If you’ve found your way to this page, then I don’t need to convince you that the Attraction Institute is different.
You already know that you’re not going to find more ways to pretend to be someone you’re not.
You already know that you’re not going to be spoon fed recycled crap from some fake PUA guru who’s still dependent on polite smiles and rehearsed stories to fumble his way into some gullible woman’s bed.
You know that the concepts, theories and philosophies of the Attraction Institute will help you become free, confident, and secure and naturally attract women without having to sacrifice your moral, beliefs, or personality in the process.
But what you don’t know is why Endgame is the book you NEED to read.
So let me tell you why Endgame is the book for you…
When I first decided that I’d had enough of the Seduction Communities crap about how if you were ever going to attract confident, strong, and in-demand women, you HAD to pretend to be someone you weren’t, it seemed as though I was the odd one out.
Every other guy I met was content to learn structures, memorise routines, and sacrifice their entire belief system for the comfort of a warm body next to them for an empty and hollow night.
There were a few guys who wandering down the path of ‘internalising’ mindsets and changing their belief systems but still, they were only doing it as a way of covering over who they really were in the hope that women would like them.
I didn’t want that. I didn’t want to have to hide the real me. I didn’t want to have to pretend I was someone else.
That smelt like bullshit, it felt like bullshit, and there was no part of me that wanted to have to lie to women, just to get them to sleep with me.
But as the seduction community was the only source of dating advice at that point in time, I dived in.
After just a few weeks scratching the surface of their hollow theories, the contradictions became evident:
– If a true Alpha Male is someone who lives his life on his terms, doing what he wants, when he wants to, then how can I ever be an Alpha Male by memorising a series rules in an eBook that I don’t agree with?
– If I build the deepest and most powerful connections with people when I’m sharing genuinely and open and listening with my full attention, how can I ever build the kind of connections I want by reciting someone else’s stories?
– If the nights where I’ve had the most success with women are the ones where I’m out of my head, doing what I want, and not trying to impress anyone, why do I need to memorise all these steps and tactics to become attractive to women?
The more I dug, the more I found.
More tricks. More lies. More fake games. And more charades to pull the wool over drunk women’s eyes.
I also saw that for every rule I HAD to follow, for every method I HAD to remember, for every technique I HAD to perform, there were guys who weren’t following these systems and still getting the results I wanted.
I decided to study these guys, these naturals, to see what their secret was.
– Did they all follow some complicated structure they memorised from a book? No. They all did different things at different times.
– Were they all high energy and fun? No. There were guys who were low energy and calm.
– Were they all cold and intimidating, alpha jocks? No. There were open, emotional, nerdy types who were still taking home the girls I wanted.
But there was one core element that shone through in EVERY naturally attractive Man:
He did what HE wanted, when HE wanted to, regardless of what anyone else thought.
He wasn’t fighting for approval, he wasn’t battling for acceptance, he wasn’t trying to prove anything to anyone.
He was real, open, free, and that just drew people to him.
I thought about this for a long time.
I though back to few nights when I’d managed to have women giving me those longing stares from across the bar.
I thought back to the infrequent moments when some new woman I’d just met held my eye contact just a little longer than needed to.
I thought back to those rare moments when I was the life of the party and everyone wanted to be around me.
It had nothing to do with the cools stories I could recite, the funny jokes I’d learned, the different tactics I’d memorised the night before from some downloaded ebook.
It was all because I was doing what I wanted to do, when I wanted to do it, and radiated the fulfilment and happiness that can only come from living your life on your terms.
This begged the obvious question:
“Why couldn’t I be open, powerful, and free all the time?”
And an even more obvious answer:
– Because I cared about what other people thought about me
– Because I had too many insecurities
– Because I let my anxiety run my life
– Because I put far more weight on how other people said I should do than on my own opinions and views
But, in that obvious answer, I had my solution.
To become the kind of Man that is naturally attractive to women, I needed to drop the games, lose the tricks, stop pretending to be someone I wasn’t, and actually deal with my inner limitations rather than just pretending they didn’t exist.
I had to drop the little boy games of hiding from my fears, running from my insecurities, resisting all my doubts and worries and Man up.
This was the ONLY way to deal with the neediness and outcome dependency that had ruined my chances with women before I found the seduction community and were still ruining my chances today.
What less evident was how I do this.
– If I’ve spent my entire life running from my inner barriers and pretending they don’t exist, how do I suddenly decide to start expressing, confronting, and dealing with them?
– If I’ve spent my entire life running from fear, how to I become the kind of Man that not only walks towards it, but actually enjoys it?
– If I’ve spent my entire life living it according to what other people say I should do, how do I become the kind of Man who not only has the courage to live his life on his terms, but thrives when he finds people who object to what he’s doing?
There were so many unanswered questions.
The seduction community was great at explaining how to pretend that I was strong, confident, fun, outgoing, and exciting but there was no-one who could help me BECOME that kind of guy.
The only advice they could give was ‘just pretend and pretend and eventually you’ll become that guy’, but pretending just didn’t cut it for me.
There were no guru’s to consult. There were no experts to ask. There was no-one who could help me find the real answers I needed…
…so I set off alone.
I started with Masculinity work but it just let me with more questions than answers.
I turned to Taoism and found part of the answer, positively psychology gave me another piece of the puzzle, but at the end of the day, there were just more rules.
There was just more:
“Do this and copy this and then you’ll be happy and free. Copy this person who’s become really confident and you’ll eventually become confident.”
There was no-one who could show me the core underling mechanisms at play that would help me become fulfilled, free, open, and satisfied with my life in a way that was naturally attractive to women.
After spending years of my life searching outside for the answers, I made a challenging and scary decision:
To put the books, DVD’s magazines, and websites aside and turn my attention inwards.
If I couldn’t find the answer from people outside myself, I was going to have to come up with it myself.
I started from the ground up:
– What was I really looking for in life?
– Why did I want this?
– How did it affect the choices I made in life?
– What are the different ways to get what I want?
– How does this change the way I think / look / act / feel / experience life?
– What does this do to attraction?
– What would change about interacting with women if I changed pathways?
And most importantly of all:
“How can I use this all to become confident, free, open, and naturally attractive to women?”
I tested, practised, I tried, I failed.
I threw myself into more embarrassing situations than I ever thought possible and dealt with the inevitable consequences when the inevitable happened.
I started making myself feel anxiety, just so I could find new ways of dealing with it. I started purposefully creating awkward silences to learn new ways of overcoming with my awkwardness. I started trying to get rejected to see just how I could deal with rejection in a way that took me closer to the life I wanted rather than running away like a scared little boy.
And the more I did it, the more I noticed a strange shift happening.
– The more I started to purposefully tried to expereince anxiety, the less anxiety I could find.
– The more awkward silences I created, the less awkward they became.
– The more I tried to get rejected, the less women wanted to reject me.
In fact, the more I moved away from doing things just to pick up women, the more women I picked up!
It was weird… Very weird.
But the more I did it, the more success I got. Well… Up until a point.
I could attract women I didn’t want by just pushing myself and throwing myself head first into more scary and challenging situations. But as soon as a woman I REALLY wanted appeared…
…it would all go to shit.
– I’d start trying to experience anxiety but only because it had helped me get girls in the past.
– I’d start trying to create awkward silences but only because I thought it would make me seem more interesting.
– I’d start trying to get rejected but only because I knew it would get her to like me.
I’d instantly become the needy, clingy, dependent guy that had bee pushing women away for years and I had no idea how to change it.
This is where things got deep and real.
I knew I needed to take my attention away from women, I knew I needed to become the Man of MY dreams, I knew that this journey had to be more about me growing and learning rather than getting and demanding…
…but I had no idea how to do it.
I went really deep. Really deep. I took a VERY honest and real look at my life. I dug inside my core desires and started to work with them rather than pretending they weren’t there.
I asked the questions I’d been running from this whole time:
– Why am I being needy?
– What am I really looking for behind that neediness?
– How can I experience that in a way that doesn’t leave me dependent on a nice smile and a cute giggle to feel good about myself?
And more importantly:
– How can I expereince it in a way that makes me the kind of Man that women naturally want to be around?
After 6 months of trying, failing, getting back up off the ground and trying all over again, I found it.
The simple, core mechanism necessary to make the switch from living my life trying to use beautiful women to feel good about myself to, to becoming confident, strong, and free.
I knew how to stand in front of a beautiful woman and not lose myself inside her beauty and charm so I could stay the grounded and powerful Man she desired.
I’m not going to say this was easy. There’s so much inadequate information available even the truly reality shifting ideas are sandwiched in between layers of contradictory advice.
But after years investigation, testing, false starts, failing, and starting all over again, it all fell into place:
I found “How”:
– How to build inner strength
– How to develop rock solid confidence
– How to push through barriers
– How to overcome your fears
– And how to do it all in an authentic, powerful, and naturally attractive way that gives you everything you’ve ever desired, REGARDLESS of the outcome
At first, I wanted to slap myself. It all seemed so obvious and so easy.
When I met a few guys from the local PUA community one warm and vibrant night and started sharing my ideas, they drank it up.
But it also left them with more questions than answers. They’d been brainwashed with seduction community theory for so long that it was hard for them to see the obvious truth.
After trying to explain every intricate detail, over and over again, I decided it would be far easier and far simpler to put it all into one book that answered all their questions and problems and helped them…
…see just how easy it really was to become effortlessly strong, powerful, and free.
This is why you need to read Endgame.
Endgame isn’t just another book filled with hundreds of different ways to pretend to be someone you’re not or techniques to imitate another ‘gurus’ personality.
You won’t discover a complex and detailed description of everything a naturally attractive and confident Man does when talking to a woman.
It doesn’t have 30 different reasons to explain why you are the way you are.
You won’t find hundreds of different people you can blame your frustration and pain on.
What you’ll find in Endgame is the “How”:
– How to eliminate your limiting beliefs
– How to eradicate your crippling anxiety
– How to build rock solid confidence
– How to transform your inner game
– How to become the kind of Man who lives his life on his terms and is free to take whoever he chooses with him on that journey
There are no tricks to imitate someone you’re not. There are no games to hide your fears and doubts. There are no techniques to pretend like you’re insecurity free. There are no mindsets to internalise or affirmations to repeat in the shower every morning.
Endgame will give you the core level of understanding and self-awareness necessary to build the powerful and solid inner core strength that will have you searching for your insecurities rather than running from them.
By the time you finish Endgame, you will see:
– The real reason you’re trying to attract women and how it’s ruining your chances before you open your mouth
– The hidden link between getting a girlfriend, chicken soup, kayaking and nightclubs
– How Steven seduced me into divulging my secrets
– The attraction fallacy: why relying on flirty smiles from cute women is keeping them out of your reach
– Why trying to fix the symptoms of your lack of success with women is a waste of time and how you can eliminate them all at once
– The underlying mechanism that’s responsible for you needing to learn attraction techniques
– How to avoid being needy and clingy when you’re honestly expressing what you think and how you feel
– Exactly how the patterns of neediness and dependency in your relationships with women effect the rest of your life
– The only reason your life lacks the spark and excitement you crave
– What women REALLY want
– The 2 core desires that drive all decisions in both women AND men
– The information trap: how learning more can make you feel good about yourself but will only leave you empty and lost
On attracting women…
– Why trying to ‘get’ the girl is preventing you from getting the girl
– How to give freely to women without needing anything in return
– Why the ‘long’ journey of inner transformation is actually the quickest and simplest way to real success with women
– The specific reason why nice guys get stuck in the friend zone
– How to execute every PUA technique without trying
– What’s making you dependent on a positive response to feel good about yourself
– What attraction really is and how it has nothing to do with evolutionary psychology
– Why becoming a better sales man is the slowest and most frustrating way to attract women
– The specific brain changes that allow switched on women to see through charades
– How to buy women flowers, drinks, and other gifts without coming across as needy and desperate
– Why you’re having flat and boring conversations and how you can infuse them with life and energy
– Why some women are attracted to money, others to status, others to muscles, and how you can attract them without these things
– How to become the life of the party without having to pretend to be someone you’re not
– Why you’re not naturally attractive to women and what you need to change
– The one thing you need to change to build rock solid presence with women
– How to get women to set you up with their friends
– Why the concepts in Endgame are simultaneously the least effective and most effective ways to seduce women
– What makes you a ‘nice guy’ and why changing your actions won’t help you break free from it
– Why it’s so much easier to attract women when you already have a girlfriend and how you can get to that place without one
On connecting with women…
– How to draw people in whilst talking about topics they don’t even care about
– The essential step in communicating inner confidence and strength
– How women can tell exactly what you’re really trying to do and how to use that to your advantage
– How to give an authentic and genuine compliment to a woman without needing a favourable response
– How to make real, deep, and powerful connections with women without needing to learn a single thing to talk about
– The difference between ‘doing’ genuine and ‘being’ genuine
– The truth that an online dating profile can reveal about you
– The simple way to use your past mistakes to form deep and powerful connections with women
– The simple way to let go of the outcome when talking to women and just enjoy the moment
– What’s really governing your sub-communication and what you need to change to fix it for good
– How to stop waiting for your turn to talk and really listen to what women are saying
– The easy way to make talking to women fun and effortless
– How to truly enjoy not knowing how a woman is going to respond
– The core essence of empowering relationships and what you need to do to create them
– How to naturally screen out the women you don’t want and form deep and real connection with the ones you do
– What leaves people trapped in frustrating and depressing relationships and how you can avoid it
– How to give a woman the sense of safety and certainty that she desires
– What it really means to give to a woman without needing anything in return
– Why you’re in the friend zone and what has to change for you to break out
– What has to change so you can stop trying to impress women and start working out if they impress you
– The biological difference between Men and Women that’s at the core of most relationship problems
On the Seduction Community…
– The difference between ‘doing’ self amusement and actually being self amusing
– The common trap of trying to get ‘into state’
– The only thing responsible for you having to learn pickup and seduction tactics
– Why you have to choose between being a naturally attractive Man and learning PUA material
– The reason why memorising lines and routines is really just using women
– Why following all the right steps isn’t going to do you any good when you’re talking to a confident and strong woman
– Why seduction rules were first developed and how you can attract women without them
– Why there is no such thing as a ‘social blueprint’ and what REALLY creates social constructs
– What’s simpler and easier than becoming a better salesman
– The core essence of a naturally attractive man
– The essence of a ‘creepy salesman’ and what you need to change to avoid coming off like that
– The fundamental flaw of using PUA routines to attract women
– The essence of Cocky / Funny and how to make it work for you
– Why a specific line can work wonders for you in one minute and fail miserably the next
– The pointlessness of working on body language, voice tonality, speed, and pitch and how you can improve them all at the same time
– Why the seduction community can never help you become a natural with women
– Why the seduction community has so many rules, techniques and methods and how to make them all unnecessary
– The one reason why a line that works magic for a Pickup Guru will fail you completely and how to make it work like a charm
– The psychological foundations that make the Pick Up Arts necessary and how you can avoid it
– Why PUA techniques work for some guys and why it’s the kind of success that you’ll never want
– The three ways to eliminate feelings of emptiness and aloneness and how to choose the right one for you
– The reason that acting the same was as a naturally attractive guy will ever help you become a naturally attractive guy
On building confidence…
– What must shift to change rejection from painful to a powerful learning experience
– What you need to do if you’re ever going to be able to let go of your past
– How to discover the key ingredients of your perfect life and why you MUST know them if you’re ever going to reach your potential
– How to feel strong and confident about your life, regardless of who’s in it
– How to turn uncertainty about the future from anxiety to excitement
– What it means to be truly honest and how you probably haven’t been living it till now
– The core essence of becoming an internally fulfilled Man
– How to break free from all external constraints and why it’s far easier than you think
– Why you MUST let yourself experience your emotions in full if you’re ever going to get to your core barriers
– The power of being ‘shameless’
– Why faking-it will never help you build the confidence and inner fulfilment you desire
On eliminating neediness…
– The 6 different models of outcome dependency
– The simple life systems you need to install to eliminate neediness and clinginess
– How to eliminate unproductive brain connections for rapid transformation
– Why searching for acceptance is the one thing preventing you from getting it
– The obvious reason why you’re choose a life of dependency and the amazing benefits you’re missing out on
– Why basing your self-worth on the external environment is so fleeting
– The kind of person can make a life of dependency and neediness work and why you’re not one of them
– What to do when you slip back into old habits
– How to let go of bad habits with ease
– Why you need to be needy and clingy if you’re ever going to give it up
On inner transformation…
– The only reason you think women are bitches and what you need to change to stop seeing them like that
– How being a good Samaritan can help you let go of needing other peoples approval
– The core motivations necessary for true personal transformation
– The true power of painful situations and how you can learn from them
– The common trap you need to avoid when becoming internally fulfilled and free
– The incredible rush that comes through helping other guys see their own limitations
– The core element necessary to work out exactly how you should live your life and the simple way to discover it
– The three pathways to experiencing everything you desire and which one is the path to complete inner fulfilment
– Why changing what you’re doing with your life is never the answer
– The first and most crucial step in eliminating your inner barriers
– The key first step in building an honest and powerful life
– One daily practise that will bring focus, direction, and power to your life
– The self-perpetuating cycle you create by blaming other people for your life problem
– How to heal the pain of your past
– The common lifestyle changes you can expect when taking full responsibility for your life
– How to build a strong and supportive social circle and why you don’t have on now
– The simple way to guarantee that you’ll never experience long term fulfilment and satisfaction and how to identify where you’re using it
– What needs to change so you can truly appreciate women for who they are rather than using them to feel good about yourself
– What needs to change before your friends will be ready to join you on the path of personal empowerment
– The reason why your work feels like a chore and a burden and what you need to wake up excited and passionate
– How to turn the most repetitive and mundane tasks into fulfilling and exciting activities
– What’s really to blame when activities don’t live up to your expectations and how you can flip that around
– How to predict our future with 90% accuracy and why you won’t want to be part of it
– The relationship between your work, women, friendships, and your free time
– How to become the kind of Man that people naturally want to give to
– What’s really responsible for how easy or hard your life is and how to choose ‘easy’, every time
– What’s really responsible for the pain and frustration in your life and how you can eliminate it for good
– The simple way to make your frustrations and barriers melt away
– Why you MUST do what feels right for you in every moment if you’re ever going to break free from your old habits
– The 17 stage progression of personal transformation and how to plot yourself on it
– How to determine your current life purpose
– What the ‘Scale of Consciousness is and how you can use it to predict your journey
– Why you must carry a notepad with you at all times if you’re really committed to this journey
– The one thing you normally block out that’s the key to finding your core desires
– What is really meant by ‘There is no spoon…’
– The illusion of ‘free will’ and what’s really governing the choices you make
– The three questions you must as yourself if you’re ever going to become the Man of your dreams
– The psychological foundations of ‘truth’ and how there can be multiple ‘truths’ in any situation
– What it really means to live a life of integrity
– How to determine your ‘Script’ and why you need to know if you’re ever going to watch your inner barriers drop like flies
– And much, much, more…
This is why you need to read Endgame.
Because it is the ONLY book available that can show you how to become a strong, confident, and naturally attractive Man.
There are hundreds of books that can identify what a naturally attractive Man does.
There are thousands of DVD’s and podcasts to help you imitate other guys.
But Endgame is the only book available that can show you how to eliminate your anxiety, destroy your roadblocks, build rock solid confidence, unleash the naturally attractive Man from within, and all in an authentic, real, and genuine way.
I’m not saying that you’re going to like what you hear.
There are plenty of challenging, confronting, and scary things inside Endgame, but if you’re looking for a real, powerful, and long term solution to becoming the Man of YOUR dreams in a way that doesn’t cost you your integrity, morals, or personality…
…then Endgame is the book you NEED to read.
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– How to REALLY build rock solid confidence without worrying about if it’s going to vanish as soon as you get a bad reaction
– The A&A principle that will allow you to take action, regardless of what other people think of you
– Why you don’t feel in control of your life and what you need to do to get that control back
– How to eliminate the emotional roller-coaster that comes from relying on other people to be happy
– What you need to change to become calm and cool in the most stressful situations
– The simple changes you need to make be able to desire a woman without needing anything from her
– The happiness trap of the quick-fix and what you need to do to escape it
– The 6 greatest influences in the development of The Attraction Institute
– The specific brain mechanism responsible for feeling happy and how you can use it to your advantage
– Why learning new information is a short cut to feeling happy but can never be the long term solution you want
– The difference in brain chemical response between external and internal based happiness and how it’s keeping you from really living your to your true potential
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– The one thing that everyone in the seduction community conveniently ignores that is the core of attracting the women of your dreams
– How to be real with women without coming off as needy, dependent and clingy
– The 5 stages of inner transformation
– The incredible opportunity that lies in being ‘wrong’
– The simple secret to living a happiness and fulfilling life I learned from a children’s fairy tale favourite
– How I let go of wanting to fit in
– What you’ll find on the other side of your fear (and how it’s everything you’ve been looking for)
– The core of creating deep and powerful connections
– The flaw behind using false personalities to attract women
– How to feel powerful and in control of your life, regardless of how people respond to you
– The common trap that all guys experience when they start to experience success and what you can do to avoid it
– The step by step process of demolishing your fear
– How bad things got before I decided to do something about it
– The 5 most influential personal development books in my private library
– The KEY ingredient in personal transformation
– The only way to completely eliminate your anxiety
– The foundations that led to the development of the Attraction Institute philosophy
– The one thing you must do before you start any personal transformation
– The secret to discovering your core motivations and what’s been preventing you from finding them until now
– What you can achieve through uncovering your blind spots
– Why you’re worrying about what other people think of you
– The common trap of becoming confident and how you can avoid it
– The two kinds of freedom and how why chasing the wrong one will trap you forever
– The three levels you must address is discovering your dream future
– The core element of acceptance that is always overlooked and why you need to consider it
– The simple benefit you can gain from discovering your core barrier
– How to use your core barrier to discover your core desire
– How to connect with women regardless of how they respond to you
– The 4 levels of connection and which one will eliminate your feelings of loneliness
– The simple way to learn to read a woman emotions and thoughts without even talking to her
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– The reason you end up in the friend zone and what you need to do to get out of it
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Did you ever get the feeling that there had to be a simpler, easier, and more authentic way to attract women?
One that didn’t involve lies, tricks, or pretending to be someone you’re not, just for the slim chance of having a warm body snuggle up to you at night?
Despite what the Seduction Community has been trying to jam down your throat, there is a FAR simpler, FAR easier, and FAR more authentic way to unleash the naturally confident and powerful Man within than wasting years of your life memorising fake stories, over-complicated techniques and manipulative tactics.
You can be real, you can be free, you can do what you want and say what you want AND have women attracted to you because of it.
And you’re about to learn how.
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When was the last time you felt truly free?
– To approach whoever you wanted, despite the limiting beliefs and doubt
– To flirt openly and outrageously, regardless of who was watching
– To seduce without fear of being labelled a sleaze or a creep
– To make deep and lasting connections that left her wondering if you’d met in a past life
When as the last time you felt the inner strength, effortless freedom, and magnetic attraction that comes from having the confidence to live your life on your terms?
I’m asking because you don’t have to let opportunity after precious opportunity slip through your fingers, whilst you stand on the sidelines wondering…
– If the anxiety will ever fade enough for you to be able to take that first step towards her
– If the endless dialogue running through your head will ever quieten down enough for you to really listen to what she’s saying
– If your lucky break will come
– If that’s really her boyfriend of he’s just some excuse you’re using to cover up your fear
– If you’ll be able to flirt playfully and openly with the girls you find really want or if you’ll just have to settle for what you can get.
– If you’ll have to watch that girl you’ve been eyeing all night, leave with some other guy because you didn’t have the balls to go and talk to her
– If you’ll be able to get your own way, long enough, to prove to yourself just how easy this could be
The freedom to do what you want, when you want, and to take every opportunity that passes by your eyes, every time you walk down the street, is available to you, right now.
Finding your inner strength to break through your self-imposed limitations is easy and eliminating them is simple…
…when you know where to look.
Do you know what a Natural is?
I’m asking you because this is important. I want to make sure we’re on the same page here.
I’m not talking about the ‘Natural’ that’s a Macho Jerk, who pushes people around to make himself look good, who speaks louder than everyone to because he’s afraid of not being heard, and raises his ‘social status’ by making other people do what he wants without regard for what they want.
The ‘Natural’ I’m talking about is more real, more compassionate, more caring, more in touch with who he really is and what he stands for, and more willing to take responsibility for not only his life, but the world around him.
He’s that guy who can walk into a conversation with complete strangers and lead it every time he opens his mouth because he lives a fun and interesting life.
He gets invited to all the cool events because he brings the energy to make the party exciting and alive, with him.
He’s the one who flirts playfully because his life is so much fun, free of frustration and anxiety, that he’s naturally playful and flirty.
He’s the guy you’ve been watching talk to women wondering how he makes it all look so effortless.
He’s one guy that Pickup Guru’s have been imitating since the birth of the Seduction Community, trying desperately to copy his moves, style, action, and energy.
He’s the guy that does everything the PUA Guru’s tells you to do to attract women, without trying.
He didn’t learn opening, qualification, rapport, leading, escalation, or seduction from some manual or rule book.
He didn’t internalise or memorise thousands of hours of structures, techniques, or tactics.
He just lived his life and this is what happened.
This is because there’s a very deep, very simple, very powerful core mechanism that’s allowed him to naturally do everything that a PUA has said is necessary, but without ever having to learn a thing.
This is very good news for you.
It means that if you can tap into that core mechanism, and learn to live your life from it as well, you can bypass the hours of lies and manipulation and just get to the good stuff.
Becoming free, open, and naturally attractive isn’t some kind of inherited skill or genetic trait.
It’s not passed down through your fathers side, skipping every second generation.
Radiating the raw masculinity that women find irresistible is a simple skill that EVERY SINGLE GUY is capable of, regardless of his past success or failure.
All that’s required is a simple shift the one core mechanism and your success will start to flow.
And not just for a brief second on a great night out with your mates or in the moments of pure freedom that happen when you’re on holiday or drunk.
It can be the effortless way you live your life.
There’s a part of you that is strong, that is powerful, that can approach and flirt and play with ease, and all you have to do is find the way to let him out.
When you can, everything will change.
There will be no more nights…
– Sitting at home, wishing you had the courage to walk out the door
– Standing with your back against the wall wondering how to get your heavy feet to take that first step
– Stuttering through the first 20 seconds of an awkward conversation until you hear the dreaded ‘I have to go to the bathroom’
– Trying your hardest to keep the conversation vibe up only to hear ‘Sorry, I have a boyfriend’
– Wondering why it’s so easy with girls you’re not attracted to, but as soon as that hot one appears, everything falls apart
– Feeling defeated and rejected as you watch the girl you’ve been working on all night, walk out of the club with some guy she’d spoken to for less than 5 minutes.
– Watching other guys who make it all look SO easy and SO effortless wondering if you just weren’t born with it
There will be no more nights spent trying and trying and trying, only to come a distant second to some guy who doesn’t try at all.
The frustration that’s plagued our life will be a thing of the past.
There’s a VERY simple and VERY powerful switch that governs whether or not you’re naturally expressive, open, and confident or needy, outcome dependent, clingy, and demanding.
When you can find and flick that switch, everything will change.
You’ll be a new Man – powerful and strong.
Not a different Man, with the old version buried under layers of fake and rehearsed tricks designed to mask the neediness that is still simmering just below the surface…
…but a different version of yourself.
A more confident, more free, more powerful, and a more naturally attractive version of you.
With the unattractive and awkward parts not just hidden under layers of black nail polish and brightly coloured fashion accessories, but actually eliminated from their core.
The version of you that stands on the sidelines watching women hurry past his needy glances will be replaced by the version of you that stands on the sidelines watching women become intrigued in by his strong and powerful eye contact
The version of you that creates awkward silences and has to struggle to fill them will be replaced by the version of you that allows natural silences and has women struggling to fill them.
The version of you that says inappropriate things and makes women cringe and walk away will be replaced with the version of you that says inappropriate things and gets a shocked look, a playful slap, and enough sexual tension to get her juices flowing.
But the benefits don’t just start and stop with women.
Your whole life will take on a new flavour.
Finding your deep drives, desires, and passions and allowing them to guide you will transform every area of your life.
– The struggle to get out of bed in the morning will be replaced with excitement and energy because of all the exciting exploits you have planned
– Mindless X-Box and endlessly flicking through TV channels will be replaced by hobbies and adventures
– Your ‘to do’ list will actually grow shorter, not longer
– The excuses ‘not to’ with start to be replaced with ‘reasons to’
– Your friendships will take on a new depth and realness
– People will want to spend more time around you
– You’ll find new energy to take on the world, even when you only get the briefest of sleeps
– You’ll start to really believe that it’s possible for you to make a significant difference to the world around you
– More parties, social functions, and events will start to fill out your calendar
– Procrastination will fade and be replaced by dogged determination
– Obstacles will morph into challenges
– Your deepest purpose will start to materialise
– Your work will start to become more rewarding and fulfilling
– New courage will start to infuse your life
– You’ll start to form effortless connections with people you’ve only just met
– Going to sleep at night will be easy because you will feel like you’ve accomplished something with your day rather than just wasted it awa like so many others
And this isn’t some theoretical list I created one night whilst lying along in my room, visualising what a confident Man would experience.
I know this because I experienced this transformation, first hand.
“I wasn’t born a natural with women…”
My youth was a testament to that.
I spent 7 precious years of my journey to adulthood hiding in the oppressive darkness bedroom, in shame and fear.
Not going to parties because I was afraid of saying the wrong thing…
Not standing up for what I believed in because I was afraid of being wrong…
Not leading others on exciting adventures because I was terrified that no-one would follow…
I would eat my lunch in the bathroom to avoid having to come up with cool and interesting answers to everyday questions and would never answer the phone in case I embarrassed myself by running out of things to say.
My life was ruled by other what other people though, what other people said, what other people did, and whether or not I could get their approval.
I lived as a shadow, consumed by fear and a desperate need for acceptance from everyone in my life.
It didn’t matter whether they were my best friend or a total stranger, it didn’t matter if they were beautiful or bland, it didn’t matter whether they were confident or self conscious…
…all that mattered was whether they could give me that sweet hit of validation I needed to feel the least bit worthy.
But even with all these problems, I was a stud with women!
I could walk up to any girl, I could rattle off a list of the funniest jokes and have women… Just kidding.
That’s a lie.
I was as successful with women as you would imagine a guy would be who spent every Friday and Saturday night for a two years, hiding in his bedroom, terrified of failing and being judged as a failure.
The closest I came to getting physical with a girl during that long 7 years was when a particularly beautiful woman gave me a hug for buying her two packets of cigarettes after her boyfriend took all her money to buy alcohol for himself.
The closest I came to losing my virginity was standing outside a door bedroom, watching the girl of my dreams follow my best friend in, and catching that ravenous ‘I’m going to tear you apart’ sparkle in her eye as she shut the door behind them.
I was as far from being a ‘Natural’ with women as you could find.
I don’t think frustration, disappointment, and depression adequately describe what I went through in those long and lonely years, but they’re as close as I can come right now.
And because of this, I was stuck in vicious cycle.
ANY time a woman would pay me ANY attention, she would automatically be elevated to ‘the girl of my dreams’. I would become infatuated out of desperation and loneliness.
It would feel great as we went to coffee and discussed her latest emotional roller coaster, all the while nodding and smiling politely, confidently pleased with how close we were becoming.
I thought that if I can just get to know her well enough, she’ll eventually see just how great I am to her and she’ll leave her Bad Boy / Rock Star / Cool, confident, Alpha Male boyfriend for me.
Obviously, that worked really well…
Weeks would turn to months.
One boyfriend would slowly fade into another whilst I was still sitting on the other side of the coffee table, nodding politely and agreeing that she was right and he was wrong, but secretly wondering why she wasn’t seeing just how great I was.
Then, my neediness would bubble to the surface, I would become clingy and terrified she would stop hanging out with me.
Funnily enough, my desperation not to be alone was the one thing that would push her away from me.
The ‘I’m really busy this weekend, lets catch up next weekend’ excuse would slowly turn into unanswered phone calls and unreturned text messages.
After a few months (yes, not weeks, months) of desperately trying to get a response, I’d give up trying and crawl back into my misery.
I would sit there, alone, lost, and depressed, until I managed to force myself out into the world to I would find a new woman to become ‘the girl of my dreams’.
The cycle would start all over again.
I don’t know how many years I repeated this until it eventually, it just became too much.
One day, after waking up alone and frustrated because the last ‘girl of my dreams’ had brushed me off once again…
…I decided that things were going to be different.
Not just with women, but with life.
I was sick of this roller-coaster of emotional dependency. I was sick of waiting for the world to give me the ‘lucky break’ I’d been hoping for.
I was sick of being the little boy that let everyone push him around and never got what he wanted.
I made the simple most important decision of my life: The decision to take action.
From that moment on, I took control.
At first, it was small things:
– Looking beautiful women in the eye as I walked past them instead of staring hopelessly at the ground
– Disagreeing with people when they said things that were clearly wrong
– Eating lunch with everyone in my class rather than hiding in the bathrooms worrying what people might think of me
But then I decided to push myself:
– I committed to trying one new thing a week
– I took responsibility for problems I created and found solutions to fix them
And most importantly, I stopped blaming anyone else for my shitty life and I started doing something about it.
The funny thing was that the permission I was so desperately trying to get from everyone around me started to appear once I gave it to myself.
The more I pushed myself, the more internally fulfilled I was, the freer I allowed myself to be, the more people encouraged me to keep going.
The confidence and charisma I was radiating started to become infectious and people wanted to hang out with me more and more.
Instead of desperately trying to find ways to get invited to the cool parties and exciting events, I started looking for gentle ways to say “No” because I just had too much on my plate.
Don’t get me wrong, it wasn’t all sunshine and glory.
There were the inevitable lows, where I felt hopeless, powerless, and alone, and the confusing plateaus where no matter what I did, I simply couldn’t get the momentum to push to that new level.
But even these lows took on a new flavour.
Instead of fearing little setbacks, I started to look forward to them because I knew that I was about to learn something incredible about myself.
Instead of worrying about the plateaus, I started to embrace the time they gave to reassess what was really important and cut out the unnecessary fluff.
Things with women started to change. And change for the better.
I transformed from being stilted, awkward, frozen, and reserved, and gradually I started to grow.
At first, it was just with female friends I was comfortable with – I started to drop the ‘nice guy’ persona and started to playfully push them around.
Then it moved to regular women I ran into – I started teasing and joking around with the checkout chick at my local supermarket and the woman at my favourite Thai restaurant.
After a few short weeks, I was even flirting with random women on the bus and strangers in the supermarket!
But there was still one major hurdle.
If I wasn’t attracted to a woman, everything was easy.
I could play around, she would play back, we’d flirt, connect, and after a while, she’d be getting touchy and feely and I knew it was on.
But, if I was attracted to her, or I was trying to take things to the next level, all the same problems would come back.
– I would still say stupid and inappropriate things at the stupidest and most inappropriate moments, when I wasn’t running out of things to say
– I’d still try and be funny but I’d just come across as lame
– Every attempt to be cool came still out as forced
– When I tried to connect and be real, it still came across as insincere
– Instead of flirting playfully I’d still get stuck in logical conversations about things I didn’t care in, in the hope that I’d bore her into sleeping with me
As soon as there was an attractive woman in the room, I’d shut down, get stuck in my head, over analyse the situation, and act like the pathetic nice guy I’d been working so hard to eliminate from my life for so long.
I couldn’t crack the problem.
I knew I was a cool guy, I knew that I could be playful, flirty, and interesting, I knew I had a lot of value to add to beautiful women’s lives…
…but I just didn’t know how to let him out.
That was when I found the Seduction Community.
I turned to the PUA handbooks and Seduction DVD’s in the hope of finding my answer.
Do you think I found simple ideas for becoming strong, free, and real inside their Pickup Bibles?
Not even close.
All I got were manipulative tricks to push the real me even further down beneath the layers of information.
But I still gave it a shot.
Maybe I was wrong. Maybe I did have to learn all these fake tactics so I could eventually become the ‘real me’.
I spent a few weeks studying and learning structures, lines, and routines.
I spent a few more weeks internalising tactics, techniques, and methods.
Then I hit the ground running… straight into a brick wall.
I didn’t think it was possible, but learning all this manipulative crap had actually erased the very limited social skills I’d managed to build up over the last few years.
Instead of being fun and playful, I was forced and analytical.
Instead of being open and free, I was cold and calculating.
After a few shorts weeks of dabbling in PUA techniques, I started to struggle to have a fun conversation with my good mates.
That’s when I knew this wasn’t for me…
It felt wrong. It was wrong.
– I didn’t want manipulative tricks to make women think I was the cool guy that I’d borrowed this personality from.
– I wanted tools to let out the naturally cool guy from within.
– I didn’t want to internalise someone else’s stories to make shallow connections with fake women.
– I wanted to be able to open up and be free with everyone to build deep connections with real people.
– I didn’t want to memorise structures for pretending like I actually had standards in my life.
– I wanted to get out of my head long enough to really pay attention to the woman in front of me and see if she actually met my standards, despite her looks.
– I didn’t want to waste hours memorising stories about other peoples lives to convince her that I was an interesting person.
– I wanted to strength to walk away from hot but boring women and share the interesting and exciting parts of my life with other interesting women.
– I didn’t want to burry the real me under more layers and layers and layers scripted, memorised, and rehearsed lies. I had enough layers already.
– I wanted to strip back the layers of crap that I was using to hold myself back so the real, powerful, strong, purposeful, and driven me could break free around even the hottest women.
“This is when my journey deeper started…”
I knew the PUA community had nothing to offer so I started to look elsewhere.
Taoism, Buddhism, Masculinity work, obscure philosophies, and children’s books (seriously) all started to point in the same direction.
The showed me the simple patterns I’d been running with my friends, work mates, and women I wasn’t attracted to, that had transformed boring and painful conversations into effortless and easy fun times and EXACTLY how I wasn’t using them with attractive women.
I could see why all my female friends thought I was a prize catch yet no women I was attracted to was interested in me.
I could see why women I wasn’t attracted to were easy to draw in yet the ones I really wanted stayed out of my reach.
Finally, the last piece of the puzzle started to fall in place.
Inch by inch…
I started to see what really kept me frozen and clammed up around stunning women and the even simpler way to transform it.
I threw myself in head first – testing, trying, pushing, and playing.
“Some nights, I felt like Moses in the Red Sea, parting creamy
white thighs with a wave of my magic ‘staff’.”
Other nights, I felt like the same old pathetic nice guy who’d smothered women since high school.
But that didn’t deter me.
Every time I had a bad night, I learnt something valuable that took me closer to being ‘on’ all the time.
I pushed forward, I took on challenges, I did things that other guys said were impossible and I broke every rule in the PUA handbook.
The results started to flow.
At first, it was limited – one hot girls phone number, a quick make-out here and there.
Then things started to really move forward – dates and ‘movie nights at my place’.
Then things started to happen that I didn’t even imagine were possible – 3/4/5 women in a week, threesomes and more-somes, best friends and sisters, having my pick of any woman in a club…
And all whilst doing what I wanted, when I wanted, without having to resort to any skills, tricks, or techniques to make it happen.
I’d finally proven that PUA Guru’s wrong: Yes, it was possible to become a natural with women.
This Was When Other Guys Started Coming To Me For Help…
Guys who I knew from my days experimenting with the whole PUA thing started to notice.
One hot summer night, at a meeting of seasoned seduction experts, I started an innocent conversation and wanna-be Casanova’s started to take notice.
They asked questions, I shared my experiences and ideas, and some of the more ‘inner-game’ focussed guys started to really dig what I had to say.
A few emails and a few long phone calls later, a Google group was born.
23 guys formed the core foundation of what was later to become The Attraction Institute.
Conversations about presence, inner roadblock, and life purpose started to overwhelm the boards till a forum had to be started to handle and organise all the traffic.
Demands for more information led to a book and emails asking for personal guidance led to me starting the journey into the world of coaching.
I’m not afraid to admit that my first few attempts were failures.
It’s easy to watch some naturally attractive guy is doing, write it all down in a book, and flog it off as some ‘Seduction Bible’ for $24.95 (for a limited time only).
Cracking the method for helping a guy shift the very foundation that he lived his life by was a different kettle of fish.
I read, I studied, I tested and I tried.
Then the results didn’t match my lofty expectations, I read, studied, tested and tried some more.
After years of experimentation and more failures than I could count, the results started to show.
Once I drilled the barriers and techniques down to deeper and deeper to their core concepts and build out from there, the results start flow.
Guys started saying things like:
I want to say thank you. I’ve only been following this advice for like 4 days, and I
already feel so much more secure and confident in the direction I’m going
than I ever have in the 4 months of PUA prior.
A few days ago, I was sitting next to a model on the airplane, and for whatever reason I
started a conversation with her and we talked for 4 hours straight, and this chick was
You have created an amazing source of knowledge to all men that are lost.
Congratulations on your success on making a difference in many people’s life.
All I want to say is Thank You. You’re incredible. You really are making men’s lives
Leigh, I am becoming a real man. That’s because I kicked my ass. But also, it’s because of you.
Thank you, again. You’re a brother-in-arms.
Enough with the petty emotions. Cheers!
After more and more refinement, I finally cracked it.
Now, after 10 years of stripping back my layers, barriers and roadblocks and learning the simple secrets to freeing myself around even the most intimidatingly beautiful women, and 6 years of successfully guiding hundreds of other Men through that very same process…
…I’m giving you the opportunity to become the Man of YOUR dreams through our proven system called Get Real.
What Is Get Real?
To put it simply: Get Real is your opportunity to find the inner switch that’s responsible for whether you’re frustrated, lonely, and powerless or free, confident, and powerful…
…and flip it for good.
It’s your chance to find your simple mechanism that’s responsible for your doubt, confusion, frozen feet and nervous glances and flip it so that your natural confidence can radiate from within for everyone to see.
Get Real’s unique 5 week, online structure will help you lift the fog, remove the barriers, become powerful, strong, free, and open, and Naturally Attractive to Women.
Get Real is a program like no other.
– You won’t be herded into poorly lit seminar rooms
– You will be able to get the information, instruction and feedback from the comfort of your own home
– You won’t be shouted at by ‘Alpha’ instructors
– You will be gently guided on a journey through your inner roadblocks
– You won’t be forced to try and cram as much information into your head as quickly as possible
– You will be able to take your time, thoroughly digesting every article and exercise before moving through the structured activities designed to make sure you make practical use of every realisations
– You won’t be dragged into noisy and smelly night clubs that you wouldn’t ever hang out in if you had the choice, to lie to fake and drunk women
– You will be able to go where you want, doing activities you enjoy, and allowed to be real with women you’re actually attracted to.
But Get Real isn’t 5 weeks of information thrown at your head in the vein hope that some of it sticks.
Get Real is a journey.
Each article, written exercise, and physical activity builds on the previous one so you can go deeper, faster, and build a complete picture of the challenges you face, then develop the tools and game plans necessary to eliminate them for good.
What’s Inside Get Real?
Here’s a detailed breakdown of what you will have learned, discovered, and developed over your 5 Section Get Real journey:
Get Real Preparation: Setting The Foundations For Complete Inner Transformation
The Get Real Preparation is the first step on your Get Real journey.
Inside, you will discover the simple patterns at the source of the frustration and limited success with women. This clear and honest evaluation of your current situation will form the foundation of your investigations and transformations as you move through Get Real.
By the end of the Get Real Preparation: Setting The Foundations For Complete Inner Transformation, you will:
– Build a clear and complete map of you current life situation and understand why your problems at work aren’t separate from your issues with women
– Have a complete blueprint of the REAL inner game roadblocks you’re facing
– Clearly see the cause of your frustration and limited success with women
– Understand the core mechanism responsible for pain and disappointment in EVERY area of your life
– Set rock solid foundations for complete inner transformation
– Know your current life purpose and see the painful future you’re headed towards if you don’t make drastic changes
– Have found the simple mistake you’re making with women and how it’s pushing them away from you
– Know why you do stupid or inappropriate things as soon as a beautiful women walks into the room
– Understand why you’re able to attract women you’re not interested in by turn into a bumbling idiot the minute a hot woman is standing in front of you
– Find the strength and courage to make the tough choices you need to if you’re going to reach a fraction of your true potential
– Discover exactly how you’re sabotaging yourself in every area of your life
– See the core elements required for inspiring others and understand how embodying those traits is what everyone really wants you to do.
– Know the unbreakable relationship between actions, focus, and purpose, and how to leverage that relationship for maximum positive benefit
– Have built your personal mission statement so that you’re driven, passionate, and on purpose
Section 1: The Freedom Formula
Section 1 is where you start to look inwards to find the core desires, structures, and patterns necessary to experience the happiness and freedom you desire. By the time you finish Section 1, you will know your deepest desires, your dream future, and the simple way to start taking HUGE steps towards this future immediately.
By the end of Section 1: The Art of Effortless Freedom, you will:
– Know what’s really responsible for your fleeting moments of freedom and how to tap into that mechanism at will
– The simple reason your looks, height, or bank balance aren’t responsible for your lack of success with women
– Clarify your perfect future so you’re not left wondering if you’re heading in the right direction
– Understand who’s really preventing you from experiencing the deep sense of satisfaction that comes from living your life on your terms
– Discover why trying to build social value is a waste of time and how it’s this ‘trying’ that’s stopping you form having it, right now
– Start the process of discovering what you really fear and desire
– Know the simple way to find effortless freedom in every area of your life
– Find the one KEY element in creating eliminating your doubts, fears, and worries when interacting with women, regardless of how attractive they are
– Know why attempting to analyse the social situation is the LEAST powerful way to attract women
– Discover the simple tool for becoming more ‘present’ with women, work, friends, and free time
– Be able to create freedom in places you’ve never experienced it before
– Know what confidence, women are REALLY looking for in a Man and what you need to do to become that kind of Man
– Understand how to become the kind of Man that get’s approved of by her friends, rather than having them try to block you out
– Build a deeper and stronger connection with your emotions and desires
– Understand how trying to build confidence is the slowest and most difficult way to find freedom around women
Section 2: Uncovering Your Core Barrier
Section 2 is where the deep investigation starts. By the time you have completed the articles, exercises, and activities in Section 2, you will be able to see the ONLY barrier that’s preventing you from experiencing the confidence and clarity you’ve been searching for as well as the simple way to experience it, regardless of what anyone else says, does, or thinks.
By the end of Section 2: Uncovering Your Core Barrier, you will:
– Find the one thing stopping you from be real, expressive, and free around women
– Be able to effortlessly deepen your relationships with anyone in your life
– Know how to find a feeling of strength and power when interacting with women, regardless of how they respond
– Know the only barrier preventing you from building deep and powerful connections with women
– See what’s really preventing you from ‘getting out of your own way’
– Discover the 2 types of freedom and know which one will make you feel effortless, open, and real, and which one will leave you shut down, confused, and frustrated
– Learn the core desire that underlies all your fears
– Understand the ‘Permission Factor’ and how it’s stifling your self expression right now
– Truly understand the meaning of ‘congruence’ and how to build it without trying
– Be able to avoid ‘outcome dependence’ so that your neediness and clinginess evaporate
– Discover the simple way to feel great, despite other peoples opinions
– Find the only thing preventing you from approach, flirting, and escalating in bars, clubs, and on the street
– Be able to stay centred and focussed, even in noisy and busy environments
– Stop worrying about what other people are thinking of you
Section 3: Breaking The Chains
It’s one thing to know how you need to live your to become free of your self imposed constraints and inner road blocks, but it’s another thing ENTIRELY to know how to eliminate this roadblock for good.
Section 3 will give you the simple, 2 step solution, that will allow you to move freely and powerfully through any situation, coming out the other side feeling strong and in-control, regardless of the outcome.
By the end of Section 3: Breaking The Chains, you will:
– Know the two step mechanism for eliminating any barrier, any where, any time
– Find peace with your past decisions and start the process of inner forgiveness
– Learn the simple ingredients for eliminating fear, doubt, anxiety, and shame
– Discover the simple strategy for being able to approach any woman, regardless of how scary the situation is
– Build strong and confident eye contact
– Develop a deep level of presence and self awareness in even the most distracting environments
– Have the tools to overcome fears of sexual expression
– Watch limiting beliefs melt away
– Learn the true nature of what it really means to be ‘present’ with someone
– Build a new understanding of fear that will have you running towards it, rather than away from it
– Learn the true meaning of your emotions and how you can use them to create a strong, more real, and more powerful connection with your purpose and other people
– Understand why you work the way you do and how you can reconstruct yourself in any way you want
– Find the true meaning of acceptance and learn how can use it right away
– Know the one ESSENTIAL ingredient for true transformation that 90% of guys miss
– Eliminate over-analysis and find the freedom to take action
Section 4: The Art of Effortless Attraction
Section 4 is where we bring it all back to women.
By the end of Section 4, you will see the way to develop effortless connections, the sense of complete power and control, and ultimate freedom in your interactions with women, all whilst doing what you want, when you want to.
Section 4 will also help you develop the game plan to implement these subtle changes in your life so that this transformation becomes a permanent fixture, rather than a fleeting triumph.
By the End of Section 4: The Art Of Effortless Attraction, you will:
– Know how to effortlessly perform every ‘seduction technique’ without even trying
– Clearly see why using any attraction, rapport, or seduction tricks will kill your ‘game’
– Experience the freedom of pure and unrestricted self-expression
– Know why trying to read body language is the fastest way to miss all of her signals
– Know the BIGGEST mistake you can make when trying to attract women
– See why learning pickup rules is the FASTEST way to push women away
– Know how to be respected by women and why you weren’t being respected in the first place
– Easily stand out from any other guy around you, without even trying to, so you become the obvious choice for women
– Develop effortless calibration so you can read women’s subconscious messages with ease (without learning a single body language analysis technique)
– Know why women are withdrawing around you and how you can avoid this in the future
– Understand exactly how to deal with cold and aloof women and why it’s no different to dealing with friendly and inviting women
– Learn how to become the leader in any group and why it’s easier than you think
– Know the simple way to draw in the right women for you, whilst screening out the wrong ones without wasting precious time (HINT: It’s the most obvious answer in the world)
– Find the fastest way to kill attraction and with even the most interested women
– See why ‘Closing’ techniques are the easiest way to make sure you never get a women to return your call
– Avoid the trap of using both direct and indirect approach methods because they’re are just as useless as each other
– Blast through women’s tests with ease, before you even realise you’re being tested
– Be able to build a woman’s interest, before you’ve even made eye contact (and how it’s exactly the same mechanism as building interest once you’ve made eye contact)
– Learn the ‘right’ way to approach a woman, regardless of if she’s in a group, by herself, or in a hurry (and why you never needed to learn this in the first place)
– Never send the ‘friends-only’ vibe (unless you actually mean to)
– Know the REAL cause of her mixed signals and how to read through them
– Have a complete implementation strategy for making sure you continue to reach your potential, long after you finish Get Real
– Be able to build instant trust with a woman so she’s comfortable giving you her phone number and even going home with you (without even trying)
– Find how to infuse your conversations with emotionally charged content, ensuring your stories are engaging and exciting (HINT: It’s the difference between impression and expression)
– Discover how to stop trying to ‘project’ Alpha Traits and actually embody them effortlessly
Now don’t get me wrong, Get Real isn’t a magic want you can wave and these magic transformations will happen the very second you click on ‘subscribe’.
But, if you give Get Real the dedication and commitment that I’m sure you know is required to become the Man of YOUR dreams, then you will not recognise the Man you emerge as from the other side of Get Real.
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