How to Avoid the Friend Zone and Instantly Create Strong Sexual Attraction With Almost Any Woman You Meet, In 60 Seconds or Less!
You’ve heard of the 80/20 rule, right? Well, when it comes to women and sex … it’s more like 95/5 – meaning that just 5% of the guys out there get 95% of the casual sex with attractive women. I confirmed this by actually surveying and speaking to thousands of guys over the years – and it’s consistent with all the other experts in the field.
So What Does This Mean for YOU?
The bottom line is that there are two kinds of guys out there: 1) The guys in the top 5%, who easily sleep with the majority of the women … and … 2) All the other guys, many of whom get the “friend zone” speech. You know what I’m talking about – we’ve all had that awkward moment with a girl where we’re clearly interested in dating and getting physical with her … yet she is not. Maybe we’d been trying to get her to go out with us, or spending time with her in the hope that she’d like us … but it comes to the point where she can no longer take it – and is forced to give us the “speech.” It usually goes something like … “John, I think you’re a really great guy. I like you a lot. But I just don’t feel THAT way about you. I hope we can still be friends.” Uggh. It hurts just to think about it. And of course, it feels even worse to get that speech, especially if it’s with a girl that we were really into. Especially since guys who get stuck in the friend zone with one girl tend to have it happen to them all the time. If this has happened to you – whether once or 100 times – I’ve got good news …
The Death of the Friend Zone
For the first time ever, I’m releasing a new product that’s 100% focused on making sure you NEVER get stuck in the friend zone, ever again. It’s 30 pages of step-by-step, “do this, do that” information that’s designed to not only keep you out of the friend zone … but also trigger intense sexual attraction with women, FAST. Often in a matter of minutes, or instantly. In a sense, I feel especially qualified to teach you this … because not only have I slept with hundreds of women using my system – but once I honed my process, I literally NEVER had women even try to treat me like just another “friend.” And it doesn’t matter whether you want to be a player with eight girlfriends – or you want to find your dream girl and get married next week … you must master this stuff. Creating a strong sexual connection and attraction is essential in any relationship – otherwise, you risk being rejected, cheated on, neglected and ultimately just not treated like a man. And that’s just the beginning – the Death of the Friend Zone will also help you … – Save countless hours of time and frustration – Help you focus on relationships with real sexual potential – Allow you get sexual with many more girls – Puts relationships more on YOUR terms – Separates you from other men – When you “get” it, leads to significantly more confidence As you consider the benefits, also keep in mind that this powerful manual will also help you: – Avoid losing years of your life catering to women who give you nothing – Avoid draining your male resources – including mental and emotional – Avoid lonely nights, wasted money, and false hope – Avoid being labeled by women as weak, pussy, or clueless
Attitude Is Everything
Right off the bat, one of the things I show you is how to quickly change your overall attitude when it comes to women and dating. You see, your core attitude and perspective play a HUGE role in the degree to which women see you – and want you – on a sexual level. Don’t worry, I’m not talking about “inner game” or any of that philosophical stuff. Instead, I’m talking about a simple-yet-radical change you can make in how you see and interact with women … that will make a world of difference. Instantly! That’s right, do THIS ONE THING – or be willing to do it – and the woman will be forced to respect you, even if she’s not quite ready for sex. And because you’re willing to do this, you’ll do one of two things: 1) You’ll get to sex much faster and more often … and … 2) Even when sex doesn’t happen, the door will be open, because you didn’t get placed into the “friend” category … Either way you win, and it all starts with the attitude I teach in the first pages of Death of the Friend Zone.
Why Do Women Put Men Into the Friend Zone?
Another thing you’ll discover is why women do this to men, because there are some distinct benefits for her. And understanding them will give you insight into her mind, and separate yourself from other guys who don’t “get” it. First off, an attractive woman can’t sleep with every guy who wants to sleep with her. That’s would be impossible. However, many beautiful women have figured out how to leverage the “grey area” that is the friend zone – where she thinks of you as a friend, but you hope there is a chance. Because in this ambiguous territory, she can leverage your desire to please her – and get many benefits, which I list inside the pages of Death of the Friend Zone. Understanding all this helps you avoid getting stuck there – because the signs are clear and happen over and over again. Don’t forget – many women are trained to use men from a young age … you can’t really hate or blame women for this, it’s built into their programming and perhaps DNA. They might argue men are looking to use them for sex. Overall, the problem with the friend zone is that there are almost no benefits for you as the guy; it usually doesn’t go both ways. That’s why it’s critical that you understand what gets you into the friend zone – and also …
How Do You Know You’re In the Friend Zone?
Here are just a few tell-tale signs of the friend zone dungeon … – You think about her a lot, yet there is no clear mutual indication of romance (such as kissing, sex, or romantic/sexual words from her) – She’s unwilling to isolate with you; or if she does, she drops hints – She uses the word “buddy” “pal” or [gasp] “friend”… – You are clearly low on her priority list (a woman will often drop her prior plans for a guy she’s romantically interested in) – You’re in a “grey zone” for too long; women tend to categorize men quickly … whereas guys are always down to fuck a beautiful woman, friend or not – You get the “let’s be friends” speech If you have – or are currently experiencing ANY of these symptoms – I urge you to download your copy of Death of the Friend Zone right away! Just click on any of the links you see on this page and you can be reading it in mere minutes.
3 Main Steps to Keeping You OUT of the Friend Zone
In addition to everything else, another thing I give you in the Death of the Friend Zone manual are some VERY simple steps to follow that make it virtually impossible for her to categorize you as “just a friend.” This is especially important to understand in the beginning of the relationship, when the dynamic is up for grabs, you need to make sure you create the best odds of it going in the direction YOU want. Remember that women will always tend to take a less committal path – women tend to be less decisive, and having sex with a guy is a big decision. If you don’t lead forward strongly in that direction, nothing tends to happen, and she assumes “friendship.” – I will show you how to smoothly isolate her – FAST – in a way that communicates both romance and sexuality, in a way that appeals to her … – I will show you how to “manage information” – so that you don’t say anything dumb that kills your chances or causes her to think that you are not worthy of sex or dating … – And I’ll also show you how to quickly sexualize the interaction in other ways, so that she has no choice but to think “this guy is sexual, and if I want him in my life, I need to BE sexual with him” Plus, a lot more! These steps are crucial for ensuring that sexual communication is always happening, with any attractive woman you meet. Period. And it’s just one key component of the Death of a Friend Zone manual …
How to Avoid “Crippling” Nice Guy Behaviors
Another thing that’s crucial for staying OUT of the friend zone is avoiding behaviors and actions that trigger the “nice guy” response in women. Because when you do this, best case scenario is that she sees you as a dating option with delayed sexual gratification – and worst case, she sees you as totally unfuckable but easy to manipulate. Either option are no good in my book. So there’s some brutal honesty that needs to take place. Do you – or are you … – Overly accommodating? – Needy or hoping something will happen? – Give her total decision power; waiting for her to choose you? – Give too much before any tests or reciprocation? – Give attention, interest, desire, while she’s still “unproven”? – Too sweet or kind too soon? – Too agreeable, not challenging enough? – Avoid push-pull and sexual tension? If so, these are just a few of the many signs you might be sending her – which indicate that you’re better off being a friend than a lover. Yet, these are actually easy to reverse … IF you’re willing to learn and take action. With the Death of the Friend Zone, I give you everything you need to make that happen …
Why Sexual Tension Is Key
Most guys hardly ever think about sexual tension … they barely know it exists! But women are the total opposite. They LIVE for sexual tension, it’s one of the most pleasurable things they can experience. Why is this so important? Because the absence of sexual tension IS the friend zone! And the difference between players who get laid a lot – and nice guys who get the friends speech, is that successful seducers understand sexual tension and can amplify it. Nice guys, on the other hand, tend to diffuse sexual tension at every juncture, by being agreeable, unchallenging, and so on. This is incredibly boring for women – as they want to be able to play with a guy, and enjoy that tension where romance and sex can happen at almost any moment. In the Death of the Friend Zone, I’ll show you exactly how to recognize sexual tension … how to amplify it (or avoid diffusing it!) … and then how to recognize when that tension is so strong, the woman is ready to be kissed or have her clothes ripped off. This is essential knowledge for any guy who wants to be consistently successful with women, and easy to master once you have Death of the Friend Zone.
Your Prescription for Getting OUT of the Friend Zone
Towards the end of the manual, I also show you the best courses of action to take if you ever find yourself stuck in the friend zone with a certain girl. Remember, though, that this is dangerous territory – because often the desire to get out of the friend zone with a girl simply means that you’re too fixated on her and should move on. Still, it’s helpful to know this stuff for those times when you have a girl in your life and want to convert her from “just friends” to “more than friends” … I’ll show you why … – You only have two real options when you find yourself in the friend zone; and why 90% of the time your first option is by far the best … – I’ll give you 3 specific actions that help you change the way that she perceives you (WARNING: This often means giving up whatever friendship you have with her) – I’ll give you some powerful ways to raise both your social and sexual status – so that you become far more valuable to her as a potential sexual partner … – And I’ll show you how to react if somehow she doesn’t respond well to the changes in your behavior … Still, even with all this, there are no guarantees you’ll be able to turn things around with a girl that’s placed you in the friend zone. As the saying goes, “the best defense is good offense” – and it’s best not to be placed in the friend zone at all. However, if you ever find yourself there – these steps WILL give you the best possible chance of turning the tables.
All This, for a Price So Low It’s Ridiculous
I wish I could tell you everything that’s inside this detailed, 30-page … I’ve already written way too much! Instead – because you’re a valuable customer – I’m going to just flat out give it to you for the ridiculously low price of just $19.95 … which in all seriousness barely covers the cost of hosting, server space, support and all the other expenses that go along with running a business. But I don’t care. Because this is such a HUGE problem for most guys … and even though it’s been a while since I’ve gotten stuck in the friend zone, I know what it feels like and how badly it hurts. What’s more, I get emails all the time from guys who spend insane amounts of time, energy and other resources trying to get out of the friend zone … only to have their hearts broken by the girl in the end. It’s the worst. And I do NOT want that for you. Trust me, if you follow the instructions inside this Death of the Friend Zone report – I can’t guarantee you’ll sleep with every girl you want … NO GUY can do that, and no teacher can make such a ridiculous promise. Yet what I can promise is that these steps make it virtually impossible for you to be stuck in the friend zone. She will have no choice but to see you and respect you in a sexual way … And of course, if there IS sexual potential between you and her – then following these steps and understanding everything inside this report gives you the best possible chance of closing the deal. Ultimately, the math is really simple …
Action = No Friend Zone … Ever!
It means never hearing that painful speech where she explains that she likes you, but doesn’t feel THAT way about you … Or putting in time and effort, hoping and waiting, only to be crushed when another guy – who put in almost no work — swoops in and sleeps with her … Is it worth just under $20 to avoid all this forever … and to have women respect you want you, and need you on a sexual level? If so, then the next step is easy. Just click the “add to cart” button and follow the simple checkout instructions on the next page. Within minutes, you will have downloaded your copy of Death of the Friend Zone – you will have put it into action … And best of all, you’ll be getting dramatically different – and decidedly MORE SEXUAL – responses from every attractive woman you meet, for the rest of your life. So go ahead, just click the order button below – and then follow the very simple checkout instructions. With the Death of the Friend Zone manual, you’ll have everything you need to avoid that painful place AND – more importantly – create strong, immediately sexual connections and attraction with virtually any woman you meet. You know what to do now, and you know how important this is. The next step is up to you. Sincerely, Paul Janka P.S. – I’m very serious about this being a limited time offer. Normally, I would be offering this report for at least $67 and as high as $97. So when you act today, you’re literally getting it for 70-80% OFF the normal price. Again, it’s because you’re valuable customer – and because I get so many emails and calls from guys who desperately need this information, that I’m offering my loyal customers a huge break on the price. I hope you’ll take action on it, and more than that, I hope you take action on the information inside Death of the Friend Zone, because it WILL transform your relationship with the opposite sex forever.
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If You Can Say “Hello” To A Supermarket Cashier…You Could Be Having Sex With 3 to 5 GIRLS A MONTH!
From: Paul Janka NEW YORK, NY
I’ve had sex with 200+ girls and I SWEAR—UNDER OATH—that I can show YOU how to DUPLICATE my success…
I know that might be a little hard to believe.But you can be dating SEVERAL women every month too.…and if you really want—a few girls per WEEK!
How can I make such a promise?…because I’ve taught over 250,000 men how to approach a woman, get her number, and get her in bed QUICKLY—without spending a lot of time, money or effort.And now I’m going to show YOU.If you want to have the power to quickly and EASILY sleep with almost any woman you want…and the confidence that comes with it….then you want to keep reading..The most important thing for you to know is…
I Used To Be TERRIBLE With Women
A few years ago, I had NO idea how to pick up women. When I spotted a cute girl on the street, I had no idea how to talk to her, much less get her NAKED.
And when I did try to pick up a woman, it was AWKWARD. Within seconds I could tell if she was giving me her number just because she felt BAD for me.
Although it wasn’t like I was a complete loser. I had a few relationships over the years, which were great—but I really had NO idea what I was capable of.
So I spent many nights going to bed ALONE and waking up in an EMPTY bed. I felt DISCONNECTED from women and I didn’t know what to do about it…
Then A Player Friend Took Me “Under His Wing”
So one day, a friend of mine from work started giving me a few tips. He was a true “player” and has slept with HUNDREDS of women.
And with the guidance of my “player” friend, I approached a LOT of women. And after THOUSANDS approaches, and failed pick ups, I started to “get it.”
I learned things like how long to talk to a woman you just met, when to call her, what to say to get a date, how to get her back to my place, etc.
The funny thing is… a lot of “getting laid” is about avoiding MISTAKES.
And after several YEARS of trial-and-error….
I Discovered That Meeting Girls QUICKLY Was “The Secret” To Dating A LOT More Women!
This was a HUGE epiphany for me.
After I started hitting on a lot of girls, I noticed that my most successful interactions (where the girl was really charmed) were the ones that happend QUICKLY.
If you hang around for too long and try to convince her that you’re a cool guy and that she should go out with you, you’re going to come off as needy and unattractive.
Once I realized this—my game EXPLODED!
I started having sex on a regular basis with extremely attractive women, models, actresses, you name it. And I wasn’t making a huge effort to meet these girls.
My technique became so efficient that I could pick up 20 girls in ONE AFTERNOON!
And after I perfected my system…
I Became A Legendary New York Pick-Up Artist Completely By Accident
When you start sleeping with a LOT of girls, people take notice.
I started getting a lot of phone calls from television producers and journalists, eager to run a sensational story. I was on Dr. Phil, the Today Show, and Fox News.
Here I am on Dr. Phil sharing a few “pick-up” tips…
In addition to the New York Post article, I was featured in Psychology Today and my advice has been syndicated across the Internet and featured in several magazines.
Guys Across The Country Started Emailing Me
After my appearance on Dr. Phil, I started to get HUNDREDS of emails and phone calls from guys around the country who wanted to learn MY secrets.
I started to realize that I wasn’t the only guy in the world who wanted to learn how to pick up women. I realized that almost EVERY guy wants to learn more.
So if you’re not already VERY successful with women, it’s NOT YOUR FAULT…
Why? Because guys are simply NEVER taught this kind of stuff, while women have MOUNTAINS of magazines, books, television shows and gossipy friends.
Plus, 99.999% of all men’s dating advice is DEAD WRONG.
In fact, many of the “tips” you’ve gotten about dating can actually make girls run the OTHER way. But many guys do NOTHING to improve their game. They think they should just “be natural” or whatever. Well, I don’t like to leave things to CHANCE.
Learning how to pick up women is a skill. A skill that can be learned. And if you have the courage to work on your skills, the rewards can be ENORMOUS!
So I Packed EVERYTHING I Know Into A “Virtual Bootcamp” To Show Any Guy How To Quickly & Easily Meet Women
Like I said, becoming good with women is a SKILL. And with any skill, there are VERY SPECIFIC techniques that can help you get to where you want to be.
Not only is my system the FASTEST way to meet girls, it’s also the most EFFECTIVE because it’s been perfected over the course of THOUSANDS of interactions.
- My techniques are the EASIEST because they’re simple.
- My techniques get you results because they’re PROVEN to work.
- My techniques allow you to meet girls ANYWHERE you go.
- My techniques DON’T take a long time to learn.
- My techniques let you date AS MANY girls as you want.
How can it be so effective?
Because I’ve thrown out absolutely EVERYTHING that doesn’t work—and I’ve narrowed my approach down to a few critical things you MUST do in order to get the girl.
It’s ABSOLUTELY step-by-step and NONE of it is theoretical.
So after being emailed by hundreds of guys, I decided to put together a comprehensive program to teach EVERYTHING I know. It’s called, “Secrets To Meeting Women.”
And this brand new online training will show you exactly how EASY it is to meet women on a consistent basis—WITHOUT spending a lot of time, money or effort.
This Virtual Bootcamp Contains “Field-Tested” Secrets That You Won’t Learn Anywhere Else
I believe this program is the most effective, practical, useful dating advice that a guy can get his hands on. If you want to see real, tangible results with women, this is how to get it.
This program is a complete A-to-Z pick-up education.
It’s all delivered through my exclusive streaming video membership site and it contains all of my popular guides, audio lessons, in-field footage, and seminar videos.
You’ll get CONSISTENT “panty-dropping” results because it’s virtually FOOL-PROOF.
LISTEN: I GUARANTEE these techniques will work for you because they’ve worked for thousands of guys all around the world—of all ages, races, and personalities.
So if you’re not good with women, this program will make you better. And if you’re already decent, these secrets will break your bed in HALF.
You’ll be getting SO much action, your buddies will start begging YOU for tips…
Take A Look At What’s Inside
#1: My “Foundations” Manual – Attraction Formula (88 Pages)
Is extremely powerful reading, not just because of the techniques revealed, but because of the perspective you’ll gain. After you’ve gone through the book just once, you’ll be well on your way to becoming the kind of man who has outrageous success with women…
#2: Secrets To Successful Approaching (28 Audio Classes)
After you read the book, I recommend you dive into this audio program. It’s all about developing the skills necessary to meet women in a variety of day to day situations. You’ll learn EXACTLY what to say to make a strong impression and get her number.
#3: Videos Of Actual Street Pick-Ups (24 HD In-Field Videos)
Then you’re going to get actual footage of me picking up women on the street! And when you watch these videos, my confidence will literally be passed on to you. You’ll see exactly how I approach, get her attention, make small talk, and secure the digits.
#4: “Beyond The Digits” Advanced Workshop (39 HD Seminar Videos)
This workshop contains the nitty-gritty little secrets that will allow you to get better, even faster. Everything will become clearer; you’ll understand why and how to use my system so that you can acheive what I did, probably even faster… leading you to mastery.
Here’s A Small Taste Of What You’ll Learn
- How to engage any woman IMMEDIATELY, even if you don’t know what you’re going to say to her. Meet 10x more women when you know this secret!
- The CORRECT way to pick up an attractive woman so that you make a good impression and increase the odds of getting her number.
- What almost EVERY guy is doing WRONG when he goes out to the bar in hopes of meeting a woman on a Friday or Saturday night.
- Learn to engage women who are “on the job.” Whether they’re secretaries, bartenders, or cops, win her over in an otherwise no “pick-up zone.”
- How to quickly make her WILLING to meet you at your place. Once you master this, sex will come faster and easier with all the girls you meet.
- What you should almost NEVER to say to a woman when you’re asking her for her phone number (if you do this it will SERIOUSLY damage her pride).
- How to create an atmosphere that QUICKLY leads to sex (do this and she’ll practically be ripping YOUR clothes off)!
- The BEST time to pick up a woman so she’ll be MUCH more receptive to chatting with you and giving out her phone number without thinking twice.
- Learn to take the blinders off and meet 10x more women during your daily routine than you could EVER meet at a bar or nightclub.
- How to master the “COLD STOP,” which means picking up a girl who you have no connection with, and bringing her into your sexual reality.
- Develop “mojo” to charm ALMOST any woman, anywhere you go.
- The secret to looking good has more to do with your FASHION SENSE than what you were born with. You’ll get fashion tips that will make women notice YOU!
- How to develop a BULLET-PROOF personality that will allow you to pick up the hottest woman in the room without flinching.
- My sure fire method for guaranteeing that even if a woman FLAKES out on a date—that I’m still getting some ACTION that night.
- How to have fun, playful chat that makes women fall HARD for you.
- When to follow up with a woman so that it feels natural. Follow up too soon and you’ll appear needy—too late and she’ll IGNORE you.
- Learn SUBTLE dynamics of the pick up so that you’ll know exactly what she’s thinking and you can effortlessly number close WITHOUT REJECTION.
- What to do when you get a woman back to your apartment so that she feels COMFORTABLE enough with you to take HER clothes off.
- Discover how to create a SEXUAL connection quickly with a woman so that you don’t end up in the ambiguous and dreadful FRIEND-ZONE.
- How to make the initial approach feel completely SPONTANEOUS. When you apply this secret technique, your pick ups will become smooth and effortless.
- Learn to maintain EQUALITY in the relationship and allow it to play out under your terms so that you maintain balance and chemistry in the relationship.
- The SECRET to feeling cool, calm and collected when you approach girls.
- Get her to HAPPILY fork over her digits in UNDER 2 MINUTES. I’ll share some tips that will make her think about you all day after you get her number!
- Learn to use the immediate environment to your benefit. Once you’ve mastered this, you’ll NEVER be at a loss for words, no matter where you are.
- Hear real life STORIES of my successes AND FAILURES in pick up, including WILD situations I wouldn’t believe if I hadn’t see them with my own eyes.
- And of course, a whole lot more…
Sex Dating & Relationships with Dr. Paul & Mr. Janka Dr. Paul & Paul Janka – Self-Help
Sex, Dating & Relationships with Dr Paul Dobransky M.D., a APA board-certified karaoke singing psychiatrist, and Paul Janka, a Harvard educated street-smart Manhattan playboy, bring you adventures of sex, dating and relationships with women to reveal the secret psychology and underground methods used in them.
|Episode 18: Handling Criticism From Women||May 28, 2009|
|Episode 17: Text Game||May 21, 2009|
|Episode 15: After The Digits||Apr 27, 2009|
|Episode 14: Flying Solo||Apr 20, 2009|
|Episode 13: The ‘New Guy’ Phenomenon||Apr 15, 2009|
|Episode 12: The Economics of Sex and Dating||Mar 08, 2009|
|Episode 11: Who’s Your Daddy?||Mar 02, 2009|
|Episode 10: Exclusivity With A Woman||Feb 22, 2009|
|Episode 9: Elements of Masculinity||Feb 14, 2009|
|Episode 8: Nurturing Women||Jan 24, 2009|
|Episode 7: The Tricky Truth||Jan 16, 2009|
|Episode 6: The Crazy Role Of Courtship||Jan 12, 2009|
|Episode 5: Gender, Denver, Death and Dating||Dec 23, 2008|
|Episode 4: Escaping The Boy Mentality||Dec 09, 2008|
|Episode 3: The Chasm Between Masculinity and Society||Dec 02, 2008|
|Episode 2: The Young Dr. Paul & Mr. Janka||Nov 25, 2008|
|Episode 1: Off We Go…||Nov 18, 2008|
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Paul Janka Presents… “Conversational Control” The Art of Moving Any Conversation With A Woman In the Direction of Sex!
On this page:
- How to get any woman to talk about, think about and want sex within just minutes…
- The 60 Second Myth: Why women do NOT know if they’ll sleep with you in the first 60 seconds (plus, how and when they DO decide!)
- And the #1 secret to having hot, sexually-charged conversations WITHOUT being weird, creepy or risking rejection along the way
If you’ve ever heard a so-called “expert” say… “A woman knows if she’s going to sleep with a man in first 60 seconds of meeting him.”
You are NOT alone.
It’s one of the biggest myths about female attraction ever propagated.
I say “myth”… because in reality, nothing could be further from the truth.
Women may have a sense of whether you’re a legitimate sexual candidate when they first meet you – but they don’t actually decide until…
That First Real Conversation With You
That’s right. As long as you don’t have terrible clothes or the worst body language in the world – most women will stay open to the possibility of sleeping with you… UNTIL they spend at least a few minutes talking to you.
Yet that first conversation is truly what I’d call a “do or die” moment:
You’re either going to get her thinking of (and ideally wanting) the possibility of sex – or not.
If you fail… if the conversation is purely platonic and doesn’t move in a sexual direction, it sets a precedent for the rest of your relationship with her. There’s usually no turning back from that point…
Think about it:
How Many Times Have YOU Messed Up That First Conversation?
Imagine… you’re out with your friends. You’ve just met a woman – she’s exactly your type. Adorable face, hot body, fun personality. Sassy, cute, sexy. She’s got it all. You get excited and start talking to her…
Then it happens! One minute it’s going great, the next minute there’s an awkward silence filled by idle small talk. You begin to discuss “boring” things like your respective jobs, where you’re from, and so on.
It starts to feel more and more like a bland interview and then…
Next thing you know, she’s found an excuse to leave and go back to her friends. And you’re sitting there – all alone – thinking, “WTF just happened??!”
Don’t feel bad, we’ve all been there. I can’t tell you how many times guys have texted me – literally while they’re on a first date or meet-up with a girl – and asked:
“Help Paul! What the Hell Do I Say NOW?”
It might be THE most limiting problem for guys who want to raise their game, and begin dating and sleeping with more beautiful women.
You see, approaching can be challenging, but you do it enough and it gets easier…
Setting up dates requires finesse at first, but most guys get that pretty quickly…
Yet conversing with women – in a way that creates intense sexual attraction and desire – is unfortunately NOT natural to most guys.
It could be THE ONE SIMPLE THING that’s currently preventing you from getting beautiful women into your bed – or turning the right woman into your girlfriend…
Change the Way You Talk to Women,Immediately Transform Your Results
Let’s be honest. Not every guy is going to move to a big city and begin approaching thousands of women.
That’s what I did, but it’s not for everyone. I get that.
Yet every single guy on earth – no matter who you are or where you live – has at one time or another, found himself in a conversation with an attractive woman, and failed to take things to the next level.
Maybe it was a casual or accidental encounter at a bar – or perhaps she was the friend of someone you know. The bottom line is that you wanted her, but weren’t able to talk to her in a way that made her want YOU.
I know I’m being blunt, but it’s the truth. Like I said, we’ve all been there.
That’s one of the many reasons why – for the first time ever – I’m releasing a groundbreaking new interview-report called…
Conversational Control:The Art of Moving Any Conversation in the Direction of Sex
It’s built upon the fundamental premise that you MUST be able to have a casual conversation with an attractive woman – and steer it in a sexual direction…
Otherwise, you’ll NEVER have the success (and sex) that you crave as a man.
Of course, the flip side is true – because once you master this simple skill – you’ll immediately become a strong sexual candidate in the eyes of any woman you speak with, no matter how hot she is.
(Keep in mind that 9’s and 10’s are even more demanding of a man’s conversational abilities… and less forgiving of his failings.)
That’s why I developed this process.
Because I was tired of working so hard to approach beautiful women all over New York, getting their numbers, setting up dates… only to fail miserably in creating strong sexual tension or desire during that first conversation.
Through years of intense trial and error, I developed a very specific set of parameters and guidelines that helped me (and ANY guy I showed them to) smoothly guide all my conversations in a sexual direction.
Best of all, I learned to do all this in a way that was natural, fun, and sexy to the women – not weird or creepy in any way.
Countless Controversial Tips That Will Change the Way You Talk to Women – Forever
When you download your copy of Conversational Control TODAY – you’ll immediately begin uncovering powerful insights and tips you can use to make women think, talk and want sex – almost immediately.
- The “reverse funnel” principle (helps avoid the #1 mistake most guys make when they want to get women talking about sex)
- How to be bold and take conversational risks WITHOUT fearing rejection…
- 5 things you should NEVER mention… in ANY conversation, with any woman!
- Sneaky-yet-hot ways to get a woman to talk about her past sexual experiences (plus, how to have her unconsciously transfer those sexy feelings to you!)
- The “surprise mistake” made by 9 out of 10 guys, and how this can immediately kill the conversation…
- The single biggest “aha” you can take away from shows like “Sex in the City” (follow this advice, and you’ll never be at a loss for words)…
- The art of transitioning from “casual” to “personal” to “erotic” in the middle of any conversation…
- Simple questions that help move her AWAY from thinking intellectually (which creates inhibition) – and toward specific emotions that make her feel sexier and more free…
- The best way to recognize when a woman’s mental defenses go up – and what to do so that the conversation continues to progress in a sexual direction…
- “SHUT UP AND LISTEN!” The best way to know when it’s better to let the woman do all the talking (and why most guys ignore this at their own peril)…
- How to get her to tell kinky stories about her sluttiest sexual encounters (which often tell you exactly how quickly she’s willing to get physical with you!)
- The one “harmless” conversational topic that always works with every woman, every time – without fail!
- 5 magazines you can read for FREE – that give you a veritable goldmine of female-friendly conversation topics (and often make it EASY to transition into sharing erotic stories)…
- How to get a woman to share very intimate things about her own body – in a non-threatening way (she’ll feel way more comfortable discussing her own sexual preferences and fantasies once you do this)
- A simple 7-word question that causes women to feel sexual desire – almost immediately…
- The “science” trick: How to make almost any topic – no matter how sexual – fair game to bring up during your first conversation with her…
- The #1 limiting belief most guys have that slows their “speed to sex”…
- The single best book for understanding female sexuality (this also happens to be a treasure trove of intensely erotic, yet fascinating topics you can use anytime)…
- Why you do NOT have to ever answer her questions. (Respond to her questions this way and she’ll get amazingly turned on)…
- And much, much more…
And that’s just the beginning. This report is literally OVER 50 PAGES of in-depth insights – where I’m interviewed by a renown dating expert named Tony.
It shows you, once and for all, how to STOP having stale, boring, anemic conversations that lead nowhere…
… and how to START having conversations that cause women to desperately yearn for the chance to be alone, intimate, and sexual with you.
There Is No Quicker
Way to Confidence
What if you knew that ANY time you talked to a woman… the conversation would result in her feeling sexually turned on – and eager to get romantic or physical with you?
How confident would you feel?
Would you hesitate to talk to that hottie in Starbucks if you knew that 20 minutes later she’d be ready to kiss you – or even come back to your place?
Of course you wouldn’t!
But unfortunately, one of the reasons why you hesitate is because you’re simply NOT confident in your ability to “talk women into the bedroom.”
Like most guys, you probably tend to talk the woman away from sex (and out of your life) – or you talk your way into the friend zone.
Understand this: Women are verbal creatures. Words are their weakness.
Any man – and I do mean ANY MAN – who can confidently wield the weapon of erotically-charged words and language… will inevitably be filled with confidence, because there’s nothing women respond to more intensely than the right words.
Why Pickup Lines and Memorized Routines Always Ultimately Fail
While your ability to use words within a conversation to move things in a sexual direction is crucial… it’s crucial to understand that memorized lines and routines will NEVER get you there.
It’s a fact: Every conversation is different.
And every woman wants a man who can respond boldly and spontaneously to the present moment.
A memorized line or routine might be useful once or twice out of every ten or twenty conversations – but chances are, it’s not the magical answer it was hyped up to be.
Besides, what happens when you run out of material?
On top of all this, women are very intuitively sensitive and can FEEL when you’re desperately clinging to memorized lines – rather than responding confidently to the real ebb and flow of the conversation.
It’s for this reason that I developed parameters and guiding principles to control the direction of my conversations with women – because these are tools that will help you adapt to any conversation and succeed… in a genuine way.
Think of it like verbal judo – you’ll be able to take whatever a woman sends your way and re-direct it back to her – in a fun, sexually-intriguing way.
And she’ll absolutely love you for it.
Possibly THE Most Important Seduction Skill
Casanova is considered by many to be the greatest seducer of all time.
Yet unlike actor Heath Ledger in the Hollywood version of his story – historians have discovered that the real Casanova was in fact short, ugly and balding.
His strength? WORDS. Put him in front of a woman, and he would quickly charm her and skillfully move all their conversations and interactions in a romantic (and often erotic) direction.
I see this happen all the time.
One of my best friends in New York – a guy named Jeff – was not the most wealthy or physically attractive guy – far from it.
But he was a master at using sexual suggestion during the course of his conversations with women.
And his results speak for themselves. Jeff literally put my own personal numbers to shame, having slept with well over 700 women in a span of just 5 years.
Unless he chose to, it was IMPOSSIBLE for him to have a non-sexual relationship with a woman.
Which brings up another critical benefit of this process:
Helps Keep You Out of the Friend Zone, Too
Obviously, there are many reasons why guys land in the friend zone.
But if you find that happening to you, the #1 reason could be that you simply TALK yourself into the friend zone.
As I mentioned above, most women will give you at least one conversation to demonstrate whether you are truly worthy of sex.
However… if – in that brief window of initial conversation – you do NOT get her to think, imagine or consider moving in a sexual direction with you…
… Chances are high you’ll be eliminated from sexual consideration – forever.
I know that’s harsh, but it’s true.
You simply MUST be able to suggest sex in a variety of ways while talking to a woman, otherwise you’ll just be labeled as just another “friend.”
The process that I illuminate for you in Conversational Control – if followed – makes it utterly impossible for a woman to ever see you in a non-sexual way.
Not Just Stimulation…But Sexual Direction
Notice that we have the word “control” in the title – can you guess why?
Simple: Because as the man you are the natural leader of the conversation and of the overall interaction with a woman.
And that’s true for any woman, no matter how hot or confident she is…
It is therefore YOUR responsibility to control the flow of the conversation and make sure that it moves toward sensuality, eroticism, and sex… otherwise it will go nowhere.
You see, even though ALL women LOVE the thrill of a sensual, erotically-charged conversation – especially one that’s filled with lots of flirting and sexual suggestion… they simply will NOT take it there.
That part is up to you.
Women Are Typically NOT in a Hurry to Have Sex!
As I’ve mentioned many times in the Attraction Formula and elsewhere – women are never in a rush to have sex.
This makes sense from an evolutionary perspective, as sex carries greater risk for a woman. And she wants to be sure about a guy before gambling with the possibility of offspring with him.
Not only that, but there are often other benefits to waiting – since most men are conditioned to offer traditional courtship (dating, flowers, gifts, and so on) in the hope or anticipation of sex.
I’m guessing, however, that you’d rather NOT wait weeks or months to sleep with a woman.
And especially not if it could be done in one or two nights, right?
I’m the same way.
And so I developed the processes I reveal in Conversational Control to get women craving and willing to get sexual with me… as fast as humanly possible.
Of course, you could always do things like most guys do – suffer through a lot of rejection or failure without knowing how to truly create sexual attraction… go on lots of dates… maybe even court a woman for weeks or months with attention, gifts, and other things…
Only to have a guy who understands this process swoop in and sleep with her much more quickly.
How would you feel then?
And don’t think this is only for “players” and guys who want to sleep with a bunch of women. The truth is this…
Works in Pickup, Dating and Relationships
Admittedly, not every guy wants to approach women on the street – or even have the lifestyle of a pickup artist or “player” who sleeps with countless women. I totally understand. It can be exhausting at times…
Yet – even if you’re looking for your dream girl or soul mate – what if she appears someday and you’re unable to intrigue her or stimulate her on a sexual level?
Do you think she’ll stick around or consider you romantically?
Bottom line: Even if you NEVER ever approach lots of women or set out to live the lifestyle of a player – I can 100% guarantee:
1) You are probably going to meet women somewhere
2) You’re going to be interested in sleeping with at least some of them… and…
3) Those women will decide whether to sleep with you based on a conversation
Even once you’re actually IN a relationship – be it casual or a full-blown marriage – odds are you’re going to want sex from time to time, right?
Well if so, then you better be able to trigger a woman’s sexual thoughts and desires with the way that you speak to her… otherwise, you’re going to develop a very intimate relationship with your… (ahem)… hand. Seriously.
Are You Going to Blow It With the Next Attractive Woman You Talk To – Again?
Think about the last time you were talking to an attractive woman – one that you wanted to sleep with. Did things go the way you wanted?
If not, I can assure you it was largely because of the way you spoke to her. Period.
Now, imagine the next time you’re talking to a woman you’d love to be intimate with…
Think about how good it would feel to see her laughing, smiling… her eyes getting wider as she gets more and more turned on.
Maybe she starts to play with her hair… put on lip stick or lip gloss… or even touch with her hands or feet – unable to control the desire and attraction she’s feeling…
Would you feel confident in taking the next step with such a woman, knowing she was so clearly turned on and attracted to you?
Seriously, how easy would it be to take this women into a dark corner of the bar and begin making out with her – or to come up with a fun reason for her to come back to your place?
Now contrast this confident, exciting feeling with the intense pain that we’ve all experienced when a conversation goes totally flat.
No sexual tension, no excitement. Just awkward, boring silence or “interview-type” questions that only lead you further and further from sex…
Control Your Conversations or Fail – The Choice Is Yours
You can either develop the ability to speak with women using sexually suggestive, erotically-charged methods – or you can burn through endless opportunities with attractive women… only to end up alone and empty-handed.
I created Conversational Control after years of trial-and-error because I KNOW the pain of failing to create sexual tension with women… and because I realize that countless other guys are in the same boat.
And at just $19.95 – I’ve made it as affordable as possible. For about the price of a movie, popcorn and a Coke – you can literally (and forever) transform your ability to control the flow of your conversations with any woman you talk to…
The result? Women feel sexually stimulated, intrigued, even lustful while talking to you.
Just follow my instructions and:
– She will SEE you as a strong sexual candidate…
– She may even get so turned on that she makes the first move – by either touching or kissing you…
– And worst case, she’ll make it incredibly obvious (through her words and body language) that she’s turned on – and ready to get sexual.
With Conversational Control, you’ll get a proven process for guiding your conversations in a sexual direction – without ever seeming weird, creepy, awkward or risking rejection in any way.
Discarding all products centered around memorized lines and fake routines, this is the FIRST and ONLY tool that gives you the necessary skill to respond – spontaneously – to any conversation with any woman…
And move it in the direction YOU want.
If you’re serious about succeeding with women – and you’re ready to move ahead of the countless guys who are clueless about how this works…
Then Conversational Control is for you.
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What I’ve Learned After Approaching 10,000 Women On the Streets of New York City Many guys claim they know how to pick up women.
But most of their “advice” is anecdotal, it may have worked once or twice for them and they now proclaim their technique as “universal.”
I’ve spent YEARS of my life, approaching woman of all shapes, colors, and ages, on the streets of New York City. I know what works and what doesn’t.
You shouldn’t look at a girl for more than two or three seconds before you approach her, otherwise you’ll creep her out. If you stand around looking at a distance for more than a second or two… she’ll think you lack balls (which you do).
Second, DON’T introduce yourself by name, or put out your hand, that’s not necessary. Don’t say “Hi, I’m Paul,” those are both lame. A better line would be, “did you see the car accident outside?”
An even better approach would be to tease her in a friendly way…
Avoid A “Business-Like” Vibe At All Costs!
Successful pick ups have nothing to do with being formal, like saying your name during a formal engagement, such as a business meeting.
The other thing is, don’t make the interaction last more than a minute or two, otherwise it will probably get awkward. If she offers email, let her go, cause she’s just trying to put a barrier between you.
A little contact before you say goodbye is good. You can even keep the conversation as you’re walking away. It should be very casual. Don’t trip her, push her, or spit at her. Don’t tell her she’s beautiful.
Don’t take her out to dinner or buy her lots of stuff. Don’t take her on an extended loop (like five dates). Indicate that your interest is of a sexual nature. Don’t let her think you’re her buddy. Don’t spend a lot of time or money.
I know a guy who’s been on six dates with a woman, and she still won’t come up to his place… Take your grandmother out for six dates, not a woman you’re trying to get physical with.
I tell you this because I want you to understand that what I’m saying is NOT theoretical. My advice works across the board, and not just with me…
My Techniques Have Been Proven “In The Field”
And Work For Any Guy In Any Situation
The techniques I’ve developed have been tested on thousands of women in New York, by me and two other guys who are extremely good with girls.
Between the three of us, we’ve had sex with over 839 women. And that number goes up by double digits almost every week.
So when I say, “tested” I don’t mean that we’ve tried something out once. I’m talking about trying different approaches on THOUSANDS of women.
And the great thing about these techniques is that since they were verified by a group of guys, they are “universal” and will work for any guy, not matter his age, looks, income, or other variables.
There are other guys teaching “pick-up” that may be successful with women. But what they teach usually works only for them.
So when other guys say their techniques are “tested” or “proven” you might want to ask them how many girls their “theories” were tested on!
Guys that use my stuff get results because my system is “universal.”
“Beyond The Digits” Is 6 DVDs Packed With Practical Secrets To Meeting Women
Let’s be clear. I’ve put EVERYTHING I know about pick up into the program. I don’t anticipate ever doing another seminar like this again. I didn’t censor anything.
My player buddies wanted me to “hold some stuff back,” but I didn’t. It’s ALL here.
It’s 6 DVDs that are JAM packed with over 12 hours of footage. And It comes in a beautiful black case that will look great on your shelf.
You’ll learn things like…
The correct way to pick up an ATTRACTIVE woman so that you make a good impression and increase the odds of getting her number.
What almost EVERY guy is doing WRONG when he goes out to the bar in hopes of meeting a woman on a Friday or Saturday night.
A jealously-guarded secret that most “pick up artists” DON’T want you to know.
What NEVER to say to a woman when you’re asking her for her phone number (if you do this it will SERIOUSLY damage her pride).
How to quickly and easily create an ATMOSPHERE that is conducive to sex (do this and she’ll practically be ripping YOUR clothes off).
The absolute best TIME to pick up a woman (she’ll be MUCH more receptive to chatting with you and giving out her phone number).
How to end your lonely weekends (wouldn’t it be nice to have MULTIPLE women wanting to spend time with you so you’ll almost NEVER be alone?).
A secret phrase that TURNS WOMEN ON.
A place you can go that makes it easy to create an INTIMATE physical and emotional connection rather than an AWKWARD conversation.
Boost your confidence by learning how to manage rejection (and a way to make meeting women fun—even if you’re getting SHOT DOWN).
The most important thing to do when you’ve JUST met a woman you’d like to date. Ignore this and you’ll lose her FOREVER.
How to ELIMINATE approach anxiety so that you can comfortably talk to a woman anywhere without sounding needy or insecure.
The secret to looking good has more to do with your FASHION SENSE than what you were born with. You’ll learn tips on how to dress that will make women drool.
How to develop a bullet-proof exterior that will allow you to pick up the hottest woman in the room without flinching.
My sure fire method for making sure that even if a woman FLAKES out on a date—that I’m still getting some ACTION that night.
The SIMPLE question that you can ask a woman that will let you know if she’s available. TIP: Asking “are you single?” will OFFEND her.
How to have fun, playful chat that makes a woman feel at EASE around you.
How to follow up with a woman so that it feels natural. Follow up too soon and you’ll appear needy—too late and she’ll IGNORE you.
Learn SUBTLE dynamics of the pick up that will clue you in on what she’s thinking, so you can effortlessly number close without risking rejection.
How to develop a rock solid frame so you’ll never be thrown off guard during a difficult or challenging pick up situation.
What to do when you get a woman back to your apartment so that she feels COMFORTABLE enough with you to take her clothes OFF.
You’ll discover how to quickly create a SEXUAL connection with a woman so that you don’t end up in the ambiguous and dreadful FRIEND-ZONE.
How to become IRRESISTIBLE to women so you can stop sleeping alone.
Examples of how to pick up women in different VENUES, from the coffee shop, to the supermarket, to the shopping mall and beyond.
How to make your masculine qualities stand out.
Real life stories of my successes and failures in pick up, including WILD situations that I wouldn’t believe if I didn’t see them with my own eyes.
And a lot more…
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It’s that easy! Really! I honestly didn’t think seducing a woman in 60 seconds was possible before I read Paul’s book, and then bought the live in field pickup videos. 99% of trouble meeting women is of our own making. We create any number of self defeating problems in our head – my hair doesn’t look right, I’m not in a good mood today, she’ll reject me, etc. etc. etc. And then we do NOTHING when the hot girl walks by.
The trick to meeting women is to just BE YOURSELF. Paul outlines this in his book thoroughly, and he also SHOWS you how. Like in this video right here – watch how quickly he gets this girl’s number!