David Tian – How to Demolish Your Deepest Insecurities Using Honesty (21 Convention)
Demolish Your Deepest Insecurities Using Honesty: Top Dating Coach David Tian at the 21 Convention
This is the full video of my talk at the 21 Convention in Melbourne. I had a lot of fun meeting some wonderful people, including the organiser, Anthony Johnson, and the MC, Steve Mayeda, as well as many others. A big “Thank You” to Anthony, Steve, and the team for their gracious invitation!
This is the outline I gave out as a hand-out. It should come in handy as you watch the video.
• Use R&R (Reflection and Reframing) to overcome Limiting Beliefs (LB)
• LB => True or False
• If False, then Reflect, Research, and Condition
• If True, then can you change it? Yes or No?
• If Yes, change it!
• If No, then Reframe, Research, and Condition
Being Attractive = Emotional Strength + Honest
-Cyclical Process of a) becoming strong and b) expressing yourself honestly
-Former accomplished through repeated attempts at the latter
“Being yourself ” requires that you first “know yourself ”
Honesty is necessary for…
a) Coming to terms with all your current weaknesses
b) Discovering and deciding who you really want to be
-You feel inside when something’s off
Know Thyself => What emotions are you feeling and why?
-Be comfortable and content with your flaws
-Admit to yourself and others
Emotion = Judgement/Thought/Belief/Interpretation + Phenomenology