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Carlos Xuma – 77 Secret Girlfriend Strategies Download

FINALLY REVEALED: How To Approach Any Woman And Make Her So Turned On She Will Do Anything To Be With You.

77 Bulletproof Approaches

77…It’s a magic number.

Remember it.

It’s going to be the most important number you need to know.

Listen…

Do you like pretty girls?

I bet you do.

But do you worry about what to say to women or even if she wants to date you before you approach her?

And does all that ‘monkey chatter’ in your head make you agonize over your “opening line”?

Do you walk around with huge REGRET about missing the chance to approach a woman because she is gone by the time you finally think of the “perfect opening line?”

What if you knew the loophole, a biological super-highway that let you tap into a woman’s primal desires…

and gave you the power to approach and connect with any girl you want  – anywhere…

and be able to not only attract her, but fill her with an uncontrollable desire for you?

The truth is,

Your goal isn’t just to meet her…

it’s to make her so interested in you, so intrigued by meeting you…

so curious about who you are and what it would be like to be with you…

that she can’t stop thinking about you

and she has the uncontrollable urge to be near you…

By the time you’re done approaching and connecting with a woman…

the look on her face is going to say: who is that guy and when is he going to fuck me?

Sexy WomenIf you want to not only approach and connect with beautiful women…

But inspire them to want to date you, to have sex with you…

And possibly more…

If you want to have a different woman every night of the week…

Or

You want that one special girl to have in your life, as your loving, loyal girlfriend …

All without the possibility of failure or rejection…

then the most important number you need to know is: 77…

That number is going to keep you from ever being put in the ‘Friendzone’ again.

In fact, if you use what I’m going to show you today, you can get out of any friendzone you’re in now.

And make that girl think of you as the guy she wants, in a sexual way.

To hook-up with or for a relationship. As someone she wants as her boyfriend.

in fact she can’t stop thinking about you…

But I have to warn you…

this is no lame, Pick Up Artist trick.

I’m going to show you the secret loophole I discovered…

A system of approaching that triggers something called the attraction-sex-love connection, all women have in their DNA.

An incredible discovery.

How to use the basic primal desires every woman is born with,

to make her so turned on and create an uncontrollable aching NEED to be near you, she will do anything to be with you.

She will literally hunt you down.

If you think you can handle that, then stay with me all the way through to the end.

It’s definitely going to be worth it.

This is no joke.

I promise you by the end of this letter not only will you be able to approach, meet and trigger the attraction-sex-love connection with any girl you want…

no matter how hot she is or how many guys hit on her.

BUT you will also have the POWER to inspire her, force her to keep thinking about you long after you’ve gone…

and to set off in her a desperate need …

an out of control desire to see you again, to get close to you so strong —  she will be helpless to resist.

But I have to warn you, if you ignore a woman’s attraction-sex-love connection…

Or you don’t know how to activate it, you will always end up in the friend zone ”“ no matter what you do.

All you have to do is read this all the way through and I promise I’m going to explain it, step-by-step.

And by the end of this short video, you will NEVER think of the number 77 the same way again..

More about that in a minute.

This is David and I want to ask you an important question…

Your answer will say a lot about you and what kind of man you are:

Would you like to be able to go right over and meet the hottest girl in the room, or even on the street… wherever you are?

Whether it’s a bar, a beach, a restaurant, on the street, at a coffee shop anywhere…

Not just meet her and get her number…

but in less than 5 minutes, make her feel like she NEEDS to be next to you, and to know more about you…

flirting with you, touching you whispering in your ear?

And do it all without any fear of failure…

Without any self-doubt or the usual monkey chatter in the back of your brain…

The kind that makes you self-sabotage, eject yourself from the situation and run away like… well like a pussy?

Would you like to be able to approach beautiful women with an absolute certainty that you are going to be successful...

Without the hesitation, awkward pauses or the usual “holy crap what do I do now” feeling you always get when the conversation lags or stalls?

Successful in flirting and escalating sexually

Then leaving at the exact right time that makes women want more of you, physically crave you

Successful in unlocking her sensual side so that…

she can’t wait to hear from you and she even fantasizes about you…

Now you’re probably thinking…

“Come on, David. What guy wouldn’t WANT to be able to do that? Hell, that’s impossible. Nobody can do that, let alone in less than 5 minutes.”

I’m sure that’s what you’re thinking because that’s exactly what I used to think.

That it was impossible.

In fact, I use to live my whole life with the word ‘impossible’.

Believing all the good stuff was ‘impossible’.

What I really wanted to accomplish… the life I wanted, was ‘impossible’.

The man I wanted to be, the girls I wanted to meet and have sex with,

The women I wanted to have as my girlfriend, was ‘impossible’.

I lived my life never pushing the boundaries, never challenging myself to see what I could accomplish if I stepped outside my comfort zone.

Because I was convinced it was just impossible.

Does any of that sound familiar to you?

Are you living an average life, because you think the life you truly desire, the man you really want to be deep down in your heart, your biggest dreams…

are impossible?

Aren’t you sick and tired of ‘average’?

I know I was. I bet I can describe your ‘average’ life pretty easily. I bet you and I are a lot alike.

I bet you get really lonely sometimes, right?

It’s probably not something you talk about with your friends, but it sucks.

I remember feeling so lonely I literally felt like crying. I used to wonder if I was ever going to have a girl I really liked next to me.

If I was ever even going to get laid again.

It seemed like everywhere I went, I would see hot girls hanging out with these guys and I would think…

“Man I know I’ve got more to offer than that guy! Why in the world is she with him”? It got so bad for a while that I stopped going out altogether.

Loneliness is tough.

I was working and hanging out in bars in New York City.

And that’s where I would meet women. I would hang around and talk to them after they had a few drinks, and I had a few drinks…

It was pretty sloppy.

I mean, I was getting laid. But only with drunken bar sluts that were hanging around at last call.

These were not girls I wanted to see again. I didn’t even want to see them in the daylight (if you know what I mean).

And I never brought them back to my place.

So finally I stopped and I swore off the last call girls.

But then it got lonely. I got so lonely I had to get out of apartment. I would wander around for hours and hours.

I would walk around New York, and I would study people and how they interacted.

Entire days would pass and I had spent the entire time studying people. Months went by.

I got a job in the busiest department store in New York City, Just so I could watch, learn and experiment with approaching and connecting instantly with women.

I worked at Bloomingdales for almost 2 years. And every day I would, approach, flirt and eventually seduce women I had never met before.

I did it so much and so often, I eventually became an outlier;

I was so good at it, it became effortless. I could meet any woman and in under 5 minutes get her completely turned on, emotionally and physically.

It became like a parlor trick. I could challenge a friend to pick any woman in a store, at a restaurant, even at the beach…

And I would go over and pick them up in less than 5 minutes.

And I’ll tell you more about that in a minute.

How are you doing with confidence… is it a struggle?

That’s a big one, right?

If you had more confidence…

you could be yourself. If you saw a girl you wanted to meet, you could just go over and introduce yourself.

Say “Hi”.

It seems so simple.

But without that confidence inside, there’s no way. You see a beautiful woman and it feels like you are frozen stiff. Like you can’t move.

And the conversation in your head won’t stop. The self-doubt, the anger. It’s like a loop that plays over and over, right?

Do you sometimes think you aren’t good enough for the girls you really like?

Do you sit back and watch other guys move in on the girl you WANT and he takes her home instead of you?

Tell you what used to happen to me, I’d see a girl I wanted to talk so badly…

I would imagine what it would be like to kiss her, touch her, have sex with her.

Then this annoying thought would buzz around in my head. Like a gnat.

That I didn’t deserve her.

I wasn’t good enough for her. And I’d just walk away without even trying.

And then I would beat myself up for the rest of the day for being such a pussy!

That ever happen to you?

Are you confused, and can’t figure why you haven’t been able to figure out this approach thing yet?

Just want to know what’s wrong with you– so you can fix it?

Let’s get one thing straight right here, there is nothing wrong with you. Not one damn thing.

And it’s not about money

You don’t need to spend a lot of money to be with women. I promise it’s not about that.

The problem is, you aren’t doing anything right.  You aren’t being positive and pro active. You aren’t trying at all. Not really.

You’re playing it safe. And when you do that, nothing good happens.

It’s the weirdest thing, it wasn’t until I TRIED to make mistakes on purpose, did I discover how easy it was to get it right!

And these weren’t small mistakes, I went big. I was trying to fall flat on my face. A few times it nearly got me fired from Bloomingdales.

I tried and tried and tried…

And then I LEARNED.

Well my friend, today is your lucky day.

Today, I’m going to show you how to do it right. All of it.

I’m going to give you your Super Powers to do the ‘impossible’.

I found this super power by discovering a strange and slightly dangerous loophole that goes back to our evolution.

With all my efforts, my thousands of attempts, trying over and over, I stumbled down an unfamiliar road.

And when I took it just to see where it went, figuring it was another dead end, it became clear pretty fast I found the biological super-highway to incredible success with women.

I cracked the code.

By tapping into our most primal desires…

I unlocked the secret to the attraction-sex-love connection.

And it’s not about posturing or some stupid pick up lines.

It’s not about being rich or having big muscles or a cool car.

It’s about unlocking the natural desires every woman is born with.

For that reason, any man, anywhere can approach and attract any woman. And I mean any woman.

Stay with me and I’ll show you exactly how to do it.

In this short video I’m going to give you the key to having the kind of life most guys don’t even talk about (cause it’s so far beyond what they think possible).

But they sure as hell dream about it. Just like I did.

The biological super-highway I stumbled across, changed my life into something way past my wildest fantasies,

so unbelievable even friends who saw it happen in person, who saw what I can do in less than 5 minutes, anywhere, anytime I want, were left in a state of disbelief.

Beautiful WomenIt’s what got me interviewed on Nightline when they saw what I could do in Whole Foods…

And it’s why they made the movie ‘Hitch’ about me.

The truth is, people are flat out stunned and amazed.

77.

Today, I’m going to give you that same knowledge and I promise you it will change your life in ways you never thought possible.

In ways most men barely have the courage to even fantasize about.

The ability to make your wildest fantasies come true whenever you want, can be your reality. Like it is mine.

Not only is it possible, I’m going to show you exactly how to do it, right now.

But I’m not going to stop there, I’m going to make success approaching women so simple for you…

So incredibly foolproof that it’s impossible for you to make a mistake…

That I can basically guarantee you will succeed every single time you approach a woman….

You’re probably thinking…

Seriously, David? How in the world are you going to “guarantee” my success?

Actually, it’s pretty simple.

I’m going to give you the actual approaches that you can cut and paste…

And you will be able to do it whenever you want.

And it doesn’t matter how good looking you are, what kind of shape you’re in, what kind of a car you drive, or even if you’re out of work, overweight and bald!

These approaches work. Period.

When I teach them to friends and clients, they can’t believe how easy it is to approach women and create the feelings, the sense of attraction and connection that lead to intimacy…

And how amazing their results are when they try it themselves.

And those guys were totally clueless when it came to girls.

But first, you and I have to make a pact.

An agreement.

You need to promise me if I open that door for you and show you the secret I discovered,

if I give you the keys to the kingdom, you will have the courage to act and become a man of action

and you’ll use this rare knowledge to get out of your damn comfort zone and make your life better.

Sure, you could use it to meet as many women and have as much sex as you can, with women who never looked at you twice or even gave you a chance before.

But I hope you use it to make your life better.

Now, I need to tell you a quick story about me.

You see I wasn’t always the guy that could attract any woman, anywhere, any time. Quite the opposite.

I was just an average guy living in New York City.

I did all sorts of crazy stuff to make money, whatever I could to pay the bills. And it wasn’t always easy.

I was a bartender for a long time.

And like I said, there were always girls around.

But when I tried to meet the women I was really attracted to, I struck out.

Every single time I would approach a woman when I wasn’t behind the bar, the monkey chatter in my head made me doubt myself.

And then I would eject myself from the conversation before I could get their number.

Eventually, I lost all of my confidence and my sense of myself as a man.

I thought no woman was ever going to be attracted to me unless she was drunk.

Honestly, that’s how I felt.

I had no idea how to meet women.

But I was lonely. So lonely I couldn’t stand to be by myself  in my own apartment.

I had no idea what to do and no confidence. I was desperately unhappy so I did something a little crazy.

Listen closely because this is important.

I had no game.

I went to work every day at the department store and I watched people meet. Over and over until I knew what they were going to say before they said it.

And that’s when I knew I was ready. Ready to push beyond my comfort zone.

Sometimes I was afraid I would get slapped but I was always afraid of rejection.

But the crazy thing is, it never happened.

The more I pushed, the more they responded.

The more bold I was, the more interested women were…

I’m going to say that again…

The more bold I was the more interested women were…

And the more attraction and connection I created.

And the connection would immediately grow and escalate. Honestly it was like magic.

Everything I did turned out right!

These women were teaching me how to approach them and create the feeling of attraction with them…

They treated me like I was the only man in the world

Like I was the only one that knew their true desire… the rare insight most men never know.

And they NEVER put me in the friend zone. Not once.

And that’s when the light bulb went off.

The ‘aha’ moment that changed my life.

With their help, I had unlocked women’s attraction code.

I’ll tell you the rest in a minute.

Right now I’m going to tell you the 3 things — the only 3 things you have to do to approach and create that sense of attraction and intimate connection with women instantly.

Fast and easy. Because that’s all it takes. 3 things.

But first I need to tell the 3 Big Lies you are being forced to swallow.

I hate these lies because they don’t do anything but make problems for you. And make you feel like there’s some giant secret you don’t know about.

Like you’re not one of the popular kids.

And all the noise has got into your head, telling you that you aren’t good enough.

That’s Big Lie #1, that for some crazy reason, YOU aren’t good enough for the kind of life you want, and the kind of women that really turn you on.

That the world is made-up of have’s and have-not’s. And you my friend, are being told you’re a ‘have not’.

That’s just bullshit!

You’re being sold a bunch of crap…

Here’s the thing, it’s not your fault for buying into it.

It’s all just a bunch of blah, blah, blah…

Those guys are full of crap. There are no magic lines that can get a girl to drop her panties.

If there was, every guy in the world would be using them.

And that’s Big Lie #2.

That if you use a ‘certain’ pick-up line, or you play some ‘game’, you’ll suddenly be able to meet woman and seduce them, as if by magic.

Yes, we all know women react to men with confidence and presence.

It’s what they are programmed to do, biologically.

The best line in the world will fail every time if you have no confidence, presence and charisma.

But even if you are confident – a connection that leads intimacy, sex and a relationship (if you want one), only happens when you trigger her biological attraction-sex-love switch.

(more about that in a minute).

That leads me to Big Lie #3.

Big lie #3 is the common belief that what I do, approaching and getting close to a woman,…

so close she’s desperate to know more about you, to bear near you and date you, in less than 5 minutes — is impossible.

You have to see it to believe (and I’ll show it to you). But it’s real.

I swear to you it’s real.

You could spend countless hours, using every pick up artist system or magic pick-up lines…

but you only get a bunch of double talk, and slickly marketed bull-shit.

I was determined than ever to figure it out. No short cuts and no pick up lines. No fake it till you make it.

So I became a student. A student of human nature.

I bought every single book on human behavior, psychology and persuasion I could find.

And after years of studying, I learned that attraction isn’t about a line, or a lie, playing games or creating some ‘I’m not really that into you’, bad boy attitude.

At it’s core, creating an attraction so intense a woman will reveal her primal desire, is about making a real connection with her.

And that right there, is the reason why women put 99% of guys they meet into the friend zone.

Even if you approach a woman and have a real conversation, if you don’t establish an emotional and physical connection with her, she has no choice to think of you as anything other than a friend.

If you don’t trigger her in a primal way… her brain can’t make the attraction-sex-love connection.

You see, meeting and attracting women is a simple and most basic human function, one of our 3 primal needs. Besides food and shelter.

Think about it this way,

How long have men been creating desire women…

Forever, right?

Or humans would have died off a long time ago.

Do you think our ancestors, thousands of years ago, stood around figuring out a system to attract women… playing pick-up games or pretending not to be interested…

Seriously?

It’s a joke. They saw what they wanted, what was desirable and imposed their will.

Men and women, attraction and sex, these are the forces of nature.

As human beings, it’s in our DNA, it has to be.

We are designed that way in order to propagate the species.

And it’s a natural progression of 3 things.

That’s it. Just 3 things and the best part is…

we do them naturally!

That’s how I know the pick-up guys are full of it. Not one of them ever mentioned being primal, or our biological needs.

The physical desire and the genetic need for, connection, touch and sex.

Not just men. Men and women. It’s why you and me are on this planet. We need touch and sex.

All of us.

Did you know that without touch from another person, eventually humans will die?

Did you know that we aren’t engineered to be alone, that it goes against our nature and is actually unhealthy?

The truth is, you aren’t a “wimp” because you feel lonely.

Your body is feeling sick.

Listen…

When it comes to approaching and triggering the attraction-sex-love connection in women

an uncontrollable urge to be near you

And it doesn’t matter if you’re attracted by hot young women, or a little older,

Whether you like long-legged, skinny girls with tight bodies and small butts…

or you like them a little bigger, rounder, with big boobs and a nice butt so you can have something to grab onto…

if you’re attracted to blondes or brunettes, black women, Asian or hot Latina girls…

Or if you’re like me and you like all women…

All you have to do is 3 things to trigger the attraction-sex-love connection…

Just 3 things. Period.

I’ll tell you what they are in a minute.

First, I have to warn you about a big problem, something you might not even realize.

Think about the story of Adam and Eve for a minute.

I know it’s a story made up by men.

But there’s a lot you can learn from the story of Adam and Eve.

Adam, was a man who suddenly found himself standing next to the hottest girl in the world

Eve was a perfect ‘10’, created by god to be so incredibly desirable they would do nothing but make babies, right?

And they were both naked.

What would you do if you were in that same position?

Pretty funny to think about.

Adam didn’t have any pick-up lines… So what did he do?

He did exactly what I do.

He went over and talked to her, with confidence. Not like a fool with a system of pick-up lines or ridiculous questions.

He started by saying ‘hi’.

Which is perfect. I coach guys to use it all the time.

The best thing to say a woman, any woman, is ‘hi’…

And it has never failed me.

I’ve never missed talking to any woman, anywhere. Not in New York, Denver, San Diego, Miami, London, Chicago or Los Angeles.

And that’s Step 1: ‘Talk to Her’.

The first thing you have to do to meet and create desire in a woman, it’s pretty obvious but — you have to say ‘hi’.

Do you think you can do that? Of course you can.

You’d be surprised how many guys screw it up doing ridiculous BS they saw on the internet. It’s simple:

Walk over with confidence, say ‘hi’. Start talking to her.

Nothing fancy. Just like your talking to a buddy or your neighbor.

Don’t over think it, that’s another place most guys get into trouble.

They start thinking about the perfect thing to say and the result.

What they want. Or they think, ‘oh man if this girl would give me her number and go out with me’ ”“ or ‘if I could have sex with her’ — ‘if she was my girlfriend’ ”“

Forget all that crap. Just talk to her.

Can you guess the #1 biggest problem guys have meeting women?

They don’t know what to say.

Why? Because they over think it.

Any girl will tell you it’s never about what you say but how you say it and your body language…

That brings me to Step 2.

Step 2 is another thing you have to do but you can’t over think.

You have to be relaxed and confident, like a man.

When you’re talking to her, find a way to give her a small compliment. Nothing over the top like, ‘ oh my god you’re so beautiful’.

But something small, that makes her feel good.

You need to make her feel important…

Every woman in the world wants to meet an alpha-male, a real man, and real men compliment women.

But you can’t stop there.

This is the exact spot where most guys stop and it’s the reason why they fail and get tossed into the friend zone.

Time after time.

If you walk over with confidence, say “hello” and have a conversation. Most women will give you their phone number.

But she will forget about you as soon as you walk away.

And by the time you text her or call her, she’s had so many distractions, friends, guys, texts, hits on her Tinder… whatever…

The truth is…

You have no chance with her.

Zero.

That’s because you left out the most important part.

You left out Step 3.

Step 3 is the key that unlocks attraction.

It’s the super-highway to her attraction-sex-love connection.

Do you remember the one thing that all humans need or they will die?

You got it… It’s touch.

You have to touch her, to break through the imaginary barrier she has and make contact.

I’m not talking about grabbing her ass or doing anything inappropriate…

It could be small like touching her arm or her hand…

You could even give her a hug when you say goodbye…

When you break the barrier and touch a woman it sends a primal signal to her brain…

And she instantly starts to think of you in a different way…

It sends a flood of oxytocin through her body that makes think of you as a romantic interest and a sex partner…

It’s the same chemical that her brain releases when she has an orgasm, so you know it makes her feel all warm and friendly.

Like she’s ready to have sex…

Because she is ready to have sex!

If you think back to every girl that ever stuck you in the FRIENDZONE, I guarantee you didn’t touch, skin to skin, the first time you met.

Listen up because this is too important to miss…

Here’s how I know for absolute certainty all pick-up lines are crap…

Triggering the attraction-sex-love connection in a woman is not about what you say…

It’s almost entirely about what you do and how you do it.

If you have positive, masculine body language and you touch her…

It almost doesn’t matter what you say to a woman. You will succeed.

I have seen guys master this technique so well…  sometimes they can hook-up with a woman without saying a word.

I swear it’s true.

It happened last year at one of my boot camps, in front of 7 other guys…

Here’s the thing, I hope you’re about done believing that for some reason you aren’t good enough to approach and date the girls you really want…

That for some reason these women are ‘out of your league’.

I want to help you because I know the right way to do it, with no chance of failure or rejection.

And I want to save you the time, the money, the frustration and the heartache I went through.

I’m going to give you my shortcut…

I’m going to show you exactly how to do it. And you can copy me.

These approaches are proven to work 100% of the time and you can cut-and-paste them.

I’m going to give you the approaches that activate a woman’s attraction-sex-love connection word for word, action for action.

Not just what to say, how to stand and act, the way to move… everything.

These are videos of average guys like you approaching great women, and I coach them. I break down exactly what to do at each moment, at every turn in the conversation.

I guide you past her red flags and trap doors that plunge straight to the Friend Zone..

And lead you straight to the promised land…

Her attraction-sex-love connection…

Step by step.

But that’s not the best part,

The best part is that there is a panel of gorgeous women that were the ones approached and they gave their feedback, insight, criticism and keys for success…

All from the woman’s point of view!

And when you have these step-by-step approaches, as coached by me with the insight from the panel of beautiful women…

You are going to have

the cut and paste recipe for success…

They’re literally bullet proof.

And you will have all of these approaches right at your fingertips.

On your computer, your tablet and even on your phone so you can access them wherever and whenever you need them

Does this sound amazing… like exactly what you’ve always wanted?

Can you guess how many of these bullet proof approachesI have for you ”“ how many girls we talked to, created intense physical desire by accessing the attraction-sex-love connection and got their numbers?

That’s the number to remember.


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Carlos Xuma – Secrets of the Alpha Male Review | Carlos Xuma – Secrets of the Alpha Male Download

Carlos Xuma - Secrets of the Alpha Male Download

“Learn the Secrets of The Alpha Male Self-Confidence To Attract Beautiful Women, Increase Your Self-Esteem, Approach Women – And Improve Every Part of YOUR Life!”

The Secrets of the Alpha Male ebook is complete, and though I have never, ever said this about any ebook in the seduction community, it is worth the asking price. It is a combination of both PUA material and male empowerment, each element complementing the other. It addresses everything. Most authors who attempt to address the subject of Manhood do so from a philosophical high-ground using vague rhetoric, leaving the onus on the reader to figure out how to translate this mindset into everyday situations, or worse, they give you a list of common situations or ‘steps’ and preapproved responses to them, implicitly excluding all other possible eventualities that may occur in the dynamic realm of male-female social interaction.

I must admit I am biased in that I liked his tone from the start. Being of the opinion that feminism has gone too far, and that true masculinity is in jeopardy in America, his message found resonance with my own belief system. He starts by reframing, although he does it more in the straight-talk sense than the NLP, “imagine-yourself-ten-feet-tall” sense. He then sets out, methodically, to define the essence of Alpha Man dominance and translates that into just about every possible sphere of male existence with great detail, of which seduction is only a part. He discusses career, family, friends, sports hobbies, you name it, and how the alpha handles his life in these realms, giving concrete examples. The sheer depth and breadth is impressive, and he rarely resorts to empty filler.

If this book could be summarized in once sentence, it is this this:

Masculinity is power.

There is a tasteful mix of articulate intellectualism and testosterone-induced bellows of motivational speech. He draws references from management theory, martial science, marketing, martial arts, his own experience, and plain old common sense, to make his case, and his case is ironclad. It is less of a seduction tool than it is a manual by which to live your life, although it has its fair share of openers, and a handful of routines.

Cons: Plaigarism. He mentions Mystery Method concepts and absorbs material from across the span of the community without giving credit, although he never specifically states that he created them. However, this is common in the community. It is possible that he himself may not live the ideal Alpha Man lifestyle, but knows how to capture its essence, structuralize it, break it down, and market it.

Secrets of the Alpha Male CONCLUSION

This ebook deserves a place alongside Double Your Dating and the VAH Handbook, and I would go so far as to say that it is, in many repects, superior to both. It gets deep into the heart of masculinity, and I wish that my father had given me this kind of speech when I was approaching puberty. It would have cleared up a lot of things right from the start.

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Badass Body Language by Carlos Xuma

Alpha Masculinity by Carlos Xuma

Alpha man conversation and persuasion by Carlos Xuma

Power Social Skills by Carlos Xuma

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Carlos Xuma – Alpha Lifestyles Program Tripple Threat Download

Alpha Lifestyle™ Triple-Threat

WARNING: What You’re About to Read is Information You Will Probably Never Learn From a “Pickup Artist” or “Seducer…”

  From the desk of Carlos Xuma
Tuesday, 10:35 a.m.
I’m Carlos Xuma, and I’ve been teaching men how to be more attractive to women for over 10 years. You probably know me from my other dating advice programs, seen me on television, or heard me on the radio.Let me ask you something:

  • Do you ever feel like there’s an endless amount of information on the subject of how to pickup women?
  • Do you ever wish you had a program that showed you how ALL of these techniques and strategies ties together?

Hang on, because I’m about to show you something that will finally give you the answers you’ve been searching for. I just created what I consider to be the ultimate guide on how to attract women.

Many years back, I was caught up in a desperate cycle in my life. I wanted to know how to get beautiful women into my life, but I had no idea how to do it. They seemed so strange and hard to understand.Then, after getting so sick and tired of being single and alone (when you reach rock bottom, the only way to go is up), I made it my mission to figure out how to get the women I wanted.

But I also learned something else: I didn’t just want the women – I wanted the LIFESTYLE that the men who are successful in life enjoy.

After I figured out the women part of the equation, I found that the same things that made me more interesting and successful with women are the same core skills that make men more successful with:

  • Their friendships and social networks…
  • Their careers…
  • Their finances and wealth…
  • Their family life…
  • Their hobbies and passions…

THIS IS THE FINISHING TOUCH TO YOUR SOCIAL AND ATTRACTION SKILLS…

In fact, the more I focused on what I started to call the “Alpha Lifestyle™” skills, the more women seemed to be attracted to me. They were drawn to this “inner fire” I had started inside myself, and it was hypnotic in power.

I even found that there were a lot of great side effects of developing these skills, like:

  • I lost the “neediness” for women that I’d had most of my life.
  • I found that my peers respected me and admired me like never before.
  • I doubled my income every year for 5 years running, and started an investment plan that gave me financial security.
  • I felt MASSIVELY confident in situations that I could never have imagined before, such as speaking before groups, becoming a Vice-president in a Fortune 500 company, starting my own business, among others.
  • I accomplished 9 out of the 10 long-term goals for my life I had set for myself, including my black belt in a martial art, learning a new language, getting the cool car I always wanted, and so much more.
  • I had as many as four women at a time that I was actively dating…

Now, before you think I’m going off on some wild spiritual trip, or I’m going to get all new-agey on you, I want you to realize that this was all done by simply starting myself on a path, with no idea which way to go. At first, I just winged it.

When I got to certain goals, I stopped, made a note in my journal, and went on to the next one.

I wanted more than just pickup artist skills – I wanted LIFE skills…Along the way, I encountered some incredible mentors and fantastic wisdom that helped guide me much faster to the next goal…And the next goal…And the next.

Now, it took me a long time to get where I am today, but I kept track of the roadmap I used so that you can get there MUCH faster.

Are You a Recovering Pickup Manual Junkie?

If you’re like me, you’ve read a TON of stuff out there on this topic. I got addicted to acquiring more and more information on how to get women.

I’d buy this program … and that program … and the next one…In fact, you’re probably wondering why the hell we need another program on the subject of attracting women. Hasn’t this all been covered before?

Nope. Not like this. You know that my programs are unique from anything else out there on the market.

Look, if you’ve ever been desperate to get a girlfriend, and then you got her, and then you realized that you were bored again and itching for something else, you already know that women are not the solution. But we keep chasing them as if they were the goal.

It’s not a new woman you need … it’s a new PURPOSE.

I decided that we have seen enough of the “how to pickup and seduce women” techniques, and instead I’m giving you a complete game plan that is not based solely on how to pickup women. It’s about how to build the kind of lifestyle you’ve always wanted – with YOUR goals, YOUR dreams, and YOUR mission… Because if you do that, the women will follow you.

There’s no point recycling the same old stuff unless you can get new wisdom and a better way of creating your own confident Alpha Lifestyle™, and that’s what I’ve done in this program.

If you’ve read all the ebooks, worn out your David D. programs, and learned all the best “dating guru” and “seduction” material, you’re finally ready for a program to pull it all together for you. I’m going to show you how to make sure your life is balanced and complete, inside and out.

I’m here to help you attain the Alpha Lifestyle™ most guys dream about.

What I’m about to describe is a lifestyle that 99% of men think is impossible for them to achieve.

They think it’s the “other guys” who are blessed with the ability to get all the girls, make all the money, and live however they want to. Most men can’t even imagine that they possess this very same ability.

Yet there is a POWERFUL method that gives ANY man the ability to shape his own destiny and lifestyle. It’s a way to get the RESULTS you want: from women, your career, and your precious time on this earth.

You can’t afford to not live your life to the fullest.

I want to congratulate you in advance, because you’re about to join the 1% of men who enjoy a true Alpha Lifestyle™.

With my new Triple-Threat DVD Series, I’ve created the most advanced, comprehensive system for men who want MORE out of dating…and life.

So what is the “Triple-Threat“?

It’s very simple:

Motivation: Tapping into your inner power source to go after the passions in your life. Finding the hidden reserves of energy and purpose that you’ve always needed to move forward.

Inner Game: The most elusive of all games that MUST be won if you’re going to have success with women – or anything else in life. How to be confident at doing anything you want to do.

Outer Game: The outer tactics, techniques, and strategies, you need to use with other people so that they join you in your exciting life.

These 3 core elements comprise the Alpha Lifestyle™ that I want you to have.

Imagine:

  • The Alpha Playboy life of a Hugh Hefner, with women that want you for your identity of power and confidence.
  • The “Rock Star” Lifestyle of guys like Kid Rock that gives a man the presence of power that women find magnetic.
  • The Alpha Hollywood Charisma of a Tom Cruise or a Bruce Willis that lasts no matter how old you are.
  • The Power and Persuasiveness of a real “player” like Donald Trump or Stephen Spielberg.
  • The Sexual Prowess and Mystique of a man like George Clooney, the most desired bachelor in the world.

Get the picture?

These guys don’t have ANYTHING you don’t have – except the kind of thinking that I will teach you about.

I’ll also teach you about attaining something that you won’t learn from any “pickup artist” or “seduction guru”:

BALANCE, HARMONY, and an UNSHAKABLE CORE

That deep-in-the-soul feeling of being true to yourselfAUTHENTIC in a way that doesn’t feel like “selling out” to get women into your bedroom. You can be yourself AND be attractive to women – no matter how many hours you spend playing on your X-Box 360.

(Just between you and me, my current girlfriend and I play video games all the time…)

ALPHA LIFESTYLE™ STRATEGY 1: Overcome this Inner Challenge – “HATER, NOT A PLAYER” Syndrome

I used to make fun of and scorn the men who achieve great things by putting them down and minimizing them so that I didn’t feel uncomfortable with my own low level of confidence and achievement.

Do you ever find yourself saying things like this from time to time:

“Oh, yeah, that guy’s got a lot of money, but only because he’s an asshole. You have to be to get rich.”

OR

“He only got that chick because he’s got a hot car…”

OR

“All beautiful women are bitches. I don’t even bother with them…”

I have a saying: “What we want but we think we can’t have, we learn to HATE – or else we’ll always feel inadequate.”

If you ever catch yourself falling into this negative thought pattern, I encourage you to turn it around right away.

Let yourself admire men who have channeled their ambitions into great accomplishments. Be happy about their success.

It’s the only way you can feel good about the success YOU are about to have.

You can’t simultaneously mock that which you want, or you’ll create something called “cognitive dissonance.” In this program, I’ll show you how to get rid of it and remove this blockade.

ALPHA LIFESTYLE™ STRATEGY 2:  Overcome Your Laziness: Find Your “Personal Motivator”

I’m sure you’ve felt motivated at some point in your life, all jazzed up to go after your goals. Maybe it was after hearing a particularly motivating speaker, or seeing a movie that got you dreaming about your future

But what usually happens after that?

That’s right, the next day you wake up and it’s still the same old life, and you lose that fire of excitement you had in your belly the day before. It’s the same old job, same old bills, and you deal with the same old family and friends… and everything seems hopeless.

What if you could keep that juice in your life that you felt when you were motivated and excited…?

It’s not hard to do. What it requires is that you find what I call your “Personal Motivator.” Very simply put, it’s the personal drive and ambition you MUST find to live the Alpha Lifestyle™.

And the best thing is that this Motivator is what women find the most attractive, not your wallet or your six-pack abs. Why? Because it shows your level of ambition and energy for LIFE. This is what women are really looking for in men.

This is the critical step that most guys miss in other self-development programs because these other advisers don’t know how to dig deep and find it. They’d rather just give you another pickup line that doesn’t work.

In the Alpha Lifestyle™: Triple-Threat program, I’m going to show you how to find your Personal Motivator – and how it creates unstoppable magnetic attraction with women.

WARNING:

DO NOT invest in a ‘pickup’ or dating skills program unless it meets the following 5 criteria:

  1. The program demonstrates a balance of BOTH inner and outer game techniques and information.
  2. There is a COMPLETE explanation of how to motivate yourself to use the strategies correctly and get the most results.
  3. The focus of the information is on your complete LIFESTYLE, not just a small portion of it.
  4. The program contains SOLID information that ANY personality type can put to use – not just routines and techniques that they made up for you to memorize.
  5. The program doesn’t cost thousands of dollars and rely on gimmicky sales techniques – like this is your “VERY LAST CHANCE…”

Is this program going to help you?

The answer is “ABSOLUTELY YES ” if you fall under one of these two categories:

Category #1: Women have always felt like a mystery to you. They say they want a nice guy, but it seems like they actually want something different.

Your personal life and your career are not moving forward like you want them to.

You tell yourself maybe,someday, when you’ve got some money or get motivated, THEN you’ll be able to land the right girl.

Category #2: You feel that, in a lot of ways, you’re on the right track. You’re pursuing your goals. You’ve dated some quality women. But you feel like “something is missing.” If only there was a way for you to pull ALL of the pieces together, to feel energized, focused and confident about every area of your life…to get EVERYTHING you want out of life, instead of having to compromise…

The Alpha Lifestyle™ DVD Program unlocks these answers… and much more… in a single, transformational package.

Just imagine you’ve suddenly got the ability to “crack the code” with women. You can approach ANY girl you see, engage her in conversation, and build a connection within minutes.

 You never worry about what you should do or say next…it all flows naturally, and you can sense her attraction level BUILDING with each passing moment.

No stress, no rejection, just RESULTS.

Now, imagine having this same level of confidence and clarity with your other personal goals. Picture yourself being totally motivated to excel in your career, fitness, and other goals…waking up each day feeling like a MAN ON A MISSION.

This groundbreaking program, the Alpha Lifestyle™: Triple-Threat program, will transform you in 3 ways:

Inner Game: You’ll learn how to “reframe” your mindset, eliminate the negative beliefs that have been holding you back, and focus on personal success and fulfillment. Reprogram your life from the inside out.

Outer Game: The specific techniques and tactics that you’ll use in your interactions with women – whether it’s the opening conversation, the first date, or maintaining a relationship on your terms. These tactics are also essential in building your social and business networks. I’m including a TON of them in this program, too.

Motivation: How to become the “complete package”: a state-of-the-art Alpha Man. Your goals will become crystal-clear in your mind, and you’ll possess the tools and the knowledge to achieve them.

You’ve seen and heard Carlos Xuma on:

  • ABC Television
  • David DeAngelo’s Interviews with Dating Gurus
  • Playboy Magazine
  • Maxim Radio
  • World Talk Radio
  • “Sex with Emily” radio show
  • “Rock Talk” radio show
  • The Cliff’s List Seminar
  • Summum Magazine
  • Neil Strauss’ StyleLife Academy for “The Game”
  • Here’s What You Get:

The Triple Threat Program contains 6 DVDs filled to the brim with attraction techniques, strategies, and inspiration.

You’ll have a front-row seat as I explain the complete Alpha Lifestyle™, along with some very special guests including:

  • Playboy models Shannon Stewart and Katya Kovac, who help to demonstrate rapport, conversation, & seduction techniques. (Once you’ve learned how to build fast connections with “10’s” like these two girls, normal everyday women will be easy for you.)
  • Christopher Curtis, a former Marine and Hostage Negotiator and the co- creator of the popular M.A.C.K. Tactics dating system. He hosts a segment on motivation and transformation – developing an unstoppable mindset and achieving total congruency with your words, thoughts and actions.
  • Carlos’ protege – “Ranger X,” who explains for the first time the “Under the Wire” approach technique. Ranger X has learned from Carlos as well as some of the best teachers, and synthesized his learning into this unique system.You’ll discover amazing tactics for approaching women and “slipping through their defenses.” Instead of allowing women to judge and reject you, you’ll learn how to control the power in any interaction…and have women trying to impress YOU instead of the other way around!

Like Carlos, I have an extensive background in coaching guys. I’m the co-founder of the M.A.C.K. Tactics system, which began with a major book that was sold in bookstores nationwide. My web site has helped thousands of guys around the world break through their barriers with women.

When I met Carlos Xuma, I was looking to branch out and start coaching guys on other areas: lifestyle, motivation, fitness, financial success, etc. Once Carlos and I got to talking, we realized we shared the same vision. So we teamed up to write the most powerful book ever published on Lifestyle Transformation for men: “The Alpha Rules.”

The success of that book inspired us to take it to the next level: a DVD series that would show the lessons being applied. So we gathered a group of specially selected students, booked an incredible penthouse suite in Las Vegas, brought in a camera crew, and produced what is clearly the best, most informative DVD series ever done on this topic.

The energy in that room was electrifying. Carlos Xuma went all-out…he dug deep into his banks of knowledge and laid it all out there, a blueprint for total motivation and success. It also contains a lot of amazing, effective strategies for meeting and connecting with women. (This is my favorite part. Some of the psychology Carlos teaches seems almost like Jedi mind control…)

And here’s the best part: when I saw the final version of these DVDs, I saw they are EVEN BETTER than being in the room with Carlos! Using computer graphics, the DVDs give tons of additional information on the screen while Carlos and his guest speakers are talking.

With this editing technique, you are completely immersed in the learning experience… an awesome amount of knowledge and tactics are being downloaded straight into your brain.

Guys, this is a transformation that any man has the power to make… and needs to make. I’m living proof.If you’re anything like I used to be, and you’re spending too much capital (emotional and financial) on women who don’t appreciate you, it’s time to make this change. The Alpha Lifestyle™: Triple-Threat DVD Program is a sure-shot winner.

“I can’t recommend Carlos’ products highly enough… Carlos’ stuff really took me to the next level…”

Still Wondering if the Triple-Threat is What You Need?

Keep reading, because these DVDs will also teach you…

How to develop unstoppable Alpha confidence towards women, and your career pursuits

How to project the secret qualities that women REALLY want in a man, not the superficial things they SAY they want… (there is a huge difference…)

How to pick up ANY woman, in ANY situation… whether it’s for a casual fling or to land the perfect girlfriend – by using your REAL Personality – not being a “pickup artist”

With these techniques, no woman will ever think you’re a pickup artist with some canned stories.

Let’s Be Brutally Honest Here… Pickup Techniques Are Dead.

I have close personal friends who have paid thousands of dollars for “big name” pickup artist programs. These guys charge incredible amounts of money for a pickup system that teaches you conversation openers, routines, and techniques that you can learn word-for-word.

The problem is that women are watching these same television shows, and they already know these routines now, too.

One of my close female friends actually comes to me every week and tries the latest pickup routines she learned out on me for fun and laughs. (Guess what happens to the guys who approach her and use the same ones…?)

My friend, women will see through game like this, but they won’t see through the confident Alpha MAN. That’s what you’re going to learn here.

Rather than buy a fish and be fed for just one day, why not learn how to fish with the best lure in the world – YOU – and be fed for a lifetime!

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Secrets of the Alpha Male by Carlos Xuma

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Alpha man conversation

Carlos Xuma – Alpha Man Conversation & Persuasion Review | Carlos Xuma – Alpha Man Conversation & Persuasion Download

Are you ready to learn the communication strategies of confident men?

Learn the Art of Conversation and Persuasion with Women — or anyone!

No More Uncomfortable Silences With Women…

Advanced Communication Secrets:
Handle Difficult Women With Ease – Shut Down Aggro Jerk Guys – Be Funny and Banter With Women – Build Unstoppable Trust & Rapport – Persuade and Influence ANYONE – Quickly and Easily……

CARLOS XUMA: Monday, 12:24 AM.

Hi, it’s Carlos… I need to tell you something important…

There’s a hidden side to the game of attracting and approaching women that most gurus do not want to tell you about.

In this report, I’m going to expose some of the most important things you will ever learn about talking with women.

And, even more important, you’re going to learn how these rules help you when you’re talking to men, women, anyone
First of all, imagine this situation:

Have you ever been in that situation?

How about this one:

These situations happen all the time, but they don’t need to. All it takes is a little training and social awareness of how conversation and persuasion works, and you can take control of any communication.

Here’s a situation that guys experience – and every guy wants to avoid:

If you’ve ever felt like conversations and social skills are more complicated than they appear on the surface, I’m here to tell you that you are absolutely right.

However, if you feel like you’re at a disadvantage when you’re talking with other people – your girlfriend, your family, your boss – ANYONE – then you need to know this, too:

  • You can put an end to the frustration, and develop your social skill to massive levels of success – and I’m going to show you how in this article.
  • You can have conversations that are long, strong, and motivate people to like you and trust you…
  • You can create conversations that bristle with energy and draw people to you like a magnet…
  • You need to have conversations that you can change and calibrate to any situation…
  • What you want is…

Power Conversation Skills That Make People Pay Attention To You…

I’ve conducted polls of thousands of men to find out what guys want and need most to develop their game with women, as well as general social skills. Hands down, every guy wants better conversational ability.

And not only that, but over 40% said that keeping the conversation going beyond the first couple exchanges was the toughest part of attracting a woman.

A few years ago, I would actually have agreed with them, because this was really tough for me, too. But I found a way to overcome this, and now that’s about to change for you.

The funny thing is that these same guys don’t know how right they are that CONVERSATION is their most POWERFUL asset when creating Attraction and Rapport with women – or just forming bonds with other guys.

Our verbal and nonverbal skills, along with with our perception of the subcommunication going on in these conversations, are what give us true influence and persuasive ability with other people.

The one thing that we don’t want as humans – and especially as MEN – is to be left out or feel as if we’re being ignored in conversation. We want to feel important.

We want to MATTER to other people.

In order for us to feel like we matter to others, we have to feel some other things, such as:

  • Knowledgeable about the topic at hand…
  • Respected by the people we’re talking to…
  • Safe that we’re not going to get embarrased or humiliated…

If you don’t feel these three things – knowledgeable, respected, and safe – you’re going to have a tough time feeling good about the conversation.

Let’s cover each of these, so I can explain how this works for you…

Feeling #1: You must feel KNOWLEDGEABLE

Of course, I can’t possibly tell you how to know everything about every subject so that you can keep up in a conversation with, say, a marine biologist. You’d need years of specialized schooling and background. And there’s an infinite number of topics out there.

But I can show you how to look smart and carry yourself intelligently – even when you’re really kind of “dumb” about the topic at hand.

Here’s how I’ve seen the best conversationalists do it:

The first thing you must do when you’re in a conversation about a topic over your head is get over your need to impress everyone or plow through it with arrogant B.S. If you’re talking to someone with any amount of intelligence, they’re just not going to fall for it.

The first step is to drop the “smart guy” act and humble yourself a bit. You need to appear open to new information. You don’t have to throw your hands up and yell, “I ain’t got NO idea what you’re talking about! But, golly, it sure do sound important!” You can be open without seeming like you’re a country hick.

Here’s how you appear open and interesting so that others pull you into the conversation – and you seem approachable instead of aloof…

Look at the person (or group) you’re talking to, and show the following body language: un-crossed arms, head slightly tilted, eyes focused, and nod frequently – but slowly. Another natural body language expression is when a man rubs his chin with one arm supporting the other. (This is the exception to the “crossed arms” rule.)

You want to have the appearance of someone who is taking in the information, and is genuinely listening – DEEPLY listening as if his life depended on what was being said.

When the other people in the conversation believe that you are not trying to bluff or posture and pretend to know about something that you have no clue about, they WON’T CARE that you don’t know. They’ll actually be impressed that you can be so genuine about wanting to learn more.

Think about the last time you talked to someone and they became your willing student. I’ll bet any amount of money that your impression and favorable feelings of them went UP – big time.

And then, after you demonstrate your willingness to listen, you can then ask intelligent questions to learn about the topic at hand.

This one works like GOLD in every conversation I’ve ever been in. Sometimes I’ll even use it with topics I already know about to sneak in under their radar and really impress them.

Now, after you start to feel like you can talk to just about anyone…

Feeling #2: You must feel RESPECTED

In order for another person to allow us into their “zone of trust,” they have to feel that they are respected.

The same goes for you, too.

Think back to a time when you were talking on the phone to a customer service rep, and they said, “So-and-so Company, can you hold for a second?” If they just threw you on hold without waiting for you to agree, did you feel respected? No, chances are you’d be pretty pissed. I know I am when they do this.

But if that same customer service person just said:

“I’m sorry, I have to go put you on hold for a second. Can I come back and help you in just a minute?”

And then they waited for your answer before they put you on hold, what would you feel then? Well, you’d probably feel that this person respected you and your time, and you’d tell them “No problem.”

Well Respect is that universal ingredient in conversations that many of us leave out by accident.

Here’s a solid method for making sure that the people you talk to feel respected, and you get the respect from them you deserve:

First, in any conversation, if you are doing something else, like playing with your iPhone or Blackberry, or you’re surfing the Internet, or whatever, STOP. Give the person your full and complete attention for at least the first couple minutes of the conversation.

Second, show them that you have empathy by acknowledging their feelings. Whatever they are talking about, you can easily show that you share their feelings by saying one thing: “Wow, I bet you’re feeling…” and just add in whatever emotion they are probably feeling.

If she’s talking about her cat being sick, you can say: “Wow, I bet you’re feeling worried about her.”

If he’s talking about his girlfriend dumping him, you can say: “Wow, I bet you’re feeling pretty down.”

If they’re talking about something positive, you’d just change that around to the positive emotion.

WARNING: This might sound so simple that you’ll probably ignore it.

Most of us have probably heard about this technique in some form or another, and we feel that we know it. But almost NO ONE EVER does this in conversation. Listen for the number of times that people show real empathy of any kind in a conversation. You’ll find it’s tragically rare.

Pretty much nonexistent.

Most people will assume that if you can understand the emotion they’re feeling, you’ll at least be in a place to respect their situation. It’s a gem that few people ever discover or use.

In order for you to GET the respect in conversations that you need, you must demonstrate empathy.

Finally, the third element in the equation of feeling like you are important in the conversation is…

Feeling #3: You must feel SAFE

Have you ever talked with someone that was very warm and friendly, and you found yourself really drawn into the conversation with them?

Maybe they just seemed so accepting and open to you, but you felt like you could tell them things that you just wouldn’t tell other people. You might have even told them something intimate and “secret” about yourself. Later on you wondered why you gave up so much information to them.

What this person was doing was giving you a warm and real VIBE that you felt you could trust.

They made you feel safe in their presence.

When you can get other people to feel this way about you, it creates a POWERFUL bond between you and them that establishes a strong sense of trust.

Here’s what I do that works like a champ…

I will tell them about my “personal philosophy” of life.

I just say:

“You know, I find that so many people today are judgmental and difficult. I have a personal philosophy of life that I don’t judge people. I just accept everyone for who they are. I find that this makes me so much more happy in the long run. You know what I mean?”

Just saying this makes everyone I talk to much more relaxed and agreeable. Even judgmental people start to relax and become more easygoing.

Now, I want to talk to you about something very important.

This could make all the difference in your social life – and how you communicate.

Ask yourself these questions. Take a moment to really think how you’d answer them:

  • Do you know how to talk to large groups so that your ideas are heard, your influence is felt, and your power and authority is understood and accepted?
  • Do you want to be funnier and develop your sense of humor so that people think of you as fun to be around?
  • Do you feel like you know how conversations really work from the inside out? Do you understand how people are motivated and why they say the things they do?
  • Do you know how to know how to write emails more effectively to get women interested when you’re dating online?
  • Do you know how to use personality reading techniques to get faster understanding of people and build rapport in minutes instead of HOURS?
  • Do you know which topics that are guaranteed to start a good, long conversation?
  • Do you know how to be memorable to anyone you meet within the first 30 seconds?

These are the essential skills that some guys got naturally, and maybe you once had and lost.

Or maybe you never had them at all.

 

“Imagine If You Could Talk To Any Woman – or ANYBODY – And Know That You Could Get Them Talking, Laughing, and Liking You in Just a Few Minutes…”

The most amazing realization of the last 20 years is that conversation and social skills can be built up from scratch. You don’t have to be a “natural” to be good in conversation and persuasion.

And in fact, it’s better if you’re , because you will understand the principles that “naturals” take for granted. AND you’ll be able to improve your skills beyond even their ability.

When I was a kid growing up in upstate New York, I remember that I felt very awkward in a lot of conversations with people. I was usually afraid of:

  • Saying something dumb and having everyone think I was an idiot…
  • Saying something wrong and having everyone think I was clueless…
  • Not knowing what to say when someone was insulting me or giving me a hard time…
  • Feeling weird, embarrassed, and inferior when I was talking in a group of people… 

Or sometimes I’d just be afraid that everyone in my group would just forget me or push me into the background.

And a lot of the time, that really did happen. I had certain friends that would grab the biggest share of the conversation and then proceed to hog it all when they could. And I would feel like I was just another spectator.

After a while, though, I learned some techniques that helped me build up my ability to talk with people, and handle any situation they threw at me. Fast-forward a few years and you would see a very different guy than the one who couldn’t even get a word in on the side without looking like a complete dork.

Let me show you…

“The 5 Mistakes Most Guys Make In Everyday Conversations…”

MISTAKE 1: Not seeing or noticing the right “vibe” in the conversation.

I’m REALLY guilty of this one.

I once walked up to a group of people in the break room at work that looked really serious. As I got some water from the cooler I said, “Hey, you guys need to lighten up. Who died?” And one of them said, “Uh, my brother.”

Ooooof. I’m cringing now as I type this. That was a very embarrassing moment.

And the fact is that I could have saved myself the pain of that experience by just by noticing that they all did look serious, and it was probably for a reason. It was not a time to be clever and funny.

There’s a lot of times that we overlook these signals and cues, especially when we’re making conversation with women. Many times, a guy will not calibrate or adjust his approach to a woman when he’s talking to her. As a result she brushes him off.

It’s not hard to avoid these mistakes in your conversations. Simply listening for how a woman chooses certain words will usually help you figure out what you should be talking about with her.

If she’s asking you questions about you, that’s not just a sign of interest. Usually it’s also an indication that she needs more facts and information about you to help develop her TRUST.

A lot of guys deflect a woman’s questions, or challenge her too much – thinking that she’s just “testing” him. As a result, they miss out on a connection with her that she was actually HELPING him to make.

The next mistake guys make is…

MISTAKE 2: Holding back on revealing your personality.

This might seem a little obvious, but when you hide your personality from a woman, she can sense that you’re not being open. In fact, the ability to project your personality from the inside out is a very attractive thing.

I’ve gotten in conversations with women numerous times, talking about the “dorky” or even “geeky” things that I enjoy, and they’re still interested because of the energy that I’m putting out. (I sometimes try to talk about a computer game with a woman as a challenge to myself to see if I can still keep her interest.)

The interesting thing about people that are holding themselves back is that they appear to be playing the social game of life with “scared money.” This means that just like a gambler at the poker table, they can’t afford to be playing the game as if every dollar was their last.

That’s a sure-fire recipe for disaster. Ask anyone who knows how to play poker about this. If you’re scared to lose, you’ll be an easy target for everyone else who can sense it from your hesitant manner.

When you hesitate to show yourself to others, they think you’re scared about life and don’t have the reserves to put yourself out there.

“Hmmm, this guy is closed off. Guarded. He must be sensitive or insecure about something.”

And that energy pushes people away. We want people in our lives that have a natural giving energy. We’re drawn to it.

Which is why you must not be afraid to reveal your personality to other people. I’m not talking about “opening your robe” and showing it all. You need to use discretion to decide what will be best for you to reveal.

Certain facts will attract women (and other people in general) to you, and certain other facts will push them away. The key is in knowing which is which.

Another mistake most guys make is…

MISTAKE 3: Trying too hard to be noticed or “important” in the conversation.

It’s been said that we are often more scared of losing something than we are of not getting something. This is VERY true when it comes to attention.

In our desperate attempts to not be “forgotten” and pushed to the back of a conversation, we sometimes say anything to make sure that we’re not left out.

It’s a painful feeling when you realize that other people are not paying attention to you. Feeling ignored just sucks, no matter how you look at it.

So it’s no surprise that many guys will go to extreme lengths to avoid this happening to them.

Some of the ways that guys try too hard are:

  • Bragging 
  • Talking out of turn, or interrupting 
  • Being too obnoxious or abrasive 
  • Using humor inappropriately – such as telling a dirty joke

It’s essential that you don’t fall victim to this urge to jump around and wave your hands – saying “Look at me! Look at me!” the way we did when we were kids. You might not be doing that with your hands, but we often do it with the tiny body language signals and our choice of words – and probably without realizing it.

Attention must be shared in conversation. And when it’s appropriate, there are strategies to regain the attention and the focus within a group.

The next mistake is…

MISTAKE 4: Being sarcastic and negative.

This one is a killer.

It doesn’t just kill the vibe – it kills any chance of a healthy conversation or relationship between you and a group.

Very often, we fall back on a negative or cynical sense of humor to cover up our sore spots or areas of insecurity. It’s easy to do, and yes, I used to do this ALL the time.

Sarcasm can be funny – in small amounts. The problem is that sly comments with a little bit of scorn make us look very petty. And even though we all want to get “in” with a group of people, a bad way to do this is by insulting or taking sides with someone just to get the group’s approval.

All of these strategies seem to work in the short term, but they really just paint us into a box as being a bit angry and insecure.

Negativity is so tempting to fall into, because it’s all around us. It’s in the headlines, and the top news stories, and your neighbor’s complaining. It’s in the long traffic delays and the bad weather.

The people that bitch and moan are the people we avoid like the plague after a while because they just drag us down.

But the people we know that don’t indulge our self-pity or complaints, the people that elevate our spirits and give us hope are the ones we come back to again and again…

In order to keep your conversation alive with the kind of energy that people want to come back to again and again, you must keep yourself from becoming too negative or sarcastic.

And finally, the fifth mistake guys make in conversation all the time is…

MISTAKE 5: Not having the ability to steer the conversation to a meaningful goal

This is the probably the most important of the five errors that guys make, and it usually comes up in something that I call “Power Conversations.”

A Power Conversation is when you are talking to someone, and whether or not you realize it, there is something important that will come out of it. There’s something at stake to be gained or lost in the conversation.

Maybe it’s a job offer. Maybe it’s a date with an attractive woman. Maybe it’s even something as small as your pride on the line when you make a bet with your friend as to which Die Hard movie has the most explosions.

When you have a conversation like this, it’s no longer about just shooting the breeze. Now you have something to be won or lost, which means it changes the whole context of things.

I’ll give you a tip here that deals with this particular mistake…

I often get guys asking me “How long should I talk to a woman? Won’t I lose her interest after a while?” Let me tell you something VERY important:

And you can control that.

It’s never about wearing out your welcome when you’re keeping a person’s interest. I’ve gladly run late for meetings or missed appointments because I was talking to someone about something so cool that I didn’t want to leave.

I’m sure you’ve experienced this as well.

You’re so into this heart-to-heart talk, mostly because the other person seems to genuinely hear you, not just waiting for their turn to talk. They seem thrilled to know more about you, and as a result you feel a connection that is so REAL.

THAT, my friend, is the goal you’re trying to go after in conversations with people. You’re trying to create a gabfest that no one in their right mind would want to walk away from.

Can you imagine the magnetic quality this will have for you with women?

With everyone you come in contact with?

These are the unforgettable people in our lives, the ones we remember talking to long after their gone, and we long to talk to them again.

And YOU can be one of them.

Conversation & Persuasion Skills Will Improve Your Quality of Life and Your Successes on Every Level

Of all the skills that guys want to develop with women, this one is the easiest to work on because of the sheer volume of information available to help you.

Some of the benefits you’ll enjoy when you have better conversational skills are:

The fact is, you CANNOT afford to neglect your conversation and communication skills. It is the single most important determinant of your future success in life in almost every area.

Yes, even more than your grades in school and the number of degrees you get in college. NOTHING determines your success in life more than applied social communications skills.

A Quick Exercise to Determine How Socially Skilled You Feel

Read these questions, and take a second to reflect on your own experience. See how many of them you relate to.

  1. When you’re in a conversation, do you ever feel like you’re being poked fun at – and the second you try to point out what they’re doing, they manage to “get nice” again and avoid any blame? Do you have a method to avoid this kind of treatment?
  2. When you’re talking to a woman, do you ever find yourself in a situation where you know you’ve met a high-quality woman and you don’t want to mess it up, but you can’t find the words to form a real connection between you and her? And the more you try, the more you sense she starts to pull away, as if you’re just coming at it from the wrong direction?
  3. You’re in an intense conversation with your boss over a project, and you know you’re right. Then he pulls out his Wild Card excuse on you and says you should just do what he says to avoid making waves. Do you give in and go along, or do you know how to turn him around and get him to see that your way is the right way?
  4. You’re talking to your mom, and you’re doing your best to pay attention and appear sincerely interested. After just ten seconds of talking, your mind starts to wander, and instantly she says: “You’re not listening to me!” What were the secret signals you gave off that told her you weren’t paying attention?
  5. You’re in a group of friends and you crack a joke that’s a little edgy. A few people laugh, but most of them appear uncomfortable. Do you let the moment pass and try to explain it to them later one-on-one, or is there something you can say right now that would be smooth things over and fix the situation?
  6. Your girlfriend takes offense to something you said and blows up like a grenade. Should you A) push back with just as much yelling and anger to put her in her place, or B) let her get her way now, and then hope she relaxes later and comes around? Obviously neither one is the optimum strategy, but do you know how to read her and recognize the conflict so that you can avoid it in the first place…?

All of these situations require slightly different conversation skills to manage, yet most of us just use the same old reactions we’ve used since we were kids, and we only manage to succeed the way we wanted in a few of these situations instead of almost every time.

We discover that we really don’t have the level of control and persuasive influence in conversations that we want.

“Guys Are Naturally Behind the Curve When It Comes to Conversation and Persuasion Ability…”

After all, women grew up talking to each other and feeling out the social “vibe,” so they have an edge. Guys rarely get this kind of experience until later in life, and then we’re much less prepared to use it effectively.

But there are ways to learn this vital skill.

I was one of those kids who played in his room a lot, watched a lot of TV, and generally had no clue about what was actually happening in social situations.

I remember a particular time when I was out with a group of my friends, and there were a couple of girls in the group with us. I remember how crappy it felt to be forced to the “background” of the conversation because I really had no clue as to what to say to the girls without feeling like a loser in front of the other guys.

But I also saw that the guys I was with didn’t really know, either. They were talking about sports and video games, and the girls were talking about friends and the drama that was going on between them. I could see that there was a major difference in what guys and girls found interesting to talk about, but I couldn’t figure out HOW to talk about this stuff.

Fast forward a few years, and Carlos grew up. (Well, a little bit.)

But I still didn’t have the kind of social awareness that I wanted. It wasn’t until I took a few personality tests, and then started reading a TON of books on the topic that I found I had a lot of theory, but nothing really practical for understanding these social situations.

Still, I kept reading, and discovered that there were some basics to understanding how to start and keep a social conversation going, and that it could be learned. I made a lot of notes on what worked, what didn’t, and which skills were helpful.

Imagine How You’ll Feel When You Can :

  • Keep any conversation going without effort, and without all those “routines” and memorized scripts…
  • Talk to anyone, anywhere, anytime – and make a friend, a business contact, or a possible date…
  • Know exactly how to calibrate to a woman’s state
  • Handle any guy that tries to tool you or put you down in a conversation…
  • Handle any coworker that gives you a hard time…
  • De-fuse anyone in your family that tries to emotionally manipulate you with one sentence…
  • Know when someone’s lying to you

Now You Can Learn Alpha Conversation & Persuasion

Finally, you’re going to be able to get the skills you need.

Imagine: You’ve got an ally in this battle. An arsenal of weapons that you could use at any time to get you in or out of any conversation.

I’ve exhausted all my best stuff to put together this definitive 14 CD set (yes that’s fourteen audio compact discs) that will put you light years ahead of anyone out there.

Don’t freak out over the size of this program. It’s got a lot of information, but it’s easy to jump in and just learn the parts you need. You can pick and choose, and take your time with it. Once you get started, it’s hard to stop learning all the great techniques and tips I’ve got in here.

Take a look at the concepts and practical skills you’re going to learn and be able to use in just a few hours with this program:

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First CD of the Alpha Man Conversation & Persuasion

DISC 1: Concepts – Inner Game

  • The most important advantage in conversation – and how you can seize it to have the upper hand…
  • Your single biggest obstacle in conversation – and how you can overcome it and be free of this “anchor” that’s dragging you down…
  • What you MUST know about using pre-rehearsed “scripts” and “patterns” to assist you with your ability in conversation with women…
  • The #1 rule of conversation – and why you must obey it if you ever want to succeed in developing rapport and trust in your social circle…
  • The difference between good and bad conversations – and how you stay out of the “bad”ones once and for all…
  • How to destroy effective communication – and chances are you are already making these mistakes…!
  • The complete Architecture and Structure of conversations so that you can know how to talk to anyone in the right way…
  • The most important taks you have to perform in a conversation so that the other person pays attention – and you get the results you want…
  • The secret factor you must manage when you’re in a conversation with someone so that they trust you and relate to you – almost as if they’ve known you forever…
  • The first big question of all communication that you must answer – or the other person will lose their interest in a matter of minutes…
  • The 5 Positive Traits you need for flexibility in conversation so that you are not caught off guard and can “flow” with the talk…
  • The key to developing massive confidence in conversation so that the other people respect and listen to you…
  • The “That’s Great” strategy for re-framing and keeping a positive attitude – for REAL – and being much more optimistic no matter what life throws at you…
  • The one reason most guys cannot stay positive and – and you can change this in just 10 minutes…!
  • The 8 Golden Rules of Communication
  • The fastest method to make a new friend – in just minutes…
  • 3 critical skills for opening conversations the right way so that you can look your best and impress anyone…
  • How to use your “emergency chute” in a conversation to manage anxiety, stay relaxed, and not lose your confidence…
  • The question you must answer in every communication of persuasion to be a success…
  • How to ask any woman out so she will not only WANT to go out with you, SHE will make it easy for you and put up ZERO resistance…
  • How to talk to your boss to get what you want – from a raise, to a better project, to a promotion…
  • Examples of woman’s tests in conversation – and how most guys fail them miserably…
  • How a woman uses “absolutes” and the mistake you must avoid making when she does this to you…
  • Anatomy of an Alpha Conversation with a woman – dissecting a conversation so you know what works and what doesn’t…
  • How to use the power of “rhetoric” to get a discount in sales situations…
  • The single factor most important to your financial success in life, and how to use it…
  • How to take control of words instead of letting them control you…
  • The Alpha Man Conversation Strategy that any man can put into practice right away for more powerful and effective conversation with anyone, anywhere…
  • Examples of powerful communication words you should use to maximize your impact in conversation and trigger the subconscious emotions that motivate us…
  • And much more…
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Second CD of the ultimate program that will help you date more women

DISC 2: STT – Core Skills & Tactics 1

    • The cycle of self-confidence and how it works in communication to either help you or cripple your conversations…
    • How to “manage results” to win in any interaction with someone…
    • How to demonstrate powerful Charisma in communication so that your personality stands out and sticks in their mind…
    • The 5 essential qualities of charisma you need to have…
    • The most important ingredient for communicating with Charisma with other people…
    • What all men and women want to get from conversations that you must provide to stick out in their minds…
    • The 6 Secret Traits of a good conversationalist that you must use in every exchange…
    • 8 Power People skills – these are essential if you’re going to have any lasting success in life…
    • Understanding people through Meyers-Briggs and character typing – and know what their personality is like so that you can build faster trust & rapport…
    • Understanding the 4 basic personality types in depth so that you can know their secret motivations and know how to talk to them in their own emotional “language…”
    • The number one skill for distinguishing yourself as an Alpha Leader – and how you use this skill in any conversation to stay

    “untouchable”…

    • The number one indicator of longevity in relationships – and how you can use this to make the kind of relationship you desire…
    • The 4 Hidden Communication Zones – and why you must excel in ALL of them if you’re going to persuade and influence others…
    • The 14 Human motivators in conversation – these are the secret “hot buttons” we all have that you must understand and use, or others will use yours…!
    • Using the power of a “Unique Experience” for a powerful conversation that the other person will never forget…
    • How to set yourself apart from others and be different – in the right way – and be memorable…
    • The types of people that will stifle your creative identity – and how to identify them before they impact your life…
    • How to remove anxiety from conversations and relax – creating a bubble of comfortable space that releases your thoughts to be creative and fun – and make fun conversations…
    • How to Fall into a “Safe Zone” in all conversations so that you remain cool and collected – no matter what is going on around you…
    • The 10 Minute Process to control your thinking and stop all the crazy static in your head…
    • How to use storytelling effectively to communicate your personality and your accomplishments to others…
    • How to distribute your attention in groups conversations so that no one is neglected and everyone is paying attention to you…
    • The Single Biggest mistake most guys make in storytelling – and how you can avoid this fatal error…
    • Mark Twain’s storytelling example…
    • The 6 MUSTS of storytelling…
    • And more…
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    3rd CD of the ultimate program that will help you date girls

    DISC 3: STT – Core Skills & Tactics 2

    • Conversation Theory and Practice – The Listening & Communications Process in action…
    • How to Manage your internal dialogue and stop the conflicting and paralyzing messages that your brain tries to trick you with…
    • Improve your Listening Skills in less than 5 minutes…
    • The secret ingredient that makes someone more interested in you than your words you’re speaking…
    • The 4 Levels of listening – and how you get to the DEEP levels that only the experts are able to…
    • The places where listening works best – and when it doesn’t…
    • Sensing the non-verbals – reading body language so that you know what a person is REALLY thinking and not saying in the conversation…
    • 3 Steps to active listening that will have your conversation partner subconsciously hypnotized by your level of rapport and attention…
    • 10 annoying habits that show you’re not listening – get rid of these and you’ll have conquered 75% of your problems in conversation…
    • Deaf Spots in Conversation – and how they destroy your communication skills and rapport instantly…
    • How to use “reprocessing” to double your comprehension and memory retention…
    • How to gather keywords to generate new conversational topics and keep a conversation going as long as you want it to…
    • Effective body language in communication – how to demonstrate good communication physically…
    • Conversational lubricants you can use to help un-stick your talk and help the other person express their thoughts…
    • 3 basic Alpha Skills in conversation you must have to retain control, establish a connection, and persuade the people you talk to…
    • The single most important question to ask yourself that clarifies all your communications intentions…
    • How to communicate with your family effectively and stop them from irritating the hell out of you – start getting the respect you deserve from the people you love…
    • How you’re setting yourself back even further in your communication style without even being aware of it…
    • How to talk to people in authority so that you can be “diplomatic” AND get treated fairly…
    • How to handle knowledge and expertise authority in a way that doesn’t raise their hackles and create friction…
    • How to handle police officers in the right way so that you don’t get on their “bad side”…
    • BONUS: How to get out of traffic tickets – this one will save you the more than your license when you get into a jam…
    • How to handle your Boss to get what you want – without any butt-kissing or office politics…
    • And much more…  
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    DISC 4: Women & Communications

    • How to get a woman interested in you – How to sense her interest level and calibrate to it…
    • How to Communicate your passions to a woman to establish a powerful sense of rapport and connection that she will fight to keep…
    • Carlos’ exclusive Animal Question to evoke a woman’s sensual and physical involvement in the conversation…
    • The Secret Weather Report Technique to explore a woman’s emotional state and get her to open up to you in a way that she rarely does to a man…
    • The 4 Elementary levels to reach a woman’s heart and bypass her rational thinking…
    • How you’ll know when you’ve REALLY seduced a woman – and it’s not what you think…!
    • How to turn a woman’s test questions into your benefit without creating a war of wills…
    • The top 6 test questions a woman will hit you with and the best responses to make sure you answer them all dead-on correct…
    • BONUS: Top 10 Responses to the question women ask and men fear most: “Why aren’t you married yet?”
    • Differences in how you must communicate to men vs. women – and how to understand how the other side thinks…
    • How to impress a woman in conversation – without bragging or other counter-productive methods that most guys use incorrectely…
    • How to effectively open and tease women in conversation so that you energize the interaction and establish a sexual overtone…
    • What teasing communicates to a woman – and how it works to unlock her inner restraints – lowering her defenses…
    • BONUS: Example teasing interaction to understand how this kind of banter works…
    • Why “Energy Escalation” is vitally important in communicating with women and starting attraction with her that burns out of control…
    • The one thing you must do to a beautiful women to attract her on the first meeting – and if you miss this you’ll probably end up with just another uninterested friend…
    • How to use BANTER in conversation with women to drive up the spirit and enthusiasm every time…
    • BONUS: Notorious Dialogue example of how banter works in a masculine interaction…
    • 10 Rules for Banter that you must know to ensure you are able to cut up and get her laughing with your witty dialogue…
    • How to close out your banter so you don’t lose her attraction by dropping the energy…
    • 5 Hidden Ways to develop your banter ability so that you’re always ready for any conversation…
    • Carlos’ 9.5 Witty Banter Techniques for you to use in any conversation…
    • How to get the woman to help you keep the conversation going instead of always being the one to feel the pressure…
    • How and why you must demonstrate uniqueness in conversation…
    • The difference between the “Lame” introduction and Alpha Introduction – with example…
    • How to build massive, iron-clad rapport with women that keeps them interested in you more powerfully than any other “pickup” technique you will find…
    • How to “Induce Familiarity” with a woman so that she treats you like someone she’s trusted for years…
    • How to use specific words to gain familiarity with another person by triggering their sense of comfort and natural trust…
    • How to demonstrate rapport contact in unfamiliar situations so that you can avoid the “nervous jitters” of being the “stranger…”
    • And much more…
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    DISC 5: NLP & Persuasion Strategies

    • How to use NLP modeling to improve your skills and abilities with other men and women…
    • The impact of language on experience – understanding why NLP is the most essential skill for human interaction…
    • The secret power of choice and behavior in social communications…
    • How to tap into Emotional Meanings to persuade others and influence them…
    • The 6 Pillars of NLP explained – learn the basics and foundations of this communications science in just 10 minutes…
    • How to use the power of evoking states to change people’s emotions and improve the social “vibe…”
    • How to discover anyone’s emotional vocabulary in just a few minutes so that you can communicate with power and emotion…
    • The detailed technique for eliciting states in people so that you understand their motivation and desires…
    • Detailed examples of building suggestive and emotionally powerful language that helps people see their own needs…
    • The Hidden Architecture – building your own power phrases that impact people on a deep emotional level…
    • Over 40 Examples of introductions to open up a woman’s awareness and receptivity
    • The five primary sensory systems and their NLP applications – learn how to use our senses to communicate more effectively…
    • Characteristics of the primary modalities – how to spot them in people so that you can determine the most effective communications…
    • Understanding someone’s communication style by spotting their choice of words…
    • The Car Question Technique to discover a woman’s communication style – and how to use this with anyone…
    • The specific words to listen for in conversation that clue you in to their motivation and objectives…
    • How to read anyone’s eyes in just a split second so that you can tell what they are thinking behind their words…
    • How to read if someone is actually being hostile with you or just messing with you…
    • How to determine if another person is thinking “business only” or more personal with you…
    • The 5 second limit rule and why you MUST use it to help you get past emotional and trust defenses…
    • The Ultimate Lie Detector: How to tell when someone is lying to you with simple indicators that you can spot in a heartbeat…
    • Which compliments work and which will NOT work…
    • How to change people’s opinions to your favor so they go along with you much easier…
    • The Secret Difference you must know about to influence short vs. long-term decisions…
    • The most common mistakes in conversation and how to avoid them from catching you off-guard…
    • How to brag and impress others WITHOUT sounding like you’re bragging or trying to impress…
    • How to make a compliment to a woman – and be believed – AND have her genuinely appreciate you for it…
    • How you can find out what a woman REALLY wants in a man – what she won’t tell you with words…
    • The information most guys don’t get from a woman – and how you can get access to this secret information data file…
    • Why you must never resist a disagreement if you want to retain your influence and persuasive ability…
    • And much more…
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    DISC 6: Rapport and Cold Reading

    • How to use cold reading to help you build rapport with women – and how most guys misunderstand this technique and its power…
    • How to get a woman to think you’re the most incredibly insightful man she’s ever met…
    • How to use cold reading and why you must use it for developing your relationship with a woman…
    • The 3 essential areas to apply your cold reading to improve your success ratio with women – and developing the connection with anyone you meet…
    • Specific cold reading phrases you can use to instantly give someone that feeling of having known you for years…
    • How to use “try-on” statements to avoid errors and embarrassing yourself when you take a risk in conversation…
    • How to bridge from cold reading to real rapport and conversations that are authentic…
    • How to avoid the mistakes that break rapport and keep the flow in your communication going like water…
    • How to interpret a person’s occupation to make accurate assumptions of their character and their personality – with examples…
    • How to use the “fishing” technique to improve your accuracy and insight into women…
    • 10 Essential rules of cold reading – the must-have laws of effectively using this technique that you are probably breaking without even knowing it…
    • How to “shotgun” for maximum effectiveness in your observations of people…
    • The “observer” technique for interpreting people’s personalities and behaviors…
    • How to use my “Polarized Test” method to make dead-on accurate predictions about people in just seconds…
    • How to read anyone’s body language to interpret them and improve your accuracy in figuring them out…
    • 6 Words to never use when you’re reading someone’s personality…
    • How to pose a “negative question” about someone that can never be wrong…
    • How to get someone’s HONEST opinion – when you want to know what someone is really thinking…
    • How to catch someone in a lie – and be dead-on accurate every time…
    • How made-up stories can sound convincing – and how you can see right through them…
    • NEGOTIATION STRATEGIES to get what you want in any interaction and never be taken advantage of…
    • Phrases to use in negotiation or arguments to drive your opponent closer to your goals…
    • 5 STEP METHOD FOR GAINING RAPPORT – the complete framework of how to get someone to trust you and like you in the shortest time possible…
    • What to look for to ensure that you’re really achieving trust…
    • What you specifically MUST watch for in interactions with women to avoid superficial conversations and lost hook-ups…
    • What kind of questions to watch out for from women – you could be tested by them at any time…
    • How to know when you’ve got a woman’s interest hooked on you so that you don’t waste your time, or embarrass yourself with a bad assumption…
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    DISC 7: Verbal Self-Defense 1 – Power Questions

    • How we make rational errors in judgment – and how to avoid them…
    • Secret tactics to use fallacies to win every argument you get pulled into – and you will kick yourself for not having caught these before…
    • How to handle logical misdirection when someone uses faulty reasoning on you, so that you’re never tooled – or fooled
    • Examples of dilemmas – the ways we’re often tricked into confusion by people with better communication skills – and how you can spot them so you never get tricked…
    • The “Gambler’s Fallacy” – and how it affects your beliefs regarding “luck” – and keeps you making bad decisions with women – and your friends!
    • Fallacy of irrelevant humor – the smokescreen trick that people use in conversation to throw you off track…
    • How the “Loaded Words Strategy” works – the one strategy that women use on you the most in conversation – and how to avoid being fooled by it…
    • My “Begging the Question” reply strategy – use this one simple phrase to shut anyone down that’s trying to out-argue you – this one is pure gold…
    • How people use the “Trivial Objections Fallacy” – and how this one mistake in thinking is holding you back from your goals and desires…
    • You’ll learn the 4 Statements of Logical Structure – So you can pick apart anyone’s reasoning and figure out if they’re right or wrong – or trying to manipulate you…
    • The two steps to verbal self-defense – your personal “jiu-jitsu” technique to evade and avoid anyone’s conversation attacks…
    • How people criticize you through “dissociation” – and get away with it every time without you noticing it – but never again…
    • The “Spotlight Question” that throws your credibility into doubt in a conversation, and how you can duck this fatal shotgun blast attack…
    • The Cheap Shot technique – the Conversational grenade men and women use to get you emotional and irrational in a conversation…
    • Learn my specific Delay Tactics to use to give you time to think – you’ll never have that experience of walking away and suddenly coming up with what you SHOULD have said… Now you’ll have it when you need it…
    • Question the Question Strategy to stay slippery and avoid anyone from making you look foolish…
    • The hypothetical insult for lowering anyone’s status or handling those aggressive guys in bars that try to make you look bad…
    • The complimentary insult attack – how people make you look dumb and get away with it…
    • Learn how to use the Distorted Listening defense for any verbal assault thrown at you – this one works so well, it’s the one strategy I teach every one of my individual clients…
    • The “I Know Better” Tactic for keeping yourself out of the conversational traps that the clever guys will use on you…
    • How people manipulate and train you to respond the way they want, and how you can see them coming a mile away…
    • The Art of the Flawed Comparison Ploy that gets you to change your mind – and how to spot it and destroy it…
    • The two primary forms of questioning and how to use them when talking in social situations wherever you go for maximum influence and power…
    • And much more…
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    DISC 8: Verbal Self-Defense 2

    • The primary indicators of attacks in conversation – physical, verbal – what to look for in your opponents…
    • How to use my priceless “Story Challenge” tactic to discover a lie 100% of the time…
    • Learn Conversational Karate – Your secret martial art of social self-defense so that you can feel safe in any social situation – and always hold your own…
    • How to disagree without looking disagreeable – the best method for contradicting someone when you have to, but never looking like an opinionated jerk…
    • 4 phrases to avoid conflict in any conversation – perfect for “keeping the peace” and not making any political mistakes…
    • How to call the jerks on their aggression in a way that takes the wind out of their sails, and makes you look like the Good Guy…
    • My Secret “Overdose Tactic” for handling any person – man or woman – that challenges you or tries to push you around…
    • How to overcome another person’s misguided resistance to you – when you really need them to see you’re right…
    • How to turn people completely around from negativity to helping you get what you want…
    • How to capture people’s attention – and end an argument in a socially tense situation…
    • How to effectively use silence in a conversation to make your point…
    • How to handle anyone who annoys you or harrasses you – or if they try to show you down…
    • How to handle it when a guy starts hitting on your girlfriend – and how to avoid reacting to your own jealous impulse…
    • The unknown steps to handle a woman who is trying to manipulate you…
    • When you should NEVER answer another person’s questions – this one tactic will make all the difference in how you keep your cool in heated conversations…
    • How to “Flavor” a request to make a woman more attracted to you and likely to make her want to give you what you want…
    • How to expose a jerk guy’s game – without making yourself look bad in front of others…
    • How to play with stereotypes to build attraction and be playful with women on dates or meet-ups…
    • Reframing and using the hidden power of “deliberate misinterpretation” to handle women’s conversation strategies…
    • Breaking a guy’s aggressive jerk game with the secret ammo he will never see coming…
    • 5 ways to avoid answering a woman’s questions when you know it will ruin your chances with her…
    • How to be political when dodging questions so you don’t have to look evasive – and you get to save face…
    • The “Player” Example to show you how to spin any question the way YOU want it to be heard…
    • The Universal DON’Ts for Conversation – and most guys are doing at least 2 of them in most every interaction…
    • The 7 Emotional Manipulations in Conversation – how to identify them, see how they’re pulling your strings, and stop them for good…
    • The art of “Self-deprecation” to help others get past a social mistake in just seconds…
    • Breaking awkward social and conversational tension and get moving forward right away…
    • The 4 Secret Desires in life and how they impact you, your behavior, and your choices…
    • How to get what you want without begging or resorting to threats – and never looking bad to others for getting what you deserve…
    • How to state your needs the right way – the healthy way – so that you never feel like the “beggar” in a relationship…
    • And much more…  
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    DISC 9: Handling Difficult People

    • How to deal with jerks and difficult conversations that would normally leave you frustrated and reactive – and walking away with your tail between your legs…
    • Handling obnoxious people and behavior so that they learn to annoy someone else, and you don’t leave feeling drained and exhausted…
    • The 9 Personality Types Explained – The simple method for unlocking the “personality code” of anyone you meet so you can understand them and their behaviors…
    • How to get along with any personality type by knowing their drives and motivations…
    • Understanding what people need most from you in their social interactions so that you can deliver it…
    • 2 simple alternatives to conflict – never be drawn into aggressive verbal or physical interactions again…
    • The “2 Continuums of Focus” in human interaction and how each personality fits into this spectrum so you know where everyone is coming from…
    • The 4 primary intentions and motivations to understand what anyone wants and what they need from you most…
    • Learn how to recognize conflicting motivations – and how they cause difficult social situations
    • The 2 Primary Skills you need for handling jerks – or any conflict with someone who is unreasonable…
    • Using the “Blending” and “Mirroring” techniques correctly to assist rapport – most guys are not doing this right! If you learned this strategy before, you need to know what you’re missing…
    • Why people resist helping you to get what you want when you need them most…
    • How to use my “backtracking” strategy to reach common ground with someone you’re having an uncomfortable or tense conversation…
    • The ONE ESSENTIAL ingredient to managing obnoxious and difficult people and getting them to work with you instead of against you…
    • How to manage conflict situations – the specific tactics for handling men and women when you’re in a confrontation…
    • What to watch out for and how NOT to respond in an argument – if you fall victim to your natural impulse, you’ll probably lose the battle…
    • How to stay emotionally detached and relaxed so you can draw on your learned and practiced skills instead of reacting because you were caught off guard…
    • How to communicate honestly without being taken advantage of
    • How to get wishy washy people to respond to you – and make a decision one way or another…
    • How to handle negative people so they don’t drag you down into their bitterness and anger – and still keep them as friends…
    • The most powerful tool you can use to handle difficult people and personalities…
    • Junk-o-logic and how the media uses it – how it works, how to spot it, and how YOU can use it for yourself…
    • And much more…
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    DISC 10: Humor – How to Be Funny

    • The 3 ways you can get attention without being a “dancing monkey” around other people… Be entertaining without being the fool…
    • Rules for using humor – understanding how to use humor the right way so that you don’t wind up turning people off instead of on to you…
    • Developing Observational humor – and how it works to keep conversations going, make people laugh – AND get women attracted to you…
    • The best source of funny material for you to build up your “funny reserves” in any conversation…
    • The 7 formulas for humor and jokes – how they all work, and how you can use them to create your own personal style of humor…
    • The 8 reasons why we laugh – and when you know these reasons, you’ll finally have a real understanding of where humor fits in to your conversations…
    • The “Threes” Rule for creating humor – how it works for any joke you tell or invent…
    • The subjects we like to laugh about most – and why you should focus on them for your jokes and humor…
    • The one thing all good humor must have – and if you’re not using this, you’ll know why your jokes bomb and you feel foolish afterwards…
    • The best way to learn how to be funny so that you don’t crash and burn with your attempts to make women laugh…
    • How to play with expectations and associations for humor – the basic formula for improvisational humor on any topic – and you’ll find yourself with banter that really works when you use it…
    • The 3 structure elements of humor – unlock the mysterious method for how humor works and how it’s built…
    • How to handle and use “bathroom” and sexual humor the right way – so that you don’t look like an uncivilized jerk…
    • How to generate humor from celebrities to get women laughing non-stop…
    • Examples of my own humor style and how to use characters to build up your humor muscles…
    • 4 methods of creating characters and props to get laughs in any social situation…
    • How to start creating your own personalized humor and really set yourself apart from other people – and also not look like you’re just “copying” someone else’s humor…
    • Where to find humor to use for examples and learn from…
    • The best way to present a joke – and EVERY guy I know gets this one wrong and fails to get women genuinely involved because of his delivery…
    • Dos and Don’ts for joke telling – follow the rules – AND avoid these critical blunders when telling jokes to people…
    • The 2 kinds of humor to use specifically with women for the most impact and the best results…
    • How to use my “Fake Dumbness” method for making women laugh – and this one is best for parties and social locations like bars, clubs, and even work…
    • Improvisation skills and how to use them to come up with witty banter and funny conversation everywhere you go – and never find yourself struggling to remember an old joke or force the laughs…
    • The Top 5 Rules of Improv to help you with your creativity and humor – and these rules will help you with your approach ability with women as well…
    • Warm-up activities for your voice, face, mind, and body to get you ready and juiced for conversations and social events…
    • A complete set of exercises for developing your funny bone that you can do alone – or with a friend to make your humor skills ROCK…
    • And much more…
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    DISC 11: Power Conversations (and Humor cont.)

    • The 3 Things you should tease a woman about – and what you should NEVER tease her about…
    • Creating an “arsenal” of humor so that you never have to find yourself “dry” and unable to come up with the right thing to say at the right time…
    • Using the role-reversal – the sure-fire method to get a woman to laugh AND build massive attraction with her…
    • The 9 Don’ts of humor – the rules of how and what you should never joke about in public…
    • Power Conversations – the strategies for handling conversations that matter to you – and when they come along, you will be prepared to make the most of them…
    • The 3 ways to handle intense conversations to avoid embarrassment, keep people from feeling awkward, and keep you on top…
    • The top reasons why most people don’t get the results they want from power conversations…
    • The 3 “patterns” for managing emotionally intense communication – a blueprint for handling those conversations with strong emotions and potential for hurt feelings and anger…
    • The 3 signals to watch for in emotional conversations to read the situation and know what’s coming…
    • The 3 forms of avoidance in conversations – how these take a powerful conversation and turn it into a let-down – or leave you walking away empty handed…
    • The 3 forms of attack in conversations – how people will try to game you and blitz you with hidden – and sometimes savage – tactics…
    • Determining your Power Conversation Style – how to leverage your strengths to figure your most comfortable and effective route to resolving power conversations…
    • How to create “safe” conversations where everyone feels open and relaxed instead of closed-off and defensive…
    • How to handle apologies to get to solutions with people – and never feel guilted out of what you want…
    • The 2-step process for re-connecting with a woman when things go bad on you and you lose that connection with her…
    • How to handle arguments with women so that you don’t get beaten down, and you don’t have to be humiliated in front of others. Yes, you can ‘wear the pants’ and not have to worry about confrontations with her…
    • How to manage your internal power conversations – the inner dialogue that you’re having with yourself that will determine your ultimate successes and failures…
    • The 3 most common inner stories we tell ourselves that create limiting beliefs for us that stop us from reaching our goals – or going after what we want…
    • The 3 steps to handling the 2 primary reactions from emotional people – never get caught off-guard by someone else’s emotional explosion again…
    • What you must understand about arguments that will help you resolve them in record time and with happy endings…
    • The 3 most common Power conversations we get into and how to recognize them and handle them when they come…
    • Rules about Power conversations every man must know to ensure that he is empowered when the time comes…
    • The first thing you must avoid in power conversations that will sink your ship if you’re not careful…
    • The 4 ways we translate our feelings in conversations and how you can avoid miscommunicating yourself in tense situations…
    • The 3 Essential “Identities” we bring to our power conversations and what we need to understand about each to leverage our strengths and influence with maximum power…
    • The Trivia Method to creating interesting conversation in any environment… (with my “Useless Information” technique examples)
    • The correct use of profanity in conversation – how to swear to make yourself stand apart from everyone else and make ten times more impact with your arguments…
    • And much more…
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    DISC 12: STT – Power Tips for Conversation 1

    • How to use the power of “pattern interrupts” to regain control of a conversation that you’ve lost control of…
    • The active listening strategy that you never learned in school – how to create a unique energy of connection and interest in every conversation…
    • How to use “inoculation” to manage problems before they appear…
    • The Horse’s Head tactic for leading people to agree with you – this one was so effective, I almost didn’t include it, but it’s easy – and it WORKS…
    • How to use Dramatic Volume and Tonal marking to color your communication with people and get them to pay attention to you…
    • Using negation to steer someone’s perception and focus the way you want it to go…
    • How to use “tag questions” to gain agreement and steer a conversation in your direction…
    • The Art of Mind Reading – a vocal pattern of internal experience you can learn in minutes…
    • Presuppositions – one of the most powerful tools in the persuader’s tool belt – how it works and how to “embed” your language with them…
    • Important word patterns to help people go along with you – and GET along with you…
    • How to build anticipation with your conversational techniques so that everyone is hanging on your every word…
    • How to memorize people’s names quickly and effectively – the one technique that will make sure you never have an embarrassing “blank” in your first meeting…
    • My Secret Nickname trick to draw a woman into faster attraction and rapport…
    • How to use the “avalanche smile” to be more sincere – and get others to smile with you…
    • How to use the “Sticky Eyes” technique to be more seductive with women…
    • Keeping perfect posture with a simple mental exercise you can do in just 10 seconds…
    • How to effectively “pivot” to demonstrate deeper rapport and get people to like you faster…
    • How to calibrate your conversations accurately for better connection with anyone and avoid making socially awkward flubs…
    • How to meet the most interesting people at any social function and get in on the best energy of any party – instead of hanging with the wallflowers…
    • How to eavesdrop your way into any conversation – use this one “rude” technique to start a conversation with any group of women…
    • How to answer the question “Where are you from?” or “What do you do?” the RIGHT way – HINT: if you do this wrong – like 90% of guys – you’ll bore her and turn her off right away…
    • How to “listen for the evidence” that will tell you a person’s primary motivation and what it is they want most from you…
    • How to keep a conversation going – and buy yourself time – with the Parrot Technique…
    • How to recharge your conversation ammo just before you go out and never run out of interesting things to talk about – or open conversations with…
    • How to ask someone about what they WANT to talk about without looking wishy washy or needy…
    • How to increase your intelligence and conceptual ability every day with almost no effort…
    • How to impress someone by NOT revealing the things you have in common with them – most guys do the opposite of this and lose most of their seductive power…
    • The two words you should use in every conversation to connect and make them pay attention to you…
    • The two words you need to know and use to create collaboration and rapport with women…
    • What you must AVOID doing with your smile at all costs – or you could be turning more people off than you know…
    • And much more…
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    DISC 13: STT – Power Tips for Conversation 2

    • How to handle Text messaging as an effective communications tool with women…
    • How to make sure you get to talk to HER – not her voicemail – every time you call…
    • How to know when you’re out of balance in your personality – and how to regain it…
    • The DISC personality tool to figure out how to talk to the personality types – the simplest and fastest tool for understanding other people…
    • The 7 ways to give value to others – and justify your value at the same time…
    • Conversational Glue – How to keep any conversation going for as long as you like using this one technique…
    • “STT” and how you to plan and prepare for your social conversations to show the best version of you…
    • The two types of handshakes you must use – including when and how to use them…
    • The physical escalation you must do in every meeting with a woman or you’ll risk falling into the “let’s just be friends” category…
    • Why and how you must use the “power verbs” in your conversations for more energy and excitement – giving you the influence of a master communicator…
    • The secret to effective speeches – no more fear of talking to groups ever again…
    • The failure factor of most public speaking – and how you can avoid being a victim of it…
    • Essential words that stir up your written and verbal communications to crackle with energy…
    • ESSENTIAL SOCIAL NETWORKING SKILLS – how to expand your social network and influence…
    • The 3 factors to making connections in social networking – and how they work for you…
    • The most important signal you can give to a potential connection so that you create the bond you desire…
    • The 3 basic skills of social networking you must have to be effective – and they take almost no time to learn…
    • The 2 factors of social success that you can only ignore at your own risk…
    • How to use the internet to connect and expand your social presence in ways that were never before possible…
    • How to focus and connect with any group…
    • How to destroy your fear of speaking in public in just a few simple steps…
    • 4 Powerful Methods to bring up Sexual topics in any conversation with a woman so that she enjoys it and reveals her own secret feelings and desires…
    • 5 Steps to reading the vibe of any social situation – you’ll never be “miscalibrated” again!
    • And much more…
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    DISC 14: Exercises and Examples

    • 10 Vocal Development Exercises – How to develop and refine a powerful voice that commands attention and respect…
    • Developing vocal resonance, tonality, projection, dexterity, pacing, emotional projection – the essential elements of vocal power…
    • Facial Expression Exercises – How to develop your ability to communicate character and personality with your face – the hidden circuit of communication with women…
    • My “Conversational Mind Mapping” Technique – Extending your ability to create conversations instantly from ANY subject. Complete method laid out with examples…
    • How to redirect the conversation to topics you want to talk about – without being a “conversation hog”…
    • My “Random Reading Exercise”: How to prepare your voice and mindset to go out and make electrical conversations…
    • How to use your television as a learning lab for social skills development…
    • How to use my Conversational Bridging technique to keep conversation moving forward and never run out of things to talk about…
    • The Endless Supply of Conversations Exercise – Get over your fears of talking to strangers and practice your conversation skills…
    • The Mirror Exercise for developing emotional projection skills that will create radical attraction in women…
    • SPECIAL BONUS: Example REAL LIVE phone conversation – I’ve got a recording of me talking with a woman I haven’t even met – ratcheting up the attraction with her for you to hear how it’s done – with an analysis and breakdown of the techniques I used in the conversation…
    • My rules and advice for building a social network in no time flat…
    • And much more…

     

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    FROM: Carlos Xuma
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    Dear Friend,

    Confidence is the number one concern for every guy I’ve ever met.

    Women want it from us, and guys spend most of their lives working on feeling it and showing it. And when you don’t feel confident, your life just doesn’t feel right.

    Have you ever felt:

    …like you’re destroying your chances with women because you don’t have the level of self-confidence you need?

    …like you’re barely maintaining your level of confidence with women – and sometimes you feel like you’re actually back-sliding in your game?

    …like your emotions and your feelings make you do crazy things – stuff you can’t seem to control?

    I know I have, and it’s not a fun way to live…

    And the worst part of this feeling is that NO ONE in your life ever sat you down and explained just how confidence really works, did they?

    You never got a book from your parents on “how to be confident and more sure of yourself.” And I know you didn’t have a class in school that told you “How to Be Confident With Women.”

    Most guys have to learn by trial and error.

    And more error.

    And a lot more error.

    Well, stick with me, because there’s something else you need to know about how confidence REALLY works.

    First, let me ask you this:

    • Have you ever messed things up with a woman you really liked?
    • Have you ever approached a woman, only to have her not respond to you at all? Did you ever feel like you were invisible to women?
    • Have you ever had a girlfriend you adored, but your level of insecurity and low self-confidence seemed to doom you to the same outcome – certain breakup?
    • Have you ever walked up to talk to a woman and had her start out smiling and interested, but she gradually seemed to lose interest, eventually turning back to her friends and ignoring you until you walked away?
    • Have you ever lost your emotional cool around a woman, only to feel out of control around her, and then she lost interest and attraction in you because you couldn’t stay relaxed…?
    • Have you ever felt like your jealousy takes control over your head and your heart, even when the woman you liked wasn’t even dating you yet?
    • Have you ever been out with a group of friends, and you felt compelled to try to be the “life of the party,” because you thought the “alpha” of the group had to be the loudest, the funniest, and the one with the coolest banter?
    • Have you ever felt like you were ‘possessed’ to pick up the phone, or tell a woman your feelings, or “share your emotions” with her, only to find out that you scared her away with your gesture? It was like you knew with your brain that you should stay in control, but your emotions completely took control of you…
    • Have you ever been in a social situation where you felt like you couldn’t keep up with the conversation, or really “hang in there” and be very fun, mostly because you were too busy watching your own behavior – trying NOT to screw things up or say the wrong thing?

     

    If you’ve ever had ANY of these things happen to you, you know that your level of “inner game” – or your self-confidence and “emotional intelligence” – was the one thing you wish you had more of.

    If you could just control your fear and your anxieties, all those crazy emotions that make us do things that don’t even feel like us, you know that you could improve your success ratio with women. I know how shaky I used to feel with women, and knowing it was my inner confidence holding me back.

    And the worst part of this for me was knowing that – not only was it ME doing this to myself – but the fact that…

    Feeling Out of Control is Probably the Most Frustrating Experience for Men…

    I think that every guy has had that feeling – almost like being possessed – where you just can’t seem to control your emotions, or your own behavior. You know what you SHOULD be doing, but when you try to do it, there’s this invisible force that stops you.

    This was one of my biggest challenges. I had a bad temper, and I could barely control myself when I was around an attractive girl. I would start acting up – just like a little bratty kid. I could even SEE myself doing it, and KNOWING that it was killing my chances with this girl… but I just couldn’t help myself.

    And then I went on this massive inner game “quest” I guess you could call it. I wanted to figure out how to get control of my confidence, my emotions, and my crazy mind.

    What is Inner Game?

    Well, it’s a pretty fancy term for some of our most important traits as a man.

    Inner Game includes things like:

    • Self-confidence – Being cool, not needy, and self-reliant…
    • Controlling your fears and emotions – Not losing control and becoming a train wreck when you are put in situations that are unfamiliar or charged…
    • Control of your thinking – Not getting caught in your head and stuck in your own thinking… being present-moment focused… Having inner awareness and self-control…
    • Getting rid of anxiety and nervousness – Feeling relaxed and calm in any social situation… Having good social skills…
    • Self-esteem – Feeling good about yourself and liking yourself… Being able to handle criticism and the negative opinions of others… Not needing their approval all the time…

     

    Inner Game can also mean many more things to you. Here are some of the different definitions that guys have told me over the years:

    • Inner Game is: Knowing that a woman has certain expectations of you that you need to live up to…
    • Inner Game is: Being relaxed and natural with women, and not having to “fake it to make it” all the time…
    • Inner Game is: Knowing you’ve “got the goods” when it comes to having value to give to a woman – in conversation, as well as in your lifestyle…
    • Inner Game is: Not feeling awkward around women or in social situations…
    • Inner Game is: Keeping conversations with women interesting and going where you want them to go – without ending up as another shoulder to cry on…
    • Inner Game is: Getting past your flaws and frustrations once and for all…
    • Inner Game is: Being able to take the risks you always wanted to…
    • Inner Game is: Managing the peaks and valleys of your confidence level as it goes up and down…
    • Inner Game is: Making things you’ve already learned about women and all the pieces fall into place quicker…
    • Inner Game is: Not feeling disappointed by women and relationships from the past…
    • Inner Game is: Bouncing back from failures and rejections… and not taking them personally…
    • Inner Game is: Staying true to yourself and your identity – not compromising your values and morals just to get women or get ahead in life…
    • Inner Game is: Overcoming your own internal conflicts…
    • Inner Game is: Awareness and knowing yourself inside and out…
    • Inner Game is: Having a strong grip on your own reality – and not getting caught off guard, no matter what comes your way!
    • Inner Game is: Being the dominant ALPHA of the group instead of the guy who can’t get a word in edgewise in the conversation…
    • Inner Game is: Stop being so attached to the outcome and just be present-moment focused, having fun and staying out of your head…
    • Inner Game is: Knowing that whatever happens in life, you will prevail and come out on top!

     

    You Can Get All The Phone Numbers And Dates You Want…

    If You Don’t Have Inner Game, They Won’t Go
    Beyond “Let’s Just Be Friends…”

    I see a lot of guys learning the “48 Second Technique To Get A Woman’s Phone Number.” Yeah, great stuff, until you realize that this will not guarantee you:

    – get her to answer the phone, or…

    – get a date with her, or…

    – that she’ll be attracted to you, or…

    – that you will be able to escalate physically with her.

    In fact, getting a phone number is only the START of the game.

    If you don’t have the confidence and psychology mastered in advance, you probably won’t even get past the approach – IF you even approach her at all.

    And sometimes that knowledge will be enough to give guys approach anxiety right away.

    Just imagine what you could do if you knew you wouldn’t be shaken up or rattled by a beautiful woman’s attitude…

    What do you need to feel in order to
    get your “Inner Game” handled?

    Ultimately, it really boils down to a feeling of control over your own life.

    You don’t want to feel like other people control your success with women. And you sure as hell don’t want to feel like you can’t control your own success with women.

    Let me ask you something…

    You ever try using a line on a woman and have it fall flat – like, dead embarrassing silence flat on its face?

    I have, too.

    I coach and talk to guys every day that learn a lot of techniques and “lines” to use on women, but they don’t seem to work for them.

    Why don’t techniques and routines work?

    Usually because of the level of self-esteem and self confidence of the guy using them.

    And, in reality, just by using another guy’s lines and words, you’re sending a subtle message to your self-esteem that the only thing you can do to attract women is NOT be yourself. And that doesn’t increase a guy’s inner game.

    But Don’t You Need Techniques and “Outer Game” Stuff To Attract Women?

    YES! You do need them.

    And that’s why I teach those, too.

    I know a lot of guys that would tell you that you don’t need techniques – that if you have the inner game confidence, then your outer game is automatic.

    Well, that’s not always true.

    I’m sure you’ve felt confidence walking up to a woman and found that your tongue was tied and your head got all foggy the second you tried to say something. And I bet it killed your confidence quick, too, didn’t it?

    So, yes, you absolutely need the techniques and conversational strategies that I teach.

    BUT the fact is that you simply cannot run completely on “Outer Game” scripts either – on techniques and routines – all by themselves. Otherwise you end up with game that looks like this:

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    This is what you don’t want…

    See that small area where “inner game” and “outer game” intersect? That’s weak, wussy game that women can detect a mile away. And thanks to television shows and “pickup artist” stuff, women know all about the routines and openers you use.

    That gray outer game bubble is weak and tiny because you’re forced to “fake” a lot more than you should have to. And it doesn’t take much to pop that bubble.

    Now, just imagine what would happen when your Inner Game and your Outer Game are complete and congruent.

    Your game would look like THIS:

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    Big difference, huh?

    And let’s face it, no one ever explains to you how your mind works – or teaches you how to control and manage your emotions and thoughts.

    I went through all 12 grades of regular school, and another 6 years of college, and I never once did a teacher tell me how to be more confident. (Especially when I was just a young boy and I needed it the most!)

    NOBODY teaches us this stuff. We’re supposed to just “figure it out” all on our own.

    It’s like looking for a needle in a haystack – of needles!

    Let Me Tell You a Story…

    I had this girlfriend. Her name was Christina, and I was really into her. She was tall, thin, red hair, and a hot body that just drove me crazy…

    Well, that was the problem.

    We had been dating about 3 months when I started feeling myself go down that old familiar road of “You’re Messing This Up!” You know, when you can’t believe you’re worthy of this girl, and then you start acting like you’re not worthy?

    And then along comes “Mr. Self-sabotage…”

    First I got drunk at her high school reunion, then I started doing those typical self-destructive things, like calling her too much, and going over to see her all the time.

    The bad part was I knew I was being needy and insecure, but I couldn’t seem to stop myself. It was like I had a voice in my head telling me that I was messing this up, but I couldn’t help but keep doing it!

    And then I went and got jealous of how much time she was spending with her other friends. I remember calling her six times one night to tell her how I’d “figured out where I made my mistake” and I was going to change right away.

    …And then she told me we needed to take a “break.”

    OUCH.

    In the end, I got dumped. Big time.

    This one you might relate to: I was dating another girl, Shelly, for a couple months.

    One night I went over to pay her a surprise visit. (Guess who got surprised?)

    She wasn’t home when I got there, so I waited in the parking lot for her.

    Until about 3:00 AM, when I finally realized she was staying the night somewhere else…

    With someone else.

    BIG ouch.

    I fell into a deep depression after all this and went to go see a therapist. It was over 8 months before I got out of it completely.

    Yeah, it was BAD. I feel a little sick just talking about it right now.

    But There Is A Happy Ending To The Story…

    During this time, I finally found the skills I needed to overcome my emotional issues.

    I realized that getting my self-confidence and self-control was the key to taking care of 90% of my issues in my personal life, AND my dating life.

    I figured out how I was driving away the women in my life. And I figured out how to hang out with people and just be a cool guy to be with.

    It was like getting out of a walk-in freezer to go outside into bright, warm sunshine.

    Even better was this sense inside that I could finally RELAX, you know? Stop making all this stuff such a priority and just be able to chill out and not be a nervous head case everywhere I went.

    Women Can Read Your Inner Game Like Nobody Else Can…

    Something I noticed is that women can be the most irrational creatures on the planet – and they can also read a man’s level of confidence better than anyone else.

      • She knows when you’re approaching her and feeling nervous and can barely say your name…

      • She knows when your self-confidence is in the crapper because of your last breakup…

      • She knows when you suddenly start needing her approval because you’re feeling “shaky” in the other areas of your life…

      She just knows this stuff, and as annoying as it is to have a woman that can read you, it has the ultimate effect of keeping us honest.

      Have you ever heard someone tell you that women want “confident” guys?

      Only about a milion times, probably.

      Well, the last thing you need is to feel like your game is being destroyed by a woman that can see right through you.

      What they say is true…

      Fix Your Inner Game And Everything Else
      Really Does Take Care of Itself

      Something else I discovered as I was coaching men and teaching them some of the secrets of ultimate inner game was that when a guy would finally get focused on the right parts of his personality and his self-improvement, he got good with women.

      And I mean SCARY good.

      And he usually had no idea WHY this was happening, either.

      He’d find that he was not only able to be more relaxed and “in the moment” with women,” but he was also able to just come up with the perfect things to say in any situation.

      What was happening was that he was unlocking his own Natural Game.

      What is “Natural Game”?

      Well, quite simply, it’s the kind of game a guy has when he’s not trying to be someone else. He’s comfortable in his own skin, and it shows.

      He’s not using pickup artist material. He’s not being sneaky or trying to hypnotize women with “trance words.”

      He’s just tuned into his own natural ability. All guys have it, but our inner game doesn’t come with an instruction book, so we spend years and years trying to figure out how it’s supposed to work.

      Take This Quick Inner Game Quiz:

      Answer each of these questions in your head and add up all the ones you answer “YES” to…

        1. Do you feel confident everywhere else, but when you’re with a woman you really want it all disappears?
        2. Are you confident with certain women, but the 9s and 10s leave you speechless and nervous?
        3. Are you ever intimidated by trying to date younger, more attractive women?
        4. Do you have trouble handling the other more aggressive guys out there?
        5. Do you feel invisible to women? Do you feel like beautiful women shake you up?
        6. Do you intellectually know that sex with a woman won’t really solve all your problems, but you still feel driven to pursue it at all costs?
        7. Do you ever feel “stuck” in your head? Do you feel like you think more about things than you should?
        8. Do you frequently feel indecisive? Anxious? Nervous? So much that it’s holding you back from doing things other people seem to have no problem with?
        9. Do you know that your knowledge and experience needs to be put to work in the real world, but you can’t seem to find those steps to “connect the dots” to get started?
        10. Do you just want to feel comfortable in your own skin? And authentic to who you are?
        11. Do you want to be able to express your feelings and true personality? Free from being judged by other people’s critical eye?
        12. Do you want to feel like the “prize” that a woman is desperate to win?

         

        If you answered 4 or more questions “YES” in the quiz above, you’re like 85-90% of the guys I’ve worked with – and you’re completely NORMAL.

        The problem is that most other guys out there would never admit it, so you end up feeling like the weird and “insecure” one.

        The secret truth that guys don’t know is that most men out there are playing the “fake it” game with their inner game and self-confidence. In fact, 80% or more of the guys that you think of as “very confident” are probably even MORE anxious in their heads than you would believe.

        Most guys are “faking it” with women.

        First, here’s another little secret for you:

        Natural Game Is What You Have When You Finally Master Your Inner Game…

        Every one of the guys that I’ve coached to get their inner game together has made the discovery that his game with women comes easily and naturally when he finds his confidence.

        He also finds that:

        • Conversation comes easy. There are no more uncomfortable silences…
        • The sting of rejection disappears. Your identity is no longer in her hands…
        • Women can no longer make you feel inadequate, or hurt your feelings…
        • You still have that same sense of excitement and thrill when you see an attractive women you want to meet, but you don’t feel the invisible grip of fear stopping you from going after her…
        • You no longer need any “lines” or routines with women. In fact, you start finding the perfect thing to say because you don’t have to go out with a “full head” of stuff you never use…
        • Social situations become incredibly easy… you make friends wherever you go…
        • You stop losing your emotional cool around women, and you stop feeling like a puppet pulled around by the strings of jealousy and fear…
        • You feel comfortable and authentic when relating to people, and your anxiety and nervousness disappears…

        Your Inner Game Can Mess Up Your Social Life, Too…

        Have you ever been out trying to meet people and have fun, or maybe you were just hanging around your friends, and you couldn’t seem to feel like you were “IN” the conversation? They seemed to have their little “clique” with each other, but they didn’t seem to want to connect with you, no matter how hard you tried.

        The fact is that your level of inner confidence also affects how successful you are with your social life and social network, too.

        But, the same as dating, your “natural social game” comes automatically when your inner game is feeling solid and stable.

        So what are the most important parts of your inner game to work on?

        Here Are The 6 Key Areas Of
        A Man’s Core Inner Game

        Now I’m going to share with you the 6 key areas of inner game that a man must understand and master. When you have these taken care of, you’ll find that the others just take care of themselves…

        1. SELF-CONFIDENCE & SELF-ESTEEM

        This is one that is probably tops on every guy’s list of things he wants to improve.

        We want to be confident and secure, and we want to really like who we are as a person. There’s really no greater thing to aspire to in our lives.

        But HOW do you improve it? It’s not one of those things that anyone ever teaches you in school. Heck, even my own dad didn’t teach me this when I was growing up and getting picked on by other kids. My parents would tell me to just “not let it bother me.” What good is that?

        Well, while I was doing some research for this article I found a bunch of news reports about how your self-esteem is pretty much connected to everything in your life – like:

        • Your level of income…
        • The amount of satisfaction you get from your frienships…
        • Your health – including how often you get sick – and how long you will live…
        • Your job security…
        • Your happiness…
        • The relationship you have with your family

        Isn’t it amazing how one psychological factor – your self-confidence – can account for such a HUGE part of a man’s life?

        2. SELF-DISCIPLINE & EMOTIONAL CONTROL

        This is what I wished I’d had when I found myself calling my ex in the middle of the night, or waiting out in that girl’s parking lot for 6 hours for her to come home from her other boyfriend.

        Self-discipline is that ability to say what you should when you know you should, and – more importantly – keeping your mouth shut when you ought to just be quiet.

        Emotional control is one of those things every guy wants when he has a woman that likes to “push his buttons.”

        And it’s something we ABSOLUTELY need when a woman starts testing us. You ever feel your panic start to rise when a woman asks you a test question like, “Do you have a girlfriend?”

        A woman’s ultimate decision about how she feels about you always comes down to how you control your emotions at a few key and critical moments.

        Will you know what to do when the time comes?

        The next area of inner game that you have to know is…

        3. HOW TO GET RID OF OLD, SELF-DEFEATING BEHAVIORS

        You might also call this “How to Change Yourself” – without the burnout and frustration.

        This is another skill that no one ever taught us: How to change.

        I was brought up in a family that didn’t ever seem to change. My dad smoked like a chimney, and he tried EVERYTHING you can imagine to quit. From acupuncture to hypnotism. He kept smoking until the day he died.

        My uncle was always getting crappy jobs, drinking like a fish, and doing more drugs than most of the rock bands I was listening to. I listened to his lame excuses for his behavior, and I heard about him trying to rehab every week.

        He’s in his fifties now and he still hasn’t changed. Not ONE BIT.

        It’s discouraging seeing so many people who never seem to change.

        But then I saw other people in my life changing their lives around. I had friends that quit smoking and became respectable and successful.

        So I had to figure out what it was that made them different, and why they were able to change when others didn’t.

        And not just the secret of how to kick one bad habit, because that could just be a fluke. I wanted to know how to change or improve whatever I wanted so that I could be the man I wanted to be.

        This is the essence of personal change, and it’s one of the most essential skills of inner game to learn. Because without it, you’ll never be able to make the others work for you.

        The belief and ability to change is crucial to any Alpha Man’s skills, as is his sense of…

        4. MASCULINITY

        Look, as guys, we know that losing our hair doesn’t mean one bit of difference to who we really are as men. After all, there isn’t a special nerve connection from your scalp to the “confidence center” of your brain, so it shouldn’t mean anything to us, right?

        Wrong!

        The way we feel about our appearance impacts our level of self-esteem and how attractive we feel with women.

        But why is it that you’ve seen some bald guys that get a TON of action from women, AND they are more confident than Tom Cruise. What’s different about them?

        Yup. It’s that darn Inner Game again.

        These guys know something different about themselves that stops them from seeing the missing hair as being a reason to feel like they are less attractive or less manly.

        And they also have the ability to…

        5. MANAGE ANXIETY & FEAR

        This is one area that men don’t like to talk about. I know I didn’t.

        Hey, what guy wants to admit that he’s got a fear of women, or feels a sick, anxious knot of heat in the middle of his stomach when he walks up to talk to a woman?

        But there are so many guys who run into the brick wall of their own emotions in many different situations.

        It’s not our fault!

        Men simply are not brought up to manage or understand their emotions the same way women are. But emotional intelligence is the number one indicator of your level of happiness, life satisfaction, and ultimate level of success.

        The skills to manage our internal state are also incredibly important for when we want to approach women, or when we want to move in for the kiss, or escalate things sexually with a woman.

        And, funny enough, this also leads to…

        6. SHYNESS & SOCIAL SKILLS

        Wait, didn’t I say “Inner Game” areas?

        Yes, I did. And your social skills fit right into your inner game.

        Here’s how…

        You ever been with a group of your friends when you crack a joke at the right time, you get some big laughs, and suddenly everyone warms up to you? You feel like you’re one of the “cool people” in just one moment. You managed to change yourself from ‘outsider’ to ‘insider’ with just one quick social move.

        Now, tell me that you wouldn’t feel like ‘The Man’ right at that moment.

        You would feel on top of the world, wouldn’t you?

        Your inner confidence increases massively from your OUTER experience.

        And THAT is the big secret of inner game.

        Your Inner Game does not improve without outer game techniques and successes that complete the circuit for you. Inner Game is like the positive terminal on a battery… you have all this potential, but nothing happens until you connect it to the negative terminal of your battery – your OUTER game.

        And this is what I finally figured out after years of just trying to “read books” and “listen to tapes.” Those methods don’t work unless you get something practical you can use to really see and feel the change in your experience.

        The Best News Is That You Don’t Have To “CHANGE” Yourself…
        Or FIGHT Yourself.

        In fact, if you’re trying to CHANGE yourself, you’re probably not going to succeed.

        The biggest mistake I found guys making was that they were working really hard to “change themselves.” And as we all know, changing yourself is a very big task.

        But that’s only if you’re doing it the WRONG WAY.

        Let me ask you something – Have you ever heard of Aikido?

        It’s a very cool martial art.

        Yeah, kung-fu, heeee-ya, and all that.

        Basically, in this style, what you do is use your opponent’s energy against himself. If he tries to hit you, you just step aside and redirect him into a wall, or a door, or down some stairs.

        THUNK. Problem solved.

        And you only used about 1/100th the energy to end the confrontation than he did to start it.

        You might have seen Steven Segal in his movies use this style of fighting.

        WHAP! The bad guy is thrown over a bar…

        BLAM! The punk is tossed into a car windshield…

        FLIP! The villain is launched into the exploding building…

        And the hero hardly breaks a sweat.

        Well, the brilliant part of the martial art of Aikido is that it’s the best philosophy to use in just about every situation you can imagine. Verbal situations and social situations.

        Very little energy and effort – and HUGE results.

        Stay with me here – this is cool…

        Because The Worst Thing You Can Do Is To FIGHT Your Own Self-Confidence… Instead, Work WITH IT.

        A lot of guys I’ve met and coached in the past were always trying very hard to overcome their limitations and self-confidence issues by what I call “bulldogging” it.

        Have you ever seen a bulldog get hold of a rag toy? It will chomp down and shake its head and tug and pull… It will usually pull the toy away from whoever is fighting with it.

        But here’s the real problem: The bulldog only has enough fight in him for a couple of those tug-of-war matches before he’s all out of energy. Then it’s all over for him.

        Men are the same way.

        If we take this “grit your teeth” attitude, we might win the first few rounds against our own self-confidence and self-esteem, but we usually just run out of energy and give up a short time later. We give up on our new habits just because they take too much energy to keep them going!

        Enter The Dragon…

        Well, not really the dragon, but something very much like it.

        Whenever we fight the natual energy of a situation, we usually end up exhausted and beaten.

        But when you go WITH it, you get much more done.

        You may have heard the saying: “The reed that bends does not break.”

        Well, that’s especially true with your confidence and self-esteem.

        In fact – if you FIGHT your own natural tendencies, you will probably take MUCH longer to improve your inner game than if you just got it together. (And there are a lot you have that you might not even know about…)

        Using the principles of Aikido on your inner game will make a HUGE difference in your results. And it’s this philosophy that allowed me to realize how to get past my own limitations…

        Here Are The Two Huge Realizations That Released My Stuck Brakes…

        The unfortunate fact is that most guys like you and me want to improve our confidence and Alpha game, but there is so much junk out there that it’s like panning for gold in a mountain stream.

        TONS of work with very little payoff.

        This is why most guys end up bored, frustrated – and they quit. And then they end up settling for less in their lives.

        They fight long and hard to get very little results.

        All because they didn’t have the understanding of “Aikido” for their inner game.

        Here are the BIG realizations I discovered about my inner game…

        My Big Realization #1: If I got just ONE thing out of a book or program that helped me, it was worth any amount of money.

        I mean, if some tip helped me get even just a little bit more confident, it was worth the work to find it. It’s just like rock climbing – if you find just one place to hold onto that’s a bit further up, the next one is now probably within your reach.

        Every little bit counts.

        I even stopped whining that this or that book/tape wasn’t worth the money, and I’d keep everything I got – knowing that there was always at least one secret in it that would help my game.

        And I found a LOT of secrets over the years.

        And then I had…

        My Big Realization #2: My brain is tricking me and doesn’t help me most of the time.

        Have you ever been in a moving vehicle, like a car or a train, and you’ve been riding along for a few minutes. And then you come to a stop, but for some reason it still feels like you’re still moving?

        It’s just like those “optical illusions” you see in books, where your brain can be tricked by a simple pattern on a piece of paper.

        Well, I realized after many years of struggling, that my own mind was tricking me in a lot of ways. Like making me think that what other people were thinking of me was good or bad – or that it really mattered at all.

        Once I finally understood WHY I thought these things, and – more importantly – what I should be focusing on, I stopped feeling so self-conscious with women and in social groups.

        And finally…

        My Big Realization #3: If I re-read a book, or listened to a program again, I’d always find 2 or 3 more great strategies that I could use that I didn’t hear the first time.

        Usually a lot more than that!

        I must have read 200 books and listened to another hundred tapes and CDs on self-development. I went through everything I could find out there.

        Not everything I read was new to me. In fact, the reality is that most of that stuff only had a couple nuggets of pure gold in them. But inevitably I’d read a book and find one or more new concepts or techniques that really grabbed me.

        The funny thing was that those new things I found were there before, but my mind just wasn’t ready to find them the first time around. I mean, there were some really incredible insights in there just waiting to be found…

        But then I thought, who has the time to go through hundreds and hundreds of hours of programs over and over again like I did?

        I don’t think anyone wants to “pan for gold” like that.

        So after going through most of my notes, my workbooks, and journals, I decided to pull together all the stuff I had on this one topic of self-confidence and inner game into something that any guy could use – and not have to spend months and years learning.

        Wouldn’t It Be Cool If You Could Compact Months and Years Of Self-Help Work Into Just A Fraction Of The Time?

        Look, the reality is that most people simply don’t have the time or even the interest in reading hundreds of books and listening to countless hours of self-help programs like I did.

        (Honestly, you get a little weird when you go off the deep end learning this kind of stuff. I was a bit strange…)

        So I thought, wouldn’t it be great if I could just pull all the best tips, tactics, strategies, and techniques I had figured out over the years and just create one giant CONCENTRATED program.

        A “super-program,” if you like.

        I wanted to give you only the skills you need most to conquer your “inner game” and throw out all the garbage and nonsense out there that doesn’t work. (Because there’s a lot of fluff in most of those programs out there.)

        Just like concentrated soap, where a little goes a LONG way.

        Well, it took me a few years, but I finally did it.

        It’s Time To Make a Deep Internal Shift –  A BREAKTHROUGH In Your Thinking…

        Have you tried other programs in the past and had difficulties getting the information to “stick” with you?

        Or you knew the information was valuable and could work, but you didn’t have the “HOW” to do it?

        I had the same experience with a lot of the books I read out there. What I discovered was that I wasn’t able to keep up the new habits and skills they taught me.

        Since I first wrote The Dating Black Book over 7 years ago, I’ve seen guys making the same mistakes over and over again. Whether it was in bootcamps or seminars, they would inevitably make the same classic error.

        Once they saw what they were doing, they were able to get out of their own way and release the “emergency brake” on their energy and power with women. It was a lot like experiencing a giant Tesla coil with lightning arcing across a room.

        Women stood up and took notice.

        What Is The BIG Error That Most Guys Make?

        The error was trying to substitute a “technique” or a “line” to cover up their feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, or nervousness.

        What most guys don’t realize or find out is that a lot of the “pickup artist” material out there doesn’t work if your inner game is weak to begin with. In fact, it’s downright damaging.

        I’m sure you’ve seen or experienced this yourself. If you try to use a line on a woman and you don’t have the attitude to back it up, she will cut you apart.

        The tragedy of this situation is that most guys will never get the success they truly deserve with women… NOT because they are inadequate or can’t “change” themselves, but because they don’t understand how to use their natural abilities to master their emotions and their thinking.

        Your biggest enemy in life is probably your own level of frustration and discouragement.

        15 Years of Inner Game Techniques and Skills – Distilled Down to Just the Parts You Need…

        I’m a bit of a weirdo…

        I’ve got a passion for self-development and the whole “psychology of achievement” field. I’ve spent over 15 years reading books, listening to tapes, going to seminars and lectures, watching videos, and doing just about every crazy thing you can think of to stop my worrying and insecurity and self-confidence issues.

        Yeah, I’ve done just about everything you can imagine (from therapists to witch doctors.) And I now know what really does work and what really does NOT work.

        Have you ever wanted to know:

        • How to experience strong emotions like love and excitement – and still feel in control?
        • How to persist and keep going, even during those times when you’re seeing little or no improvement?
        • How to avoid resenting women and feeling angry with them?
        • How to get what you want without feeling needy and insecure?
        • How to switch off that negative voice in your head that stops you from succeeding?
        • What it takes to use all the stuff you’ve learned, and keep from forgetting it or losing it?
        • Where to start and how to get past your own internal B.S.?
        • How to avoid feeling overwhelmed – and just know where to focus next to get yourself moving in the right direction?
        • How to make all the puzzle pieces of your game fit together – including that missing piece that you know is out there and will “click” everything into place?
        • How to remain consistent with your inner game, no matter where you are or who you are with?
        • How do you finally start to control that need to have people like you or care what they think about you?
        • How do you deal with the guys that challenge you or try to lower your status when you’re out approaching and meeting women?
        • How to keep your Alpha Attitude and confidence, even when you’re in a relationship? So you can keep her and not drive her off…?
        • How to be authentic and REAL instead of just another pickup artist clone?
        • How to avoid getting stuck in your head, and just get in-the-moment?
        • How your inner game gets communicated into your outer game?
        • How to stop TRYING and finally start DOING?

         

        Now you can have the state-of-the-art techniques and secrets that I wish I’d found years ago…

        My Ultimate Inner Game method shows you the recipes, techniques, tactics, strategies, secrets, tricks, and exercises that will get you un-stuck.

        I’m not going to kid you. This home-study program is big – I didn’t leave any stones unturned.

        But my Ultimate Inner Game system is designed to start raising your overall confidence level in the first 24 hours after you start listening and using the information.

        No weird affirmations and weak self-hypnosis, and nothing you can’t put to use quickly and easily.

        And it’s not just good for getting women… It’s good for EVERY area of your life you want to feel more confidence and power over your life.

        And the best part is that once you conquer your Inner Game, you’ll feel the kind of peace that buddhist monks will envy.

        And then the rest of your life really will take care of itself.

        Fix your inner game, and your outer game will run like a finely tuned sports car.

        Ignore it, and you’ll have constant breakdowns and you’ll experience the ongoing fear of being stranded and alone by the side of the road of your own life…

         

        Do you ever feel like women have way more control over you than you’d like them to have…?

        Do you ever feel like your emotions and your willpower were just out of control – and this was sabotaging your ability to get a girl interested in you…?

        Do you ever feel like no matter what stuff you use – pickup lines, and seduction techniques, and all those techniques that other guys used – you still have some element of you that is still not quite “dialed in” … and if you could tweak this one part of you – you’d really see a lot more improvement with your dating life…?

        How Would You Like To Feel Like You’re
        100 Feet Tall And Made Out of Solid Diamond…?

        Most therapists will keep you “on the couch” for years before you make any significant progress in terms of your inner game and self-esteem, much less any progress with women.

        If you’ve tried EVERYTHING before to get you out of the situation you’re in, and you just can’t get your situation fixed, or figure out where to go next, this program is definitely for you…

        If you feel out of control in your dating life, unable to get a grip on things, or you feel like your situation is hopeless, or that you’re trapped or doomed, this program will show you exactly how to get your hands back on the steering wheel of your life…

        If you’ve had a problem dealing with rejection from women, or getting over a tough breakup, this program will give you the clarity you seek, and the ability to raise your self-esteem over this hurdle with ease…

        If you’ve ever dealt with depression, or just getting bummed over your situation, you’re going to learn the secrets to turning on your emotional control mechanisms, and snap out of any funk in just a few minutes…

        If you’ve been having problems with your social life, just making friends and being a fun guy that people want to hang out with, I’ll teach you the bottom-line skills you must have to destroy your anxiety and increase your social network ginormously

        This Is Your Inner Game – Version 2.0 Through Version 2000…

        Here are some of the other things this Ultimate Inner Game system will show you…

        • Understand the complete inner workings of your mind and your thinking – so that you can get “under the hood” and pimp your inner game ride to do what you want to do…

        • How to re-write the conscious and subconscious “rules” that you obey – most of the time without ever questioning them – even when they’re no longer working for you – so that you can redirect your destiny and achieve what you want with women – and with every area of your life…
        • One simple hidden technique that takes 10 seconds and will instantly flush away your guilt, anger, resentment, frustration, disappointment, fear, or any negative emotion…

        • Learn how the 7 Domains of your self-esteem works – in complete detail – so that you can control the level of your self-confidence and keep it consistent
        • The secrets your therapist will never tell you about that will get you stronger inner game in days instead of months and years… (if more guys knew about this, therapy would be dead…)

        • Do you feel like shyness is keeping you from meeting women, making new friends, and experiencing life? You’ll learn about the different kinds of shyness, how they work, and step-by-step instructions on how to break through the shyness barrier in your life…
        • How to get the right parts of your brain working TOGETHER instead of as enemies, so that you can stop second-guessing yourself, and find your inner source of courage and passion…

        • How to jump-start your social circle of friends – in just 3 weeks…
        • The Truth about “manifestation” – and how “The Secret” misleads and tricks most guys…

        • Learn the 5 Domains and the 7 Skills of emotional intelligence, and identify where you need to develop most to master yourself and your feelings…
        • How to master the the 3 Essential Skills of “state change” so that you can instantly get in a better mood, and motivate yourself to do things you normally find difficult or impossible to accomplish…

        • Why slow changes you make are harder and take more energy than the quick changes…
        • The 14 Steps of Emotional and Self-Mastery and the 6 Needs we all share – When you learn these, you’ll be able to unlock any person’s motivation and drive…

        • How to completely turn off that “worry voice” in your head that keeps you living in anxious fear…
        • 7 Steps to defuse and manage your fear and keep from reacting automatically to social challenges…

        • Want to learn practical, simple steps to getting peace of mind and lowering your stress level that doesn’t take a lifetime to learn? You’ll get them in sections 4, 8, and 10…
        • How to recognize your unhealthy thinking when it raises its voice, and how to prevent it from wrecking your approaches and conversations with women…

        • How to ask your woman for things without sounding like a needy wuss-bag…
        • How to fix up the holes in your self-confidence so you can interact with women on a strong and confident footing…

        • The 6 Critical Steps to plan and create real lasting change in your life – from your identity to your habits to your beliefs and way of thinking…
        • The easiest methods for relaxing, clearing your head, getting out of your head, and getting back in the moment with women – or anyone… With step-by-step, real-time guidance through the exercises…

        • How you inherited bad mental habits and trains of thought, and how to finally get rid of them without a bunch of therapy and painful self-analysis…
        • Simple exercises to identify the places in your life where you are letting women control you instead of taking the confident LEAD of your own life…

        • Do you ever find yourself making decisions to make people like you more, or just to not look bad? Here are some simple techniques to clear your head and get back to the REAL and authentic you that earns their respect and admiration…
        • Do you find that women don’t seem to be interested in more dates with you after your first date? Here’s why… and it’s one of the easiest parts of your inner game to get tuned up…

        • 4 Principles of Thought that show you how feelings, moods, and emotions work… Once you understand how this part of you works, you’ll be able to stop reacting or feeling influenced by women and social pressure…
        • The big mistakes men make with their “panic” and anxiety attacks – and how to use the emotional energy to build self-confidence…

        • How to make any “technique” you’ve learned work better, faster, and longer than any of the guys who just learn “the words…”
        • How to take “rejection” and “failure” situations with women and turn them around into something that improves your self-confidence and self-esteem – without cheezy affirmations…

        • How to remove the negative habits you’ve developed that end up destroying your relationships…
        • Ever wonder how some pathetic guys have no problems meeting women? Why smart guys have more trouble with women than the “dumb” guys seem to…

        • How to get past the need for memorized “lines” and “routines” with women so that you can project your powerful confidence and masculine identity to create GENUINE attraction…
        • Learn the simple technique to handle the guys that try to make a fool out of you and tool you…

        • How to get past your approach anxiety with women – or any social group -so that you can quickly and easily walk up to any woman you see and start a conversation, without fear or nervousness…
        • How to avoid the women with issues and baggage and find the women with healthy psychological patterns – so you can stop going through the torture of relationships that are doomed before they begin…

        • Here is the simple architecture of your inner “self-defense” mechanisms and how they work – and how they work in other people so you can get past all the dysfunction and shields…
        • You have Inner “Lie” Mechanisms get in your way of experiencing life and I will explain how our brains naturally deceive us if we’re not careful – and how you can tell when your mind is tricking you…

        • Take a complete self-esteem inventory to figure out where you are right now with your own level of self-confidence…
        • 10 Secret Power Tips for handling the rollercoaster ride of your own self-confidence, and smoothing out the ride…

        • There’s a powerful 2-step system to manage the “evidence” you get from the outside world, and when you cultivate this skill – as I will show you in this section – you’ll learn how to break old disempowering beliefs and install new ones…
        • You’ll learn the 5 Power Questions that immediately re-frame your experience and turn any situation back to your control – no more anger and frustration when life doesn’t go your way…

        • The Secret 2-Step Method and the Three Questions that enable you to channel your energies to the right parts of your life – and these are questions you are automatically answering every minute of every day without even knowing it!
        • Simple psychological tricks to destroy your anger and anxiety and never be a
          slave to your emotions again…

        • A common misunderstanding that locks almost all men into a state of low self-esteem their whole life… and it’s completely simple to break out of when you know the secret…
        • How to turn your negative emotions and energy into positive self-esteem – without having to act or “fake it ’til you make it…”

        • How to break free of needy, insecure “little boy” behaviors that scare away women, and finally take on your Alpha Masculinity…
        • How to get past the old patters of obsession, anger, frustration, anxiety, and negative states that keep your game with women from really moving forward…

        • How to change the parts of you that you want to change, without feeling like you’re being fake or deceptive with women… or double-crossing yourself…
        • How to stop beating yourself up over and over again for things that are in the past, and start to recognize and focus on your future…

        • The 11 Mind Traps that create social anxieties, and how to get past this with simple secrets that anyone can learn and use in just minutes…
        • How to look approachable, be friendly, start a conversation, cultivate strong friendships, and stop feeling “weird” around other people, or that you are the “different” one…

        • How to manifest a strong and confident body language, without going further up in your head…
        • How to have the confidence to walk up and talk to anyone, anywhere, without worrying about approval or being rejeted… No more inferiority complex!

        • How to be your own life coach – rely on yourself more and be more emotionally resourceful – with the skill to solve your own problems and be your own best friend…
        • How to “talk yourself down” from your bouts of anxiety and fear so that you can kill that voice in your head that’s keeping you from doing what you know you need to do…

        • How to overcome a woman’s tests without feeling like the rug was just pulled out from under your feet, staying grounded and calm…
        • How to avoid freaking out with a woman when things get sexually charged – and especially when you REALLY like her…

        • How to control your state and leverage the “Aikido” principle of moods so that you never get stuck in the downward spiral of depression ever again…
        • How to put yourself in the right state so that you keep conversations going with ease and never have to deal with that “shy and quiet” part of you making things boring and awkward ever again…

        • How to put yourself fully in the driver’s seat of your own life so that you get the results from your life that you want – financially, sexually, spiritually, socially…
        • How to awaken your masculinity to become a complete and whole Alpha MAN…

        • How to naturally jack up and increase your mental, emotional, and physical energy every day by engaging your natural drives
        • How to handle negative self-talk and stress in your life, with cool, calm composure…

        • How to impress anyone you meet with the solidity of your character and the power of your presence and confidence…
        • How to “switch off” the negativity in your thinking and substitute it with more realistic “positive” thinking – without coming across like an annoying happy dancing monkey…

        • How to stop ruminating over past events and the bad things that happen to you so that you can free your mind up to new accomplishments and opportunities…
        • How to figure out which “inner voice” you can pay attention to, and which one you should ignore… And how to stop over-analyzing everything…

        • Have you been learning a lot of “seduction techniques,” but now you feel like you’ve lost touch with your real authentic personality? Learn how to get back to your natural self…
        • How to get rid of that constant feeling of being watched and judged by other people when you go out and interact with women – or with anyone!

        • How to win friends and influence people – for the new millenium… updated strategies to increase your personal charisma and social intelligence…
        • How to adapt to changing social situations on the fly – so that you can be a social chameleon…

        • How you are ‘blinded’ to your own inner game issues, and how to take off the blindfold that’s keeping you in the dark…
        • The principle of compounding energy in your inner game – how slight improvements create massive increases in energy and results…

        • The secret “universal mistake” in thinking that all humans make – and when you learn this, you’ll immediately know why your thinking gets in your way of confidence…
        • How your moods and your natural need to worry and “stress out” get in your way and become addictive traps…

        • Shortcut through therapy – a quick and easy breakdown of the 3 environments that shaped your personality, and how to break free from the negative limitations of your upbringing…
        • The simple physiological and biological explanation of your mind’s most basic automatic defenses and systems, and how you are naturally wired to succeed – with the right inner game skills…

        • Why “just do it” and “be confident” is the worst kind of advice – and why you are beating your head against a wall when it comes to self-improvement – and how to tear down that wall…
        • How and why your habits seem so hard to break or change, and the secret method you can leverage change to make breakthrough changes in your habits in just a short time…

        • Why we get “stuck” in relationships that seem to be going nowhere when we see opportunity all around us…
        • Why therapy and digging into your past not only doesn’t work to help you change or “get over” issues, but in fact makes them even worse – and how to avoid this “Therapy Trap…”

        • Learn the blueprint of how your mind works, and the three simple parts that make up your identity… and how to override those automatic impulses you get that seem to control your behavior against your will…
        • The Six Questions to understand about your parents and how they brought you up so you can reconcile your past and get on with your future…

        • How to recognize and stop your natural mental bad habits from starting, and how to get rid of the hesitation and anxiety that your negative thinking creates…
        • The single most important attitude and element of inner game that a man must master – and how it impacts your sexual success, as well as every part of your life – from the car you drive to the women you date… AND the single most important factor that can shift the balance of power…

        • The 5 Useless insights of the pickup community – including the “Magic Bullet” Myth, and how you avoid falling for bad advice when you hear it…
        • How your mind works, how your mental “automatic pilot” functions – and how you can re-program yourself for the behaviors you want… as well as get rid of bad habits that seem to stick with you forever…

        • The reason why most self-help programs don’t seem to work, and how you can get past this trap so that you can enable yourself for change and happiness…
        • Your “Outrage Script” – The one mindset that holds you back from success with women, as well as almost every other area where you aren’t living up to your full potential, and how to shut it down…

        • The 3 Hidden Pickup Artist Traps – How a lot of the “attraction” and “seduction” information can hold you back from a healthy and natural ‘vibe’ with women – and keep you from a positive social network…
        • The 2 Automatic Questions – the natural interpretation drive of your mind, and how you can get much better results in your life by taking control of these questions…

        • The “Mistake” Rule of Life – The one kind of mistake you need to make about yourself to realize your full potential – and the ONE conviction you must develop…
        • Learn the 10 Metaprograms that determine your results and your mind-model, and how you can use these to reach faster and stronger rapport with women in any conversation…

        • The 4 Ways your expectations are turned into reality in your life, and what you need to do to short circuit the power of “self-fulfilling prophecies…”
        • The Power of Your 5 Stories – how your inner mental dialogue creates your experience, and how to “re-write” your story to create the ultimate driving force in your life… And how communicating this story to women will keep her glued to you…

        • The 3 Steps to gain control of your inner voice – and the 10 skills that give you the inner power of purpose, truth, and action…
        • The 4 Energy Types you must understand, control and increase to beat your negative addictions, and lead a healthy and positive life…

        • How to manage and leverage your natural emotional, mental, and physical cycles to get rid of negativity and fatigue…
        • How to avoid constantly beating yourself up over things you KNOW you should let go of…

        • How to keep yourself sane and stable in the dating world right now – so you don’t have to work out all your inner “issues” first to get success with women…

        Are You Ready For An Offer You Simply Can’t Refuse…?

        No One Has Ever Delivered THIS:

        As you can see, I’ve packed in just about every conceivable part of inner game in this program. I left no stone unturned.

        But in case I didn’t put in what you need….

        To be absolutely sure that the program meets your requirements, if you find a topic that has NOT been addressed in the program that you need, simply email me at my special Hotline To Carlos Link, and let me know – and I will CREATE additional content to make sure your questions get answered.

        I can’t possibly imagine that I haven’t covered it all in this program, but if I missed something you need, you’ve got a solid guarantee that you will get it answered.

        How’s THAT for an offer you can’t refuse?

        I’m Adding In A Special Bonus…

        There’s one more area of a man’s inner game that he must have taken care of or he will not succeed over the short – or the long term. And that area is:

        COACHING AND GUIDANCE.

        Wouldn’t it be great to have the ability to “coach” yourself? To be your own voice of support and guidance, rather than always having to rely on new programs every few months? Look, I spend a lot of time focusing on helping guys and making each program I offer the definitive guide.

        But it’s also easy to be lured into buying more and more programs just in case you missed anything.

        Well, first of all, you won’t miss anything here. This is my last program on self-confidence that I intend to create.

        But even more important than this, you probably just need the ability to coach yourself.

        There will be situations around the corner that you’re not prepared for. That’s how life is.

        But wouldn’t it be great if you could just change your own strategy – all by yourself – to tackle any unforseen challenges?

        Wouldn’t it be great to be your own Life-Coach?

        Well, in this program, I decided to include my special program on self-coaching and creating your own life strategies. I was going to create a separate program for this, but I decided it made more sense to include it here for you.

        You’ll learn:

        • How to balance your own needs with others in your life so that you can be truly generous and giving…

        • How to be “selfish” in the right way that gives you more energy, creativity, and get past your own limitations…
        • The 10 Areas of Self-Coaching to focus on, and how each of them contributes to your overall confidence and sense of power…

        • How to build a “super reserve” of resources, energy, satisfaction, and get rid of all your worries and fears in the process…
        • How to manage your time realistically and simply so that you can finally throw out that day planner and get things done…

        • How to formulate a complete, day-to-day strategy for living that serves your passion and purpose, and the critical parts of a complete Alpha Man action plan…
        • And much more…

        And ANOTHER Very Special Bonus…

        There’s another area of inner game that guys ask me about a lot, and I usually get it in the form of this question:

        “How Can I Date Younger Women?”

        Well, the game of dating younger women is actually a BIG Inner Game hurdle for a lot of guys. After all, if you’re attracted to younger women (who isn’t?) then you want to get rid of that feeling that you’re a “creep,” or some kind of “dirty old man.”

        Let me assure you, dating younger women is not only a good thing, it’s easier than most guys realize. This is a huge inner game challenge for a lot of guys out there, and it’s one that I completely cover in this 63 minute advanced Inner Game session.

        You’ll learn:

        • Why guys have such a hard time with both their inner AND outer game when it comes to approaching and getting girls that are younger than them – and what to do about it…

        • How to open a conversation with a younger woman, as well as What you should talk about with younger women with my “media walking” method…

        • What women are really looking for when it comes to age, and how you can easily “bypass” any objections to age a woman might have…

        • My solid gold reframe letter that will change your thinking instantly as to the perception of women’s age and how old is “tool old” for a guy…
        • How to handle the social stigma of age differences between men and women, and why certain cultures consider it “wrong” or “inappropriate” for an older man with a younger woman…

        • Learn the advantages to dating (and perhaps marrying) a younger woman – as well as the inner and outer game strategies to attracting women who are 10, 20, or more years younger than you…
        • Two ways that older guys ruin their chances with younger women – and how to turn these around so that YOU qualify the woman, and you maintain a confident and powerful attitude…

        • What is it that women are looking for in an older man? Find out in this bonus session…

        Here’s What You Get:

        Here is everything you get with the Ultimate Inner Game – Total Self Confidence & Social Success system:

        10 Ultimate Inner Game Modules…

        10 Ultimate Inner Game Modules...

        Hours of material covering every aspect of your inner game with women, and your confidence in every part of your life.

         

        AND: 2 Bonus Master Class Sessions…

         

         

        12 Ultimate Inner Game Training Modules

         

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        Dear Friend…

        Have you ever lost a girl you were really into?

        OR are you afraid you’ll lose the right one when she comes along?

        Remember when you were out with that hot, sexy, funny girl you met? She was cute and cool. No games or weirdness at all.

        You had a good feeling about this one. You couldn’t wait to have her meet your friends. You even found yourself planning stuff in the future to do with her.

        And then, before it even started – it’s OVER.

        She’s gone.

        And you don’t even know what the hell happened. It feels like someone pulled the rug out from under you and then pushed you down a flight of stairs.

        And now your biggest fear is that you’re going to meet The One for you…

        … and it will happen all over again.

        It’s much more agonizing to lose a woman you’ve got than it is to just mess up an approach with a girl you barely know or care about.

        What Will You Do If You Run Into HER Tomorrow…?

        Look, really, what if you find HER tomorrow…

        You know – The Right One for you. Do you know what to do right from the very start so you don’t lose her?

        • Have you ever had a woman whose interest just started to fizzle out slowly, and after a while she just stopped being available – and then disappeared completely?
        • Have you ever been dating some chick that you thought was INCREDIBLE… but the drama was driving you up a wall? Or she just started taking you for granted – like you were just a walking wallet to her…?
        • Have you had a girlfriend, only to have the sex slow down and then grind to a complete halt, and she eventually ends up breaking up with you?
        • Have you had to dump chick after chick because she was either weird, crazy, or just plain boring to be around?
        • Are you constantly disappointed by the women you meet – and you want to know how to find the right one for you? Without wasting days, months, YEARS with the wrong one?

        You’re not alone.

        I’ve had all of these things happen to me, and over the years I’ve coached thousands of guys with similar problems. You meet a girl, things get going, and then for one reason or another (you never figure out exactly why), it all comes to an end.

        And you know what else?

        It’s not your fault!

        Women have been training guys from the very first date to shape and “mold” you into the kind of boyfriend they think they can wrap around their finger. And you probably had NO idea it was happening to you!

        Women have been training guys for years…

        • You leave voicemail messages and then wait for hours for a call back…
        • She gets you to take her to dinners and watch “chick flicks”…
        • She rewards you with sex when you buy her jewelry or gifts…
        • You’re the contestant on HER game show!

        Why don’t you turn it around like this?

        • Get her to take YOU out for dinners…
        • Have her calling you up to invite you over for a late-night “booty call”…
        • Get her to setup your “guys night out” at the strip club…
        • Knowing for sure that she’s ignoring any other guys that hit on her, and telling them she’s taken…
        • Have her show up at your work bringing you lunch – and a little gift she bought you…

        Doesn’t that sound much better to you? It does to me.

        Stay with me here, because that’s what I’m going to show you how to do:

        • How to keep your girlfriend attracted to you – and into you…
        • How to make women happy…
        • The secrets for how to start a relationship up with a woman the right way…
        • What to look for in a girlfriend – and what women to avoid…
        • How to make sure she NEVER cheats on you…
        • How to save your girlfriend if you start feeling her slip away…
        • How to keep her satisfied in the bedroom – so that she never wants anyone else but you…

        …If you truly want more attention, more respect, and more sex – without all the drama and heartache that most guys experience, then you simply must drop what you’re doing and devour the liberating information revealed below!

        You’ve Met Your Dream Girl . . .Start It Off With Her Right And Train Her Correctly And She Will Take Care Of You!

        Most guys do NOT know how to start things up so their girlfriend will be worry and drama-free, and everything is on autopilot

        …they don’t know how to start things with a girlfriend that’ll give them the kind of sex, attention, and freedom they dream about – it’s just not something most guys can figure out on their own!

        And it takes more than just common sense to choose a girlfriend and start a relationship…

        Relying on common sense with women is a Sure-Fire Death Sentence!

        Are You Already Trained?

        I want to tell you something that you might find shocking – or maybe you suspected all along:

        Did you know that women are training you?

        It’s true. Women even use that exact word when they talk about it.

        “Training.”

        Before you get mad about that, let me share something else with you:

        If What These Girls Said Doesn’t Piss You Off, Nothing Will…

        My girlfriend told me about a conversation she had with some of her girlfriends over coffee a few days ago.

        Here – listen in on their conversation:

        Megan: “So you’re saying that you got your boyfriend – that big macho guy – to do all the cooking and cleaning in your house?”

        Claire: “Yup! It’s great. I can go out and just have fun with the girls. Just like right now. Oh, and you know what the best part is?”

        Megan: “He’ll give you a massage when you get home?” (Laughs)

        Claire: “Probably! But that’s not it. Get this – he even walks my dog, Precious, for me. He wanted to go with his friends to a Giants game today, but I convinced him to watch Precious instead.”

        Megan: “Wow! You’ve got him trained well!” (Laughs)

        Claire: “Tell me about it!” (Laughs)

        If you haven’t figured it out by now, their giggles were not the warm, loving laughter of women who cherish and admire their men.

        No, it was the laughter of women who were celebrating Claire “pulling one over” on her boyfriend.

        And all of the other women laughed because they wished they could train their boyfriends just like she did.

        This isn’t the exception – this is pretty much the rule with every woman out there.

        Guys Get Stuck In These Nightmares All The Time…What About YOU?

        Do any of these sound familiar to you?

        • Do you find yourself thinking that your girlfriend is just fine – everything seems to be just great – and then out of nowhere she tells you she’s “not happy” – or she just wants to “take a break”?
        • Have you ever had a girlfriend who just stopped being as interested in sex? Things got slower and slower, colder and colder… until you were lucky to get any at all?
        • Do you get angry at women for being mean, playing dirty, always sending you mixed signals, warm to you one minute and cold the next, manipulating you? Do you want to put an end to the bullsh*t games and tests that never seem to end?
        • You want to finally understand what a woman wants and what’s going on inside her head, so that you can stop struggling just to communicate and keep things going with her? Other guys can do it – and you’ve seen it happen, so you know it’s possible…
        • Do you have trouble finding women that live up to your requirements or standards?
        • Do you always find yourself playing a game of “WHAT HAPPENED?” when you consistently miss – or misread – a woman’s signals? Don’t you wish you could know what she’s thinking – so you fix things before she gets pissed at you?
        • Ever wish you could have a complete blueprint for how you could completely control the relationship so you were never surprised or blindsided by a woman again? You could ELIMINATE all the turmoil and drama for good. FLIP the power back into your hands?

        I bet you’ve had one of those situations happen to you at one time or another. Girlfriends are cool, but no one really tells you what it takes to keep her, keep her happy, and keep her addicted like a junkie to pull you back into the bedroom – again and again.

        So now what you need to do is:

        Turn These 4 Toughest Challenges With Women Into 4 Easy Victories…

        Most guys have challenges with women – that’s no secret. And there are FOUR big areas where we find it hard to deal with girlfriends:

        1) Starting up a relationship

        This is all about getting her into you enough to want to see you – and ONLY you. And eventually – maybe – even fall in love with you. It’s that feeling of control and power at the start that you want to keep forever. And it’s also about knowing which women to choose and which to leave behind. You want her as your “YES!” girl, right?

        2) Keeping her walking on air – happy and totally attracted to you

        You want to keep her into you, and even obsessed and addicted to you if possible. This also includes keeping the sex hot and fun and knowing how to satisfy her at a physical level. It’s that seemingly magical ability to delight a woman and keep her excited to be with you.

        3) Understanding what she’s thinking – and knowing how to deal with different types of women

        This is all about knowing how to read different women, and not get caught unaware or off-guard. It’s also about knowing if she’s the right one for you, and how to avoid the women that are wrong for you.

        4) Handling conflicts and arguments

        And this skill is all about how to communicate and connect with women – and how to fix things when there’s a problem. It’s also about how to read a woman’s signals, and how to recover when you blow it.

        This all might sound like some kind of fantasy or something, but I’m here to tell you that you can actually master these abilities with women – so that you neverhave to feel like you’re the one being “trained,” your girlfriend is always hot and attracted to you like a fly to honey, and you never need to worry about her leaving you for some other guy.

        You Don’t Want To Be “Chained” – Instead Let Her Be Trained…

        You don’t really want a “relationship.”

        You want a LIFESTYLE.

        And that’s where I come in.

        I’ll show you the unconventional path that lets you work less and get more from the women in your life (lots more). If you’ve already got a girlfriend, you’ll take what you have and push it through to levels you’ve only dreamed of ‘til now. And that’s not fluff – I’ve done it for just about any kind of guy out there.

        If you don’t have a girlfriend yet – you will discover how to choose the best possible woman for you – and start it right so that the attraction never burns out.

        Because the best solution is to…

        “Train” Her Right From The Start And Take The Power Back Into YOUR Hands…

        Look, I often talk about this process of starting and keeping things going with your girlfriend as being like “girlfriend training.” I realize this can be shocking for some guys to hear, so I want to explain that it’s not negative or derogatory in any way. It’s simply a fact of life.

        What I’m talking about is that training your girlfriend is just an educational process. You get to discover how women work, and she gets to learn how YOU work…

        …and more importantly, she learns how to respect and admire you as a MAN.

        Without those two elements of respect and admiration, she’s going to always want something else.

        SOMEONE else.

        Now…

        Most Guys Don’t Realize This Truth About Women – And Then They LOSE Every Time…

        Ask any woman and she will confirm it: Women are always “in the game.”

        She’s always got a guy (or two) on the line that she can go out with on a moment’s notice. She may or may not be interested in him, but she’s got her ‘orbiters’ waiting for a chance to take her out.

        You know that woman you just met and got her phone number? Maybe you even have a date setup?

        I hate to tell you this, but she’s seeing her “other guys” right now, too. You probably think she’s this sweet, lonely girl who sits home and watches cable in her fuzzy pajamas, but she’s not. She’s screening several guys at once.

        You’re just another contestant on the “Who Gets Her?” game show, friend.

        So you have to be ON your game when you want to make her your girlfriend – because options are waiting for her. THAT is why women can be so interested one minute and then totally flake out and disappear on you the next. She’s just exercising her options.

        And you got eliminated.

        The truth is that everything starts with knowing fire things up with a woman – to make her your girlfriend. To get the attraction going, and get her interested in you, to the point where she finds you hypnotically sexy – she’s completely turned on around you, and always looking forward to you asking her out again and again.

        And if you don’t get it started up right with her, you’re going to get this:

        How To Avoid The 4 Most Painful Words A Woman Can Say…

        She’ll go out with you for a date that you spent a butt-load of time planning and arranging, only to have her tell you (after you ate out at that expensive restaurant, of course):

        “Let’s just be friends…”

        Ever heard a woman say that? It’s like being punched in the stomach with a bowling ball.

        The hell with that! You don’t want “just friends” – you want freaky passionate sexy fun.

        But she’s really hot, so you think: “Hmmm… Friends is better than nothing, I guess.”

        So you go along with it, hoping to sneak in the back door and prove to her she should be your girlfriend. Only she keeps pushing you further and further away, until you’re just another person she complains to about how there’s “no good men out there.”

        WTF?

        “What about ME???” you want to scream at her.

        Guys get sucked into this trap with women all the time, and it’s about as fun as five hours in the dentist’s chair getting your teeth pulled out. I’m going to show you how to avoid this disaster in just a second.

        But there is one situation that’s worse, and this one happens a lot more than we want to admit. Let’s say you manage to avoid the friends-only zone with her and you get her to date you…

        WARNING: Your Girlfriend Will Lose Interest In You Until She Either Dumps You Or Cheats On You – UNLESS…

        It doesn’t start out this way, of course. It’s always seems great in the beginning.

        You’re hot for her & she’s hot for you. You just can’t keep your hands off each other.

        But then you call her up one day and she tells you she’s feeling a little “under the weather.” Maybe she’s got a “friend” visiting her from out of town.

        Whatever the excuse is, and a lot of times the reason is even true, she purposely let that reason get in the way of YOU, my friend. And when you’re not a priority to her, you’re in deep trouble.

        And then things never seem to recover after that.

        She eventually either pushes you away so hard that you have to break up with her, or eventually she dumps you.

        I know this sounds harsh, but it’s a pattern that goes on ALL the time with men and women.

        This Is How You’ll Be Eliminated…

        The pattern goes like this:

        1. You start out hot and heavy, and everything seems great. You’re both excited and attracted to each other. This is when it feels great to be around her. Time flies by and you wish you could just be with her all the time.
        2. Then something changes… All of a sudden, when you hang out she isn’t as bubbly or fun anymore. You feel her cool off. She’s just not as “into it” as she once was.
        3. She stops being interested in your life and what’s going on with you…
        4. The sex slows down, or even disappears completely…
        5. She cools off and stops calling you. You wind up being the one doing all the work to try to make her happy – but nothing works…
        6. She gets annoyed with you more easily and makes excuses to not see you…

        What usually happens at this point is that you become worried and paranoid of losing her. Then you try harder and harder to win her back.

        And you know what she does next?

        She pushes you away even harder. You know you’re caught up in a losing battle, sliding down the hill faster and faster – but you just want to save things and keep her as your girlfriend.

        And Then It Turns Into A NIGHTMARE…

        • She starts flirting with other guys…
        • She starts disrespecting you…
        • She starts getting more bitchy, criticizing, and controlling…

        And if you don’t break it off with her by now, the worst thing in the world happens: She cheats on you…

        …or finally she just dumps you.

        It doesn’t matter if she’s someone you just met, or your new girlfriend, or the woman you’ve been with for 5 years, or the woman you’re married to.

        Women let you think that you won them, then they will start losing interest in you the minute you start ACTING like you’ve won her.

        You should read that last sentence again. It’s critical.

        The fact of the situation is that…

        Women Get Away With This Because Most Guys LET Them!

        It’s not because we’re aren’t good guys. It’s because we just don’t know how to stop the slippery slide down the hill once it starts.

        The reason women go through this pattern with men – almost the exact same way each time – is because she’s expecting YOU to set the boundaries of the relationship for her so she knows where “out of bounds” is. (There’s an art to this, and I’m going to explain how it works in a minute.)

        Ultimately, we all train other people how to treat us. They learn how to manipulate and control us, and then they lose all respect for us.

        It’s not like this all the time with your friends, but it happens ALL THE TIME with girlfriends.

        One of the biggest tests a woman gives is to give you enough rope to see if you’ll really hang yourself. And – unfortunately – most guys do. I’ve got scars from it… I suspect you might, too.

        So if women are training men like this, how can you expect to win?

        It All Comes Down To THIS Attraction On Autopilot:

        The secret is knowing the secrets to the Three Girlfriend Skills:

        Secret 1) Select.

        You have to choose a girlfriend well, or no amount of skills can help you if you get in over your head. You have to know the important things that she must have to be your girlfriend, and you better know what red flags and qualities you do NOT want.

        Secret 2) Startup.

        You have to know how to take it from casually dating a woman to turn her into your girlfriend. Most romances just fade and fizzle out – and if you don’t know what to do to take it from just “seeing her” to make her your girlfriend – you’re just going to lose another one.

        Secret 3) Sustain.

        Once you’ve got her, you have to know what to do to KEEP her attracted and interested in you. You already know what happens when you don’t know how to sustain it.

        The big secret is that women are attracted to a set of specific emotional triggers and hot-buttons that men can find and push. They actually want you to push them so that they know you can “unlock” her heart. These are the things that sustain the attraction.

        And the opposite is also true: There are a set of specific behaviors that men do that completely DESTROY a woman’s attraction for him.

        Statistically speaking – and from my experience in coaching men of all ages and in all backgrounds, it’s very likely you are doing these attraction destroyers.Unintentionally, but doing them anyway – and driving women away.

        It’s not your fault; it’s just that women are not good at communicating what they really want from men.

        Maybe you’re not getting dumped, but instead…

        What If You’re Just Trying To Find A QUALITY Girlfriend?

        There’s also the other side of the coin – maybe you’re trying to find a woman that’s WORTH staying with, and you end up having to break up and keep looking – over and over again.

        Well, most of this problem, as well as the problem of keeping a girlfriend, comes back around to those same hot-buttons for attraction. You can actually inspire a woman to be on her best behavior with you – and rise up to your standards, instead of becoming a nagging drama queen.

        Most of being successful with women is knowing what qualities to look for, and how to deal with every kind of woman you meet along the way. Some you can have as “play” girlfriends, and some women you might want for long-term girlfriends or more.

        But if you don’t know how to understand women’s psychology and choose well right from the very start, you’re in for a rough ride.

        There are also a TON of “Red Flags” you need to watch out for – warning signs that a woman is bad news. Missing those clues could leave you rocketing off the edge of a very tall cliff.

        Don’t forget that when you do meet a high-quality woman, you need to know how to keep her interested in you. These quality women are harder to find – and they respond to very different behaviors than the women you meet in some bar before closing time.

        You gotta be her “Mr. Right” – right from the very start.

        And you have to realize:

        95% Of Men Will Never Discover These Secrets About Women

        Women are different than men. (I know, that’s obvious…)

        And unless you understand how they work, you will probably meet the same horrible fate as millions and millions of men do every year: painful breakups, divorce, or cheating that you might not find out about for months or years. And unlike women, these tragic situations leave men emotionally scarred and afraid of risking their hearts again with women.

        Look, let’s be real here: Women are a complete mystery to most men.

        • They’re emotional…
        • They’re irrational…
        • They say one thing, mean another – and then do something completely different…
        • They want what they can’t have…
        • They run hot and cold on you for no reason at all, or get mad at you for the slightest thing…

        They don’t work like guys. Women are complex and crazy. I like to think they’re fun, too, but when you’re in the agony of losing your girlfriend, that’s just not on your mind. You just want to know how to keep her attracted to you.

        But here’s the part you really need to know:

        Women are understandable, and your girlfriend can be handled so that you avoid the pain and the drama.

        Remember: Women work on an “emotional logic.”

        This emotional logic is predictable, and you can use it to keep your girlfriend happy, attracted to you, and ONLY you.

        OR you can keep falling into bad romance after bad romance because you’re not using it to your advantage.

        After all…

        You Don’t Need Another Lame Relationship Self-Help Book

        So you’ve put all that energy into going out and meeting women, approaching women, getting phone numbers, going out on dates. Hours and hours learning how to attract women the right way.

        Now why would you let all that effort and pain go to waste by letting it crumble away beneath you?

        Well the answer is: If you knew how, you wouldn’t let that happen.

        Most relationship self-help books are written for women. And usually she gets one of these to “fix” her unhappiness and discontent. Your girl might read it and hope you’ll be interested and want to read it with her, but that’s not the way guys are.

        We just need a simple guide to understanding women and female psychology.

        Because the reality is that:

        Keeping A Girlfriend Is Not The Same As Seducing Her – Or Working “Pickup” On Her…

        The fact is that the skills you need to “pickup” a woman or seduce her will not help you keep her as your girlfriend. The one thing most guys might not admit – but they long for – is that they actually want a girlfriend. We don’t want to go out every weekend to noisy bars hoping to “pick up” some girl who we will probablynever see again.

        – We want to have someone we can sit home and watch movies with…

        – We want a girlfriend to go out and have fun with…

        – We want someone to have some amazing intimate “adventures” in the bedroom with…

        – We want a woman who will accept us for who we are…

        – We want a girlfriend who will support us and lift us up…

        Just trying to get ONE girlfriend is hard enough. Trying to find a new girlfriend every few weeks just becomes tiring after a while.

        Wait… Who am I kidding?

        It’s downright EXHAUSTING to try and find a new girlfriend.

        So these “seduction” skills won’t help you when you need to keep her interested and attracted to you as your girlfriend. And they also won’t stop her from straying if you don’t pay attention and “train her” correctly. Now, when I say “train her” I really mean “educate her,” right? We men have to show her how we want to be treated.

        Tell me if this sounds familiar:

        You meet a woman, and you get her phone number. You get a date, and maybe you go out a few times, but you can’t get anywhere with her.

        OR

        You go out on a date or two with her, but she winds up telling you she wants to “just be friends.”

        OR

        Maybe you’ve had girlfriends before – and they all seem to end the same way: You feel that sinking fear in your stomach that she’s starting to lose interest in you. She becomes more disapproving every day, and the attraction fades out and dies…

        OR

        Your current girlfriend is starting to take over the relationship, and now you’re on a wild ride down some rapids that will probably dump you out of the raft and have you swimming for your life…

        You don’t need a crystal ball to see what’s coming, right?

        You just want your girl back. The way things were at the start.

        You want control back.

        And you want to stop feeling like you’re about to go over the waterfalls in a barrel…

        All you want is a girlfriend that you can:

        • Attract – right from the start…
        • Turn her into your girlfriend without all the flaking and games…
        • Keep her attracted to you and addicted to being with you…
        • Keep her respecting you and admiring you…
        • Keep the sex fun, exciting, and frequent
        • Get rid of all the emotional drama – and you “wear the pants”…
        • And never fear losing her to another man…

        Now this next part is going to shock you:

        Here Is An Ugly Truth That Women Don’t Want You To Know About…

        Most guys don’t know this, but it’s a fact: Women cheat as much as men do.

        If you listen to all the urban myths out there, they would have you believe that men are the dogs, always cheating on women, right? Well the fact is that not only do women cheat, but women cheat on men as much as – if not more than – men do.

        And it’s increasing every year. More and more women are seeking the comfort and warmth of another man – someone that is NOT her boyfriend. Chances are that he won’t ever find out about it, even after she breaks up with him.

        Why is this?

        The simple fact is that women can hide their dirty secrets much better than men can. And women are quick to tell others when men cheat ON them. But men almost never reveal the embarrassing, humiliating truth when it happens TO them. After all, having your woman two-time you is the most painful thing that can happen to a guy.

        Here’s another ugly truth: As many as 1 in 25 (and possibly as high as 1 in 10) of all children are NOT the biological child of the “father.”

        That’s right.

        As many as 4 – 10% of all men are unknowingly raising another man’s child.

        “…researchers in Liverpool found that rates of cases where a man was not the biological father of his child ranged … to as much as 30%.*

        I don’t know if I believe that it’s quite as high as 30%, but even 1 in 10 is way too high of a chance to take. I know you don’t want to be a “duped dad” and fall into this trap – and the good news is that it never has to happen to you.

        I’m going to tell you something you need to know:

        I’ve Got “Insider” Info On Why Your Woman Will Cheat On You Or Dump You For Some Other Guy…

        I’m going to reveal to you something that I’m not proud of. But it’s something you should know about, and it’s why I’m warning you about this situation.

        Over the 20+ years of dating I’ve experienced, I’ve also had a few flings with women that already had boyfriends. And one or two that were … shhh… married.

        Hey, I’m not proud of that. It’s not cool to do what I did, and I learned my lesson. I also don’t condone that guys do this, either.

        In my defense, though, many of these women didn’t even tell me they had a boyfriend (or hubby) until after we started seeing each other.

        So I’m here to tell you from EXPERIENCE why it is that women cheat on their boyfriends and husbands. I’ve laid next to them in bed as they talk about their “loser boyfriends” (her words, not mine) and why it is she actually enjoyed sneaking around on him like this.

        Not all women will cheat on you. Some women will simply have the decency to break up with you first.

        But…

        She Was Taking A “Test Drive” On The Side Before She Traded You In For Her Next “Ride…”

        I learned from a great many women that months before she actually breaks up with a guy, she’s already over him in her head – and in her heart. And very often they’ve already lined up the next guy.

        So she’s got an emotional life raft. What have you got?

        The really amazing thing was when these women told me that it would never have come to this point if the guys had just seen the signs and taken action just a little bit sooner. Women are unfaithful only because she wants more from her boyfriend or husband than she’s getting.

        (I’m going to show you what those signs are, by the way. Because if you don’t know how to spot the signals when they show up, you’re as good as dead.)

        YES: You Can Have Your “Sex Kitten”

        Every guy wants a woman that he can enjoy in the bedroom, and have her practically tearing his clothes off for sex on a regular basis.

        Women are instinctively programmed to respond to certain sexual triggers, too. The problem is that they are NOT the same as the ones that you respond to.

        Women will eventually lose interest in sex with you… unless you know what steps to take to prevent it. Fortunately it’s easy to keep the intimacy alive and make sure your sex life is still electric and hot.

        When you give a woman the right environment within your relationship, she will simply want sex more than you do. She will crave you, and become almostaddicted to the pleasure of sleeping with you.

        She will be the woman who says “YES” to you all the time – instead of “no.”

        By now, I’m sure you want to know what this is all about, right?

        Introducing: “The Girlfriend Training Program”

        After years of learning the art of attraction with women, back in 2002 I released my first book on the subject: The Dating Black Book. I wanted this book to help guys become successful with women and dating.

        And for the last 9 YEARS, I’ve been working on all the tips for this program I’ve just completed: The Girlfriend Training Program. It’s a “stealth” dating program that puts you back in the driver’s seat of your relationships with women.

        This is the pinnacle of my teachings, because it takes all the attraction tips, tactics, and techniques that you’ve used so far to get things started with a woman and focuses them like a laser beam on the goal of being able to actually KEEP any woman interested in you.

        For a night, or for a lifetime, it will now be up to you what happens with her. For the short and long-term.

        Finally, you can know all the secret strategies that the guys with beautiful, desirable wives know about. These guys know that their women are hot properties and if they drop the ball for one second, she’s got options lined up around the block. These guys have a skill for keeping their women trained to feel attraction for him – 24 hours a day/7 days a week.

        And in case you’re thinking it’s because he’s either A) rich, B) good looking, or C) kisses her ass to win her approval – NO, that’s not it at all.

        This program was also shaped by the questions and suggestions from over 10,000 guys just like you. I took the most common questions, and The Girlfriend Training Program will give you these secrets:

        • How To Keep Your Girlfriend Attracted To You And Into You
        • Show you how to understand a woman’s thinking and “emotional” nature
        • Understand all the different types of women – and how you deal with them
        • Know how to make a woman happy
        • The secrets for how to start a relationship up with a woman the right way
        • What to look for in a girlfriend – and what to avoid!
        • How to make sure she never cheats on you
        • How to handle any arguments or conflicts so that you never lose or feel emasculated
        • How to save your girlfriend if you start feeling her slip away
        • How to break up with your girlfriend without guilt or pain
        • How to keep her satisfied in the bedroom – sex secrets and tips that guarantee she won’t refuse you – ever.Girlfriend Training Program - bonuses

        You’ll get over 9 hours of video where I will explain and show you all the secrets of how to take any woman in your life right now and transform her into your girlfriend…

        • Discover the one principle that most men never understand, and as a result they end up feeling confused and uncertain with women for most of their lives…
        • There are a lot of myths and mistakes in a lot of the “self-help” books on the bookshelves today. I’ll explain why these books are damaging and almost catastrophic to men who want to learn how to understand their girlfriends – so you can avoid the traps…
        • It’s a well-documented fact that women initiate over two thirds of all divorces – and those statistics are even scarier for breakups in dating. You’ll uncover WHY this happens, and how you can avoid it from ever happening to you…
        • Having a girlfriend can be a blessing or a curse – and I’ll show you why you want one (or don’t want one)…
        • Why men have a tougher time being “in a relationship” than women do – and why men are usually the ones that are much more devastated when the woman breaks up with him…
        • The reality of “Love” – I’ll explain the real reason we fall in love and become addicted to love – so you can use this understanding to get women to fall for YOU (instead of it always being the other way around…)
        • Ever been “addicted to love”? Well I’m going to help you stop falling for women you shouldn’t, too…
        • The deadliest romantic illusion of all, and most everyone you know – even yourself – probably believes this one. I’ll show you exactly how to bust this one and wake up from the dream that scares off more girlfriends than you can imagine…
        • One of the biggest mistakes that men make with women that virtually guarantees she will never want to be your girlfriend – and it’s so obvious that most guys miss it all the time and destroy their chances…
        • The complete three-step method that virtually guarantees that you will avoid 90% of the drama and tension and conflict in a relationship…
        • Why punishing a woman never really works, and often seals your doom with her instead – and the alternative that ensures you get what you want from your woman without any pain…
        • A drop-dead simple exercise that takes only five minutes that will illuminate the reasons why you may have been struggling to find a woman and keep her attracted to you…
        • You’ll discover the best way to figure out which woman will meet your criteria for a girlfriend – and which ones you’ll want to keep long-term, and avoid the pain of making a poor choice in character that will haunt you down the road…
        • Six CRITICAL traits you must screen for in the women you date or you will never be completely happy with your girlfriend – and the ONE mistake that can either make or break your happiness with a woman…
        • The eight indicators to look out for that this woman should be avoided at all costs! These are traits that men miss all the time and wind up in the “hurt locker” because of it. You’ll be able to spot them in advance and avoid them…
        • The five essential compatibility elements that a man needs in his girlfriend. Without them, you’ll always be looking for someone else – and with them you’ll have the best foundation for peace and joy with a woman…
        • The eight types of women to watch out for that will drown you in misery…
        • The 26 Red Flags – the tell-tale signals that a woman has the potential to go sour on you. I’ll explain them all and what you need to watch out for – as well as why these Red Flags are deadly… (Number 9 is one that men miss all the time and wind up with a battle-axe…)
        • The ONE critical trait you must put at the top of your list to ensure that you get a happy and enjoyable woman in your life. If you don’t get this one, it simply will NOT work for you…
        • My 6-step screening process that you can use on any woman to filter out the good from the bad in half the time and effort…
        • I’ve had a couple long-distance relationships in my past. I’m going to show you the truth about long-distance relationships – and why most of them do not succeed. BUT I’ll also explain the 3-step plan for how you can make this arrangement work for you…
        • The 5 Killer Myths that keep men from succeeding with their girlfriends. I’ll blow these wide open and save you years of heartbreak with women simply by avoiding these traps…
        • Have you ever been so obsessed with a woman that you just couldn’t stop thinking about her? To the point where it actually probably helped scare her off? I’ll show you how to avoid this kind of destructive “one-itis” and still be able to win her over…
        • There’s one thing that guys misunderstand about how to start a relationship with a woman, and I’ll expose this one for you – because it’s the one thing you may have been avoiding in your dating that has actually put you into the “friend’s zone…”
        • 11 Milestones with your girlfriend that you should watch for so you know when you’re making progress (or SHE is making progress!)
        • I’ve got an 8-step plan for you to transition a woman from just casually dating into making her your girlfriend, and I’ll teach you all of them – as well as the three things every man has to do to never be caught off guard by his girlfriend ever again…
        • There are 7 critical girlfriend skills that every man must have – and very few actually know what they are (which is why so many guys have problems keeping a woman happy.) I’ll explain these skills to you, along with which one is most important to your happiness (and hers)…
        • Handling the “L Word”: There are some rules about how it should be used – because most guys use it too often, in the wrong way, and for the wrong reasons. I’ll explain exactly how to avoid the big mistakes when love comes into the picture…
        • The one emotional control signal that women are looking for before they will become your girlfriend – and how it works to keep her interested and attracted by you for good…
        • There are six kinds of problems you’ll typically have with women. I’ll explain each one of them and how you handle them so that you never have to worry about “land mines” catching you off guard…
        • One of the biggest of the six problems is money – and you need to have this one firmly under your control. I’ll give you four ways to ensure you don’t wind up with a gold-digger that uses you up and throws you away…
        • How to handle any bad behavior from a woman so that you a) don’t seem like a jerk, and b) stop it before it becomes a real problem…
        • Worried that your girlfriend might be thinking of leaving? I will give you four warning signs that she’s getting ready to check out so that you don’t get dumped unexpectedly…
        • BONUS: Cheat Proof Your Relationship – In this section, you’ll discover the 8 Primary Reasons women cheat – and exactly how to avoid this kind of devastating heartbreak…
        • Cheating! Why she does it, how to handle it, and how to avoid it from EVER happening to you. After you finish this section of the program, you’ll never have to worry about a woman stepping out on you and you’ll completely cheat-proof your relationship…
        • Trust is one of the essential ingredients your girlfriend needs. Without it, you can’t hope to keep her. I’ll show you how to create it by making sure you pass all her tests along the way. She will definitely test you – and I’ll explain the 5 most common tests, along with how you handle all tests a woman gives you…
        • Testing isn’t just for women. I’ll give you my 3 solid gold techniques for how to test your girlfriend to make sure you’re getting a reliable and trustable woman…
        • Keeping her addicted to you is the core of what I teach, and I’m going to share 12 simple secrets for keeping your girlfriend attracted and downright addicted to you so that she never disrespects you or leaves you for some other guy – AND you will avoid all the trust and jealousy issues you see other couples having…
        • The principle part of keeping a woman attracted and interested in you is making her obsessed with you so that there is no way she would even consider another man. I’ll show you my 9 step technique that is so controversial I can’t name it here – but you won’t believe how powerful and effective this is for keeping a woman completely passionate about you…
        • Familiarity kills attraction. You’ll discover 4 ways to keep her from feeling like she knows you “too well” and stops her from ever being bored with you…
        • The one thing you can never show a woman in your behavior. If you do, she tests you more, pushes your buttons more, and eventually leaves. If you keep this under control, you will not only maintain her trust, but she will never want to leave you…
        • 8 Ways to keep your girlfriend into you – including my “joker card” technique for never being caught off-guard with a woman ever again. It’s just like a “get out of jail free” card for you…
        • COMPETITION! How do you handle other guys? I’ll show you how to completely destroy this problem and never have to worry about other guys stealing your woman away from you…
        • How to read a woman’s heart and mind before she pulls something crazy on you: There are four critical signals you must watch for with a woman. If you miss these, you’ll wind up in one of those embarrassing and painful episodes with your girlfriend that you wish you could have avoided. Now you can!
        • How to handle and manage your girlfriend’s family and friends so that they don’t drive you nuts – and they don’t wind up managing YOU. Get on their good side – and have her friends defending her FOR you when you’re not around…
        • 9 Losing Strategies that turn women off and will guarantee that your girlfriend will lose interest in you – and how you can avoid making these mistakes yourself…
        • The Big “C” Word: Communication! You hear about it all the time, but no one seems to know what this means for a guy who wants to keep his girlfriend happy. I’ll explain completely how you communicate with women effectively, including: What to talk about, what to NEVER talk about, when to talk about it, and how women communicate…
        • How to know when your girlfriend is lying to you…
        • It’s been shown that after an argument, women often feel much less attraction to their boyfriends. I will give you a complete strategy on how to handle conflicts and arguments so that the issue gets resolved once and for all (no repeat attacks!), your woman feels even more attracted to you than before, and you remove all the drama from your life…
        • The 7 Rules of how to handle disagreement with women so that you never trigger her anger – and you still get the great make-up sex after…
        • The “M” word: Marriage. Do you want it? SHOULD you want it? I’ll explain everything you need to know if you’re considering moving in or taking your girlfriend to the next level. I’ll also show you the 9 reasons you never want to marry a woman – and the 6 signs that a woman is settling for you rather than slavishly desiring you… (And that’s what you want – desire!)
        • Keeping the sex hot! You have a right to a fulfilling sex life with your girlfriend that lives up to your fantasies, and I’ll show you why it slows down, why women hold back on sex, and how to make her come to you begging for more…
        • All the “relationship” self-help authors tell you that you need to have compatibility – and it seems obvious that you need her to be a good match for you. BUT I’ll reveal the one critical element of “compatibility” that you really need – and how the gurus have this one all wrong…
        • Have you ever been with a girl where things just needed to be rejuvenated and kicked back into exciting again? I’ll show you my simple 3 step plan that you can use in any situation to light the fire again – including the 3 essential tactics that win her back over…
        • 7 Simple Steps to change a nagging girlfriend back into a gentle, purring pussycat that respects and loves you unconditionally…
        • The 10 Relationship Killers – how to spot them before they torpedo what you’ve got with your girlfriend…
        • Guys hate breakups. Unfortunately, it’s because women are the ones who usually initiate them. You’re going to discover how to read the signs, and if you need to, execute an easy 3-step process to get yourself out of a losing relationship so that you leave with your dignity and self-esteem intact!

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        • Got a girlfriend you just can’t seem to get over? Years back I discovered a simple 3-step system for getting her out of your head – and your heart. I’ll expose this technique for the first time here, and also show you how to never feel jealous about her – or any other women – ever again…
        • Guide To Understanding Women – And Female Psychology – a complete map to your girlfriend’s brain:
          • I’ll reveal 5 simple methods for figuring out what kind of a woman she is, and how to respond to her. You’ll also discover which woman is the most compatible with you…
          • 9 out of 10 women are insecure about this ONE area of their lives. If you know how to handle it, you’ll avoid 90% of the chaos and emotional storms with your girlfriend. I’ve used this for years, and it’s my Golden Trick that always works on women…
          • Discover the 5 Stages Of Breakdown: There are five crystal-clear stages to any relationship with a woman. I’ll show you how to identify each, and what to do if you find yourself in any of them so that you never lose your girlfriend because you missed the road signs…
          • What women want from men – the SIX essential behaviors she’s looking for from you – and how you reveal them so that she never questions your Alpha status – and NEVER thinks about “trading up.”
          • The 3 essential Girlfriend Strategies of the Alpha Man – How to stay in control in the dominant role – and always “wear the pants…”
          • Watching your girlfriend’s body language is absolutely critical for predicting her moods and knowing where you stand. I’ll reveal the 19 negative body language signs – and the 12 positive indications so that you know what she’s thinking…
          • What’s wrong with her now…?” In this special section, I’ll disclose the 4 reasons your girlfriend is acting weird – and why, so that you can know exactly how to react and manage the situation…
          • The Wild Card – How to handle any random mood swing in a woman so that you’re never confused and you never lose control again…
          • 18 signs that she’s checking out – or about to leave the relationship – from the earliest stage to the end so that you know where you are and how to save it (or leave)…
          • 5 Steps to spot women’s inner emotional signals…
          • So you want to win her back? If you don’t want to move on, and this girlfriend is worth saving, I’ll show you how to do it in this simple 4-Step Plan…
          • And much MUCH more…

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        • BONUS: How to choose women wisely – In this bonus from David Shade, you’ll learn:
          • Why your previous relationships with women went like they did and how to make your future girlfriends truly successful and exciting…
          • The critical factor in whether or not you’ll be able to keep your girlfriend or not…
          • Why women bring drama into your life, and how to keep it out for good…
          • How to spot and target women that will make you happy instead of drain your soul and leave you in despair…
          • How “respect” gets confused with “nice” – and how to know which one to give her…
          • The 9 traits of the confident man that a woman is looking for from you – and the 6 negative “jerk” traits that you must avoid…
          • Discover the intense sexual feelings a woman is looking for – and that she will always crave from you…
          • How “jerks” create “drama queens” – and how you give her just the right amount of attention and excitement to keep things balanced just right…
          • Three simple tests to see if your girlfriend – or the woman you just met – is worth your time and attention. This priceless technique is like having a crystal ball and seeing the future with her – and knowing if it will work out or not…
          • And much MUCH more…

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        • BONUS: How To Keep Your Girlfriend Sexually Entranced – Sex Secrets from David Van Arrick – where we reveal:
          • What a woman is thinking when you meet her – and how she projects on you to figure out if you’re the one she wants or not…
          • The secret of the “2 Checklists” – how we create or destroy sexual chemistry – and how you can make her “hyper-responsive” to you and accelerate the passion…
          • The “Oxytocin” secret that most men don’t know creates the three “fetishes” of love, arousal, and addiction…
          • How the “Rule of Three” worksto create an inner obsession and addiction to you within a woman…
          • How you can use “sexual reciprocity” to keep her happily satisfying your sexual needs – all while keeping her happy with you…
          • The big mistake of sex that most guys miss – and it’s something that guys work on too hard. You’ll be able to relax and not worry about “performing” for her anymore, stop wasting energy on stuff that doesn’t work, and make her happy in bed…
          • Four simple “tricks” that will allow you to last at least twice as long in bed with a woman and prolong your girlfriend’s pleasure as long as you like…
          • How to make her feel ten times as satisfied with sex by a simple tweak of position that gives her the sensation of being “filled” all the way…
          • The secrets of “sexual energy massage” – how it works, and where to touch her – and this is one place you would never have thought was an erotic zone on a woman…
          • Two powerful zones of sensitivity on a woman that – when you find them – will turn her into putty in your hands..
          • And much MUCH more…

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        • BONUS: Forever Attraction – How To Create Deep Connection So That Your Woman Will Never Even Think Of Cheating Or Leaving You With Adam Gilad where we reveal:
          • The one major factor in whether a woman will stay with you or leave – and how to cultivate it with your girlfriend…
          • The critical warning signs to look out for so that you don’t wind up with a woman who disrespects you and bankrupts you – emotionally, spiritually, and financially…
          • Two “small” mistakes with women that you think are harmless but can explode into disaster…
          • Three ways that you can create the kind of relationship with a woman where she will go from feeling “so-so” about you to falling completely in love with you…
          • Ever been pulled into one of THOSE conversations – where she wants to talk about something heavy and important that you aren’t prepared for? We’ll give you one simple strategy that will allow you to avoid a fight when you know you just can’t listen to her…
          • The “Joker” technique – the one simple thing you can do to have your own “get out of jail free” card for any argument or mistake you make with your girlfriend. This one has saved my butt a dozen times, and it’s guaranteed to save yours…
          • And much MUCH more…

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        • BONUS: Cheat-Proof Your Relationship – How To Keep Your Woman Faithful – With Marni Kinrys of WingGirl Method – where we reveal:
          • A woman’s biggest fear when she becomes your girlfriend is to become the “wife” and there won’t be any sexual passion. Marni reveals the specific ways that a man makes her feel safe and faithful to her man – from her real life experience…
          • Why women cheat – the reason that a woman will be unfaithful to you – and how you make sure this never happens to you…
          • The one way women unintentionally lead men on from their “social conditioning” and how to recognize it when it happens…
          • How you can install your own “emotional insurance policy” with your girlfriend that gives her a complete sense of safety around you…
          • Ever had a woman test you?Want to know why it happens and where it comes from? Marni explains why women do this, and a startling fact about testing that you probably never knew…
          • How to turn the mistake of accidentally disregarding your girl’s feelings completely around so she forgives you in seconds – instead of another long, painful argument that leaves you sleeping alone…
          • Ever see your girl struggling with something and you want to step in and help? Hey, it’s what guys do best. But you know that she won’t appreciate the gesture, and she actually will push you away if you do this. Find out how you can get past her defense mechanisms and show her without triggering her anger and withdrawal…
          • How far will a woman go and not consider it cheating? Find out this and much MUCH more in this Master Class with Marni Kinrys…

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        • BONUS: How To Keep Your Woman Hopelessly Attracted To You – With Scot McKay – where we reveal:
          • The Four Big Benefits of having a girlfriend in your life – and how you make it work, without getting tired of her – and she doesn’t get bored or tired of you…
          • The Four Biggest Mistakes guys make in relationships – including the one that most guys miss when it comes to girlfriends…
          • Five Methods to keep a woman into you – and attracted to only you – and handle any of the commotion and turmoil without losing your mind…
          • How to keep things novel and fun in the bedroom without losing interest in her – and the shocking truth about long-term sexual attraction…
          • And much MUCH more…
        • BONUS: How To Build A Better Girlfriend With Mark Cunningham
          • The one trait you want to look for in your girlfriend that will save you 90% of the hassle that most men experience in their relationships…
          • Discover the foundation of the hypnotic techniques Mark uses with his patients to overcome self-limiting behaviors and negative thinking…
          • Mark will show you the flawed social programming we guys share that keeps us from meeting exceptional women, and getting the success we deserve…
          • How to create a natural “trance state” with women that allows her to lower her defenses and trust herself Bonus boxto you – without any kind of tricks or hypnosis…
          • The truth about the “Primary” – how a guy can be assured that his woman will only love him and never have room for anyone else…
          • The critical principle of how to create lasting change in your life – so that it sticks with you and you don’t fall back into old habits…
          • A simple technique to condition your girlfriend to feel warm and soothed by your voice and presence – and practically guarantee she will walk through fire to return the favor back to you…
          • And much MUCH more…
        • BONUS: Zero Drama Dating – How To Avoid The Nonsense And B.S. With Women, For Good! – With Lance Mason
          • The 3 quick and easy things you must “plug in” to your girlfriend to go further with her than she has ever gone with another man, and earn her undying – and almost SLAVISH – devotion…
          • The “Unreasonable Expectation” technique to create a really amazing girlfriend – so that she will not only appreciate you, but you’ll inspire her to keep earning your attention…
          • An example of playful banter that creates the kind of fun, spontaneous atmosphere that will have a woman giving you “fun times” in bed. (Of the oral variety… Shhh!)
          • The “Bubble” – How to create an intimate zone with your girlfriend where she gets to let down her guard and be a playful little girl with you – so that you not only keep her addicted to you, but you also create a unique Bonus boxfantasy world that she will never want to escape…
          • How to turn any small annoyance or negative thing about your girlfriend into something fun – and correct her behavior at the same time…
          • Three simple questions that – if you answer them – will give you complete ownership and control of your relationship – and make your girlfriend euphoric in the process…
          • The “Reset the Chess Board” strategy for resolving conflicts and issues, and getting everything with your girlfriend back on track again…
          • And much MUCH more…
          • The 3 essential elements to lasting success in bed with any woman – so that you don’t turn into some “replaceable” element in her sex life…
          • How men create more problems for themselves than really exist – and how to avoid the one big mistake of sexual trust…
          • A complete 10 Step Plan to ensure a woman has an orgasm with you (that can’t be faked) and you satisfy her both physically and emotionally in bed every time – from start to finish…One unbelievably simple technique that requires almost NO motion from you, but will yield a huge zone of intense pleasure for a woman – and you!
          • When it comes to stimulating a woman, there’s one area that men get wrong than any other – and it can immediately end the sex for you. Alex reveals this mistake, and how to never make this error…One of the biggest mistakes a man can make in bed is being too tentative and hesitant with a woman.

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        Single Man:

        Have you ever been in that moment with a woman where you KNOW you should make a move – like hold her hand or kiss her – and the time is right… but you back down and chicken out at the last second?

        Do you:

        • … feel frustrated with how you’re dating women – being stuck on HER sexual timetable?
        • … feel like you’re in a state of sexual “limbo” – unable to connect with women and get them into the bedroom?
        • … feel like you lack the sexual POWER to choose the kind of woman you want for a girlfriend? That all the women you want are “out of your league,” and you’re going to have to settle for less if you want to get any sex?
        • … feel like you’re trapped in a “negative loop” – unable to break out of your anxious thoughts long enough to feel comfortable and sexually confident around women?

        Do you want to know how to date girls like this? Keep reading to find out…

        Look, let’s cut to the chase… You’re sexually frustrated.

        You want to get laid. You probably even want a girlfriend and not just a one night stand. (But hey, either one would do…)

        You see all those guys around you either using some kind of fake banter or clever tricks to get women, but you’ve either tried it and couldn’t pull it off, or it’s just not you and you don’t even want to bother with it.

        And as pissed off and frustrated as you might be, you don’t want to be a manipulative jerk or deceptive just to attract a woman.

        You’ve got some standards, and that’s important.

        BUT this situation is getting old, and you really need some results – FAST!

        Dating Coach For Guys…Carlos Xuma

        But There Are LOTS Of Places You Can Make Mistakes That Scare Women Off…

        There are a lot of steps between first meeting a woman and getting physical with her.

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        To get her into bed, you’ll need to know the roadmap of sexual escalation…
        • First you gotta think of something cool to say to walk up and approach her, and you risk getting rejected even IF you manage to work up the balls to do it. (Let’s face it – most of the time it’s more comfortable not to bother and just avoid the risk of getting shot down…)
        • IF you’re not shot down, then you have to try to get her interested in you with some witty conversation and banter…
        • And IF you can get her attracted and interested, that’s still no guarantee you’ll get her phone number
        • And most of the time, it’s either a bad number, or she never answers… (Even when you think you got things started GREAT with her.)
        • And IF you do call her and talk to her, how do you get that first date…?
        • And then how do you make sure she doesn’t flake out on you…?
        • Wait, what about getting the second date…?
        • What do you do to get a kiss?
        • And then what about getting more physically intimate with her…?

        But here’s the worst part: If you mess up on any of these small steps – GAME OVER! You gotta go all the way back to the end of the line, and you have to start the whole process all over again.

        And what about sex?

        Tthe most important thing to know about all these steps from approaching a woman to dating her – to sleeping with her – is this: There is ONE absolutely critical attraction element you must have to get women to go ‘all the way’ with you. Most so-called “modern men” are missing it.And if you’re missing this one CRITICAL piece of the puzzle, THIS will probably happen to you:

        • She’ll flake out early on or just lose her interest. I call this “Failure to launch” syndrome
        • And even IF you get a date or two, it fizzles out just when you should be getting hot and physical…
        • And even IF you beat the odds and make it to the bedroom, there’s no real fireworks there, and the chemistry dies.

        And when you’re missing this vital piece of the picture, you usually wind up with her telling you she wants to “just be friends.”

        So again, you need this critical ingredient in your back pocket or nothing you do will work right with women. It took me years to identify and find this one critical piece of the puzzle. It’s the “magic bullet” for guys who want to put an end to their sexual frustration once and for all.

        I’m going to reveal here what that critical piece is, but first you need to know…

        What 99 Out Of 100 Guys Don’t Know About “Escalating” With Women…

        Almost none of the guys out there know about this, and it’s why most guys wind up settling for women instead of having a “trophy” on their arm. I’m willing to bet that you’ve experienced the “Flinch.” What is the “Flinch”?

        It’s that point where you shy away from showing your sexual interest in a woman. You know you’ve reached a point where you SHOULD do something to “make a move,” but you don’t.

        Maybe there’s a pause in the conversation where you should ask for her number… and you don’t. Or you call her up to ask her out, but she seems distracted… so you don’t. Or she seems ready for the kiss, and the moment is right… but you don’t.

        You back off or chicken out. You start to lose your sexual confidence.

        Do You Recognize These 5 Early Warning Signs? Ask yourself:

        1. Do you ever hide your sexual desires from women? (Trying to sneak in and be indirect with your interest?)
        2. Are you afraid to touch a woman (even on the arm) on the first date?
        3. Are you afraid of being “caught” admiring a woman’s beauty?
        4. Do you think it’s disrespectful to make a sexual advance on a woman without a very clear invitation from her?
        5. Do you find yourself looking away quickly when making eye contact with women?

        If you can identify with any of those signs, it’s very likely that what I’m about to tell you will completely transform your sexual success with women. Even if you’ve tried other methods in the past and had limited success – or NO success.

        I’ll tell you this: I’ve personally experienced all 5 of those warning signs above at one point or another. And no, it’s not your fault you have trouble getting sexual with women.

        The man’s BIG MISTAKE is this:

        Most Guys Wind Up HIDING Their Sexual Interest In Women…

        This mistake is much much worse than showing too much interest, by the way. Why do guys keep their interest in a woman hidden like this?

        At first I thought it was because we were afraid of ruining things with women. After all, most women can be approached and will talk to you. But when you get ten minutes into a conversation, if you’re faced with possibly taking a risk on her saying NO, you probably won’t take that risk.

        You’ll back off from taking the next step because you don’t want to ruin what you’ve got, right?

        But what I saw underneath it all was a fear. This fear is ruining the ability of most men to get things started with women they’re attracted to. So what I realized was…

        The real reason guys hide their sexual interest in a woman is because they feel sexual PANIC around attractive women.

        And when you feel sexual panic – and she senses it – this KILLS your sexual confidence. The “ONE critical thing” I’ve been talking about – that you need – is this:

         The Secret Is Sexual Confidence…

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        When you have “sexual confidence,” women will feel naturally attracted to you…

        If your sexual confidence gets “turned off” when you’re with a woman, she’ll sense it.

        There’s an old bit of sales wisdom that says that bad salesmen are ‘bad’ simply because they don’t believe enough in the product they’re selling.

        And the BEST salesmen believe they’ve got something fantastic – and every person alive needs to have this product. They’d never let someone walk away without buying it. They’d actually be hurting their prospect if they didn’t convince them to get it.

        You don’t need any clever sales techniques when you REALLY believe in what you’re selling.

        Well, with most guys, their core foundation is unstable and shaky. And they don’t feel like the Prize. They don’t feel confident in their “product.” They can’t escalate and “close the deal.”

        Not only is this true in sales, it’s TWICE as true with women. Your product is YOU, my friend!

        So why don’t you have confidence in your “product”? Why aren’t YOU sexually confident?

        Why Guys Aren’t Getting Sex From Women… Especially the NICE guys

        Because of something I call “fear of pulling the trigger…”Guys spend way too much time hiding their interest in women – because of sexual panic – and not being sexually assertive enough. They flinch instead of moving the game forward. They think they’ve got to approach a woman with kid gloves and be Mr. Nice Guy. Mr. Super Romantic Guy.

        You may have noticed that acting like that doesn’t work, does it? You don’t want to trick her either, so…

        Here’s One Simple Technique To  Make A Woman Sexually Desire You…

        So the guy is moving forward, hoping the woman doesn’t put on the brakes… and the girl is just watching his every move, getting ready to stop him.

        Do you know how to go further – faster – with women?

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        The secret to escalating with women is knowing how to get your sexual power back…

        The Secret is this: Put on the brakes FIRST.

        The best thing you can do to guarantee that you keep moving forward – keep escalating – is just to know when she’s about to put on the brakes, and then you stop her before she stops you.

        This flips a switch in her head – and gets her interested and motivated to KEEP getting more sexually intimate with you – instead of shutting you down.

        You probably thought that this was completely opposite to the way you wanted to handle it, right?

        The male ego says: “Keep going until she stops you!” But if you do this one too many times, you’re cut off for good. If she puts your brakes on more than a few times, she’s going to make one assumption: “He ONLY wants to have sex with me…” Then she puts an end to the fun.

        And even if she was interested in some fun for herself, she’s not going to let the sex happen just because her programming won’t let her sleep with you until you put things back in the right order.

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        Approach Women 2: Meet Women Anytime – Anywhere, No Fear & No Rejection.

        REAL ALPHA DAYGAME.

        (I’m not going to blast you with cool product pictures here. Let me just make the contents speak for themselves.)

        In this new program, I pulled together all the most useful information available on approaching that I had.

        I’ve seen every program out there, and I’ve coached guys one-on-one for approaching for years, so I know what works for guys and what doesn’t. Spending hours learning “micro-control-hoop” theory is only going to continue to keep you frustrated.

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        BONUS BLITZ
        BONUS Interviews
        BONUS PDFs
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        CD01- Intro – A Day in the Life of the Approacher – Core Concepts
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        CD03- Total Inner Game II – Getting rid of your fear
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        CD06- Power Approach Principles
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        CD08- Exercises and Practice for Approach Excellence
        CD09- Approach Turbo-Boost Disc – Daily Approach Motivation
        CD10- Master Class- Don Diego Garcia – Approach Energy & Vibing
        CD11- Master Class- Lance Mason – DEEP Rapport Techniques
        CD12- Master Class- Oliver Turner – DayGame Strategies
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