no real fireworks there, and the chemistry dies.

      And when you’re missing this vital piece of the picture, you usually wind up with her telling you she wants to “just be friends.”

      So again, you need this critical ingredient in your back pocket or nothing you do will work right with women. It took me years to identify and find this one critical piece of the puzzle. It’s the “magic bullet” for guys who want to put an end to their sexual frustration once and for all.

      I’m going to reveal here what that critical piece is, but first you need to know…

      What 99 Out Of 100 Guys Don’t Know About “Escalating” With Women…

      Almost none of the guys out there know about this, and it’s why most guys wind up settling for women instead of having a “trophy” on their arm. I’m willing to bet that you’ve experienced the “Flinch.” What is the “Flinch”?

      It’s that point where you shy away from showing your sexual interest in a woman. You know you’ve reached a point where you SHOULD do something to “make a move,” but you don’t.

      Maybe there’s a pause in the conversation where you should ask for her number… and you don’t. Or you call her up to ask her out, but she seems distracted… so you don’t. Or she seems ready for the kiss, and the moment is right… but you don’t.

      You back off or chicken out. You start to lose your sexual confidence.

      Do You Recognize These 5 Early Warning Signs? Ask yourself:

      1. Do you ever hide your sexual desires from women? (Trying to sneak in and be indirect with your interest?)
      2. Are you afraid to touch a woman (even on the arm) on the first date?
      3. Are you afraid of being “caught” admiring a woman’s beauty?
      4. Do you think it’s disrespectful to make a sexual advance on a woman without a very clear invitation from her?
      5. Do you find yourself looking away quickly when making eye contact with women?

      If you can identify with any of those signs, it’s very likely that what I’m about to tell you will completely transform your sexual success with women. Even if you’ve tried other methods in the past and had limited success – or NO success.

      I’ll tell you this: I’ve personally experienced all 5 of those warning signs above at one point or another. And no, it’s not your fault you have trouble getting sexual with women.

      The man’s BIG MISTAKE is this:

      Most Guys Wind Up HIDING Their Sexual Interest In Women…

      This mistake is much much worse than showing too much interest, by the way. Why do guys keep their interest in a woman hidden like this?

      At first I thought it was because we were afraid of ruining things with women. After all, most women can be approached and will talk to you. But when you get ten minutes into a conversation, if you’re faced with possibly taking a risk on her saying NO, you probably won’t take that risk.

      You’ll back off from taking the next step because you don’t want to ruin what you’ve got, right?

      But what I saw underneath it all was a fear. This fear is ruining the ability of most men to get things started with women they’re attracted to. So what I realized was…

      The real reason guys hide their sexual interest in a woman is because they feel sexual PANIC around attractive women.

      And when you feel sexual panic – and she senses it – this KILLS your sexual confidence. The “ONE critical thing” I’ve been talking about – that you need – is this:

       The Secret Is Sexual Confidence…

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      When you have “sexual confidence,” women will feel naturally attracted to you…

      If your sexual confidence gets “turned off” when you’re with a woman, she’ll sense it.

      There’s an old bit of sales wisdom that says that bad salesmen are ‘bad’ simply because they don’t believe enough in the product they’re selling.

      And the BEST salesmen believe they’ve got something fantastic – and every person alive needs to have this product. They’d never let someone walk away without buying it. They’d actually be hurting their prospect if they didn’t convince them to get it.

      You don’t need any clever sales techniques when you REALLY believe in what you’re selling.

      Well, with most guys, their core foundation is unstable and shaky. And they don’t feel like the Prize. They don’t feel confident in their “product.” They can’t escalate and “close the deal.”

      Not only is this true in sales, it’s TWICE as true with women. Your product is YOU, my friend!

      So why don’t you have confidence in your “product”? Why aren’t YOU sexually confident?

      Why Guys Aren’t Getting Sex From Women… Especially the NICE guys

      Because of something I call “fear of pulling the trigger…”Guys spend way too much time hiding their interest in women – because of sexual panic – and not being sexually assertive enough. They flinch instead of moving the game forward. They think they’ve got to approach a woman with kid gloves and be Mr. Nice Guy. Mr. Super Romantic Guy.

      You may have noticed that acting like that doesn’t work, does it? You don’t want to trick her either, so…

      Here’s One Simple Technique To  Make A Woman Sexually Desire You…

      So the guy is moving forward, hoping the woman doesn’t put on the brakes… and the girl is just watching his every move, getting ready to stop him.

      Do you know how to go further – faster – with women?

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      The secret to escalating with women is knowing how to get your sexual power back…

      The Secret is this: Put on the brakes FIRST.

      The best thing you can do to guarantee that you keep moving forward – keep escalating – is just to know when she’s about to put on the brakes, and then you stop her before she stops you.

      This flips a switch in her head – and gets her interested and motivated to KEEP getting more sexually intimate with you – instead of shutting you down.

      You probably thought that this was completely opposite to the way you wanted to handle it, right?

      The male ego says: “Keep going until she stops you!” But if you do this one too many times, you’re cut off for good. If she puts your brakes on more than a few times, she’s going to make one assumption: “He ONLY wants to have sex with me…” Then she puts an end to the fun.

      And even if she was interested in some fun for herself, she’s not going to let the sex happen just because her programming won’t let her sleep with you until you put things back in the right order.

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      Carlos Xuma – Power Social Skills Review | Carlos Xuma – Power Social Skills Download

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      “Would You Like to Avoid People’s Games, Connect More Authentically With Others, and Get the Social Life You’ve Always Wanted…?”

      If you’ve ever wanted to transform yourself from shy and socially awkward into an amazing social leader, you’re about to learn information that will absolutely change your life…


      CARLOS XUMA’S DESK: Friday, 5:43 PM.

      The one skill that they don’t teach you about in school is also the one that will either make you a great success in life, or struggle like crazy to realize your dreams… and you might never reach them.

      I’m going to tell you all about this skill in a second, but first let me ask you a couple questions:

        • Have you ever been in a social situation where you just knew someone was messing with you, but you didn’t know what to do about it?
        • Have you ever had someone in your family that just knew exactly how to put you on the spot – and they’d leave you with that shaky, angry feeling because you knew you’d been made a fool out of?
        • Have you ever known a person who could just predict everything you were going to say, and leave you with no ammo at all, and you felt like you were totally manipulated? And FRUSTRATED?
        • Did you ever suspect there are unwritten “rules” to socializing that you just don’t “get”? That if you just knew the “rules” that these people are using for their games, you could at least be on a level playing field?
        • Do you ever feel like you’ve missed opportunities with somebody – maybe a romantic interest – because you don’t have the right skills to respond correctly and make the interaction “count” for more?
        • Do you often feel like you’re missing a depth and a level of relationship connection that you want to achieve because you don’t understand how to get past your partner’s games?

        Now, on the other hand, have you ever been with someone who:

        • Could de-fuse any confrontation and make friends in the process?

        • Could spot when they were being played or manipulated – and somehow turn it back around on the other person?

        • Always knew the right thing to say to put someone in their place?
        • Knew how to read a social situation in just a few seconds and “feel out” everyone in the group?

         

        group of people I always wanted to be that person.

        I was so shy growing up that I never really got an understanding of social dynamics the way some people seemed to. They always seemed so natural with it, too, which made it even harder to believe that I’d ever figure it out.

        A long while back, I remember going to a singles party where everyone was really uptight and hard to talk to. I felt a little uncomfortable because it felt like they weren’t really there to meet people and have fun.
        You might recognize some of the clues I saw of weird “gamey” behavior at this party:

        • A lot of the guys were very aggressive and insecure
        • Many of the women seemed guarded and distant and I found myself suckered into buying drinks – without getting any phone numbers…
        • A lot of people seemed to push emotional buttons on me like I was a remote control…
        • Almost no one there seemed like they were there to have a good time… they all seemed to have an agenda.

        You probably figured this out already, but what I felt and didn’t recognize until later was this:

        “Everyone Was Playing Social Games With Me…!”

        The experience felt so awful at the time, and the people seemed so difficult, mostly because I didn’t know how to handle it when people played social games with me. The party probably wasn’t as bad as I remember it, but my social skills were.

        And I’ve still found people like this lurking almost everywhere in my life. At work, at the bars and clubs, at parties and social gatherings… even at family gatherings.

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        Before you click away and think this is just another clever ad – take a quick look at what I’m going to cover in the rest of this letter:

        1) How you can create REAL CHANGE in your social ability in just one week…

        2) How you can detect social games in the first three sentences of an interaction…

        3) Learn who the 3 Types of Dysfunctional Game Players are – and how to avoid them…

        4) How to create DEEP rapport with people by staying out of dysfunctional routines that rob you of your energy…

        5) How to avoid being manipulated and controlled – and I’ll share with you how I do it…

        6) Intrigued? Read on – you won’t be disappointed…!

         

        I Think You’ve Felt This Before…

        Maybe you’ve experienced something like my bad “party experience,” or even situations like this:

        • – You go to a car dealership to shop around and you don’t want to buy anything, but after several hours you find yourself driving home in a new car that you had no intention of buying. But he made it sound so good, and you got a SWEET deal… How did you fall for that…?
        • – You’re in a meeting with a co-worker, and she starts to undermine your abilities and performance in the meeting, but you can’t figure out how she’s doing it because she’s not directly insulting you. What kind of Game is she playing…?
        • – You’re hanging out with your friends and someone makes a sly comment about you, and they all chuckle. You go along with it because you don’t want to look like you’re “uptight” or “un-cool.” But somewhere deep inside, you know you were just put-down… Do you know how to deal with it…?
        • – You’re at a family get-together, having dinner together, and your mother starts bugging you about your job, and starting to manipulate you with guilt and fear. As usual, you end up angry and blow up, and eventually you tell her to mind her own business. You end up looking like the jerk, but it was the way she did it that pushed your buttons… How do you stop this from happening…?
        • – You’re out with a friend, and you see a couple of women you want to go talk to. Finally your friend drags you over and you start talking with them. The longer you talk, though, the more your friend seems to be the one getting the attention, and you start getting more and more quiet… How can you stop feeling socially awkward and stay in the conversation…?

        group of people standing I’m pointing these situations out because I have been through ALL of them. And every time one of them happened, I thought of the perfect thing to say to handle the situation – only an hour too late.

        Wouldn’t it be great if you could think of the right thing to say in these situations to destroy the game-playing right away instead of later as you’re walking away…?

        But This is the REALLY Scary Part…

        The games other people play with us are NOTHING compared to the games we play on ourselves.

        You see, there’s two kinds of games going on out there – the games we play with other people, and the ones we play in our own heads.

        You want an example of one that every guy can relate to?

        You’re talking with a woman at a bar, and the conversation is going well. She obviously needs to leave, and you know it’s time to go for the close. So you ask her:

        “Hey, can I have your phone number to talk with you again? Maybe go out for a bite sometime?”

        She tells you she’s not home that much or she would give it to you. “But give me your phone number and I’ll call you,” she says. You give her your number, even though you know at the back of your head that won’t hear from her. You know – deep in your gut – that you needed to just push a little more for her number so that you could make that second meeting happen.

        But you gave in and wussed out.

        What happened?

        This is a classic game that a lot of guys play inside their own heads where they will settle for giving their own phone number on the wishful thinking that they impressed her so much that she’ll “definitely call!”

        Even though we know that only 1 in 50 women ever will. (Probably much fewer…)

        It’s a way for us to let ourselves down easy, and not risk coming away with nothing at all for the time we spent talking to her. After all, there’s still a chance she’ll call… isn’t there?

        The skill of knowing how to handle your own internal games is something called “intra-personal skills,” and it’s something I will touch on again in a minute…

        “Read My Lips – No More Games…!”

        I’m sick of all the games.

        I bet you are, too, aren’t you? And you’re absolutely right to be sick of them.

        There’s something else I want you to know that is VERY important…

        How you handle the social games people play will determine:

          • How much money you will make at your job…

          • The quality of person you date … and wind up marrying…

          • How much fun you have when you go out with friends…

          • The depth and intimacy you have in your relationships – with your family, your friends, and your lover…

          • Your overall level of happiness, security, and confidence that you experience every day…

           

          Does that sound serious to you?

          It should, because in nearly EVERY study performed on the happiest, the most successful, the most fulfilled people in the world, they all came back with the same finding, time after time after time.

          This probably won’t come as a surprise to you, but the discovery was this:

          Your level of:

          *Happiness*
          *Financial success*
          *Inner Fulfillment*
          *Quality of Life*
          and how attractive you are to the opposite sex
          is DIRECTLY related to how strong your social skills are

          This has nothing to do with genetics, intelligence, or the forces that you might think of as being “out of your control…”

          It really has nothing to do with upbringing or social status, either…

          In nearly every person with any great level of success and fulfillment in their lives, the only thing that mattered was how well they managed the other people in their lives.

          WOW…

          I was blown away when I discovered that, and it really changed the way I looked at the world. For years I had believed that there were certain people who were just luckier than others, or just had the gift of “people skills…”

          I thought that was why some guys just got more women than others, and why some women are more successful with men. They must be smarter or better looking, and that’s why they got more dates than me.

          I just accepted this belief that these people had something “special” – a natural talent that I didn’t have.

          Every time I saw my friends being more successful with socializing, being more popular with other people – and the more that I didn’t make friends, or attract women, or make connections – the more I reinforced that false belief.

          What I didn’t realize was that I was creating this flawed foundation upon which my entire social life – and even my dating life – was being built. It was shaky and unsteady, and it couldn’t possibly help me get the kind of lifestyle I wanted to live.

          guy thinking Look, I have to admit something…

          Until I was in my late 20s, I was socially CLUELESS.

          I would go out and not have the faintest idea of how to handle a conversation when I got into it. I usually ended up talking about the one topic I knew the most.

          You know how they say that you should “talk about what you know about”?

          Well the problem was, the only topic I talked about was ME.

          I would just yammer on and on about my life and all about me, not understanding how it was turning people off. Or I just wouldn’t see what was going on in the conversation to figure out when I was being manipulated or de-valued.

          I was making a lot of OTHER social mistakes, too, without even knowing it…

          This lack of social skill and ability was killing a BIG part of my social life.

          “The LESS success I got socially, the MORE it seemed to lower my self-esteem in other areas, too…”

          And I would get VERY self-conscious in social situations, because I always felt like other people were getting the better of me, or that they were just waiting to use something I said against me in some way.

          This might sound a little paranoid, but when you don’t know how to handle people’s games, you do start to get very defensive.

          I even found myself becoming very negative about people in general. I started avoiding social situations because I didn’t have a very good opinion of other people. And I didn’t have a good opinion because of how I felt after talking with them or feeling like I was being “played.”

          For a while there I got pretty angry about it, too.

          Maybe you’ve felt similar to this from time to time, too. That other people are just flaky, manipulative, and self-centered…?

          And – even worse – you start to feel like you can’t trust anybody, either… You want to, but you get a little frustrated because you can’t figure out what’s going on in their games.

          Now that I’m older, I can see these situations for what they are, but I also realized this:

          NO ONE out there shows you how to spot these social games and avoid them in the first place…

           

          Really. Think about it:

          point 1Has anyone ever sat you down and explained how people try to manipulate you with guilt?
          point 2Has anyone ever showed you how other people can trick you into doing what THEY want you to do?
          point 3Has anyone ever explained to you how people use your insecurities and fears as a way to steer or control you?

          Nope.

          Yet it’s being done to you all the time.

          And usually you figure it out after they’ve gamed you – after they got you to do what they wanted, or after you say what they want to hear, or you’ve given them what they want…

          Then the next time it happens, it’s a slightly different situation, and you have to try and spot the game all over again – but you still don’t have a plan or a technique to avoid playing it the next time it comes up.

          And the worst part of this feeling I had about my social ability was that I had NO IDEA where or how to start turning it around. How do I learn these social skills that I saw other people using all the time…?

          These people seemed like such master communicators with this GIFT for handling people. I had no idea where to start learning how they do it. After all, to get social skills and confidence, you need to hang out and talk to people… and I didn’t have the confidence to go hang out and talk to people, so how could I ever get those skills…?

          I was in a catch-22! It was a double-bind.

          I had nowhere to get started, and I spent over ten years in this frustrated state.

          I literally felt like a rat in one of those mazes, trying desperately to find the secret exit to get out. Because I knew if I could just get a look at the maze from above instead of being stuck IN it, I could find the solution.

          Then I finally figured it out…

          “The Solution is to Get Altitude and Perspective Over the Problem…”

          I finally found a way to get myself on track, but it took a lot of work to figure it out – and it’s not something I would ever want you to have to find by trial and error. I know it’s not fun to beat your head against the wall just so it feels good when you stop.

          The good thing is that you don’t have to go through that pain.

          If you’re reading this right now, and you can identify with any of the situations I’ve just talked about, then what you’re about to read next is probably going to change your life – forever.

          I’m not kidding – it’s THAT important.

          You’ve probably experienced the frustration of being under the spell of a manipulative person at some point, haven’t you?

          It’s disorienting and confusing, because you often don’t know how they managed to do to you what they did, but you’re left standing there, smacking your forehead and feeling like you’ve been had.

          You didn’t see it coming, did you?

          I went through years and years of research trying figure out what was happening in these social situations. I read TONS of self-help books, and very few of them really had any real explanation about what was happening. Nothing I found helped me to figure out the “rules” of these games people play. I even went to seminars on group and relationship dynamics, but no luck.

          In the end, I didn’t get almost any of my strategies from those books or seminars.

          I got these secrets from other PEOPLE.

          I got very lucky to find some friends who I knew had some very powerful – and yet compassionate – methods for handling people who try to play games with you.

          The funny thing was that when I pinned these “social naturals” down to help me out, most of them didn’t have the slightest idea they were using social strategies like this to manage game players and social manipulators. When I sat them down and described some of the things I saw that they were doing, they were as amazed as I was.

          You see, they had learned these things on an intuitive level that you and I never got to develop.

          If someone has won a social game situation, or avoided a manipulator or a socially dangerous personality, they’ve used a technique or tactic to do it. A “technique” is just knowing the right thing to say at the right time.

          But here’s the best part:

          If they have a method for handling social games, it can be broken down, taken apart, and you can learn it – just like any other skill out there.

          AND you can use them to destroy the games you play in your own head, as well as the ones other people play with you.

          “Here Are 3 Game Playing Personalities You Must Be Able To Spot Before They Manipulate You…”

          As I studied these “naturals” at social strategy, there were three general types of people that these social experts all seemed to agree were the most dangerous – and the most important to spot before they game you. I want to tell you about all three right here so you can be on your guard…

          GAME PLAYER 1: The Emotional Vampire

          The Emotional VampireThis is the person who we all know – usually a member of our family – that seems to just drain us dry of our energy. Every time you interact with them, your brain feels like you’ve just gone through a six hour final exam in algebra. You’re sapped and depleted.

          And you simply dread talking to them.

          Pretty soon, you just avoid being around them at all, if you can help it.

          Another part of you realizes that if you do avoid them, then THEY are the ones who are still winning the game, even without you around.

          But a lot of the time, you can’t avoid them because they’re your co-workers, or your family…

          Sometimes it’s the person you’re in a serious relationship with.

           

          • How do you spot this personality type?

          Well, if you find yourself emotionally exhausted after dealing with a certain person in your life, and they leave you feeling worse than you did before you started talking with them, there’s a good chance this person is an emotional vampire.

          They steal your energy with any number of subtle maneuvers, most you don’t notice until you’re caught up in their game, and by then it’s too late.

          Also, if you find yourself dreading or resisting contact with this person because of the emotional drain they put on your batteries, chances are they’re a vampire of some kind.

          If you’ve ever seen a name come up on your phone and you found yourself turning off the ringer without answering it, and there was no reason you couldn’t have taken the call – except maybe that sense of avoidance – well, you probably felt that person was going to be a potential vampire.

           

          • How do you deal with them?

          Don’t let them get their teeth in your neck!

          The best defense here is a best offense, which is made up of my 3-part strategy:

          1) Start by recognizing how they work, and being prepared for them up front.

          You need to recognize their game before they blow the whistle and start the play. If you can’t see what they’re up to, you’ll probably find yourself just scratching your head later trying to figure out how you got twisted around their finger…

          2) Let them make their first move…

          You can’t just try to beat them to the punch, or the social player will just switch to a new tactic. You have to let them show you their cards, and then you can choose your own strategy.

          3) And Then WATCH and MANAGE their play…

          When they’ve revealed their cards, you can then use your own skills to create your own winning hand. (Okay I’m done with the game metaphors. Mostly.) Once you have them invested in their approach, you can then use it to steer the social dynamics toward a win-win finish.

          That’s the really special thing about what I teach you – you’re going to learn how to get BOTH you and them to win!

          What if you run into someone that doesn’t just drain your energy, but they try to get something from you? This is the next kind of gamer…

          GAME PLAYER 2: The Emotional Blackmailer

          The Emotional BlackmailerThis type of social game player plays games as a form of extortion – to get favors, or any number of possible rewards they can pull from the situation.

          We’ve all played this one at some point or another. In its most innocent form, you may have just wanted to get a little appreciation from someone in your life.

          Have you ever done a favor and said, “Oh, it was nothing…” but what you really wanted to hear was how it was a big something to the other person?

          That’s a small kind of game. Innocent enough, but still a game.

          Maybe you’ve met this kind of person:

          • The woman who gets you to do favors for her because you fear being rejected or emotionally abandoned…
          • The aunt that calls you up in the middle of the day to get your help running errands (when you already had things to do), but you can’t refuse her because she would gossip to everyone else in your family about just how “thoughtless” and “heartless” you are…
          • The girlfriend who knows how to stroke your ego at the right time to make you feel manly one minute, but then she knows how to start withdrawing her approval and withholding affection because she knows you’ll work hard and do whatever she wants to get it back…
          • The guy in a relationship that criticizes his girlfriend constantly to play on her insecurities and make sure she won’t leave him…
          • The manager who knows exactly how to make you afraid that your performance appraisal will be bad if you don’t help his team out on their ‘special project’… After all, you don’t want to appear uncooperative, do you?

          All of these people are playing a powerful kind of emotional game with us – Blackmail. What they do, through some subtle – and sometimes not-so-subtle games is put us in a position where we are forced to do something to avoid a nasty embarrassment of some kind.

          The reason they do this is sometimes people don’t know the healthy way of getting what they want, so they use this game on us. They may not mean to play a game, but it comes out anyway.

           

          • How do you spot this personality type?

          If you feel like you did something against your will to avoid a negative outcome – an outcome that the other person could control – then chances are you were blackmailed.

           

          • How do you deal with them?

          The best offense is a great defense, and especially so with this type of game player.

          Keep your eyes open, and don’t let their actions fly under your radar. Very often, the emotional blackmailer loses their ability to control you or manipulate you when you expose their game out into the open.

          But there’s a particularly nasty game player that doesn’t try to hide it. In fact this type flaunts their power over you. It’s the…

          GAME PLAYER 3: The Emotional Bully

          The Emotional BullyJust like the bully on the playground, this is the person that pushes you around and uses you to achieve their own goals and ends.

          • Maybe this is the person at work that pushes you into helping them for fear of their influence and power – or their ability to damage your career
          • Maybe this is the guy you met while you’re out at a club, and he intimidates you with his overbearing personality – or embarrasses you in public so that he can push you out of the picture, meet the woman you’re with, and steal her for himself…
          • Maybe this is the woman that creates uncomfortable social situations – like crying fits or emotional tantrums – to get you to give in to her demands…

          Quite honestly, these people can also be emotional terrorists.

          Look, I know how charged a word that can be… Terrorist. Ouch.

          I even debated mentioning it at all, but when I wrote it down, I knew that I was just telling the Truth.

          (NOTE: When you’re pushed into shame about your politically “INcorrect” views or comments, this is also a form of game playing and emotional manipulation that people will often use to control you.)

           

          • How do you spot this personality type?

          The Emotional Bully is the kind of person can literally make your life a living hell with constant demands, emotional tirades, and total unpredictability. They leave you with a feeling of dread and anxiety 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

          If you find yourself feeling this way, or pushed into doing things for another person frequently, you’re probably in a relationship with a bully.

           

          • How do you deal with them?

          If you sense that you might be dealing with an emotional bully, remember that these covert abusers are often very good at covering their tracks, so other people might not see what you are experiencing. The best way to start is to make a note of abusive incidents so that you can review them later on when your head is clear.

          One thing that you must get in the habit of doing is to not let the emotions of a game playing situation run away from you so that you react badly and only make your situation worse.

          But the good news is that the emotional bully responds to some very simple strategies that end their games FAST. They are, in fact, one of the easiest game players to deal with once you’ve identified them.

          Is There Any Hope…?

          What I thought was just one problem – not having social skills – was actually TWO problems in one.

          The first problem was that I wasn’t SEEING the games people were playing and what they were doing.

          The second problem was that even if I did identify what they were doing, I didn’t know what to do to avoid being manipulated.

          I am excited to say that there is a happy ending to this story. For both me and you.

          With all that I’ve told you, you might be thinking that everyone is out to get you, just waiting to make your life a living hell.

          Don’t get paranoid. That’s not true at all. Most of the social gamers are not playing you intentionally, even when it seems like they are.

          You see, these game-playing people didn’t grow up with a big fat reference book on their shelf called “How to Play Games With People.” They weren’t taught how to play games…well, at least not directly.

          We learned how to play games and manipulate like this from examples of other people. Usually by our families. We saw what worked and what didn’t to get results, and we adopted those strategies.

          Let’s face it:

          Any situation where you’re being emotionally manipulated is an opportunity for you to shine – IF you know how to handle the game player, and WHAT TO SAY to end the confrontation correctly…

          And the cool thing is…

          “Now you can learn how to manage people like this – or avoid the games and manipulation entirely…”

          Oh, and an even cooler part of this is that once you can spot the games other people are playing, you can also get rid of your games.

          Ahem …

          Yes, you play games, too. We all do.

          Once you accept this and learn the rules, the games aren’t a problem anymore.

          In fact, you’ll find yourself looking forward to finding new and more intricate situations to figure out for yourself. It sounds funny, but you’ll actually feel excited to go find new and interesting people to talk with and get to know, because you’ll feel so confident and capable in your social ability.

          It actually becomes FUN to play with people and get into social dynamics – no matter what kind, because you know that whatever someone can come up with, you have an arsenal of social skills of your own to handle them. And your social network will explode without you even realizing it.

          And The Most Important Part is This…

          When you have developed these social skills, you’ll find that you can actually connect with people on a much deeper and more AUTHENTIC level than ever before.

          I noticed that when I would talk to people, and I could get past the games, I was able to really establish an indestructible sense of rapport.

          This happened with women, men – everyone I socialized with.

          It got to the point where I had to start being very careful with this skill because people were forming some unhealthy dependencies on me. One woman even told me she felt like I understood her ten times more than her therapist…

          Yikes!

          You see, it’s not just about dealing with all the people out there as potential enemies that you have to protect yourself against. I don’t want you to think that I’m going to teach you how to be a fortress of solitude and lack that human compassion…

          This is really about developing your vital social powers to the point where you can actually let down your guard and get REAL with people like you never thought possible.

          Most people don’t realize just how counter-productive and unnecessary their social games are, and they desperately need the other person to help them get past the games.

          That person can be YOU.

           

          Did You Know…?

          • If you’re a social introvert, that does not mean you’re shy and socially clueless… it just means that you get your energy from being alone rather than being in a big group of people. Unfortunately, being an introvert can lead to being social handicapped later on, so its important to understand how to work with your personality type…
          • The worst thing you can do to a socially manipulative person is expose them. If you do, most often they will find a way to retaliate, or cause you even more problems down the road. Which is why you must know the strategies I teach to handle them…
          • There are only 6 types of social game player personalities, and that’s ALL. Once you learn what they are, you can avoid being manipulated or hurt, and you can almost always get to a winning solution for both of you…
          • If you understand these basic social skills, you create a “template” within your mind that allows you to handle any relationship – with any person…

           

          “Here’s Something Truly Unique And Incredible For Your Social Skills…”

          Until now, there was NOWHERE you could go to learn social skills and abilities like the ones I’ve discussed here.

          You either had “it” or you didn’t… and if you didn’t, the only way you could figure these skills out was to be as thick-skulled as I am and spend years figuring it all out on your own.

          A moment ago I told you about how I managed to capture some of these “natural” people – the men and women that are socially successful in any situation. They are like chameleons, able to blend into any social situation and make it work for them.

          Well, their knack for social power can also work for YOU.

          I managed to capture their techniques and their social strategies for you to learn.

          What I did was create a home-study audio program where you can learn these Power Social Skills in your car, on the bus, or anywhere you like.

          I just put the finishing touches on a personal development program called the Power Social Skills – Social Dynamics” Program – where I will teach you how to handle or destroy any social games, avoid manipulation, identify the dangerous personalities out there, and get REAL & AUTHENTIC connection with just about anyone.

          This program is the very first of its kind, designed from the ground up to help you overcome any of your social limitations and pull you out into the world like never before.

          This program was created and structured to help you go from wherever you may be in your social abilities – from poor to average, or even good social ability – all the the way to COMPLETE SOCIAL MASTERY.

          Unfortunately, most men and women NEVER learn more than a small fraction of the information that I’ve put together in this program – if they learn any of it at all.

          Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics

           

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